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Mary was a native of Newport News and a 1981 graduate of Menchville High School. She graduated from Old Dominion University in 1986 with a B. S. degree in Business. She was employed at NASA for 25 years and touched the lives of her co-workers with her infectious laugh and wit. Mary was a member of Bethel Baptist Church in Yorktown, where she was a servant who shared her faith through incredible love and kindness for others.
Mary deeply loved her family and willingly sacrificed for them at all times. Even in her cancer, she fought to be with them as long as possible. She never gave up. She kept her family and friends strong even in her darkest times.
Mary was preceded in death by her mother-in-law, Ruth Deuell; maternal grandfather, Raymond Young; and paternal grandfather, Dalton H. Hylton.
She is survived by her loving husband of 20 years, Roy "Sonny" Deuell Jr.; their two children, Zack and Emily; her parents, Dalton and Brenda Hylton of Newport News; brother, Christopher Hylton of Newport News; father-in-law, Roy Deuell Sr.; paternal grandmother, Bonnie Hylton of Floyd; maternal stepgrandmother, Marie Young of Norfolk; brother and sister-in-law, Frank and Beverly Holmes of Williamsburg; nephew, Josh Holmes; nieces, Casey and Jessica Holmes of Williamsburg and Charleigh Hylton of Newport News; and many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins.
The family will receive friends from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Monday, Nov. 1, 2010, at Bethel Baptist Church Old Sanctuary, Yorktown. A Celebration of Mary's Life will be held at 1 p.m. Tuesday, at Bethel Baptist Church Worship Center by the Rev. Jeff Mingee. Followed by burial at Peninsula Memorial Park, Newport News.
Memorial contributions may be made to Bank of America - 529 College Fund for Zack Alan Deuell and Emily Kay Deuell, Coliseum-Riverdale Branch, 2030 Coliseum Drive, Suite A, Hampton, VA 23666.
Arrangements by Claytor Rollins Funeral Home, Poquoson. Online condolences to www.claytorrollins.com. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Leesa Peters Meador
November 21, 2010
My prayers are with each of you in this time of great sadness. Mary was a light in a dark world. Her smile not only lit up her own face but the lives and faces of those who had the great fortune to share some time with her. Reading the messages here it is clear to me that she never changed from the beautiful happy little Child of God who would visit our church in Floyd whenever she was at her grandparents. I know that Mary's family will miss her greatly but I hope that her spirit and zest for life will forever be a part of each of them until they are reunited with her in our heavenly home. She was an angel among us and a role model for us all!
Karen Peters Hale
November 18, 2010
Brenda, Harrison & family -
My heartfelt sympathy in the passing of your precious Mary. I can still see that beautiful, sweet child sitting in the church pew with Mrs Bonnie and Mr Dalton. Of course, my Daddy (Leeson Peters) would have to pick at her a bit. Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
November 12, 2010
Sonny, Zach and Emily,
I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers today. I haven't seen you guys for many years, since you left NRBC and we moved to Alabama. I will always remember our Sunday school times together in Dot's class and the time I watched Emily for the day. Emily and Mary Cate played dress-up all day long. I just went back and looked at the photos I took of the girls dressed as Cinderella and other various princesses. I know that everyone who lives you've been in are more blessed for knowing you all. Mary was a beautiful and wonderful person and I'm better for having known her.
Jenny Cantrell
November 8, 2010
To the Deuell family,
My heart felt condolences.I lost my husband this past July, and know the great loss of your love one.Praying God's strength, peace, and comfort, for all of you.I have heard of this special lady from Linda Urquhart.I am her stepmother.Know I will continue to pray.God bless you all.Iris
November 8, 2010
Sonny,
Minette and I can not describe how badly we feel. Mary was a jewel - seeing you two 'newlyweds' together was the highpoint of our church events at Parkview. Minette and I will miss Mary - our lives were better just knowing she was sharing our world and her loss leaves an unfillable void in it.
Gary Minette Sam Elizabeth Brooks
Connie Buffin
November 7, 2010
Sonny, Zach, and Emily,
I only got the opportunity to meet you recently, but it only took a minute to see what a sweet family you are.
I worked with Mary for a couple years in Procurement, but thought of her more as a special friend. She was very special to me and I am honored to have known her.
I really appreciate your unselfishness Sonny in letting all her friends be there on the day she passed. I will never forget the feelings I had that day.
May God be with your family and know that He is there holding your hand to walk you through the rough times.
Take Care.
Connie Buffin
November 7, 2010
Mr. and Mrs. Hylton,
I only had the opportunity to meet you at the hospital the day your beloved daughter passed but it didn't take long to feel the love in the room. You two should be very proud of the woman Mary became. As you could see from the hopital room and halls being filled on that Friday, Mary had touched many lives. May God be with you during this time.
Bruce, Karen, Andrew & Melody Stein
November 4, 2010
Sonny, Zach and Emily,
Our prayers are with you as go through this difficult time. We are sure you have some beautiful memories of Mary. We do--of Little League Baseball, her love of Disneyworld and working with her at NASA. You have a wonderful promise of seeing her again!
November 3, 2010
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Ms.Deuell.Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Target Pharmacy family
November 3, 2010
Emily,
I hope that you can picture your mom dancing in heaven. You are in our prayers. Your worship dance friend,
Rebekah Herts
November 3, 2010
Sonny, Zach and Emily - My heart goes out to you. Mary was such a sweet lady. We take comfort in knowing that one day we will see her again. We will keep you in our prayers. Dean, Lisa and Ryan Burrows
Carmen Tores-Nisbet
November 3, 2010
Dear Sonny, Zack, and Emily,
I knew Mary through work. She was always smiling and she loved all of you deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Laura Portewig Gyori
November 2, 2010
Dear Sonny and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in God's love. I pray for you for peace, hope and courage during this difficult journey.
Sherry Coffey
November 2, 2010
I was fortunate to work in the same building with Mary for many years. She brightened the halls with her smile and humor. She will be greatly missed.
Kelly Fitzgerald (Lindas daughter)
November 2, 2010
Sonny, Emily, and Zach, my heart aches for you at this time and i am keeping you all in my heart and in my prayers. Mary was a wonderful person and she will be missed by so many. She was always there for my mom and I know she will truly always be in her heart!
Patsy Campbell
November 2, 2010
I was fortunate to work in the same building with Mary. She brightened our halls with her smile and humor. She will be greatly missed by all of us.
Mark Waggoner
November 2, 2010
Sonny & Family,
Miriam & I will keep you in our prayers.
Mark & Miriam Olson Waggoner
Parkview Baptist
November 1, 2010
Sonny, Zack, and Emily and your extended famiy, Carrie and I were saddened to hear of Mary's passing. We had been praying for her and each of you, and had kept up with you through Beverly. May God surround you with his comfort and care as only He can do. We know Mary's spirit is in His wonderful pressence.
Love, Stan and Carrie Hicks
November 1, 2010
A Poem dedicated to the Family
"I Can Imagine"
I can imagine her body often wrecked with pain,
I can imagine the will it took just to sustain.
I can imagine her late at night softly praying,
And GOD hearing every word that she was saying.
I can imagine that her spirit sometimes got low,
It had to be difficult realizing that it was almost time to go.
I can imagine she had moments of doubt,
folowed by moments that she wanted to shout.
I can imagine her talking with GOD about his promise to never leave her alone,
I can imagine her mentally preparing to meet GOD at her at the heavenly throne.
I can imagine GOD looking down and saying, "Well done, my good and faithful servant, it's time to come home."
In a plit second like a vapor she was gone.
I can imagine that she flew away like being on an airplane, she took a first class flight,
GOD lifted her from this earthly site.
I can imagine the smile on her face when she realized that she had completed the race.
I can imagine her surrounded by angels at the pearly gate,
I can imagine St. Peter saying "Come on in - there is no need to wait."
I can imagine the joy she felt inside,
When Jesus greeted her with heavenly pride.
Close your eyes and imagine her nestled in the arms of GOD-
She is smiling down on us - Someday we'll see her agin if in GOD we trust!
ejp
"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."
Prayerfully - Elaine Powell
Lisa Luther Shaw
November 1, 2010
Sonny and family - I was sorry to read about your loss. May God bless you all. My deepest sympathies.
Lisa Luther Shaw
Nancy, Cathy, and Gina Gregory
November 1, 2010
Sonny and Family,
Our love and prayers are with you. We are always here to help in anyway.
Jeff Hisey and family
November 1, 2010
I worked with Mary at NASA and she was always a friendly face, a bright smile and a kind word. She will be sorely missed by everyone at NASA and will not be forgotten.
Mary C Williams
November 1, 2010
Dear Harrison and Brenda,
I am sending this message of sympathy for my sister, Carol Conner Whittaker and brother Noel Conner. All of our family were saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. We send our thoughts and prayers to you.
Bill Frizzell
November 1, 2010
My condolences and prayers go out to Mary's immediate family; husband and children, parents and brother.
Dalton, Brenda, my deepest sympathies and my friendship to you during this time of need. You need anything, even if it's just to share memories, let me know.
Bill Frizzell
Krista Jensen
November 1, 2010
Mary was such a kind and positive person to work with at NASA Langley. She always spoke about her children and had a smile on her face. I am so sorry for your loss.
November 1, 2010
Dearest Sonny, Zac , Emily and Family, I am so very sorry for the loss of such a precious person in your lives. Her life was her family life. I know the hurt of losing someone, for my father passed with Cancer as well. But I can say that I have also experienced the peace and strength the Lord provides during this time of sorrow. Look to the heavens when you feel weak, for her smile and the fludder of her wings will lighten your hearts. Wanda Smith, my mother sends her love and reguards as well. With great love , Jeri Card (Smith)
Sylvia Dempsey
November 1, 2010
Sonny and family,
Just read about your dear wife. So sorry to hear this, even though I did not know her. I remember you and your family from Parkview Baptist Church, where Bobby and I worked with the youth and went on many trips with the youth and your Mom and Dad. We shared great times, because of the Lord. He will not forsake you and your children. You are in my prayers.
Sylvia Dempsey, Bristol, VA
LaRaunce Fleming
November 1, 2010
Sonny,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary. She was a loving and caring co-worker who I have admired since coming to NASA. She was always helpful and willing to do whatever she could to help anyone. She was a positive and faithful person who often spoke of you and your children. She will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength during this time. Many blessings to you, Zack, Emily and the family.
Sincerely,
LaRaunce Fleming
Darleen Jones
November 1, 2010
To the Deuell family,
I was so sorry to hear of the death of Mary. She had been on our prayer list at Parkview Baptist Church and on my special prayer list at home. We were praying for a special healing for her. I know she is in a much better place free from pain. Sincere sympathy to all of you.
Diane & Dan Chiafair
November 1, 2010
Dear Sonny,Zach, Emily and Family:
We are friends of Ann and Eric Robeson and they shared the call for prayer. Your Mary was a very special human who God has need for,clearly. We pray that you are open to our prayers even though you do not know us and that the Goodness of God's grace will comfort you to know that Mary is at work already with Jesus,that is how big a person she is. God Bless you all, we will not forget to pray. Love, Dan and Diane Chiafair
Samantha Urquhart
November 1, 2010
The Deuell family,and Linda
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and the NASA crew.God's peace and comfort is with yall. If there is any thing i can do please let me know and know that i'm praying.
Love Miss.Sam(Linda's Niece)
Debbie (Albert) Sparrow
November 1, 2010
Sonny, I am Soory for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I empathize with you having just lost my husband to cancer in May. (I was good friends with EJ at Parkview Baptist Church when we wewre kids.)May God strengthen you in the days ahead.
November 1, 2010
Sonny, Zach & Emily,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Mary was such a sweet woman and has tremendous love of her family just know that she will continue that love for all of you always. If we can do anything for you please let us know. Love you all sue & Jerry Laughrun
Clifford Cantrell
November 1, 2010
Sonny, It is with great sadness that I hear of Mary's passing. Mary was a unique person. She could light up a room like noone else. The world is a little sadder place without her.
I wish you and Emily and Zachary my deepest symapthy.
Vicky Sherry Moore
November 1, 2010
Sonny, Emily and Zack,
Our hearts are deeply saddened by the news of Mary. We pray the the Lord surrounds you with courage, strength and love during this difficult. Vicky and Mikayla Moore
Michael Finneran
November 1, 2010
Mary was an invaluable member of our work team whose presence has been sorely missed at NASA Langley. She was dedicated, thorough, dependable and had a great personality and sense of humor. My heart goes out to her family, friends and co-workers.
November 1, 2010
To the Duell family,
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you during this time of bereavement. Myself and my students have been diligently praying for you and will continue to pray that God will surround you with His peace and comfort as only He can in this moment in time.
Bonnie Stewart, 6th grade, Hampton Christian Schools
Harrie Holloway
November 1, 2010
May God be with you and Family. Sorrow for your lost.
VICKI HOGAN
November 1, 2010
Dear Family,
It was with deep sorrow that we recived the news of Mary's leaving us.
Mary could light up a room with her smile and would always offer help when needed.
Our prayers are with all who knew and loved her.
Love,
Beulah Hall Terry, Ronald B. Hogan Sr. and Vicki Terry Hogan
November 1, 2010
To Sonny, Emily and Zachary I am praying for you and your family.Zachary I really enjoyed being your 4k teacher and working with your Mom. Mary was a wonderful room Mom,Your Mom was a reallykind and sweet person! I am praying for you and your family May God grant you peace.God Bless You and Your Family
Michelle Osborn
October 31, 2010
Mary had an infectious smile and always positive things to say about people. I never heard a negative word from her about anyone.
My family is praying for you as you walk through this time and Sarah has been praying for Emily, especially.
Monica White
October 31, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers and may God wrap his arms around you all during this difficult time.
Rich and Monica White; Brain and Marissa
(Swim Team)
Cynthia Dea
October 31, 2010
Sonny, Zack and Emily
Just know that you are in a lot of people's prayers and that most of all God is there for you to lean on. Mary was a bright light in a dark world. She will be remembered by her bright smile and hardy laugh. I sing a song that says -- " The hand of the Lord has the strength to move mountains, forge rivers and valleys and make oceans run dry -- but that very same hand holds the sparrow that's fallen -- what a blessing to know whereever I go his hands holding mine." Know that Mary is holding his hand. God bless and comfort you. Cherish the memories you shared with Mary and know you'll see her again.
Cynthia Dea (co-worker)
William English, Jr
October 31, 2010
To the Hylton and Deuell Families;
I for one know the pain and loss of loseing a sibling before their time and it is very hard to deal with. May I say that you need to have faith and trust in the Lord and he will bring you through this pain.
Mary was a dear friend of my sister and I know that they are together again.
I would just like to finish up with the fact that all of you are in my prayers.
October 31, 2010
Sonny, Zack and Emily,
Jessica and I were saddened to hear about your loss.
Mary was a kind soul and your family touched us deeply.
We are praying for your family.
Robyn Olson and Jessica Johnston
October 31, 2010
Sonny I would like send you, mine and my wife's condolences in the passing of your dear wife. We know what urgoing through at this time as back in January this year we lost my wife's brother and then we lost our son in law our daughter Debbie's husband in May. We also would like to extend our condolences to your family and your wife's family. Sonny this Jim Albert from our Parkview Baptist days.
Yvonne Thayer
October 31, 2010
Brenda, Harrison, Chris and Sonny,
I offer my love and support during this time and the months ahead as you remember how special Mary was. I treasure the opportunity I had to watch Mary grow from a preschooler into a lovely woman. The time we had together was so wonderful, and I remember it as a gift in my life.
While Mary will always live in our hearts, she also lives through her children. As you provide them with the help they will need to understand the loss of a mother, please share with them how Mary touched so many people - even when she was five years old.
May God's loving arms hold you steady during this difficult time.
Becky Moser
October 31, 2010
Dear Sonny,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your tremendous loss. You and your family are in the prayers of I and my family. Mother and Daddy too send you their love and hold you close in prayer.
May God's amazing grace be your greatest comfort.
Sincerely yours,
Becky Solomom Moser
Jane Maples
October 31, 2010
Sonny, Zach, and Emily,
I worked with Mary on several different NASA agency projects and treasured her friendship. Her infectious smile and bubbly personality were her trademarks. Another of her trademarks was the great love she had for her family - I can just see her eyes light up as she talked about Zack and Emily.
You may have heard this story, but I must retell it here. On one of our many TDY trips supporting one of those NASA's projects, we were staying in DC. Mary was pregnant with Emily. When Mary's turn came to check in - Mary told the hotel clerk her name, and then the clerk (who had a broken accent) said "Mary, as in Mary Mother of God". We laughed then and from that moment forward Mary was always known to me as "Mary, as in Mary Mother of God". I will always remember Mary.
God bless you and comfort you in your loss.
Brenda Bailey Beggs
October 31, 2010
Mr. & Mrs. Hylton & Chris,
Words cannot express the sorrow in my heart in hearing the news of Mary. Always know that you and your families are in our prayers and thoughts. May the memories you hold so dear of Mary bring you comfort throughout your lives. God Bless Mary and be with you all
***
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
October 31, 2010
Mary was a very special lady..I was so blessed while taken care of her at SCH..I will be praying for your precious family..love, one of Mary's nurses, Anne.
Cathy Meckley Huemer
October 31, 2010
Sonny,
I have so many wonderful memories of Mary, beginning in middle school! She would light up any room with her smile and her laugh. I wish you and the kids peace and strength as you both mourn her death and celebrate her life. May God bless you and comfort you.
Jeff Rackley
October 31, 2010
To the Deuell and Hylton families,
Mary was one of my very first, if not the first friend I ever had. She was a shining beacon of positivity and made a difference in so many of our lives.
Though we lost touch over the years I was constantly updated on Mary's family and life by my parents who also love Mary very much. I have so many happy memories of the times our families would get together and the fun we would have playing board games and just being kids. Even in high school Mary was still a loyal, loving friend.
I will forever be grateful for the opportunity to have known such an incredible, uplifting, and beautiful person. The empty place now left in all of our hearts will gradually fill with the memories of the joy that this special lady brought to the world.
Anne Mitchell
October 31, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mary was a special lady who touched so many with her smile and her caring.
Connie Fischer
October 31, 2010
I worked with Mary for many years in the Procurement office at NASA. I never remember a time that she was not smiling, friendly and always willing to go out of her way to help others. God bless you, Mary.
Lisa Haughton
October 31, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss.I remember Mary from High School, she was a kind person with a beautiful smile. Chris you were friends with my brother who has passed and my heart aches for you knowing the pain of losing a sibling and for your parents with there being no greater loss than thatof a child.
You will all be in my prayers for peace and comfort now and in the years to come .
Roy Hover
October 31, 2010
I will always remember Mary for her positive manner and beautiful smile. Mary was a great friend. I am glad I was her friend.
Karen Krause Meeker
October 31, 2010
Zachary and Emily,
I went to high school with your parents. They were good friends, the kind of people you never forget. Your mom always had a beautiful smile and a good friend. She was so kind and that is something I will always remember.
Sonny,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you are filled with happy memories that fill the holes in your hearts.
My prayers are with you all.
Karen Krause Meeker
Sue Swain
October 31, 2010
We are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Mary was a wonderful person and she will be missed by so many.
Ron and Sue Swain
Jennifer Gratto
October 31, 2010
I am so sorry for your family's loss. All of you remain in my thoughts and prayers during this terribly difficult time.
Marie Watkins Hamann
October 31, 2010
Sonny,
Mary will continue to bless my life...she was a beloved friend and a beautiful person...May you take comfort in your wonderful memories of her...God Bless and be with you all....
Love,
Janet Lockstampfor
October 31, 2010
Dear Sonny, Zachary, Emily,
You are in our prayers and thoughts at this time of your loss..
May our God surround each of you with comfort and peace.
Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Mary continued to be a faithful member of the North Riverside Prayer Team Ministry, former Library Team Member and friends that will and do miss her.
In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you,I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.You know the way to the place where I am going." -John 14:2-4 We will see you again.
Grace, Peace, and Love, Janet and Mrs. Lockstampfor
Beverly Turman-Dawson
October 31, 2010
The Deuell Family, Mary truly loved her family. I used to work in the same building with her at NASA and if you EVER entered her office you would enjoy a story about the kids or a new picture. I pray that with each passing day the Lord will strengthen each one of you. God Bless
Randy, Tricia and the Boys
October 31, 2010
There are no words we can say that will take away the pain of loosing Mary. The memories of happier times are something that we can cherish.
We are praying for God to hold your entire family in his hands.
We are here for you.
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