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Michael Harney Obituary

HAMPTON - Joe Harney, 79, peacefully went to be with the Lord on July 20th, 2017. After reading the obituaries for so many years, he finally made it!! He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Catherine Harney; their children, Michael Harney, Jr. (Paul), Maureen Schiavone (John), Marcia Humphry (Chris), Matthew Harney (Bobbie Jo), Mark Harney (Alison) and Marty Harney and his beloved grandchildren, Matthew, Jr., Makaila, Ryan, Drew, Kathryn, Sarah, Kristen, Erin, Evan and Owen. He is also survived by his sisters, Mary "Babe", Ann, Peggy and Mary as well as numerous nieces, nephews and loved ones. He is preceded in death by his parents, James and Eileen Harney; his Uncle Patrick and Aunt Elizabeth Toolin who helped raise him and his brothers, James Toolin, John Toolin and James "Vincent" Harney. Joe was born in Boston, MA, but lived on the peninsula for the past 55 years. He was active in the community and could often be found supporting local sports teams, especially the Peninsula Pilots. He was a longtime member, and the President of, the Peninsula Track Club. One of his greatest achievements was running the Boston Marathon on the 100th anniversary in April, 1996. He volunteered countless hours with the organization, PORT, selflessly supported hundreds of people at St. Vincent's Backdoor Ministry and was an advocate for Nocturnal Adoration. He was always true to his roots with his Irish humor, his thick Boston accent and his love for all the Boston sports teams. Joe said, "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." He was one-of-a-kind who was nice to everyone he met and important to so many. He had an infectious laugh and a joke for every occasion. His kindness, generosity and sense of humor has reached so far and will be missed by so many. Every person that had the privilege of meeting Joe walked away a better person. A Viewing will take place from 5-7:30pm, Tuesday, July 25, 2017 at Weymouth Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass will be held at 6:00pm, Wednesday, July 26, 2017 at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to St. Vincent de Paul's Church Back Door Ministry, P.O. Box 258, Newport News, VA 23607. Arrangements are by Weymouth Funeral Home. Joe Harney loved the Lord Jesus, he loved people and he loved his family. He was known to say, and always lived by, one of his favorite sayings, "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, enjoy today."

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Published by Daily Press on Jul. 23, 2017.

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Byron & Tara Chappell

December 31, 2020

Cathie, We met you and Joe at the Xango Convention in Salt Lake City, years ago. I don’t know if you would remember us? Joe and I emailed off and on through the years. Then we lost touch. We sent you a Christmas card this year but it was returned. We suspected the worst. Joe was such a sweet guy and always smiling! We will truly miss him! We hope you are doing well, sweetie. Warmest regards, Byron and Tara Chappell

Jennifer (Gibson) Burger

October 4, 2017

Mark and Family-
I just heard about your Dads passing. I am so sorry. He was such a great guy and was a father figure and like a Dad to so many of your friends. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

August 14, 2017

Dear Cathie Mark and Marty, and family,


"Mr. Harney" always kept a smile on my face. The Boston accent, the jokes, loud laughs, support and love he showed for his family...the ability to see the kindness and humor, no matter what curve balls life throws at you. His smile was infectious. Looking at his picture right now brings nothing but good memories from the Northampton Pool days. Grateful to have known him. He was a special man to everyone in my family.
I am sorry for your loss. As my sister says, "we lost another good one today." I hope he can share a few of his jokes with my Dad up in heaven.
My thoughts are with you all and I hope only the good memories can help mend your broken hearts.

Much love,
Lisa Walters Frank

August 1, 2017

My husband C.B. Jackson worked at Ameriprise with Joe. I remember his great sense of humor. So sorry for your loss. Meredith Jackson

Chris & Hope Zambas

August 1, 2017

Cathie and Family,
We were saddened to hear of Joe's passing & regretted that we were out-of-town & missed the visitation & Mass.
Our fond memories of him as a neighbor and later during our occasional encounters in town always made us smile. We will miss his friendship and wit. We hope that God will give you strength during this difficult time and that you will find comfort in the memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May his memory be eternal.
"Life can be the same after a trinket has been lost, but never after the loss of a treasure."

Sylvia Ray

July 27, 2017

The Harney family is in my thoughts and prayers. Joe was such a dear person and he enriched the lives of so many! Some of my fondest memories of Joe are our "WWE Dates"! He would take his boys and I'd take mine and we would laugh when we found that we were sitting right across the ring from each other! He worked tirelessly for the youth in our community and inspired so many. Thank you Cathie and kids for sharing your father with all of us. May God's love give you strength, peace, and comfort in this difficult time.

G Watson

July 27, 2017

Dear Mrs. Harney and Family,

I was honored to have been Joe's fellow parishoner at St. Vincent's. Joe will be missed greatly. He was a kind, honorable and outstanding man.

Please know that you are in my prayers during this difficult time. I am certain that Joe is now enjoying the Blessings of Our Lord.

Virginia Penrod

July 27, 2017

I'm so thankful that our very loved James Vincent Harney gave me the opportunity to meet brother Joe. So seldom do we enjoy the gift of immediate joy when meeting another person. So like brother James I felt the welcoming love of family. It's that love that never dies. Great warm hugs to each of you. Ginny Penrod in Merrimack, NH

Shelley Oberlander

July 27, 2017

You all were our neighbors and friends for many years and I have fond memories of Mr. Harney and your family. I know you all will miss him dearly. Just seeing his jolly face in the paper made me smile and his thick Boston accent is unforgettable. Mr. Harney was friendly, caring and helpful to everyone he met.
Our love and prayers are with all the
Harney Family.
Shelley Nobles Oberlander and Family

John Glynn

July 26, 2017

Dear Cathie,
So sorry to hear of Joe's passing. We are comforted knowing he is in Heaven with our Lord and with Phil. They were great friends.

No matter what was going on in Joe's world he always greeted you with a selfless smile. We will all miss him dearly.

Our love to you and your family,
John & Francesca Glynn

Teresa Deibler Gibson

July 25, 2017

I was so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. The Harney family is part of our extended family and we love Joe so much. I can never remember a time where he didn't have us all laughing. God Bless you all. Keeping the family in my prayers.

Shiela Fallon

July 25, 2017

Dear Cathie,
Thinking of Joe makes me smile. Thinking of him in heaven with my father and my husband gives me great joy. How bittersweet it is that I was able to see him one last time at Bill's visitation. It was so good for my spirit to see you both! You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

July 25, 2017

We are sorry for your loss. Joe, was such an amazing person. He will live on in our memories forever.

Ken and Loretta Callaway
Newport News Va.

Janet Earnhardt

July 24, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Heaven has gained another angel.

July 24, 2017

dear Cathy and family,.we send our love and condolences to all of you at this sad time. Joe was the kindest and most caring person. He will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

with love
Jean and Arthur Fass

sally young

July 24, 2017

there wasn't a runner on a Peninsula who didn't love and respect Joe Harney. He made everybody feel special. You could be surrounded by a hundred people but Joe made you feel like he was your best friend.

July 24, 2017

Cathy, David and I were so sorry to hear about Joe. We will miss him terribly! It was always a pleasure to run into him...whether on a plane to Las Vegas, at a local running event, or at the Criner Pig Roast. Boy, could we bend each other's ears...always so much to catch-up on especially about you, the kids and grandchildren. We will miss him and love him forever. Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Ginny & David Staley

Jimbo & Terri

July 24, 2017

Cathie and family, our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Joe. Growing up in the same neighborhoods as Joe in the city of Boston it was like connecting with a kindred spirit the first time I met him. A true gentleman with integrity, honesty, sincerity and above all love for life and family.
No Fret Joe, you got the best seats at Fenway now!

Ann Lehman Hart

July 24, 2017

Cathy, I just heard and am so sad to hear of his passing. Joe was a wonderful friend since my teen age years at St. Vincent's. I'll miss him dearly and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Pam Gatz

July 24, 2017

We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Rick, Pam, Ricky, Bobby and Donny Gatz

Tom & Susan West

July 24, 2017

Joe was such a special man and a blessing to us and all who knew him. His smile could brighten any day and just being around him made you feel good. He was a truly kind and caring person and will be sorely missed. Semper Fi, Joe. Much love, Cathie--we are wishing comfort and peace to you and your family.

This describes the loss of Joe so well. <3

Frances Weaver

July 24, 2017

Cathie, Matt (Bobbie Jo), Mark (Alison) Marty, Michael (Paul), Maureen (John), Marcia (Chris), Grandchildren and Family,

Our family is saddened at the loss of "our" Joe. He was always a beautiful ray of sunshine and brought a smile to our faces each and every time we saw him.

Joe was a very familiar face at so many events and a very dedicated supporter of Bethel High School sporting events. He was a "cheerleader" like none other! Joe definitely made this world a better place and we will never forget him.

May God comfort you all at this very sad and devastating time and may the precious memories of Joe keep your hearts warm forever.

With love,
Frances Weaver, Chris, Leslie, Kylie & Marlee Gaskell and Keith Gaskell

Sheila and Jim Majka

July 23, 2017

it is difficult to imagine a world without Joe Harney...the world has lost someone who knew no strangers, who saw the good in people, who was never satisfied to sit back and let others carry the load, and someone who was never at a loss for words! we will miss him....

Mike Daniels

July 23, 2017

Sorry to hear of his passing.. I didn't know Joe very well... if at all really... but I remember the few times I particulated in events that he took the time to welcome us non regulars or south siders to the event. Please pass on our condolences to his family.

Jim Coleman

July 23, 2017

With a friendly smile, a humorous quip, and a pat on the back, Joe was an endearing son of Erin. He made us happy to see him. And he was likewise in return. And, therein, may have been his code of life. From planning and managing road races, to cleaning the streets of Yorktown, to assembling food and gifts for the less fortunate during holiday season, Joe brought
out the "better angels" in all of us...including himself.

His running of the 100th Boston Marathon in April of 1996 was a tale for the ages. On that day, he "owned" the City of Boston. He not only soaked it all in, he gave it all right back. And the crowds knew it. On that day, he shared with all of us the boundless wonder of the human spirit.

He awaits us all, you know, in that place where he now dwells. He's there with outs-stretched arms and cold drinks in hand. And when he greets us, it will be with wit and wisdom; and with that mischievous twinkle of the eye.

He understood the "Greater Good". And he lived it.

Karen Earnhardt Hargette

July 23, 2017

My condolences to all of Joe's loved ones. Joe was one of the most generous, giving, upbeat people I have ever met. He always had a story, a smile, a sparkle in his eye, and such energy! I love his saying " Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, enjoy today!" So true. He will be missed by many, but never forgotten.

Ed Glynn

July 23, 2017

Thank you for your smile and love of life. Say hi to Dad and Bill. The Tennessee Glynn Gang.

July 23, 2017

Our sincerest condolences to Joe's family & friends...what a wonderful gift he was to all who knew him...always with a joke & always with a smile. We will miss him & we're deeply saddened by his passing.

Ron & Sharon Moody

Dennis Dobbins

July 23, 2017

Joe, you ran a great race and won thousands of friends and supporters along the way. Way better than meaningless trophies or plaques. You set a new standard for a life well lived. My best wishes and blessings to your family & friends. Dennis Dobbins, W'burg

July 23, 2017

Our Heart feels empty with the loss of Joe. We will always treasure the times we spent together. We will never forget all the Vegas fun. Joe was truly one of the nicest people we ever met. The world is a sad place today. Joe, we will see you again when we get to heaven.

Praying for your Family

Rick, Debbie and Hilliary Turner

July 22, 2017

My deepest sympathy to Joe's family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your faith and in knowing how much Joe was loved by so many in the community. As a long time member of PTC, I can say that Joe was always the friendly face to look for at every race! I feel blessed to have known Joe and feel very fortunate to have seen him in May when he was offering me condolences for a recent l loss of my own. What a wonderful, thoughtful and kind man he will be remembered as!

With sympathy and prayers,
Jackie Sislak

Carla Morin-Diehl

July 22, 2017

My sweet Joey,
One of the best things that ever happened to me was meeting you! So many years and so many memories. I will miss you everyday and will love you forever. Rest now my friend.

John & Susan Kasubeck

July 22, 2017

Cathie & Family,
Joe is gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. What we once enjoyed we can never lose and becomes a part of us. May our condolences bring you comfort and our prayers ease the pain of Joe's passing.
We are better people having been Joe's friends from Canada.

Oogie Hundley

July 22, 2017

Your friendship was truly one of the great
gifts of my life. Your goodness to family and friends will be missed. May you rest in peace.

Dear Cathie and family,

May your many friends and family be of comfort to you in this dificult time of loss and sadness.

Love,
Oogie and Frannie

Peter Navin

July 22, 2017

The race is over Joe. Pull your tag! What a great man. What a sense of humor. My condolences to his family and his PTC family.

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