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Alexander LUND Obituary
He was born in Laramie, Wyo., on Dec. 27, 1949, and was the son of the late Carroll R. Lund Jr. and Frances V. Lund. He worked for Hampton Roads Wholesalers as a custom picture framer and was also a professional musician. He loved playing his guitar and was also a songwriter, poet and artist.
He is survived by his loving wife, Penny P. Lund; two daughters, Frances Lund and Alexandra Lund; a son, David Lund; two brothers, Thomas Lund and John Maser; a sister, Carol Brophy; numerous nieces, nephews, and friends.
A celebration of his life will be held at 1 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 19, 2009, at his home, 11246 Jefferson Avenue, Newport News, VA 23601. Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater assisted the family. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.candfservices.com. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Rod Scott
January 1, 2020
It's been more than a decade and I can still hear the wisdom of this wonderful soul whisper in my ear... Alex is/was a phenomenal friend, and the blessing of our paths crossing is truly a Godsend. Thank You Alex, for being my Friend.
Michael, Melissa, Alex, and Sarah Kessler
January 2, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Alex was a great man, and he will be missed. I know you will be comforted by wonderful memories of him.
Rod Scott
December 27, 2009
Dearest Penny, Frances, Alexandra, & David…
Alex was husband and father to you, a brother to some and a friend to many. His heart was at a depth that knew no end. There are not many folks I can call on that are as dependable as Alex, to me he was closer than most family members. His unique insightfulness and respectful manner is impactful on my life and I have learned by observing him how to handle most difficult situations. His legacy proves to be one of integrity, honesty, loyalty, mentorship, creative artistry, humility, and selflessness. Alex didn’t hold his conviction by the standards dictated by holding a man in high esteem, neither did he concern himself with vanities of appearing to be all of those things. His standard and conviction came from within, and he remained true to those acceptable ethics by his evident love for people, and for life. He was a practical man, would not sacrifice common sense for frivolous ideals, and these things are among the few that were pillars of his character.
I loved Alex like a brother (he understood my social challenges from birth) and whenever we went to a concert at the Ferguson, outdoor lawn show, played darts together, talking about good food, or rehearsing music in the dining room, it was a time most memorable for me.
There are few men that walk as free spirited and circumspectly as Alex did. We are all fortunate to have known of him and have our journey in this life enhanced by his presence.
I thank GOD; I thank you and your family for sharing him with me.
Kathy Lerum
December 22, 2009
Dear Penny, Francis, Alex and Dave,
So very sorry to hear of Alex's passing. Although, I never got to meet him, I could tell through your correspondence over the past years that he was truly a man who loved his family. You are in my prayers especially as this Christmas season is here. I love you, Penny, you have always held a special place in my heart. Hoping to keep in touch with this new year. Praying for God's peace to settle on your hearts and grace and strength for the days to come. Love, Kathy (Rankin)Lerum
December 21, 2009
Dear Aunt Penny, Frances, Alexandra, and David
The biggest passion i have in my life is guitar and I can owe it to him for teaching me how to use the pen and paper to express myself. I can remember the first time i played infront of him he said "well stick with it, you wont get any girls playing the piano, cause the chicks dig the guitarist." At the time I was 12 and i laughed, a couple years later after playing for hours a day i developed a passion for the instrument it became a part of me and i understand how he felt now when ever i heard him play. On the outside to people its music, but to me and him and other guitarists to hear an instrument played passionatly it was poetry from the heart that words can not express. So, I played for him again and he laughed and says "what are you doing here?" He taught me a few simple songs and how to "feal" what you are playing and this was life changing for me, I was better able to express myself musically. So, a few years later and guitars we play again and by now i played by ear and for friends, but i still had no idea what i was "really doing" I needed someone to teach me. so we played again and he was mad about how i didnt know how to play in key or knew any patterns or scales, so he taught me and as he said it would "click" for me and it did I could now communicate to the world the way i wanted to by music. so, years later actualy a few days before he passed, we played again for the first time on his guitar, and after i finished playing he didnt have any more instructions with was probably the most rewarding musical experiance of my life, more than playing for hundreads of people in talent shows at school and for countless girls or on stage with bands i would play with, but my teacher was contempt
He was truly talented and an inspiration to me in the most passionette aspect of my life
Shirley Woolard
December 21, 2009
Dear Penny, Frances, Alexandra and David, I was so saddened to hear about Alex's passing. I worked with him at our family's store, Paul's Arts and Crafts where he was a genuine professional, hard worker as well as a good friend to all. We shared many laughs! He taught me so many "tricks of the trade" around custom picture framing, as well as gourmet cooking. (garlic in everything!) Actually now that I think back, Alex could do about everything. As they say a jack of all trades! He often spoke very proudly of his children and lovingly of Penny. Being around Alex was often a lesson in history, cultures, geography and rock and roll. I felt he missed his calling and should have been a history teacher. If I had had a teacher like him I know I would have paid more attention. Alex made our life interesting and will be missed terribly. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. Shirley Woolard
Michael Brophy
December 21, 2009
To my Aunt Penny and Cousins Francis, Alexandra, and David,
Even though I did not spend much time with my Uncle Alex, I knew he was talented, funny, and a very deep guy. Without his influences, my brother and I would not have many musical attributes. Uncle Alex was/is an amazing musician, poet, and artist. At the memorial, my Aunt had all of his work on display. I was astounded by the amount of work he put into art. I had no idea he was so philosophical and different from so many people. There were pages of poems, drawings, and music sheets. The talents have obviously rubbed off on his children. Family meant alot to him, in his absence I feel that many people in the Lund family have become much closer, which is just what he would have wanted. My Uncle Alex has touched the lives of many and will always be remembered.
Nadeen Roach
December 20, 2009
To My Dear Friend Penny & Family,
When you first met Alex you were so smitten by him. Who was this man who had captured your heart so completely. I was eager to meet this man who gave relationships a whole new meaning in your search to find happiness. As we trudged through the snow on your wedding day I knew you were marrying your soul mate. A man who truly understood and loved you. I know that you, Frances, Alexandra and David brought him great joy and happiness. Alex gave so much to his friends and family. He was such a talented and artistic individual. I will never forget the song he sang in my wedding. Every time I hear it, it puts a smile on my face. Every time I look at my framed wedding invitation that hangs on my bedroom wall or the pictures of my children, I am reminded that it was Alex who's artistic framing abilities captured those memories for me. I know that many other friends have his memories in their homes also. Yes Penny his memories will live with us forever. While he was taken from you much sooner than you had planned find comfort in all that he contributed to his friends and the talents he passed on to his children. His intelligence and artistic talents will be with them forever. Find comfort knowing that his kind and gentle soul and the love for his family will forever be the greatest influence in their lives. As you move forward one day at a time I know that he is with you in spirit for he was a very special person. He gave so much to those who knew and loved him and he will always be missed.
Lots of Love
Arnita Bailey
December 20, 2009
I worked with Alex at Paul's Arts and Crafts for many years. We shared many laughts and I will always remember the stories he told us about California. He was very wise and witty. He often spoke of his family and shared the latest update about Alexander (Tottie), Francis, and David. You just knew he loved his family by the way his eyes lite up when he mentioned their names. He was totally dedicated to wife Penny and his children. He added zest and flavor to the working atmosphere in the 'frame shop'. He was a very special man.
I will miss your sense of humor,
~ Arnita M. Bailey
Amanda Lund
December 19, 2009
While I was not able to make it to the memorial, my thoughts have been on Alex and the rest of my family. When someone dies, I find it comforting to take note of the influence they left behind. Penny, your unabashed quickness to laugh and find the humor in life is a gift I think you and Alex shared. Frances, your Dad's pragmatism and intelligence were certainly not lost on you. Aside from your name, Alexandra, you share some of your Dad's greatest gifts for music as well as the daringness to find your own path. David, you may be too young to tell just yet, but it seems as though you and your father had a communal zeal for life itself, something that no one will soon forget.
Alex, I love you and miss you.
Thomas Lund
December 19, 2009
I was 13 when I gained a brother, when my Father remarried. Alex was 8 years old. We became close friends through family activites involving camping, fishing, hiking and boating. We camped almost every weekend in good weather. Dad was assigned to Newfoundland, Canada when I was 17. Alex and I were able to learn new sports together(Soccer, cross country skiing and Ice Hockey). We had a great time together in Canada. I then joined the Army and attended College on the east coast while he joined the Army and settled on the west coast. When he returned to Virginia we became close again. I will miss his music and stories. A very gifted brother, father and friend will always be with me in great momories.
Chris Wissmann
December 18, 2009
Dear Penny, Frances, Alex and David,
I am so sorry for your loss--no words can adequately express the sympathy I feel for your pain.
Please know you are in my prayers.
Alex was a great example to the Boosters and Band of a consistent, hard worker and supporter of the Band who didn't shy away from the hard work to make the events successful.
Thanks for sharing him with the Band and Boosters.
John Maser
December 18, 2009
I am so sorry for all of you. I wish we all could have been together more than we were. I loved my brother Alex even though we met way too late. Penny, and kids, let's not let this sad time have us drift apart but get closer. You have family here in Wyoming, always. Love you all. John Maser
Lance
December 18, 2009
To the Lund's:
Alex was one of my favorite people. His stories were always of interest from a man who had seen and done a lot. I will always remember the good times we had at South Beach and the Bahamas and will have a toast in your honor next time I go. You will be missed.
Lance
Ron & Rusty Dunham
December 18, 2009
Penny, Alexandria, David, and Frances,
Our deepest of thoughts and prayers go out to you in this, a difficult time. Alex was my college chum, a friend who taught me early in our friendship how to stand tall and to accept myself as I was and not try to be someone to change myself to obtain the acceptance of others. He was my music tutor early in our friendship, he was a living epistle of his philosophy: kind, loving, gentle, thoughtful of others, patient and so very talented. The years we shared in the recording studio, and on the road throughout this country and Canada are forever etched in my mind. He was Gentle Ben, Gilligan, Stephen Stills, Gulliver all rolled into one. I watched the wonderful evolution of his life from all of that into marriage and fulfilling his lifetime quest: to have a loving wife and family. He and your family have been a blessing to us and to so many others and those are the memories even time cannot erase. We love you just as we loved Alex. May the Lord keep and comfort you during this time. Ron and Rusty
December 18, 2009
David, we know how much you loved your Dad. We feel your sorrow. Take care and hang in there.
May God be with you and your family. Your Classmates of rm. 805 at Hines Middle.
Cornelius-
Debbie Lawthers
December 17, 2009
Penny, Frances, Alex and David,
Words are not enough to express how deeply I feel for you at the passing of Alex. Please know that you are in my thought and prayers.
Love Debbie Lawthers
Art Kelly
December 17, 2009
Penny,
I was saddened to read last night about the passing of Alex. Although I had only met Alex a few times at the Bingo Hall he was certainly an impressive man. I know this will be a difficult time for you and your family but please find comfort in knowing that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
Carol Brophy
December 17, 2009
Dear Lund Family, My big brother was larger then life when I was young. I can remember when he dilivered papers during blizzards in what seemed like a mountain of snow up in Canada he would turn around to see if I was still there. I did not like him to go alone. I thought something would happen to him. He would patiently allow me to go and I always held him up. Alex would always carry me on his back because I could not keep up. I remember when he had his first band in Newport News and was performing at Nelson Elementary School. Kids are all around him tossing beanbags into clowns faces and eating cotten candy and there was Alex singing his heart out. Like The Beetles at a Carnival. He stepped it right up to greater things. When we moved to Williamsburg Dad took me to see him performing at the Jamestown Campgroud Arena. I new he was having fun then. There were girls up and down the beach dancing and screeming for more. Dad would not let me stay. Alex always had a story to tell. Being the simple minded person that I am I did not always get what I was listining to.He was quite the story teller. I think he felt important. HE WAS. I remember when we were putting wooden floors in our home and Alex was doing it barefoot. Soon we bagan to see red spots all over. Again Alex left his mark. Must of been painful. He would take me out in the rowboat in the afternoon after school. We never new what creatures were lerking in the boat, snakes, large frogs, he was always out to give me a good scare. He loved taking the family cat out as well. The cat would always attempt to jump overboard into the marsh. What a sight.She succeeded. He was very intelligent. I remember when he was accepted to William qnd MARY ON A FULL SCHOLLARSHIP. What an intellagent man. Mom and Dad were so proud. So now what do we do? What would Alex want us to do? He left with a song in his heart,peace in his mind and a lesson for us all to learn. He left his mark on all three of his kids with very high intelligence and a world of musical talent. David, Alexandria and Frances you have the world in front of you. As they say, sky is the limit. Alex always called me Frances. That was a compliment. Thank-you. You are all in my prayers Penny, Frances, Alexandria and David. I'll see you again Alex. Much love Little Carol
Michelle Osborn
December 17, 2009
My deepest sympathies go out to his wife and family.
I remember his smiling face everytime I would go to Hampton Roads Wholesalers.
I am so sorry, he was such a nice guy.
Michelle Osborn
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Sylvia
December 17, 2009
Love you all.
Billy Dodson
December 16, 2009
Lund family ... I'd like to offer my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Alex. He was a warm hearted and gracious man, and I'll miss him very, very much.
Kaela G
December 16, 2009
hey lund family, its Kaela. you are in my thoughts at all times and it should be extra hard with the holidays. David, you can have a huggie whenever you want. i miss you, and there will always be a shoulder to cry on over here.
December 16, 2009
Penny, Frances, Alex and David. We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Nancy, Donnie Ashley and Conner Nichols
December 16, 2009
Penny and Alex,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers overflow for your family. We hope you heal and become stronger. God Bless!!!
Craig, Bobbie, Alexis, and Austin Kimmeth
Rosemarie Menga
December 16, 2009
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. Our love and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything you need. Dave, Rose, Anthony and Alissa Menga.
Sherrill & Ken Shotigian
December 16, 2009
Penny, Francis, Alex, and Dave
I wanted to let you know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and how very sorry we are. In your loss, may you take comfort in knowing that there is one more angel above you.
Sherrill and Ken
April Gordon
December 16, 2009
The Lund Family has my full support during this hard time. Remember as long as you keep your memories, he'll always be with you. Find comfort in knowing absense from the body is in the presence of the Lord. Alex's eyes are seeing the beautiful wonders of God and he is surrouned by love. My prayers are with you all.
ADDIE/MAXINE
December 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have great memories of Alex from working with him at Paul's. Know that he loved you all because he always had a good story to tell about you and the kids.
Take Care,
Addie and Maxine
Renae Motley
December 16, 2009
Penny, Francis, Alex & Dave,
I hope you comfort each other and know that he is in no more pain. I am here if you need anything!!!! I will surely miss Alex, he was a one of a kind.
glenda vuxta
December 16, 2009
Alex was a very smart and talented man....He was very good at his work and took pride in what he did....He will be truly missed...My heart goes out to his wife Penny and their children, I know how much he truly loved them...Glenda Vuxta
Ann Bailey
December 16, 2009
Penny, Frances, Alex & David, Please accept my sympathy for the passing of your dad/husband. I will have many fond memories of him from my time with the band boosters. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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