Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Bettie MATKINS Obituary
She retired from Newport News Social Services and Child Protective Services of Chatham County, N.C.
She is survived by her children, Jeffrey L. Carmines of Durham, N.C., and Elizabeth (Lisa) C. Jackson of Gloucester; three grandchildren, Chelsea, Holly and Rilee; her sister, Judy Waddell (Ron); her former husband, best friend and companion, Robert L. Carmines; and her beloved pets.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Peninsula SPCA.
A memorial service will be at a later date in Washington, N.C. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Bettie MATKINS
6 Entries
January 3, 2010
Judy,
Please forgive me for not expressing my condolences to you also. I had taught Lisa when she was at Menchville High School and immediately thought of her. A number of Bettie Lou's classmates have expressed an interest in attending the memorial service. Can you email me information about this? Thank you.
My thougts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Marie Moore Haynes
December 31, 2009
Judy and Lisa,
How sad I was to learn of Bettie Lou's passing. She will be remembered by many of her Washington High School classmates of 1958 as a gentle, kind and caring friend. I wish that she had been able to come to our 50th class reunion...she would have enjoyed hearing the many memories we shared. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Susan and Gene Lanier
December 30, 2009
Judy,
I was saddened to learn of Bettie Lou's death. As a newcomer to Washington High School, she helped me integrate into a new school and community. I have fond memories of Washington because of people like her. Her memories will linger because of the person she was.
Douglas Currier
December 30, 2009
Lisa,
I'm a classmate of Betty Lou's and I too, am deeply saddened by her death. Those of us who grew up with her and went to school with her will always remember her, the joy she brought to our lives and the solace she provided in our times of pain and need. And, trite though it may sound, she will live within our hearts and minds as well as be remembered in our prayers. And, we pray that you will find solace in your own heart as you cope with your loss.
Bill Thompson, Athens, TX
December 30, 2009
Lisa,
I was saddened to hear of the death of your mother. I have many fond high school memories of her - afternoons at her house, pajama parties, CYF on Sunday nights at the First Christian Church and outings with that group, and, of course, a special trip to Atlantic Beach in her folks' big Pontiac. I hope knowing that others remember her fondly will comfort you at this time.
Marie Haynes, Williamsburg, VA
Jeanne Wheeler
December 30, 2009
I am saddened by the loss of Ms. Carmines Matkins. She was my first supervisor at NNDSS(1975). I will always remember her as a very caring and thoughtful person. The things she taught me and the responsibilities she gave me were essential to my development in my social service career. Ms. Carmines Matkins will always be dear to my heart.
May your faith and fond memories of her during this time of sorrow bring you much comfort.
Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results
Make a Donation
in Bettie MATKINS's name
Memorial Events
for Bettie MATKINS
How to support Bettie's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Bettie MATKINS's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
