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Carolyn LACKEY Obituary

NEWPORT NEWS - Carolyn Pendeleton Lackey died on Jan. 10, 2011, in Newport News, Va.
Ms. Lackey was born in Newport News on Feb. 19, 1927, to the late Howard Lackey and Ruth Grandy Lackey. She grew up in Hampton and Newport News and attended Newport News High School. She attended Greenbrier College and Virginia Commonwealth University. Ms. Lackey worked for many years at Ft. Monroe. She was an active member of St. Andrews Episcopal Church, the Peninsula Fine Arts Center, and a former member of the Junior League of Hampton Roads. She was a generous supporter of the Boys and Girls Club and local charities. She will be remembered fondly for her devotion to friends and loved ones, her light-hearted spirit and her infectious laugh. Ms. Lackey was predeceased by her parents and her brother, Howard Lackey.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, Jan. 15, at 11 a.m. at St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Newport News.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the Boys and Girls Club of the Peninsula, or to St. Andrews Episcopal Church. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Jan. 13 to Jan. 14, 2011.

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Areena Lowe

January 18, 2011

I worked with Carolyn from 1985 to 1987 at the TRADOC Technical Library, Ft. Monroe. She was truly a kind and wonderful person who enjoyed life and enjoyed being a friend to many. She was a blessing to many. My deepest condolences to her family.

January 15, 2011

We are distressed and saddened by Carolyn's passing. She was a fine and lovely lady. She will be missed by those who knew her and who benefitted from her kindness.

John Walton Grandy IV
(Grandson of Ruth Lackey's Brother)

Ed Burgess

January 14, 2011

I also worked with Carolyn for many years, and found her unfailingly cheerful and helpful. She was an example we could all benefit from.

kim simpson

January 14, 2011

Carolyn was a wonderful lady who made my days happy full of laughter. I was her care giver for the last few months of her life and she made me feel so special. I am greatful to have known her . Her loss hit my heart like a ton of bricks . But at least she is in a better place and in no more pain . We love you carolyn ,God bless you

Alex Campbell

January 14, 2011

Carolyn was truly a bright spot and a lovely lady among the books --

Frances Doyle

January 13, 2011

Carolyn and I worked together at the Fort Monroe Libraries for many years. Carolyn took wonderful care of her beloved mother, Ruth, and was involved in many charitable activities, such as CONTACT and at the church we both attended. I was saddened to hear of her death, and will keep her in my prayers.

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