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Mark ELLIS Obituary
Mark Edward Ellis was born in Cambridge, Mass., on Aug. 7, 1950. He received his undergraduate degree in Microbiology at Wake Forest University, where he also met his wife, Lynn. After earning his MD from Bowman Gray School of Medicine at Wake Forest University where he was awarded the CB Deane Memorial Award for Excellence in Clinical Oncology, he completed his Internal Medicine Residency at North Carolina Baptist Hospital in Winston-Salem, N.C. He completed his Fellowship in Hematology and Oncology at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C., where he earned the Erskine B. Graves Award for outstanding Fellow. While serving his country in the USAF for eight years, he was awarded the Instructor of the Year as a staff oncologist at David Grant USAF Medical Center at Travis AFB in California.
Making his home in Williamsburg in 1989, he dedicated his life as an oncologist and hematologist to caring for cancer patients in Williamsburg and the surrounding Peninsula as well as Gloucester and the Middle Peninsula. He was instrumental in bringing radiation therapy to Williamsburg in 1996 and served as the 1995 Dept of Medicine and 1997 Chief of Medical Staff at Williamsburg Community Hospital. His dedication to the community and to his patients earned him many service awards during his career, among them, the Sharon H. Kohlenberg Healthcare Service Award from the Virginia Breast Cancer Foundation, and the Health Care Hero Award presented by the Williamsburg Community Health Foundation. He served on and chaired numerous Boards during his tenure, including the Williamsburg VA unit of the American Cancer Society Board of Directors, the Virginia Branch of the Leukemia Society Board of Directors, Hospice House and Support Care of Williamsburg Board of Directors, Williamsburg Community Hospital Board of Directors, Williamsburg Community Health Foundation Board of Directors, and the Williamsburg Radiation Therapy Center Board of Directors.
He championed the cause of bringing Doctors' Hospital to Williamsburg, and he was honored to serve as the Chairman of the Advisory Board for Doctors Hospital. Since 2004, he served as the Medical Director for the Riverside Cancer Program. As the Founder and Managing Physician of Riverside's Peninsula Cancer Institute in 2004, he successfully established an oncology practice that achieved his vision of holistic care through an integrative approach to cancer care, incorporating massage therapy, nutritional counseling, music therapy, pet therapy, family services, and patient education with standard chemotherapies and clinical trials. Despite his long list of accomplishments in his career, the favorite part of his practice as described by him over the years was, "the time spent within the four walls of the rooms with my patients."
Outside of the world of medicine, Mark was a member of the Williamsburg United Methodist Church for 21 years and a generous supporter of numerous community organizations. Known as an avid sports fan, especially regarding the Demon Deacons of Wake Forest, he was a very generous supporter of both the university and its athletic programs and could be found on the front row of nearly all the WFU home basketball games and in his sky box at all the home football games. An accomplished musician on the guitar, he loved music, especially the Beatles. Always humbled by the love bestowed upon him by his patients, his staff, and the community, he will long be remembered as a wonderful compassionate doctor, as well as a loving husband and father with a warm sense of humor, and he will be loved and respected forever by his family.
He is survived by his wife, Lynn; and grown children, Lisa Ellis Rosler, Mark Edward Ellis Jr., Robert Christopher Ellis; brother, Stephen F. Ellis; and parents, Charles and Jeanne Ellis.
A public celebration of his life memorial service will be held at the Williamsburg United Methodist Church located at 500 Jamestown Road in Williamsburg on Friday, April 9, 2010, at 11a.m.
Online condolences may be registered at www.bucktroutfuneralhome.net.
In lieu of flowers, Mark would be honored if donations were made to Cancer Care Services Endowment Fund which supports his vision of integrative cancer care at Riverside's Peninsula Cancer Institute. Checks may be made out to Cancer Care Services Endowment Fund and sent to The Riverside Health System Foundation, 701 Town Center Drive, Suite 1000
Newport News, VA 23606-4286, attention: Debbie Atkinson. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mark ELLIS
Daisy Mae Jenkins
May 3, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Ellis passing. He was one of the most wonderful doctors that my Mother ever had. His caring and empathy for his patients was so obvious. And my Mother loved him dearly. This world will surely miss him.
Diana Rondinelli (Daisy Mae Jenkins' daughter)
April 21, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. Ellis. I started with him in williamsburg and followed him to gloucester. Dr. Ellis was a wonderful doctor, and very good in explaining what you don't understand and very caring. I loved Dr. Ellis and will miss him and his smile very much.
*Sandra, Little Plymouth, VA
Laura
April 19, 2010
My sincerest condolences go out to the family of Dr. E. He was a wonderful doctor to work with and deeply caring of his patients. He will be sorely missed by so many.
Stephanie Moseley
April 18, 2010
Dear Lynn and family,
I don't know where to begin to express to you my deepest sympathy and the deep loss I feel right now. I loved Dr. Ellis almost from the moment I met him about six years ago. Almost immediately I sensed his warmth, his humor, but most importantly his care and concern for his patients and the staff who worked for him to keep his patients filled with hope. He had just opened PCI only a few months after Pfizer transferred me to Virginia as a new Oncology Sales Representative. Lynn, you and Dr. Ellis were always warm and engaging when I visited your offices and I loved seeing you and discussing our cancer therapies with Dr. Ellis in the hopes that some of his patients would benefit. He was an outstanding man! We often swapped Air Force stories (I was an officer too)and reminisced about how things were "back in the day" in the military. When he spoke of his patients during our discussions, I could tell that he really cared about them because he knew them so intimately. It was an honor for me to have known and to have interacted with Dr. Ellis over all these years. He was a true champion for his family, his patients, and the people who worked for him in delivering quality patient care. I will truly miss seeing his smiling face, and hearing his hearty laugh and soothing voice. May God bless you all,hold you tight, and shower his love upon you during this difficult time. I love you all and the PCI family!
Linda Wood
April 18, 2010
My father, Danny Burns, was a patient of Dr.Ellis. He was diagnosed with CLL in 1995. With the help of Dr. Ellis, he fought the good fight and was called home on May 12th, 2009. Over the years I've heard Danny speak of Dr. Ellis and his staff with fondness and sincere appreciation. A few months before his passing Danny penned a letter that was posted in the Gazzette-Journal to let the community know what a kind and caring man Dr. Ellis was. In Danny's own words: "I met Dr. Ellis in 1995 in his Williamsburg office after a referral. I went to see this very caring man and immediately liked him. He was kind and understanding with my wife and very down to earth in his explanation of my disease. I have observed him for almost 15 years dealing with people, some of whom are successful and/or getting sick with their treatment options and of course, some who are not doing well at all. He talks to them and their families like they are the only things in the world and treats them with love and respect while he wages war with their disease. When he finishes talking to you, you know he has your best interest at heart. There is no one quite like him in the oncology center. The place is full of sick people who brighten up when he walks in. No one has tried harder or given more to his patients and especially to me than Mark. E. Ellis, M.D." On behalf of my father and my entire family, our deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the Ellis family.
Pat Hood
April 14, 2010
I am a cancer survivor who moved from Northern Virginia to this area. Dr. Mark Ellis was the oncologist I was referred to. I found him very professional but more importantly, he gave me confidence that despite being a new oncologist for me, would ensure that I was carefully watched over for any reoccurance. I saw him regularly in the beginning and as time passed, less frequently. I believe he gave me excellent care and the confidence to look forward again to the life I hoped to live again. He will be missed by not only his family but also his many patients. Please accept my sincere sympathy.
Jennie Davies
April 14, 2010
Dear Lynn and family,
It was a great shock to hear of Mark's passing last week when my husband and I were visiting Williamsburg but I was so glad to be able to attend the memorial service on Friday to give thanks for his life of caring and compassion. When we moved to Williamsburg from England in 1994 little did we know that just 6 weeks later I would be referred to him as a patient and I have given thanks every day since then for my good fortune.
Thank you to all of you for sharing Mark with us and so many other people who have passed through the door of his office. I hope your own happy memories will sustain you in darker days;
Love to you all,
Jennie and Bob Davies.
Frances Morgan
April 12, 2010
Dear Lynn and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I would like to thank you for sharing such a wonderful man with the rest of the world. Dr. Ellis was an inspiration to everyone he met. He will be greatly missed by everyone. I have truly been blessed to be a part of the dream that he had and I will do my best to treat each patient has he did and to work hard to keep the dream alive. May God bless you and give you strenght to get you through this great loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers each and everyday. Dr. Ellis' dream will live on.
Love and thanks,
Eileen Fennell
April 12, 2010
So sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Ellis. My prayers go out to the family, friends, and many co-workers of this wonderful man. So many cancer patients have benefited from his work, including me. God Bless. Eileen
Pam Neff
April 12, 2010
Many people wander through life searching for their one true purpose. It is very clear that God had a hand in using Dr. Ellis on this earth and his purpose was fulfilled greater than most will ever realize. As a patient of Dr. Ellis, he will continue to shine as that beacon of hope for all of us on our journey to health so that, we too, may ultimately achieve our greater purpose. What a blessing to have known this incredible man! So many people are blessed for having known him whether family, friends, patients and staff. As I continue on my cancer journey, one thing is for certain, I will deeply miss his compassion, care and great love. Oh should we all be so lucky and blessed to live each day like Dr. Ellis did, "living the dream!"
With Deep Sympathy,
Dean and Pam Neff
Ann Trapani
April 11, 2010
Lynn, Sam and I have been out of town
and are so sorry for your loss.
You and the children are in our prayers. There is not enough words nor space to sing Mark's praises. He has touched so many lives; ours included! We have some fond memories from LSA Snowflake Balls. Cherish your memories, hold them close to your heart; I know it is breaking you have lost your best friend.
Gain strength from all the prayers sent your way for you truly have your own angel looking down from above.
Our deepest sympathies,
Ann and Sam Trapani
April 11, 2010
To the family of the late Dr. Mark Ellis, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to each of you. I was truly sadden to hear of the passing of your love one. There has never been a more COMPASSIONATE doctor, than Dr. Ellis. From the first time that I met him, I knew I was truly blessed to have him as my doctor.
Dr. Ellis became my doctor in 2008. In the time that I have known him, I can say he was truly called to be a doctor. Not just any doctor but, a doctor searching for a CURE for CANCER. While I was hoping that he would be there at the end of my 5 year mark, GOD had another plan for him and called him home(no more pain or suffering). Our talks have given the ability to do more to help others with this diease.
At Relay for Life not only will I be walking laps as a survivor but, I will also be walking laps in MEMORY of my GOOD FRIEND and DOCTOR~~Mark Ellis. Rest assure that his work was not in vain and although he is gone, he WILL NOT be FORGOTTEN.
REST IN PEACE DR. ELLIS YOUR DREAM WILL LIVE ON. GONE TOO SOON!
Deborah Carter PCI patient,Gloucester,Va
VIRGINIA TATE
April 11, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dr. Mashour & Abir Yousef
April 10, 2010
Dear Lynn, Lisa, Mark, Jr., and Robbie:
We are extremely sorry for your loss and our loss of the beloved Mark. He was the kind of person that you wish you knew for all your life. The kind that you feel at ease at his presence and enriched by his knowledge and demeanor.
Mark was a doctor with a vision, who put the patient first, and that what made him special for his patients, and for all of us, the physicians, who had the privilege of working with him, and sharing his vision and ambitions.
I will miss Mark, not only on the professional level, but also on the personal level, missing his advices and his capability of sticking to common sense in every aspect of his life and his wonderful career.
Mark's life was enriched, not only by his professional achievements, but also by being a wonderful family man, who left a wonderful legacy for his lovely wife, Lynn, and his wonderful children
I will miss you a lot my friend
Dr. Mashour & Abir Yousef
Marguerite Pastella
April 10, 2010
Dr. Ellis has never been my doctor, but I've heard about him for years as he helped Marty Richardson, one of my dear friends, as she's battled with cancer 3 times. She frequently speaks of his compassion and was greatly saddened to hear of his passing.
It is obvious that his life was truly a blessing to so very many, as here I am, a complete stranger, giving testimony to his life. He may have not been aware of his impact while here but no doubt the Lord is filling him in now!
Blessings to his family.
April 10, 2010
I was honored to work with Dr Ellis and have him treat two very loved family members. He truly acted as though he was part of our family and he will be missed.
Frances & Edward Belvin
April 10, 2010
Dear Dr.Eills Family,
My prayers are with you may God Bless
everyone.DR Eills been with me when I have breast cancer he all ways told me not to give up on him and I havent sense 2007 and I promise to himI Wont.
Thanks to him and the staff and God Im Still going on.I Will always love him and his family and will miss him deepley. Love.
Frances Gloucester
Debra Boyden
April 10, 2010
Dr. Ellis treated my grandmother many years ago for colon cancer. She adored him and he was so wonderful to her. She passed away in 2004 and our family received the nicest handwritten note from him. He was truely a dedicated and compasionate person and god knew what his true calling was.
The family of Maxine VonBergen
Karen Dutton
April 9, 2010
Dear Dr. Ellis Family: You have been in my prayers for several months now. Dr. Ellis has been a SPECIAL Dr. to our community and to so many people. We are so blessed to have him with us. He gave us hope when we were confused. He gave us love as one human to another. He gave us laughter when we wanted to cry. He gave us a great smile when we were sad. I'll never forget how wonderful he was to me first as I had breast cancer. Then to my husband, Sheriff Walter Dutton, who passed away in 2007. Dr. Ellis will always be missed in our community but he will never be forgotten for all the good he has done for us. God be with his family. Love, Karen Dutton
Dr. David Schengber
April 9, 2010
Ellis Family: It has been my privilege to count Mark as a friend and colleague. He set an example that every physician should aspire to. I was honored to have been able to participate in his care. He will not be forgotten.
Cheryl Oliphant
April 9, 2010
To Dr. Ellis' family, may God watch over you all in your time of grief and thank you for sharing this wonderful man with all of us. The first time I met Dr. Ellis, I was as scared as a person could be. Eventhough I was trying to be brave and positive, I had breast cancer and as a single parent, I was particularly afraid of where this might lead me and my children. With his compassionate and positive manner, Dr. Ellis told me what I was dealing with and how we needed to proceed. Over the years, he continued to guide me through the physical and emotional battle. The last time I saw him, I was close to my ten year anniversary of being cancer free and as always, he continued to be positive and compassionate. By this time, my daughter had joined his PCI staff and he praised the wonderful job she was doing. She continues to be a proud staff member and we are both honored to have known Dr. Ellis. I am touched that she gives back to the medical community that he helped to establish. You see, not only do his patients love him, but his staff does, as well. On my last visit, we joked about the "cool" tie he was wearing -- and he had many cool ties. This particular one was covered in guitar images. He had told me about his love of music and mentioned that his Mother had given him this particular "cool" tie. He said his love of music and the guitar had probably "kept him off the streets" when he was a young man. Some how, I can't imagine Dr. Ellis ever causing his parents a minute of trouble! As I left, he gave me one of those wonderful Dr. Ellis bear hugs and with that twinkle in his eyes, he told me he would see me healthy again next year. He always made each of his patients feel like they were his only patient and we will all miss him. He was our special angel and we will always remember how he touched so many lives. I know there is a special place in heaven for him.
April 9, 2010
Dear Ellis Family, Dr. Ellis has touched so many people. He treated my Mother and Father for cancer and he truly cared for them and they for him. God Bless all of you and comfort you in your time of sorrow. He will be deeply missed. He was such an impact on everyone he cared for and knew.
He will always be remembered.
Darlene Dent Baumgardner
Parents Bob and Betty Dent.
Rev. Rory Hearn
April 9, 2010
Mark Ellis was and will be remembered as a great man. He was a shining example of what we can accomplish when we follow our dreams and stick to our convictions. I am honored to have known him and to have witnessed his influence on the world around him. He was a true Jedi Knight fighting the never-ending good fight.
Via con Dios Chief, and May the Force be with You...Always!
Marily Johnston
April 8, 2010
Dr. Ellis touched the lives of so many. Meeting him was one of the gifts my cancer gave me. It's rare to find someone so passionate and caring. He was special. My sympathy goes out to his family. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Lynda Byrd-Poller
April 8, 2010
I share my deepest sympathy with the Ellis family. Dr. Ellis was instrumental in my recovery from TTP; his foresight, loving kindness and professional confidence made my journey much easier to handle. I will pray that God will provide that same sense of peace in great measure to your family now. Sincerely, Lynda
Dennis Rooker
April 8, 2010
Dear Ellis Family, May the Lord comfort you in your loss. Dr. Ellis' care and compassion touched so many lives. When he had to tell me in 94 that my diagnosis was Aplastic Anemia I could tell that he felt worse than I did about it. But it was my wife who he comforted and assured the most with his knowledge and care. He was a wonderful friend during a very uncertain time.
April 8, 2010
Dr. Ellis was a wonderful man. His compassionate care gave us an extra year (and counting) with our mom/wife/mother-in-law/grandmother. She was one of the last patients Dr. Ellis saw on his last day at work after about a year under his care. Our families will be forever grateful our paths crossed with Dr. Ellis'.
-The Wilson and Riozzi Family
Carl D Coates
April 8, 2010
To the ELLIS Family and His Professional Staff.
This is the Kathy Coates Family
Dr. Mark Ellis, MD Story.
My name is Dr. Carl Coates.
I am Kathy Coates’ brother.
I writing to share with the ELLIS family our story of the impact that Dr. Mark Ellis, MD. had on our family.
In 1998, Kathy Coates (my sister) was
diagnosed with breast cancer. She was
immediately referred to Dr. Ellis for her treatment and care. From the beginning, she found in Dr. Ellis not only a very competent and ompassionate physician, but a friend as well.
In 2003, with Dr. Ellis’ guidance and treatment regimen, Kathy regained her health. She had made it pass the 5-year period of being cancer free. He would refer to it as ‘being out of the boat’ and he was so proud of her. During all her treatments and The follow-up appointments, Kathy would bake or make something to take with her to Dr. Ellis and his staff. ‘Got to feed my ‘doc’ and my ‘girls’ (the nurses) she would say. It was like she would be going to a party.
She never complained.
In December of 2004, Kathy’s cancer would return. She again called upon her ‘friend’ in Dr. Ellis to help her once again battle this reoccurrence of the cancer. In January 2005, Kathy’s diagnosis wasn’t as promising -- as the disease had metastasized into her liver. So began the journey of many days of treatments, exams and follow-ups. Dr. Ellis would explain, ‘you are back in boat’ but we are going give it OUR best fight.
In the summer of 2005, Kathy decided to show her appreciation to Dr. Ellis and his wonderful staff how much she loved and appreciated them. She invited the Ellis family and his staff and their families to her home on the Mattapponi River in West Point. There, they had a day of making precious memories of fishing, jet skiing, water tubing and of course good grilling and home cooking. It would be a day they all would long remember. I still have the photos of that day and will be sending them to the Ellis family.
Then came that ’heart to heart’ day when Dr. Ellis had to share the not so good news with Kathy that sometimes in each life not everybody ’gets back out of the boat’. A very emotional and life changing moment it was for each of them -- as doctor and patient and friend.
After a long battle with cancer, Kathy was called home on April 13, 2006. She was now ’out of the boat’. My family still has the letter and memorial Dr. Ellis sent to our family after Kathy’s passing.
Now, Dr. Ellis is ’out of the boat’. It is with great assurance; God has presented Dr. Ellis with his eternal reward and a “well done good and faithful servant”.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ellis family and Staff during this difficult time.
Dr. Carl D. Coates, PHD.
Kathy Coates, Brother.
barbara parker
April 8, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Dr Ellis family and friends. I personally was touched by his caring and loving attitude. Dr. Ellis would always take the time to ask me about my son in the war. I will really miss his kind, smiling face. sincerely, Barbara Parker (OICU)
Colleen Ryan
April 8, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Lynn and the entire Ellis family. The Lord gave me a chance to be touched by Dr Ellis and witness his love for his patients and family. I am thankful to the Chief for all he taught me, and for the miracle that he in himself was. I am so blessed to have had the chance in a lifetime to work for such a wonderful person!!
Always in my thoughts and prayers,
Katie Ross
April 8, 2010
Dr. Ellis was my champion, the one who wanted me to do well, and wanted to keep checking on me once a year, even though it wasn't necessary. I will miss him so much.
April 8, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. Ellis. I, too, grieve with you for he was my doctor and friend for nine years. Blessings to his family.
Jea Durham - Williamsburg, VA
Carl and Kathy Coates
April 8, 2010
Margaret Creveling
April 8, 2010
Lynn & Family - I know that only God can bring mental and emotional peace of mind to you and yours during this difficult time; therefore, I am praying for those things for you. Deepest thoughts and prayers.
Margaret Creveling & Family
Nick & Carole Ferro
April 8, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the Ellis family. As one of Dr. Ellis' success stories we will always enjoy our memories of him. His professionalism and mostly his friendship are among our cherished memories. We will miss his friendly smile and outgoing personality. I,Nick, will miss having him as my Dr. He will be greatly missed in the Oncology profession.
Patricia Weakland
April 8, 2010
My dear sweet Dr. Ellis slipped away and left a life time of laughter and kept cancer patients alive. I first found out that i had breast cancer in 1995, he walked in the room and the look on his face told it all. He said i have bad news, but you will over come this. At that time my husband grabbed Dr. Ellis and hugged him and said please save her life, we have 3 children 5 and under. They both were crying and hugging. I,m sitting on the table and asked, who is the patient? I knew from that day on he would be wonderful. He kept me living through bouts of breast cancer. I will forever be grateful to him. His laughter and sweet kindness will never be forgot.
Irvin johnson
April 8, 2010
To dr Ellis family sorry for your lost our prayes go out you and your family from late Irvin I Johnson family.
April 7, 2010
I am sorry for your loss Dr.Ellis will be greatly missed.I met him a few years ago.and told everyone i talked to about him. He was a great roll model. and Dr. He will be deeply missed. Stephanie Irwin from Williamsburg Va.
lori cox
April 7, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
sherry green
April 7, 2010
To the Ellis family may god be with you in this time of grief. This family and many other families have lost a great, caring, and wonderful person who will always be remembered and never forgotten. I will miss him as my doctor who told me that day smile everything will be fine. He always made me feel better when I visited with him. God Bless him and the entire family
Carl Gerhold
April 7, 2010
Mark helped me fight cancer, twice. I'll be forever grateful for the way he showed me how to face each day and each challenge with hope and good humor. It won't be the same at PCI when I go there, but Mark's presence will be felt just the same. I pray for strength for you in this most difficult time. Peace.
April 7, 2010
Dear Dr.Ellis's family I'm sorry for your lost.He will be greatly missed by many .your family will be in our prayers..........Donna Kay Fletcher&Family Gloucester,Va
April 7, 2010
Dear Dr.Ellis's family I'm sorry for your lost.He will be greatly missed by many .your family will be in our prayers..........Donna Kay Fletcher&Family Gloucester,Va
pamela pettit
April 7, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Sandra Coltrain
April 7, 2010
Dr Ellis gave my husband, Bill, the most wonderful care during his fight
with cancer. I will always remember his smile and his kind words. He truly
was a great doctor and human being. I am sure his love and memories will sustain you. As one who has experienced the loss as you, may God hold you and comfort you.
Greg Gernon
April 7, 2010
"Though I know I'll never lose affection for people and things that went before,I know I'll often stop and think about them In my life I love you more" (The Beatles)... It is an honor to have worked with such an amazing person/doctor...My heart goes out to you Lynn and family...
Col. Bobby Rowe
April 7, 2010
Dear Lynn and family-you may not remember me. Mark was my personl physician when I was the Hospital Administrator at Tyndall AFB, Fla. You both came over to my house on occasion to watch the Deamon Deacons play basketball. What a joy it was knowing you. Mark was a special person. Not many like him. I pray God will bless you richly and give you that peace which passes all understanding. He will be remembered by us all.
Susan Miller
April 7, 2010
Dear Lynn, Lisa, Mark, Robbie and family,
I feel any words I use will be inadequate to express what I'm feeling.
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Ellis was the best man I ever knew, and I am a better person and a better nurse for having known and worked with him. He was a gentleman in every sense of that word, a gentle, caring, humble, sincere man and a wonderful doctor. He loved all of you so and was so proud of you. Years ago, as a young man, he could've taken the time he was given after his treatment and done things only for himself; instead, he spent all these years giving back to others. He did more good in his fifty-nine years than most do in ninety. I feel so very privileged and proud that I was able to be part of building and realizing the dream that is PCI. I will never forget him or lose sight of his dream. You are in our thoughts every day; may you find comfort in the wonderful memories and the knowledge that he lives on in so many hearts.
Michael Wish
April 7, 2010
While I did not know Dr. Ellis, he took care of my aunt (Kathy Coates) when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. My aunt has since passed, but she had nothing but wonderful things to say about Dr. Ellis while she was under his care! She loved and respected him very much! My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Gloria Jean Roberts
April 7, 2010
to The Family of Dr. Mark Ellis.
dr. Ellis was not only the best doctor that ever cared for me ,but the kindest, loving, and so much more than words can say. I have missed his great smile in these past months and the wonderful hugs he always gave. You have been a lucky family to have had ,husband and father,such as he. God Bless all of you in this timeof sadness.
My deepesr Sympathies
Gloria Roberts
Maggie Waller PCI-Gloucester
April 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
F. C.
April 7, 2010
While I never had the privilege of meeting Dr. Ellis, I came to know of him through two very dear neighbors who were patients of his. I've never heard anyone speak more highly of a physician than they did! Sadly, both women succumbed to their diseases; however, Dr. Ellis' extraordinary caring, compassion and dedication made it possible for them to end their days on earth in comfort and dignity, and it was that same caring and compassion that ministered to their husbands and families through it all. Our community has suffered a tremendous loss. May God draw you close fill you with His loving peace and wrap you in His love.
April 7, 2010
Not knowing Dr. Ellis personally saddens me. Only because I see the lives that he touched. He touched mine without realizing it. I heard him speak at my first Relay For Life experience. He was the guest speaker and I must say being my first relay, he truly brought hope and encouragement to all that were in that place. Being a survivor himself and sharing his story truly brought me strength. I am thankful for the oncologist that I have, but would have like to have had known this great man as a doctor and friend. After hearing of how much he took pleasure in helping his patients cope and have hope and in reading just a few of the words written here, there is no way that I can not feel the love that this man shared with all those he was in contact with. My heart and prayers to all that were touched by this wonderful person and I pray his legacy will be forever known and carried on. If I could think of one words that best decribes Dr. Ellis it would be devoted. He was devoted to a compassion to love and help in many ways. Thank you Dr. Ellis for being the man God created you to be.
Dale Gardner Teagle
April 7, 2010
I did not know Dr. Ellis but I know of his wonderful work. I know of the loving and compassionate care he gave my brother and how he was by his side through almost 24 years of leukemia treatment. It was indeed a miracle that he survived that long, and I believe, with God's help, Dr Ellis' was responsible for that miracle. I'm sure my brother is waiting to welcome Dr. Ellis to Heaven with loving and grateful arms.
Nancy Marshall
April 7, 2010
I cannot imagine this world without Mark Ellis. He was the leader of the dedicated team that saved my life in 1997. He has held a very special place in my heart from the first day we met when he said to me: "You will survive and will live to inspire others." I'm not sure either one of us really believed that at the time of my Stage 3 lung cancer diagnosis, but his verbalizing his belief kept me on a positive path through my long cancer journey. Mark, I will miss you every day for the rest of my life. My heartfelt appreciation to Lynn and children for sharing Mark with all the patients who loved him dearly.
Carol Hearn
April 7, 2010
Dear Lynn, Lisa, Mark Jr & Robbie, There are no words to describe what our beloved "Chief" meant to me and all the people he met and cared for. He was truly one in a million or as my mother always says, " A Prince among men." He was the most genuine, caring, loving and compassionate doctor I have ever had the privilege and honor to know and work with. He was not only blessed with many gifts and talents, but he was always so humble about them. I know that when the gates of Heaven opened and the Lord held our Chief in his arms they were surrounded by a huge band of angels who had all been touched by our dear and glorious physician.
My heart goes out to all of you at this time of sorrow and loss. I hope you will find comfort in knowing that his light will shine on and his dream will live as long as those of us who loved him have breath in our bodies.
TAMMY PATTON
April 7, 2010
I AM REALLY SORRY TO HEAR OF DR, ELLIS PASSING AWAY. HE TREATED MY MOTHER MARY WORTHY IN THE LATE 90'S. HE WAS A EXCELLENT DOCTOR. HE WILL BE MISSED.
Sydney Mason DeProfio
April 7, 2010
I was so sad to learn of Dr. Ellis's passing yesterday. He treated my grandmother and my mother during their bouts of cancer. We couldn't have asked for a more compassionate, caring or talented doctor to care for them. Dr. Ellis became my grandmother's doctor because he happened to be working in the hospital the day she was there. I don't believe in coincidences--it was clearly God's divine appointment! I am so grateful to have known him. God bless your family during the weeks and months ahead. May His grace and comfort fill your hearts and minds.
Sissy Taylor
April 7, 2010
Chris, Mark and Stephen! I am so saddened by the loss of your father! Find peace knowing that he suffers no more with our Lord. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Sissy
Mary Wheat
April 7, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Dr.
Ellis was an amazing man. He treated my husband, Hersh Wheat, years ago and
Hersh loved Dr. Ellis like a son.
Diane Scott
April 7, 2010
I am so saddened that such a loving doctor has passed. He always had time for his patients and made them feel comfortable and at ease. I could ask him, "What is the most current research on the use of adjuvant therapy after surgery?" And he would have the most current information available to enable the right decision. He was truly a vessel of God's love, and his legacy is the many patients, me included, who were touched by his kindness and sincere concern for their well-being. My thoughts, prayers and sincere condolences are sent to his family.
Jacci Harmon
April 6, 2010
Dear Lynn and family,
Our prayers are with you as you end this journey in life. God Bless you for the loving care that you gave Mark in his last days with you.
Mark was without a doubt the most caring, loving, and compasionate person
I have ever met He saw me through 9 years of Breast cancer tx, and just about the time he stopped treating patients I was found to have ovarian CA, and due to his recomendation of a good surgeon, I am now in remission. I do hope that his legacy will live on , and his hopes be fulfilled,
I loved him as as physician, great scholar, and a genuinly loving doctor.
Lynn, may you and your family find comfort in knowing you helped Mark in every way possible. Please know that there are many prayers for you and your family.
Jacci
David Feldman
April 6, 2010
I would like to add my thank you for the remarkable work Mark Ellis did with my mother ten years ago. Her Leukemia defied classification and all of M.D. Anderson's talent could not comprehend it. Yet with his understanding of all the treatment options, and his deep insight into her spirit, he gave her over two extra years of decent quality life to spend with her grandchildren. His infectious optimism coupled with clearheaded rational planning gave strength to his patients.
Tina Jenkins
April 6, 2010
There are no words that will ease the pain of such a great loss. I am so honored to have been a part of Dr. E's dream and vision. May peace be with you all in this time of sorrow.
Christina AndersonPlimpton
April 6, 2010
Dr Ellis was a wonderful doctor who helped me find out what was causing me problems with dizziness only to track it to a genetic disorder. He found care for me once I came to Florida and the thing I remember best is that he was not just a humanitarian but human.l will miss him terribly and my condolences to his family. He saved my life and I am doing well thanks to his diligence and honesty. May God Bless his family in this time of sorrow. The world has lost a very good doctor.
Marty Kline
April 6, 2010
I have never known a person who has done so much for others and gave so much of himself in helping people battle this deadly disease. The fact that he had been a cancer survivor himself set him apart, and made his counseling and treatment that much more effective.
I believe that God has a special place in Heaven for Mark and needed him. We, who knew him, as our life force and treatment provider, will miss him immensely, and our sincere thoughts and prayers go out in earnest to his family.
Kimberly Standifer, RN
April 6, 2010
I had the honor of working with Dr. Ellis at WCH for the first eight years of my Nursing career. He was just as kind and compassionate to the staff as he was with his patients. I learned so much from him, not just medical knowledge, but how a health care professional should interact with patients and their families. He will be missed greatly.
Shirley Carlton
April 6, 2010
Dr.Ellis took care of my Mother Chris Massey for years we both loved him, our love and prayers to the family, Shirley Carlton+Chris Massey
Leone Vigil, RN, BSN, BC
April 6, 2010
Thoughts and prayers of comfort, peace, and strength for all family and friends at this time of loss. It was an honor to know and work with Mark at WCH in years past. Truly we all will miss his caring spirit, but I believe we will all be reunited and together again. Mark is preparing the way for us. Blessings and comfort to all.
April 6, 2010
I am patient of PCI - Williamsburg and God blessed Dr. Ellis with a vision of healing and mercy. The staff and dr's there are some of the most caring people you will meet. Through Dr. Ellis many lives were touched.
Kim
Lee Merithew
April 6, 2010
Dr. Ellis took care of my mom in 1990, 11 years after her "surgically cured" initial breast cancer diagnosis. He worked for what was known as the James River Clinic at the time. My father, who himself, was afflicted with 6 different primary cancers in his life, told me some 16 years after her passing, that when my mom's cancer came back, Dr. Ellis told him there was no conventional treatment that would help her. She was only 58, but had widespread disease. He did, however, have a few things he could try. Despite the low odds of success, he was willing to forge on with treatment. And to our surprise, he was successful in keepng our Mom here for another year. For that, I am eternally grateful. In an era where medicine is in the "hot seat", this man was beyond reproach. May God be with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Such a loss for us all.
David Mastbrook
April 6, 2010
I am a patient in Williamsburg. He got me the treatment I needed, although he was unable to treat me himself. I have had so sign of cancer for over 18 months. All of the treatments and the holoestic methods he mandiated at the clinic were wonderful. God blessed all that he did for those of us who experienced his vision and treatments. Thank God for his life and the wonderful staff at the clinic who are now charged with continuing the vision.
Karen Daddario R.N.
April 6, 2010
Dr. Ellis was such an amazing man. I had the honor of working with him at Williamsburg commmunity and the new hospital for 8 years. The last 4 on the oncology floor. He was such an inspiration in providing personalized quality care to all his patients. He was loved and cherished by many. He has touched soooo many. Welome home dear friend. Welcome home!
Norma Bateman
April 6, 2010
I met Dr. Ellis at a cancer support group at my church, Smith Memorial Baptist where I learned first hand of his dedication to finding a cure for cancer, helping his patients achieve a longer more rewarding life. I was deeply touched by his own personal experience with cancer as a child. He was a blessing to so many of his patients & I'm sure to his family & friends. May God grant you his peace during this time. Sincerely, Norma
April 6, 2010
My deepest sympathy go out to Lynn and the family. It is such a great pleasure to have worked with and for a very caring man. I am very honered to be a part of the PCI family. Peace and Blessings. Jocelyn Forrest-PCI NN
Margie Branscome
April 6, 2010
There is sadness on earth today but Oh, the joy in heaven. All the patients Dr. Ellis cared for who have passed on will get to see him again! I was a patient of his 14 years ago and I never met a more caring physician. He truly loved his patients and the love was returned tenfold. Goodby Mark, we will miss you!
Joyce Grunewald
April 6, 2010
There are so many hearts Mark touched & left behind that will always carry the memory of his smile, laughter, hope and healing. Thank you, Lynn, for encouraging and supporting Mark in all he did to make a difference in all the lives he touched.
April 6, 2010
When coming to terms with a diagnosis, what a relief to meet Dr. Ellis who immediately gave reassurances while chatting with the patients he loved. We are so grateful for his positive presence in our lives. Our sympathy to his family on the loss of a great
"person."
Ginny and Bob Zimmermann, Williamsburg
Starr Pate
April 6, 2010
Mere words cannot express the sadness at the loss of one of the finest men I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.
He walked me thru my darkest days with love, wit and hope.
I know his legacy will live on in the hearts and minds of all those that were fortunate to have known him.
Heaven has truly gained a perfect jewel that will shine for all eternity.
Gil Monell
April 6, 2010
Dear Lynn and family...Thanks for letting us have so much of Dr. Ellis' energy, time care, love and hope. His personal care for all of us got us past the downside of chemo and radiation. He was always our "upside" and will be greatly missed.
Ron Phillips
April 6, 2010
Of all the physicians I have known, Dr. Ellis was the most caring man who always put the patient first. He worked with me and with God's help, my cancer was cured. God's gain is definitely our loss. God bless his family and his practice. Ron Phillips
Patricia Dressler
April 6, 2010
Dear Ellis Family,
What an honor and blessing it is to have had the opportunity to know Dr. Ellis! My husband, Bob, was a patient of another doctor in his practice, but it was Dr. Ellis who always went out of his way to speak with Bob, asking how he was doing; and...he really listened. Dr. Ellis is the most compassionate and caring doctor I've ever met. My husband often told me that just to see his smile made a difference in his life. The Williamsburg community will never be the same, but he will always be lovingly remembered by his patients and their families. God bless you and may you have many happy memories of your times together. Dr. Ellis certainly has a special place in heaven with our Lord.
Barbara Chapman
April 6, 2010
Dr. Ellis was a very special doctor. I knew he cared about me as he did all his patients. God bless all of you.
Brenda Taylor
April 6, 2010
My sincere condolences to the Ellis family. Dr. Ellis was a man of integrity, compassion, joy and wisdom. I thank God for the life he lived and the lives he helped and touched. God Bless You.
April 6, 2010
Our sincere sympathy goes to the entire Ellis family and a heartfelt "Thank You" for sharing him with us.
Dr. Ellis always made me feel as if I was his only patient. He supported us as we met the challenges of two different cancers in 2 years. He listened to our fears, prescribed the right medication and care, while always giving us hope as we met every challenge as a team. We will miss the famous "Ellis" hug.
We know there are many, many people struggling to put into words what this dear man meant to all of us.
Rest in Peace Dear Friend. God Bless
All our Love
Dennis & Patty Ogorzaly
Williamsburg
Debra Deiulio
April 6, 2010
You will always live in our hearts and prayers. I will never forget the big hugs, your shining smile, and the great conversations we had. I am honored and blessed to have had you as a doctor. My prayers and sympathy go out to your family.
Teresa Baker
April 6, 2010
I knew Dr. Ellis professionally as well as having been a patient of his. He was truly a remarkable person as well as physician and the medical community, and Williamsburg as a whole, have truly suffered a loss.
Terri Christin
April 6, 2010
I am so sorry for this terrible loss to Lynn and his family and to our community. When I think of Mark, I think of that big smile and that big compassionate heart he shared with those less fortunate.
Mark was greatly respected, loved and admired and he deserved it all. He will be missed.
April 6, 2010
Mrs. Ellis and family,
It is such an honor to be apart of the PCI team that Dr. Ellis has created. Dr. E's legacy will live on each and everyday thru us and all the lives he has touched. God has truly called "our" angel home.
Shannon-PCI Gloucester
Barbara Whitt
April 6, 2010
suffering with Ling Cancer. I remember his Football Team as being the Redskins! Dr Ellis Touched many Hearts. May he RIP
Donna Vaughn
April 6, 2010
We have lost a compassionate, loving, and selfless individual who will be sorely missed by many. He stands now, however, free of the disease he helped so many to fight. I cannot help but believe that Dr. Ellis will be richly rewarded for the love and strength he gave to so many. May his family have peace in knowing and embracing the love and respect he earned while he was with us. You are all in my prayers.
Dianne Wesley
April 6, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of this great man leaving us, but he is with GOD and we will see him again. My thoughts and prayers for the family.
Dianne Wesley
Beverley Dye
April 6, 2010
He was a wonderfull Dr. and will really be missed.
Vickie & Terry Cullins
April 6, 2010
As a patient of the Peninsula Cancer Insitute, I was humbled by his vision to provide holistic services to his patients. It is apparant by the way I and the other patients were treated that his staffed embraced his vision. I am truly sadden at his passing and I am hopeful that his family will bask in his love and be warmed by his courage. May God bless the Ellis family and the Peninsula Cancer Institute staff. Vickie R. Williams- Cullins, Breast Cancer Annhil8tor
Marla Bell
April 6, 2010
To Lynn, Mark Jr, Lisa and Robbie,
I feel honored to have had the chance to work for such a wonderful, caring person. I will miss his smile. May prayers are with you and his DREAM will live on!!!
With Love,
Marla (PCI-Wmbg)
A grateful parent
April 6, 2010
My deepest condolences to the Ellis family. I always felt that the time we spent with Dr. Ellis was as healing as the chemo treatments my daughter received. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Mertis McMillan
April 6, 2010
Dear Lynn and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 6, 2010
To the Ellis Family,
I know that Mark was loved by all his patients. But I can only try to describe what he has ment to me. Simple works cannot express what Mark ment to Sue and me. In the past I have tried to describe him to others and referred to him as "Gods Second Son". I don't know much about the technical side of oncology, but I know I couldn't have gotten by the past two years without Mark Ellis. He gave us hope when none seemed to exist. He was positive when there was no reason to be. He gave me six months with the love of my life that I wouldn't have had without him. I can say without reservation that I loved Mark Ellis. If a life should ever be celebrated it is Mark's.
Bill Casto
Jean Skorupa
April 6, 2010
Dr. Ellis helped treat my husband many years ago. I will always remember his kind way of talking with him and my family. He was a special doctor and person. Thank you for sharing him with us. You and your family are in the prayers of many I am sure. Please take comfort in that.
Bob & Sandy Renner
April 6, 2010
With our most heartfelt and sincere condolences on the loss of a great healer and compassionate, caring gentleman.
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