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Michelle BANFIEL Obituary

HAMPTON - Michelle Brady Banfiel, 28, born Nov. 12, 1981, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Jan. 6, 2010.
She is survived by her husband of 10 years, Roland Banfiel; daughter, Hannah Banfiel; parents, Frank David and Lisa Ward; sister, Kaylen Ward; and three grandparents. Also surviving are her in-laws, John and Cindy Banfiel; Robert Banfiel and a host of cousins, aunts and uncles.
A celebration of Michelle's life will be 3 p.m. Saturday at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home in downtown Hampton by Pastor John A. Downs.
The family wishes expressions of sympathy to take the form of contributions to the Peninsula SPCA, 523 J. Clyde Morris Blvd, Newport News, VA 23601.
Arrangements are by R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 245 S. Armistead Ave, in Hampton, 757-723-3191. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Jan. 8 to Jan. 9, 2010.

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Laura Girdler

January 2, 2020

Another New Years has passed , and I still remember our child hood as if it was yesterday. You will always be in my memories and I will never forget you ❤
You were a true friend when I had no one else . Thank you for always being there , to celebrate my birthdays and experiencing our first loves . Time flies way to fast miss you

Ce Ann Phillips

January 20, 2010

Michelle I will never forget you! You will forever and always be in my heart! My prayers go out for you Mama Ward and Papi I Love both always

Laura Creekmur

January 17, 2010

I know with life, we all take our roads. And being that I am military I just found out the hardest way that my best friend growing up passed. I am truely sorry to hear about your loss.She will always be remembered in my heart. I remember long nights sitting up playing Rummie and calling Z104. The good times when we where young. She was a friend when no one else was. More like a a sister to me. If you ever need anything please call or e-mail. [email protected] 931-431-4336.

Nola Ruppard

January 14, 2010

I can't imgine the loss of a child, or spouse. I have experienced the loss of many. May time and family and well-meaning friends help you through this time of sadness and loss.
My deepest sympathies to those closest to Michelle. May God help you find peace in your memories and his love.

Darlene Whitaker

January 12, 2010

What I remembered the most was your smile. The nights you walked in the cold just to visit for an hour. The nights we sat up late and just talked. And how you got us to have family nights. You were like a daughter to me and you will be greatly missed. Hannah,I will not forget you. So be strong. I love you.

Jennifer Beckley

January 11, 2010

roland, hannah david and lisa
sorry to hear about the death of michelle. I knew her in high school she was down to earth person and she was a very good friend. I will keep you and the family in my thoughs and prayer. now she is watching over all of us if you guys need anything let me know

Margit Price

January 11, 2010

Lisa,
I am so sorry to hear about Hannah's Mom and your beautiful daughters death. My prayers are with you and your family during this time. I will keep you all in my thoughts. Remember the pain will go away, but the memories will last forever!!

Love,
Margit Price
Retired 911 Dispatcher

Jason Eder

January 11, 2010

Roland I didnt know your wife but im sure she was the best. Im sorry to hear about your loss and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Eydie & Earl Douglas

January 11, 2010

Lisa & Dave,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

THERE IS NO PAIN WORSE THAN THE PAIN OF LOSING A CHILD. IT'S NOT RIGHT FOR A PARENT TO OUTLIVE HER CHILD.

I'm sorry to say I understand the pain in your heart, your head ... your disbelief, then acceptance, regrets, and tears. I'm a good listener, cause I've been there. If you need to talk, or anything else, please call me.

I believe I will see Ben again.

I also believe that Michelle is at complete peace, and you will see her again as well...in God's good time.

Until then, I pray you all can find comfort in remembering the good times.

With Love and Sympathy,

Eydie & Earl

January 10, 2010

We always fought and said that we wanted 2 be the only child...well Michelle I didn't mean this way...i Love You very much and will never forget you!!! You are always in my heart and will never stop thinkin about you!!!!!! My promise 2 you is 2 help roland take care of hannah and thats what i'm going 2 do....!!!! Love you Always your sister Kay

Lisa Herbert

January 10, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Crystal Piel

January 10, 2010

I have moved away but Michelle and I have kept in touch through the years. I am truly and deeply saddened by the loss of her. She was a free spirit and kind through and through. I send my condolences to her family. Love you Chelle!

jeffrey vergakis

January 10, 2010

I had known you ever since 92 you were a really great friend and always be missed

Angela Booth

January 9, 2010

I remember when we were kids we would play house together. she would be the mom and kay and i were her daughters. it was a lot of fun. now we have all grown up and had real families of our own. I am truly sorry for the loss of michelle. she will be missed.

Lisa Perry

January 9, 2010

I have known Michelle since 3rd grade at Moton Elementary. Although time goes on and people grow apart, there was always the fact that we were both mothers to girls that kept us together. She is missed more than she ever could know.

Candi

January 9, 2010

I am so sorry for the loss. She will be missed. I love everyone. This is a hard death i grew up with her like a sister even though we are cousins and my kids are now growing up with her daughter.

Danielle Hamby

January 9, 2010

Lisa and David,

I'am so sad for your loss. Even though it has been many years I remember you both as wonderful parents. May god ease your pain with time.

George Martin

January 8, 2010

our prayers are with your family and michelle. she a great person with an amazing soul. rip

Tommy

January 8, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Jessica Smitley

January 8, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of such a wonderful and free spirited person. She will be missed by so many. God is blessed to have her as a angel in heaven now. I am sure she will be watching over all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Laurie Nelson

January 8, 2010

Lisa,
You & your family are in our thoughts. Words cannot express enough how sorry we feel for your loss. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask. Love Laurie & Howard Nelson

Jennifer Davis

January 8, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers of many are with you during this time of sorrow. If you or the family need anything, you know where to find us.

January 8, 2010

Lisa, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May the Lord's loving arms embrace all of you and help you through this trying time. God has called home one of his angels.

Liz Damant

Gina Hudson

January 8, 2010

Michelle and my daughters, Kim and Lisa were friends in school. She was such a respectful sweet young lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Myia Baker

January 8, 2010

I knew Michelle since middle school and she was an amazing friend. She was a wonderful and beautiful person, God was ready for His angel to come home may she always watch over you. She will forever be in our hearts. My prayers will continually be with the family.

jessica hunt

January 8, 2010

i knew Michelle way back in middle school. i am so sorry for your loss. i will always remember the good times we had laughing in school being crazy!! once again i am so sorry, i know her spirit is in a better, beautiful place.

January 8, 2010

Lisa,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

Ann Davis
Circuit Court

Maria Tisdale

January 8, 2010

Lisa Ward the City of Newport News Sends our condolences and our prayers go out to you and your family. We are here for you if you need us. Maria A. Tisdale Engineering.

Tammy Dixon

January 8, 2010

Lisa and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.

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