Search by Name

Search by Name

Nancy OFFAN Obituary

HAMPTON - Nancy Wells Offan, 74, passed away on Sunday, Nov. 29, 2009.
Nancy was a native of Leonia, N.J., and former resident of Seaford, Va. Nancy and her husband, Col. Ken Offan (Retired U.S. Army) started to travel the country in their RV in 2000, and traveled to every state, except for Maine, which they had planned to do before Nancy's health declined in September 2009.
While living in Seaford, Nancy was a dental hygienist for Dr. Sidney Becker and other area dentists, and also at the Naval Weapons Station. She enjoyed raising and breeding Sealyham Terriers and was past President of the Colonial Terrier Club. She was a volunteer with Habitat for Humanity, and enjoyed quilting, which will be carried on by her daughters.
She was preceded in death by her son, John Patterson and is survived by her loving husband of 25 years, Ken Offan; two sons, Danny Patterson of New Paltz, N.Y., and Mike Patterson of Portland, Ore.; four daughters, Cathy Lee and her husband, Dan of Burke, Va., Mimi Van Horn and her husband, Mark of Harahan, La., Margie Offan of Harahan, La., and Julie Gideon and her husband, Alan of Bristow, Va. She is also survived by her former husband, Don Patterson of New York; two brothers, Ted Wells of Lakeland, Fla., and Welton Wells of Nashville, Tenn.; a sister-in-law, Muriel Offan of Thibodaux, La.; eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.
A memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, Dec. 5, 2009, at 11 a.m. at St Joan of Arc Catholic Church in Yorktown. The family will receive friends 1 hour prior to the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Heifer International P.O. Box 8058, Little Rock, Arkansas 72203-8058. www.heifer.org.
Arrangements by Amory Funeral Home, Grafton. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Press from Dec. 2 to Dec. 4, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Nancy OFFAN

Not sure what to say?





December 4, 2009

Ken,
We're so sorry to hear of Nancy's passing. We and our parents all have fond memories of visits over the years with Nancy, you and the dogs. We appreciate all the help and support you and Nancy have given us. We wanted to attend the Mass also but have previous obligations we cannot break. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Shelley, Phil, & Matt Miller; Fredericksburg, VA
Betty & Jerry Masten; Roanoke, VA
Aileen & Art Miller; Crystal River, FL

Lynne Ward

December 3, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Nancy's passing. She was a wonderful person and will be missed. I have fond memories of the fun we had at the CTC events and visiting the motor home during Montgomery weekend! Our bond was our love of terriers! Take Care,

December 3, 2009

Dear Ken, I am so sorry to learn of Nancys passing.
She was a wonderful Sealy person and they have welcomed her into Heaven.
I will have a Mass said for her.
Sincerely,
Ken Mader Palm Bay, FL

Amy Soper

December 3, 2009

Ken: Words cannot express adequately how shocked and sorrowed I am to learn of Nancy's passing - you must be utterly bereft. You and she had a very special relationship - a true marriage. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Amy Soper

Meg Lockwood

December 2, 2009

I am sorry for your loss. I enjoyed my time training and enjoying dogs with Nancy. It was a pleasure to know her and see her love for her Sealyams.

Worth Wells

December 2, 2009

Aunt Nancy Lou will forever be missed. I have fond memories of visiting Ken and Nancy at their home in Seaford, VA when I was a child. She was a very caring and gracious host and aunt.

December 2, 2009

Dear Ken,
Nancy will be missed by the CTC family very much. I wanted to attend the Mass but had already made arrangements for Saturday morning. I have had her and you and now the family on the prayer list at my Monday night Bible Study. I will continue to remeber all of you in the upcoming days.
Sincerely,
Anne Clark

Showing 1 - 7 of 7 results

Make a Donation
in Nancy OFFAN's name

Memorial Events
for Nancy OFFAN

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Nancy's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Nancy OFFAN's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more