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Wayne AHNER Obituary

SEAFORD - Wayne Arthur Ahner, 62, passed away suddenly on Thursday, April 29, 2010, at Mary Immaculate Hospital.
Wayne was born Feb. 14, 1948, in Hampton to the late Bill and Grace Ahner. He lived there until the love of his life moved him to the "country" in Seaford. Wayne was a 1969 graduate of Hampton High School and was so proud to be a part of the "Marching 100" as a Tuba player. He was a die-hard Crabber fan all his life.
Wayne was employed as a welder and safety inspector at Newport News Shipbuilding for 20 years. He continued his career in 1992 as an assistant manager for the East Coast Oil Convenience Store in Williamsburg for 12 years. Since 2004, he has enjoyed being retired, traveling and taking care of his family. He never missed a chance to go. His favorite place away from home was Dover Downs, where he enjoyed playing the penny slots.
Wayne was a loving husband, father, and friend to many. He was an avid sportsman, with bowling being his "heart and soul." He started bowling at an early age while working as a pin spotter at the old Wythe Lanes in Hampton. He joined his first league in 1969 at the former Circle Lanes and for the next 42 years, he bowled in at least one league a week, and sometimes more. He belonged to the Hampton Roads Men's Association, VA State Bowling Association, and the USBC National Association. He loved tournament bowling at all levels, and bowled in the ABC National Tournament for 25 years. He was a member of Paul and Linda's NABI Club for many years and competed in the local weekly events and NABI Nationals in Las Vegas.
Wayne loved all sports, but was partial to "Crabber Football" and York Basketball. He would travel far and wide to support these programs. His last big trip was to watch the York Girl's Basketball team play in the State Tournament in Richmond. If not at Hampton or York, he was watching some sport on TV at home.
Wayne was a former member of Moose Lodge #1119 of Newport News. He would play golf no matter the weather, with his Moose buddies. He even played on snow, with colored balls.
Wayne was a man of his word, and a loyal friend to many. He will be sorely missed by his family and those who have shared his ailments throughout the years. He fought a long and tough battle with many ailments.
Wayne is survived by his wife, Norma Johnson Ahner; son, Ashby Franklin Ahner of Seaford; brother, William Ahner and his wife, Kathy of Summerville, S.C.; aunt, Betty Eisenbach and her husband, Gerald of Walnutport, Pa.
A funeral service and celebration of Wayne's life will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, May 3, 2010, in the chapel of Amory Funeral Home, Grafton. Interment will follow in Peninsula Memorial Park. The family will receive friends from 3 to 5 p.m. Sunday, May 2, in the funeral home, and the residence at other times.
The family requests that memorial donations be made to York County Fire & Rescue/ Life & Safety, P.O. Box 532, Yorktown, VA 23692; or to the American Diabetes Association, 1701 North Beauregard Street, Alexandria, VA 22311. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from May 1 to May 5, 2010.

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Sharon Cheek

May 10, 2010

Norma,
Teresa just told me of your loss yesterday. I am so sorry to hear about Wayne. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sharon Hogge Cheek

Charles Torian

May 10, 2010

I was deeply saddened to learn of Wayne's death. Though I haven't seen him since about 1972, I remember his deep love for the Hampton High School Band and the joy and enthusiasm with which he played the Tuba and Sousaphone. Even after he graduated he came to chaperone nearly every event the band participated in. He hauled equipment and took care of the kids in the band just as if he were the band director. He has a particular place in my heart and I mourn his loss.

Charles Torian

May 5, 2010

Mrs. Ahner -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Amy Smith
YHS Class of '88

Ann Thomas

May 4, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. May God watch over you and your family.

Fred & Wanda Holland

May 4, 2010

Norma and Ashby:

We are so sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. What great memories we have of bowling with y'all, especially moonlight bowling at Circle Lanes, and breakfast at Waffle House.

Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

chuck thomas

May 3, 2010

I always enjoyed bowling nabi with wayne . I know he will be missed

Joanne Miller

May 3, 2010

Norma and Ashby.
So very sorry for you loss of Wayne--I will miss seeing you both out for your walk and his ride on Landing Rd-he will be sorely missed
Joanne Miller

May 3, 2010

Norma and Ashby,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. MAy God bless you both.
Jill(Buh-Buh's sister) and
Billy Strickland

Scott and Sarah Golightly

May 3, 2010

Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. It was my privilege to know Wayne, and he will be missed by many.

Helen & Tom (Aunt Bucky & Uncle Tom) West

May 3, 2010

Norma & Ashby, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Wayne has been a very big part of everyone lives that he has come in contact with. It has been a pleasure to have known him in our younger days in Copeland Park and later years as adults.

Megan Dye

May 3, 2010

To Norma and Ashby,

My thoughts and prayers will remain with you through these tough times. Wayne had an amazing spirit in the little bit of time I got to be around him and he will truly be missed.

If you need anything just let me know!

May 3, 2010

Norma & Ashby,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts.
Mike & Shannon Firman

Barbara Hurt Banton

May 3, 2010

Wayne was a big part of our family growing up on Hill Street, and he will always be a special person to us. Norma, I know the loss is great, but please know that Wayne is free of pain and suffering and will continue to look out for you and Ashby. May God bless you both with wonderful memories of Wayne.

Ron Michaud

May 3, 2010

Norma, Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the family. If there is anything we can do, please call!

Ron & Candy Michaud

Walker and Jacci Harmon

May 3, 2010

Dear Norma and Ashby, Walker and I were so sorry to hear of Waynes passing away. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. May God richly Bless you and hold you in his arms to guide you through this difficult time.
Jacci and Walker Harmon
Former Zion Members

May 2, 2010

To the Ahner Family,
So sorry for your loss, has been 45 years but we still remember Wayne and Bill on the corner at Hill St.
Donnie & Beth & Ronnie Fromal-hampton
(the Clifton St. twins been a long time)

May 2, 2010

Norma, I was so sorry to learn of Wayne's death. Although I really didn't know him I certainly remember him faithfully watching you bowl. It is a wonderful obituary in the paper this morning. He must have been quite a guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sheila Geiger (Owls)

Karen Haugen

May 2, 2010

Norma & Ashby,
Sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. He will be greatly missed. Just hasn't been the same at bowling these past couple of weeks without you both there. No matter what, Wayne always had a smile on his face. I will keep you and Ashby in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike Leonard

May 2, 2010

Norma & Ashby,
I am so sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. Not only is it your loss, but everyone at York lanes too. We will miss Wayne "riding up and down" the lanes checking out how we were bowling. He always had that big smile and a good wisecrack. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Allison Hagerman-West

May 2, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Erin Ginn-Ferdon

May 1, 2010

Mrs.Ahner and Ashby .. We are so sorry to hear bout Mr.Ahner. We are thinking about you guys our heart goes out to your family. Love The GInn Family (Nancy,Bob,Brian and Erin)

May 1, 2010

I'm terribly sorry to hear of Wayne's passing...from years past, I'll always remember him for wagging that sousaphone around in school band, never complaining, and always having fun. So even after all this time my memory of him stayed intact and will remain so in the future.May God's grace and love always be with his family. Joe White

Debbie Groce

May 1, 2010

I'm sorry. I'll miss you. You were a funny man.

russell anderson

May 1, 2010

my heart goes out to the ahnber family. Stay strong

Judy Golightly

May 1, 2010

Norma and Ashby, my thoughts and prayers are with you both. You know I loved Wayne and a lot of folks will miss him greatly. Wish I could be with you but know my heart is there.

Dawn Campbell

May 1, 2010

Norma and Ashby,

I don't know how to begin to describe how much Wayne meant to me. Growing up your family played a critical role in my bowling, and I am very grateful for that. Wayne always had something to say, sometimes it was a smart remark, but he never put anyone down. He always had a positive attitude, even though he may have been having a rough time. Having him root us on at City Tournament was wonderful this past February. He always tried to make things fun. There are many memories that I will cherish forever. Ashby, you are one of my best friends, and I am here for you and Norma. You guys are very special, and it's going to be tough not seeing Wayne cheer as on, but he will always be with us in spirit.

Lesley Ramey

May 1, 2010

Norma and Ashby, I am so sorry for your loss. I can remember Wayne always "riding" by in the bowling alley and giving Rick, me and the guys a hard time! He was always smiling no matter what....I am truly sorry.

Jay & Becky Hollis

May 1, 2010

Norma & Ashby,
Our hearts broke when we heard about Wayne. You both will be in our thoughts and prayers.We were so glad that we saw him in March. He will be deeply missed.

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