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Leander Gilliam Obituary

HAMPTON - Leander Fred Gilliam, 57, departed this earthly home on Saturday, October 5, 2013. "Fred," as he was affectionately called, was born on August 12, 1956. He was preceded in death by his father, Walter Gilliam; siblings Elma, Gail, and Anthony Gilliam. Fred leaves to cherish his memories: his mother, Nancy Mae Gilliam; children, Ebony Cooper, Angel Warfield, and Monica Bell; siblings, Walter Gilliam, Jr., Nancy Whitaker, Clara Marshall, Charlene Gilliam, Thomas Gilliam, and Milo Gilliam; aunts, Shirley Reynolds and Brenda Wright; six grandchildren, a host of relatives and faithful friends. A memorial service will be held Friday, October 18, at 2:00 p.m. at New Hope Baptist Church, 1415 Big Bethel Rd. The family has entrusted the arrangements to C.C. Carter Funeral Home of Newport News.

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Published by Daily Press on Oct. 16, 2013.

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Sylvia Freeman

October 23, 2013

Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time... as a friend of my brothers, i remember years ago when Leander worked on my car when i had no money to take it to the shop. That blessing was heartfelt and appreciated. God's healing power bestowed upon your family.

James Elder

October 22, 2013

Just found out about Fred a few days ago. Man that hurt. Always love you man! - RIP. (James "LDOG" Elder).

Nancy Gilliam-Whitaker

October 22, 2013

A message to my brother

I thank God for making you my brother
I thank God for the last month with you
I thank God for taking you out of your pain and suffering
I thank God for the beautiful smile that he gave you that I will
always remember
Rest in peace my brother until we meet again
You last words to me I will always remember “ God Got This”

Your sister Nancy

“Baby Sister” as you called me

It took me until today to read and view your obituary

REST IN PEACE MY BROTHER

Nancy Whitaker

October 22, 2013

A message to my brother

I thank God for making you my brother
I thank God for the last month with you
I thank God for taking you out of your pain and suffering
I thank God for the beautiful smile that he gave you that I will
always remember
Rest in peace my brother until we meet again
You last words to me I will always remember “ God Got This”

Your sister Nancy

“Baby Sister” as you called me

It took me until today to read and view your obituary

REST IN PEACE MY BROTHER

October 22, 2013

A message to my brother

I thank God for making you my brother
I thank God for the last month with you
I thank God for taking you out of your pain and suffering
I thank God for the beautiful smile that he gave you that I will
always remember
Rest in peace my brother until we meet again
You last words to me I will always remember “ God Got This”

Your sister Nancy

“Baby Sister” as you called me

It took me until today to read and view your obituary

REST IN PEACE MY BROTHER

Nancy Whitaker

October 22, 2013

The family Of Leander ”Fred” Gilliam would like to thank you all for all acts of love and kindness during this difficult time. It was the support of friends; family, neighbors, and co-worker that have helped our family get through this very difficult time. Thank you again for all acts of kindness and for your love and prayer. Continue to keep us in your prayer.
May “Fred's Beautiful Smile Live on forever. The “Gilliam” Family.

Marvis Pounds

October 21, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Leander was such a quiet sweet person. I pray that God will comfort and give the family strength to endure during this difficult time.

Robin Branch

October 21, 2013

I just found out last night and im sorry for your loss. Can you call me at (757)528-9386-cell or (757)240-2180-house when you get a chance , thank you

the Lewis family

October 19, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 19, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Debra Peterson

October 19, 2013

My Prayers go out to the family..

Jonathan Wells

October 18, 2013

May "GOD" Peace and Comfort be with you always in your loss.

Peace and Blessings!

October 18, 2013

Hello Family,
This is Angela Dyke/Thomas family used to live across the street on the corner. May God continue to strength your family. Every one take care of yourself. Angela Anita & Michael/Thomas Family

Kesha Porter

October 18, 2013

Milo and family:

Our deepest condolences as you mourn the passing of your loved one.

Robert S. & Kesha P.

October 18, 2013

To the Gilliam Family, Our Deepest Sympathy! Our Prayers are with You!
Ronnie and Kay Harrison

Deborah Hudson

October 18, 2013

Leander was such a wonderful person--he always brightened everyone's day! We love him and miss him but we will see him again in heaven!

Kathy Hope-Tate

October 18, 2013

To the Gilliam Family. I will always remember Leanders smile. May God Bless You All!

reynolds' family

October 18, 2013

the girls, grandkids and I will truly miss our "SNOOPY" thank GOD for a man like you that entered into our lives n made a world of difference to us all.

Marcia Slade-Wilson

October 18, 2013

To the Gilliam Family:

May you find comfort and strength in the Lord during this time. Cherish the memories of your love one and hold them dear to your heart.

Daphne (Jeter) Jackson

October 17, 2013

My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

michelle long

October 17, 2013

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

MONICA

October 17, 2013

daddy i am going to miss you so much but i know you are in a better place and that you will be watching over R.I.P MY SWEET DADDY Love you babygirl

Harold Smith

October 17, 2013

You will truly be missed and friend and mechanic.. To the family, dont grieve, celebrate the life of a truly unique person..

Dr. Jean Lyons

October 17, 2013

To Reverend Clara Marshall and famiy you have my love and prayers. Stay encouraged and continue to hold on to God's unchanging hands. I will continue to pray for our families.

Bonnie Tingle

October 17, 2013

My dear Leander, I recognized your picture in the newspaper before I read your name. You were in my 4th grade class at Aberdeen Elementary School. You, I remember very well. You lived with joy and enthusiasm. I can still hear you singing: Hand me down; Hand me down my walking cane. Mrs. Wilson was our room mother, and she brought us a Christmas tree for our classroom. I can still see(vividly) your hands as you used pliers to tighten the screws in its stand. If personality could be measured in square inches, you had more per square inch than anyone I can think of. You have no idea how many times over the years I have thought of you. You have been a gift to me (and to many others I should imagine), and I am grateful to have had you in my life. You and all my students have been in my daily prayers for half a century. May your soul and the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, rest in peace. My love and condolences to your family, Bonnie Tingle

Debra Harrelson-Williams

October 17, 2013

To the Family,May God BLESS You All. My Angel keep your head up another angel watching over you. I love you all.(Ms. Debra)

OSCAR AND RENEE ELLIS

October 17, 2013

TO THE GILLIAM FAMILY,
MAY GOD GIVE YOU STRENGTH TO KEEP YOUR HAND IN HIS HAND CAUSE HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU.WE LOVE YOU ALL

Pamela Dixon-Ellis

October 17, 2013

You will be truly missed

Pamela Dixon-Ellis

October 17, 2013

This has come to a great shock to our family. The Gilliams are very good friends of our family I'm so sorry to hear of your lost may God be with your family during this difficult time.

Love you.
Pamela R Dixon-Ellis.

Mac and Brenda Stewart

October 16, 2013

May The God of all comfort, comfort you all. We pray that God will give you'll strength to face the days ahead. Grace, Peace and Joy be unto you all. Love.

Larry & Deborah Davis

October 16, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person and friend. Fred will be missed and never forgotten by our family.

YOLANDA KELLER

October 16, 2013

GILLIAM FAMILY, WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. CRAIG AND YOYO

The Simmons and Lee Family

October 16, 2013

I am so sorry for your lose ...I was blessed to have the chance to met a person so rare with such a kind heart as Fred ..He will be deeply missed.

Grant Family

October 16, 2013

To the Gilliam family My heart so go out to you all. May God grant you all peace, comfort, and healing. In Jesus name.

October 16, 2013

To the Gilliam family, may you remember the good times, and may they bring you peace. May the Lord of peace be with you at this time of great lost. My prayers are with you. My deepest sympathy, Liz Salter
Liz Salter (friend of Nancy whittker

Henry Mitchell

October 16, 2013

So Sorry To Hear Of Your Loss.

May GOD Bless Your Family During This time.

Myra Joyner

October 16, 2013

Leander, will be missed by all who knew and loved him. Beautiful soul.

Robert Sneed

October 16, 2013

To the Family of Leander Fred Gilliam, our deepest condolences. May God comfort you at this time.

Eric Long

October 16, 2013

It is with sadness in our hearts that we express sympathy to Fred's family. Fred was a longtime friend to our family. We pray that his family will find some comfort in knowing that he no longer has to suffer the trials of this world and pray for peace and presence in the House of The Lord. May God hold you all close at this time & Forever.

Norman/Sharon Younger

October 16, 2013

Our prayers are with the Gillam Family.

Al (Junie) & Marie Clark

October 16, 2013

On my many trips to Hampton...it seems I would always see Leander. I will miss that. May God bless the Gilliam family.

JR Peterson

October 16, 2013

I did not know Fred, however he was a close friend to my brother (Tony) and my family has loss family members over the years, so I feel how weak and fruitless must be any word of mine which should attempt to beguile anyone from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering to everyone the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the many people's lives he touched. I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave everyone only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be for the time you spent with him.

Anita Little

October 16, 2013

To the entire family and to Angel, know that Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. Jayelisa and I are praying for you all.

Tyrone Grant

October 16, 2013

A loss of the highest order; a privilege to have known a good guy; many memorable days hanging out with Leander at "the Little Store;" until we will meet again.

KEVIN JOHNSON

October 16, 2013

MY PRAYERS TO THE GILLIAM FAMILY, LEANDER WAS A GREAT FRIEND OF MIND, WE HAD A LOT OF LAUGHTER TOGETHER AND A LOVE FOR CARS, SOMETHING THAT I WILL MISS GREATLY ... RIP MY BROTHER.

Christina Green

October 16, 2013

My prayers go out to the Family.

The Wheeler Family

Bernadette Frierson

October 16, 2013

There's no word that can express how sorry we are to hear about the death of Leander. We were very stunned to hear this news and still can't believe that it really happened. During this difficult moment, our thoughts and prayers are always with you. We love you and God Bless. From: Aunt Shirley, cousin Tony, Bernetta, Bernadette and Grady.

Thurl & Valerie Tynes

October 16, 2013

As you mourn for your loved one; know the comfort of God shall get you through this difficult time.

sanchos bowles

October 16, 2013

To my friend may God bless u on your journey!

October 16, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

October 16, 2013

You were so good to so many people. You will be missed by all.May god bless you and your family, we love and miss you.
The Johnson Family

Brewster (Big Easy) Sansom

October 16, 2013

Nancy God bless you and your family at this time

Janea

October 16, 2013

Condolences to the family and friends in Leander's homegoing. Never saw him without a smile or without a willingness to help. May God bless his soul.

The Lipscomb Family

Lemont & Family Britt

October 16, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

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October 16, 2013

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