Steven John Faccenda

Steven John Faccenda

Steven Faccenda Obituary

Published by Daily Record on May 31, 2010.
STEVEN JOHN FACCENDA AGE: 53 HACKETTSTOWN Steve "Koto" Faccenda, 53, of Hackettstown passed away peacefully in the presence of family on Saturday, May 29, 2010 at Compassionate Care Hospice in Dover, NJ. Born in Morristown, Steve grew up in the Cedar Knolls section of Hanover Township and graduated from Whippany Park High School in 1975. While there he was a member of the football team that shared the 1974 Colonial Hills Conference title and was an all-conference kicker while also playing both offensive and defensive line. After high school he received an Associate's Degree in Graphic Arts from Chowan College in Murfreesboro, NC before becoming a professional photographer where he practiced his profession at Dennis Sawyer Photography in Bloomfield and Edmund M. Kramer Photographers in Florham Park. Steve also previously worked as a manager of the former Smile's Bar in Parsippany and Full House in Whippany; as a Quality Control Manager at Tiffany's in Parsippany; and most recently as a Regional Sales Manager for CAO International Inc., a Nashville, TN based cigar company. Steve was a founding member of a private internet based cigar enthusiast board called The Brotherhood of the Leaf, an avid photographer, enjoyed golf, playing softball on Zagursky's, watching the Yankees and Jets, and most of all, spending time with his family and friends. Steve is survived by his beloved wife of 17 years, Deborah Gifoli; his loving children, Steven Jr., Tim and Taryn; his parents, John and Dolores Faccenda of Hanover Twp.; his brother, Gary and his wife MaryLee of Denville and their children, Nick, Allison and Tyler; his sister, Madeline of Randolph; his sister-in-law, Fran Faccenda and her daughter Jaye of Boonton Twp. and many more nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins. Steve is also predeceased by his older brother, Jay Faccenda. Friends and relatives may call at the Bradley-Braviak Funeral Home 49 Whippany Rd. Whippany NJ, on Tuesday, June 1st from 2-4 & 7-9pm. A funeral mass will be held on Wednesday at Our Lady of Mercy Church in Whippany at 10:00 am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Steve's memory to an education fund set-up on behalf of his children would be greatly appreciated. Donations can be made to "The Steve Faccenda Children Education Fund". For more information or to send a condolence please visit www.bradleyfuneralhomes.com

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June 13, 2010

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June 11, 2010

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June 9, 2010

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June 13, 2010

We just heard the terrible news. David and I have lost a brother. Steve was a terrific photographer for us and his brides loved him. He was great photographing little league baseball and football....he really connected with the kids. His humor and laugh were unique. Our thoughts and prays are with him, Debbie, and the family.

Doug Kramer

Janice McGowan

June 11, 2010

My deepest sympathy to all of Steve's family. Steve was a great man with a big heart. I had the joy and privilege of working with Steve for 10 yrs. at Tiffany & Co. I will forever remember his laughter and humor.

Ann Essig-Marconi

June 9, 2010

Steve had such a great love for life as well as his family. I will miss the pictures. Even though it has been years since I've seen him I can still hear his laugh and see the boyish twinkle in his eye. My sincerest sympathy to Debbie and the children as well as his Mom, Dad and Gary. Steve was a special person and my prayers are with you all.

Sandy Fisher

June 7, 2010

My deepest condolances to Debbie and family, I worked with Steve at Tiffany and Co. His wit and humor and deep love for his family made him a wonderful person to know. He knew how to make people laugh. My prayers are with him and his family.

Ian Dunton

June 3, 2010

My condolances to the Faccenda family. May your hearts be lighter knowing that Steve was a great man that brought happiness and joy to those that he came into contact with. I'll miss you my friend!

Michael S. "Butch" Gregg

June 2, 2010

I was also a member of the Village Idiots internet cigar club. I met Steve on several occassions, and had the fortune of smoking a few cigars with him, as well as enjoying his wit and keen sense of humor through the online bulletin board.

I will sincerely miss him.

My thoughts and prayers go out to him and his survivors.

Lorraine Markey-Laufmann

June 2, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the entire Faccenda family. To me Steve was one of those "larger than life" people and I will always remember his kind spirit, infectious laugh, and good heart. He was the heart and soul of the "Class of 75". Rest in God's peace, Steve.

jackie

June 2, 2010

Rest in Peace Steve. God Bless Debbie and the children.

June 1, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Steve was a great guy. I knew him from Whippany Park High School - we were on the same bus together. Always ready with a smile and a hello every day. May your memories comfort you in this time of sorrow. Lucille Andaloro, Whippany Park Class of 1973.

Matt Morris

June 1, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Faccenda family. I will always remember the many good time that many of us shared with Steve during our High School years. We had many fun times together. He will be missed by our entire "class of 75".

Mike & Jean Pisano

June 1, 2010

We were saddened to hear about Steve's passing. He was a true gentleman who always had a kind word for my whole family. I enjoyed coaching football with him, and seeing him at many other events. Our thoughts and prayers are with Debbie and her children. Rest well Steve.

June 1, 2010

To the Faccenda Family - We are so sorry for our loss. Steve was a very nice man - and I've heard many people say as such. He will be missed. We'll keep you in our prayers. God Bless.

Rich Penk

June 1, 2010

I had the pleasure of knowing Steve thru our cigar store. He was a true class act with a big heart and a great sense of humor. Even when I moved to NC, we kept in touch every few months. My sincere and heartfelt condolences to his family and all who knew him. Rest in peace my friend, until we see each other again.

Dave Hoffman

June 1, 2010

May you be with God now my friend and suffering no more.

Richard D'Ambola

June 1, 2010

May the spirit of the Living God be with you and yours. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Faccenda Family.

Anthony, Mary Jo, & Sophie Elmo

June 1, 2010

Our Hearts go out to Debbie, Steve Jr, Tim ,Taryn. So sorry for your lose and all the pain you must all be feeling. There is a big void in out lives that can not ever be filled. He was a Good Man.

June 1, 2010

Mr & Mrs. Faccenda and the entire Faccenda family, You are in my thought and prayers at this very sad, sad time. I worked with Steve at Smiles, many many years ago, he was a wonderful boss. I have many many fond memories of steve, he truly was a good man with a heart of gold! He will truly be missed. Nancy (Arteglier) Garcia Randolph NJ

Al Wagner

June 1, 2010

Rest in peace my friend. Honored that I got to know you.

James Hughes

June 1, 2010

Our deepest condolences to the Faccenda family. Steve will always be in our hearts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Robin George-Goff

June 1, 2010

To the entire Faccenda family - I am saddened by the news of Steve. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Keep the memories of Steve close to your heart.

Jeffery Scharn

June 1, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. We never got to smoke a cigar together, but I could tell from his many postings on the Internet cigar bulletin boards that Stave was one of the good guys in the world. I had the opportunity to see many of the photos that Steve posted online, and he was a wonderful photographer. He will be missed.

Bryant Tiffany

June 1, 2010

My most sincere condolences to the Faccenda Family, Steve was truly a great person and will be deeply missed

Jan Rasmussen

June 1, 2010

I had the pleasure of smoking with Steve only a few times, he was always positive in spirit & attitude and a great BOTL. But you could tell right away.....I wish there were more people like him walking this earth. He will be greatly missed.

June 1, 2010

Another branch of the old Appletree has fallen. We had great memories growing up, you were always laughing. I'll miss you. Marty (29 Appletree Lane)

JoAnn

June 1, 2010

Deborah, I wish to extend my condolences to you and your entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. I believe I've met Steve many years ago from after work (at Bell Labs) visits to both Smiley's and Half Point where he worked. It's so sad when someone so young passes. I know this is a most difficult time for you and your family. I'd like very much to share a little something in writing that I found to be helpful in coping with loss. It's called "When Someone You Love Dies". Many people have said that it has helped them cope with their grief as well as gave them a positive hope for the future.

I'd be very happy to send you one. Please just answer me back via my email address sometime when you are feeling up to it.

Again, my deepest sympathy.

Ed Grasley

May 31, 2010

I am saddened by Steve's passing as I counted Steve as a good friend. I always came away a little better in spirit as Steve was so full of life. I pray that Debbie and their children can find comfort in the coming days knowing that Steve is at peace and that he lives on in memories of the heart.

Ed Grasley

May 31, 2010

I am saddened by Steve's passing as I counted Steve as a friend. I always parted company from Steve being a tad better in spirit as he was always full of life. One could not do better in life than to have known Steve and to have had his friendship. God Bless Steve and may Debbie and their children be comforted in these days ahead knowing Steve is at peace.

Bruce Horton

May 31, 2010

So long my friend, until we meet again.

Nancy (Capezzuto) Hildebrant

May 31, 2010

Steve, as the oldest of the grandchildren, I remember babysitting you and your brothers and sister. As cousins, we were all so close growing up. You were very good natured and full of love and laughter. To my dear Uncle John, Aunt Dee, Gary and Madeline, there are no words that will ease your pain, and to Steve's wife and kids, I pray that God will bless and comfort you in the days to come. Love you, Steve.

Anonymous Anonymous

May 31, 2010

God speed. You are a true BOTL.

RIP

Dawn Huff

May 31, 2010

Our hearts aches for all in the Faccenda family. You are all in our prayers. I know how much he loved you. Steve and I would talk about our family's for hours at a time when we worked together at Tiffany's. He was so proud to be a Faccenda. I will miss his occasional phone calls or e-mail.
Steve, Rest in peace.
Love, Robin and Dawn Huff and Family

Dave Shields

May 31, 2010

I was fortunate to meet Steve when we worked together at Tiffany & Company. We eventually became "lunch buddies", meeting in the cafeteria almost every day to share 45 minutes of conversation about all things from work to family to photography to sports. I remember Steve as a gentle giant with a big heart and a good sense of humor but little patience for B.S. I enjoyed our many conversations and grew to respect him as a man and devoted husband and father. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Bill (Racer) Miller

May 31, 2010

I was truly saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I knew him as a member of the Village Idiots internet cigar club. I met Steve in person during one of our many VIC's (Village Idiots' Conventions) at the JR Cigar store in Whippany, NJ. I remember when Steve got the job with C.A.O. Cigars. He couldn't have been happier. He was a wonderful man and a good friend that I am proud to have known. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. Rest In Peace Steve!

Jackie Kylander

May 31, 2010

Steve, you will be sorely missed. May light perpetual shine upon you and your rest be peaceful until we all meet again.

May 31, 2010

John and Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. John, I knew you when we worked at Beneficial. I had Jay as my music teacher in grammar school. I always came down to visit you in the barbar shop at the insurance company. God bless you and your family. My prayers and concern are with you.

Lori (Zeller) Ackley
Inverness, Florida

John Romano

May 31, 2010

The kindness Steve showed me over the years will never be forgoten.

John Romano Hewitt, NJ

Vince Lombardo

May 31, 2010

Steve and I shared many cigars in my shop and we talked about many things including the loss of my sister and my mom. He was always there for me and I have a hole in my heart. I have many great memories of Steve. He was a gentlemans gentleman and one of the few straight shooters in the cigar industry. My thoughts and prayers go out to Steves family and friends.

Nancy Faccenda

May 31, 2010

MY HEART IS BROKEN FOR MY AUNT & UNCLE AND ALL OF STEVE'S FAMILY. HE WAS SO LOVED BY ALL WHO MET HIM. YOU COULDN'T HELP BUT LOVE HIM. HE HAD A KINDNESS ABOUT HIM THAT ENDEARED HIM TO EVERYONE. I WILL MISS HIM SO VERY MUCH BUT HE WILL ALWAYS HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART. REST IN PEACE, STEVE. MAY GOD COMFORT AND BLESS ALL HIS FAMILY AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.

Raymond Grinere

May 31, 2010

The first thing I see when I think of Steve is his brilliant smile and throaty laugh. He always wanted to do the right thing serving the greater good and wishing nothing but the best for his friends. I enjoyed Steve's company, his good humor and wonderful spirit. There are not many guys like Steve and I am saddened by his passing.
Safe journey my friend, God Bless you.

May 31, 2010

Steven was a tremendous person and brought joy to our life when photographing our wedding and did a wonderful job. Always with a smile he could make you laugh on a bad day. God bless you my friend.
Jim & Debora Alvine

Rich Bulwicz

May 31, 2010

Always a great sense of humor and an asset to the Class of '75 who will always be missed. My prayers for the family.

Nora Hamulak

May 31, 2010

This is such lost. Steve was the kind and lovely person. I worked with him in Tiffany and Co and I asked him to be the photographer for my daugther's First Communion. I will have for ever a nice memory from all that wonderful pictures that he took. My prayers are with all the family. Nora Hamulak and Family (Rockaway, N.J)

Pat Harris

May 31, 2010

My sympaty and condolences goes out to Dee and Johnny whom are such wonderful people and to the rest of the family, his wife Debbie and his children, Steven was a wonderful person and he never missed giving me a big hug when we saw each other at work at Tiffany's he will surely be missed, Peace to him, he is now resting in Jesus arms. Pat Harris (Netcong) NJ

Miguel M. Schoedel

May 31, 2010

Rest my Friend. You will always be remembered by all of us that knew you. You made us all laugh year after year. I am glad to be able to have had the chance to work with you at CAO International. We will keep things going. Till we see you again.

Miguel M. Schoedel (Cincinnati, OH)

Kerry and Georgia Duncan

May 31, 2010

We will all miss Steve, he touched so many of our lives. Our thoughts are with you.

Steve Mazzuca

May 31, 2010

R.I.P Steve. Your humor and friendship will be greatly missed.

Michael Herklots

May 31, 2010

Steve, you brought a lot of joy to my life and many other lives. Despite the tough last year, your overwhelming positivity was inspiring, and your incredible love for your family was always quite clear. You'll be truly missed. My Prayers will be focused on your family.

Kathi Becker

May 31, 2010

This is such sad, sad news... I remember Steve from many years ago when his brother Jay played drums in a band with my late husband. Steve kept me company many times at their shows while the band was playing. He was a great guy and always so friendly and easy to talk to. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to his entire family.

Scott George

May 31, 2010

R.I.P. Steve you will be missed!
Glad i got to know you.

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