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Helen Steffes Obituary

Steffes, Helen, Athlete. Movie star. Hall of Fame Inductee. A woman never afraid to follow her heart and always willing to argue with an umpire. Helen Steffes, of Harper Woods, joined God’s team on September 13, 2014. Helen loved homegrown tomatoes, babies and women who knew how to throw a baseball. She hated the Detroit Lions during every losing season, always screaming instructions through the TV at whoever was coaching the Tigers and would stay up until all hours of the night watching every Red Wings game. As a devout Catholic and avid sports fan, Helen spent much of her youth writing “I will not play ball with the boys”, hundreds of times on the chalkboard in her Catholic grade school. Despite her parent’s wishes, in 1945, she began her professional athletic career with the All-American Girls Professional Baseball League. As a third baseman for the Rockford Peaches, as featured in the movie “A League of Their Own”. Helen won the World Series and played professional baseball until 1950. In 1951, she exchanged the baseball diamond for a diamond ring as she married Donald Steffes. She raised six children, while never revealing her groundbreaking contributions to the women’s sports history. In 1988, Helen was inducted into the National Baseball hall of Fame in Cooperstown, NY, along with her teammates. She dedicated her life to coaching young women, including her own two daughters, until her coaching career ended in 2010 at the age of 86. She is survived by her brother, Joseph Filarski; sons, Thomas, Robert, and Martin Steffes, daughter, Diane Grabowski; fifteen grandchildren and fourteen great- grandchildren; all of whom she could beat in a pick-up game of baseball until she was in her 80’s. She is eternally reunited with her husband and biggest fan, Donald and is predeceased by brothers, Richard and Cass Filarski; sisters, Jean (Leonard) Chrostowski, Alice (Gilbert) Dietzler, and Grace Filarski, son, Kenneth Steffes, daughter Sharon Aluzzo and granddaughters Kelly Knudson and Renee Aluzzo. Visitation at the Arthur J. Van Lerberghe Funeral Home, 30600 Harper Ave, St. Clair Shores, on Monday 3-9 p.m. with a Scripture service at 7 p.m. Funeral Mass at St. Michael’s Catholic Church, Tuesday 9:30 a.m. and instate 9 a.m. at the church. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make a donation to the Police Athletic League to support the Detroit youth who loved sports the way Helen did.

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Published by Daily Tribune from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2014.

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Randy KOzicki

April 4, 2018

loved Helen, I had the privilege of coaching with Helen for two years with my daughters team in Harper Woods. She could keep up with everyone of the girls and myself. Her knowledge of the game and her history of the game was amazing. She also assisted me while I coached the Notre Dame high school freshmen team. All of the kids admired her and her knowledge of the game. Helen may you rest in peace with God's team, show them how to play to win.

Randy L. Kozicki

Brenda (cornfed) Kaltz

September 22, 2014

To Helen's family, I'm sorry for your loss. Helen was an inspiration to me and I enjoyed the time on and off the field when I played for her. She might have been short in stature but was a giant in character. Maybe she'll whip the angels in a softball game up there. Take care.

September 16, 2014

Your beautiful smile and wonderful laugh will be remembered. Rest in Peace. Robin/John Anthony Salon

Anne De Santis

September 16, 2014

Sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Cheryl Ross

September 15, 2014

I often remember all the fun times my parents, brother, sister and I shared with Helen's amazing family in Harper Woods many years ago. She and Uncle Don (my godfather) can be together now forever! I hope she meets up with Ed and Mary Jane because they would love to see her!

Connie Daudlin

September 15, 2014

One more angel to watch over us. Prayers for peace and love.

Angela Bittner

September 14, 2014

Going to miss you Helen your truly the best.

Jill

September 14, 2014

her sense of humor. who's going to come and raid my candy stash now? She was one of my heroes. RIP dear lady. Play Ball!

Cheryl Bohn ( Bosco )

September 14, 2014

i met Helen through watching her precious girls playing softball. She was an instant hero to me.I heard all the stories about her life while she was coaching the team. I'm so glad i got to meet her and call her my friend. She will truly be missed but never forgotten.

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