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for Christopher Wilcox
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January 2, 2025
A day to celebrate you, Christopher. May we all be as kind to others as you were.
Xo
Joanne
Joanne
January 2, 2024
Never forgotten.
Xo
Joanne
January 2, 2023
Thinking of you on your birthday, Christopher. You are forever in our hearts and prayers.
Much love,
Joanne & Michael
A brother
February 16, 2022
Thinking of you today, Tex.
Joanne & Michael
January 1, 2022
Christopher,
A beautiful soul. A shining star. Gone too soon.....Thinking of you on your birthday.
Xo
January 2, 2021
Thinking of you today, Christopher and how much kindness you brought to this world.
With love,
Joanne & Michael
May 22, 2020
Been thinking of you!!! Hope your family are doing good!!! Miss ya old friend we had some fun times back when. Hopi g the family is doing good - your old friend - Tina Lorsung - aka #Rabbit# as you named me!!
Nancy Mello
January 5, 2020
Sending love to my so, Christopher, who is beautiful in every way. I love you with all my heart. Mom
January 1, 2020
A gentle soul, you are always remembered Christopher.
Love,
Joanne
Your beautiful soul is always remembered, Christopher =™<br />With love,<br />Joanne & Michael
February 13, 2019
January 2, 2019
Your memory lives on in our hearts.
A kind and beautiful soul.
Love,
Joanne & Michael
January 2, 2018
A huge heart, a beautiful soul. Rest In Peace Christopher
Much love,
Joanne & Michael
Nancy Mello
January 4, 2017
May this candle show my unending love for you - our loving son, brother, friend. You are a shining star. We miss you, Christopher.
Jim Damiani
January 3, 2017
I remember Chris fondly from our time in Plano many years ago. Indian Guides is my best memory of him. I know my son misses him. Thank God for the things we learned as youngsters or losing him would seem impossible. Rest in peace Chris.
Jim Damiani
January 2, 2017
We honor you today, Christopher. We will never forget your kind and caring ways. You were simply the best.
With love,
Joanne & Michael
Nancy Mello
January 3, 2016
In my mind and heart foreverI love you, Christopher. We miss you, dear son, and look forward to being reunited when God calls us home. At that point, we will be together forever.
January 2, 2016
A bright light. A shining star.
Always in everyone's hearts.
Love,
Joanne & Michael
January 2, 2015
Thinking of you today, Christopher, remembering your caring ways and genuine thoughtfulness. Always a gentleman.
Love,
Joanne, MIchael & Cassie
Nancy Mello
June 18, 2014
Always in my mind and in my heart. My heart aches with sadness dear Christopher. I look forward to the moment I will see you again. ~Mom
February 15, 2014
In honor of you, Christopher, we light this candle.
With love from some of your biggest fans,
Joanne, Michael & Cassie
January 3, 2014
Dear Chris and family, I no longer work on the facility where I met Chris. I went do a small project recently there and it brought back memories. I spoke with a friend that knew of him but never had the pleasure to meet him. It was a mixture of fun stories and of course the sadness of him no longer being with us. I told him that Chris's future was endless. His stature demanded attention and his nature put everyone at ease. What a great combination for such a smart man. Not to mention he had a heart of gold, and a willingness to listen to suggestions from everyone involved in one of his projects. He was in a position that he did not have to listen to anyone's thoughts . But that was not Chris. For being so smart and educated, he could easily be just as humble as the man doing the labor. As I have stated before, if you knew him for just a short time. You felt as though you knew him his whole life. I do not see myself ever not thinking of Chris and his obviously loving family at this time of year. I miss sitting with Chris and smoking a Cohiba at the end of a long day. I caught my first salt water fish with Chris. I think he was more excited than I was. There was a Cigar bar in N.O. that Chris talked about, and we made plans to go to it. Maybe one day I will go in Chris's honor. If I had to pick one thing that impressed me the most about Chris..It would be how proud he was of his family. My best wishes to Chris and his family, Robert
Joanne Pratt
January 2, 2014
We will always remember your kind heart and gentle soul.
With love,
Joanne, Michael & Cassie
January 2, 2013
We are thinking of you today as we do every day. We miss you and love you. We wish you a Happy Birthday in our prayers today. Love, Dad
Nancy Mello
August 5, 2012
Our dear Christopher,
You are always on our minds and in our hearts. We miss your love, your beautiful smile and your laughter. We find hope and peace knowing that we will see you again and when we do, it will be forever. With deepest love, Mom
Robert Wilcox
February 16, 2012
Dear Chris, We miss you always. We celebrated your wonderful memories last night. You will always be in our hearts. Love, Dad
February 15, 2012
Remembering you today, Christopher. A super guy with a huge heart Love always, Joanne, Cassie & Michael
December 17, 2011
We light a candle in honor of you, Christopher. You will forever be a bright light in everyone's hearts.
Love, Joanne, Michael & Cassie
May 8, 2011
My dear Christopher,
I love you with all my heart and miss you so. Sending you a special hug and kiss this Mother's Day. Love always and forever, Mom
February 15, 2011
Thinking of you, Christopher, and your family today.
Our hearts are with everyone...
Love,
Joanne, Michael & Cassie
Robert Wilcox
January 2, 2011
Dear Chris,
I think about you always and that you would be 25 today.
I remember driving to Memorial Hospital on Atlantic Blvd. in Jacksonville, FL 630 in the morning. I remember taking the week off Thanksgiving the two months before to prepare your nursery--fresh paint and new border paper. The "It's a Boy" rent a stork in the front yard. The worrying about you having jaundice the first two weeks of birth, caring for you in the hospital and then at home with UV lights and eye blinders and heel sticks with you crying when the visiting nurse came to monitor your blood levels--I cried when you cried--literally.
Your first home--9036 Latimer Road West, Jacksonville, FL--we looked up again on Google Maps tonight thinking abut you. I remember the front room where your nursery was and the bathroom just behind it where you watched me shave and I made a Lego shaver for you to shave with me. We both had shaving cream on our faces in front of the mirror.
I remember the two of us going to Daytona Beach to visit Marineland--a miniature version of Sea World. We had such a wonderful time watching the dolphins and such.
I remember going to Mandarin in southwest Jacksonville, FL to watch a touring circus-Cole Brotbers--where we rode on top of an elephant.
I think of the times we rounded at the hospital together on weekends--so proud you were with me.
I remember the times you pushed the lawn mower with me on the lawn. And the many times we explored the creek behind that first house.
There are so many memories of your life that I could write for hours--water skiing, snow skiing, fishing, hunting, dude ranch, Lake Tahoe, Pacific Highway, learning to ride a bike, Indian Guides, your first car, your first day of first grade, and this doesn't even scratch the surface.
You know we visited your resting site this week and how much we miss you. You also know that I thank Jesus every day that he takes care of my son.
Love,
Dad
January 2, 2011
Thinking of you today, Christopher....We celebrate you and all that you gave...
Love, Joanne & Cassie
December 23, 2010
With love,
Joanne & Cassie
December 21, 2010
Dear Chris and family. I thought about you the other day, as I always do when I walk by the project that you and I worked on. No one that knew you ever goes by it without saying something nice about you. The last conversation I had with you, of course after joking around with you. Which was just one of the reasons I enjoyed talking with you. Your sense of humor...You said something to me that I will never forget. Before we hung up you said " as always it was a pleasure talking with you Mr. DiCarlo" I will remember your family in my prayers tonight. I know this is a difficult time of year for them..Peace be with them.
December 20, 2010
Thinking of you Christopher. Thank you for being such a wonderful person that we can all emulate...
With love, Joanne & Cassie
October 21, 2010
Chris, always on our hearts and in our minds. Thank you for being the fine person you were...we look forward to spending eternity with you. Love from all who knew you.
May 16, 2010
A candle for you....
Love, Joanne and Cassie
Nancy Mello
February 15, 2010
Dear Christopher,
I am sitting in the house and looking out the window at the fireplace in the backyard that you liked so much. When I see the fireplace and so many other things, I think about happy moments spent with you. It's been a year since you went to Heaven. Losing you has been very painful. We love you so much and not being able to talk to you is very difficult for all of us. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and keep you safe and eternally happy. I long for the day I will see again for at that moment, I will feel complete peace again. Love you dear son, Mom
January 2, 2010
January 2, 2010. Thinking of Christopher today. As always, thoughts of my nephew puts a smile on my face.
-Mark Cunningham
Denise Ayres
December 31, 2009
I didn't know Chris personally, only his Uncle Glenn who adored his nephew so much. I came across this obituary and was so moved by the wonderful comments made by friends and family members who loved Chris very much. I hope you find comfort in these scriptures: “Blessed be . . . the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation.”—2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.
And at Revelation where we have a promise in chapter 21:3,4: With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: “Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his peoples. And God himself will be with them. 4 And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." Please know I am thinking about your family during this most difficult time as I know you will be thinking about the day he was born on January 2nd. But remember the wonderful qualities you all were able to enjoy in Chris. Sincerely, Denise
Lee Ann Chapman
December 15, 2009
I laid flowers on my son's grave today. As I sat on the bench and cried I noticed your son's grave and my heart broke for you all. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Christopher David Wilcox
October 28, 2009
Hello to the family and friends of Christopher,
I found the guestbook while doing a web search on my name and I must say it gives me great pleasure to see that their was another who was so loved and cared for.
To all, take care and God Bless.
Nick Woodruff
September 6, 2009
Tex,
I just found out about you tonight. I wanted to let you know you were one of my best friends at Purdue. We had many late nights studying for our exams and cranking out homeworks in civil. We also had our fun together at breakfast club and football games. You were one of the smartest individuals I have ever been around, and great sense of humor. I will miss you greatly. You are a wonderful man.
I will always be here thinking of you.
Barbara Burkhardt
September 4, 2009
Dear Christopher,
I was your mom's dear friend and next door neighbor when your mom was a young girl. After your mom moved to Texas, she would come back home for the holidays and proudly bring you, Melanie and Alex over to my parents house to visit. I always enjoyed those visits. I vividly remember one particular time you were visiting our home - it was after Christmas and it was very cold and snowy outside and you were so taken with a very long icicle that was hanging off of my the roof of our house. We managed to get it down and you asked if we could take it to your grandma's house and keep it in the freezer. That was just a typical Christopher moment - you were so curious and interested in so many things. You were so smart and carried on such a nice conversation. And, you were interested in other people which is such a nice quality in a young boy and man.
I know your mom, stepdad, Melanie. Alex and extended family miss you so much. May your family find peace and comfort knowing that God is taking good care of you in Heaven. You will all be together again some day.
God bless you, Christopher.
Love, Barbara Burkhardt
John Cunningham
August 23, 2009
Christopher:
This past weekend, I had two situations that made me stop what I was doing and think of you. The first one occurred while I was sitting at my desk working. In the midst of crunching numbers and listening to music, your favorite Country Western song came on the radio. Then, on Saturday, my In-Laws invited my family over for dinner. Jill, my wife, and her mother made homemade peach pie.
Both situations reminded me of the great times we had the summer you stayed with my family. Going to Michigan and sitting by the fire listening to country music and having Jill's homemade peach pie back at our house in Naperville. By the way, this is the first peach pie that I have had since you were with our family.
There have been many times that my daughters, Juliann (11) and Elly (8), say to me, "you really miss Christopher, don't you?" Before I can say anything, they usually say, "Me too".
I really miss you a lot, but I am glad you will always be a part of my life and family. Your smiles and laughs are burned into my memory. I know you are at peace with God and looking down on all of us. Hang in there buddy.
Love,
Uncle John (and the rest of our clan)
Thomas Cunningham
August 23, 2009
Dear Christopher,
I think of you often as you were a wonderful nephew. I was so proud of your accomplishments, your kindness, and humility. I wish I could simply give you a call and talk. Luke reminds me so much of you – his lean build, his smile, and his mannerisms. It is my hope that he will become everything that I saw in you. I deeply miss you Christopher as your absence has left a void in our lives.
God Bless You Christopher.
Uncle Tom
Alex Wilcox
April 19, 2009
Dear Chris,
I have been thinking about you everyday and want to thank you for everything you taught me. You taught me to treat people well, to never say anything behind someone's back because eventually it will come back to haunt you, to love the outdoors, and many many more. Almost everything I see can remind me of you in some way or another. I remember the time we got a new office chair for our house in Plano. We had to make good use of the old one. I was probably about nine and you sixteen and we fastened the office chair to the bike and you drove me around and it was a blast. You helped shape me as a person. Without my older brother I would be far different than the person I am today. I might not have my boots which we bought together around Christmas time. I will wear your boots with pride and I will be thinking about you.
- Alex "Dro"
Mark Cunningham
April 5, 2009
Nancy, Ed, Melanie and Alex,
I miss my nephew Christopher so much. His warm smile and sense of humor will remain with me throughout my lifetime.
On the morning of February 20, 2009 at St. Rita's church, I gave Christopher's eulogy. While this was an honor it was extremely difficult to deliver because the subject matter was my beloved nephew who was being layed to rest.
Below is the dialogue I shared with you and the entire congregation.
Liz, Quinn, Kevin and I extend a never ending hug to each of you.
-Mark
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Good Morning family and friends,
My name is Mark Cunningham. I’m Nancy’s brother and Chris’ Uncle from Chicago.
Like all of you, I’m here today with a very heavy heart.
The young man, who loved his family, friends and the great outdoors has gone to heaven.
Born on Jan 2, 1986, in Jacksonville FL, a child came into this world.
His name …..Christopher David Wilcox.
As a child he attended Prince of Peace…where I’m certain he made his teachers proud.
In 2004, you graduated from Jesuit, where he took up such sports as cross country, la crosse, track and rugby.
Subsequently, Chris left the lone star state and headed up to the hoosier state where you enrolled at Purdue University.
On campus his friends called him "Tex".
He joined Delta Upsilon where he bonded with his fraternity brothers.
He was seen as a leader amongst the group as well as a prankster.
He played Purdue Rugby…he broke his leg…he no longer played Purdue Rugby.
From an academic standpoint, he studied Civil Engineering.
Chris was a member of Chi Epsilon, an honorary civil engineering society.
Between his college years, he also held engineering internships in Dallas and Chicago.
In May of 2008, Chris graduated from Purdue with honors.
He used his degree to land a position with Shell Exploration in New Orleans where he provided Engineering Design and support services for oil and gas platforms in the Gulf of Mexico.
Chris was 23 years old..his future was so bright…he achieved milestone after milestone…the world was his oyster…
..and then he was gone.
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Friends and family..Welcome to the Celebration of Christopher David Wilcox’s life.
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To start..let’s quickly address milestones.
I would never downplay a milestone.
One milestone leads to another..and as humans we need them.
We need goals in our life.
Goals allow us to have structure.
My nephew tackled this quite well…as a matter of fact…better than most.
But everything I have mentioned so far talks about Chris's drive in life…it doesn’t really speak to his character.
This is where my story begins.
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Chris was a gregarious young man who lived life as a warm and loving son, a charming grandson, caring brother, a comical nephew, playful cousin and a dependable friend.
If you put a price on character, Chris was wealthy man…and he always gave back.
He made people laugh.
He made them think.
Maybe it was me…but he seem to know something about everything…his intelligence provoked thought.
He would give family and friends his undivided attention…which made us all feel special.
My nephew’s personality was contagious.
Greer Custer, a friend of Chris’, may have said it best..”He was a warm-hearted, southern gentleman."
I know I speak for the Cunningham, Wilcox and Mello families when I say..
Melanie, Chris was proud of his beautiful, kid sister.
You can run like the wind. You took a gift God gave you..and made something of it.
You earned the right to tell Wake Forest “no” and Dartmouth “yes”.
So few people can do that Melanie and Chris knew it.
As a sister, you brought to him a dynamic that only a sister can.
He cherished you.
Alex
Although Chris was 6’5” or 6’8” with cowboy boots…he looked up to you.
You both had a bond that only brothers understand.
As you know, he loved to play practical jokes on you.
Not long ago, both Chris and I had some fun with you when we decided to text you messages on your phone.
We played the part of your “girlfriend”…and unbeknownst to you..we would send colorful female messages expressing her love for you.
If I remember correctly you were pretty disappointed when you found out it was us.
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Alex, like Melanie…he cherished you too.
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Nancy,
Chris lived his life like a champion.
He believed in giving and sharing of himself.
He was self-less…and his smile lit up the room.
This I attribute to you.
When he was born…you know what brought from the heaven?
He brought magic and charisma and he exercised it every day.
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My brother Tom shared this story with me.
When Chris was a toddler, Tom flew down to Florida to visit the family.
He arrived late in the evening when little Chris was sound asleep.
The next morning, Nancy and Tom sat down with their coffee catching up on life.
Robert had already left for work.
Tom anxiously waited to see his growing nephew.
Tom remembered how tidy Nancy kept the home, with Chris toys all placed in a large basket.
When Chris awoke, he bee-lined out of bed, past his Uncle Tom, straight to his bin of toys.
With all the might a 1 ½ year old can muster, Chris picked up the large bin and flung the toys all over the family room.
The crashing sounds woke Tom up faster than that cup of coffee!
It was a perfect display of sheer delight and energy.
That was Chris as a toddler.
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Throughout his life Chris enjoyed adventure..
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As everyone knows, Chris had an affinity with the outdoors…hunting, fishing, camping and…ROCKETS.
Michael Bartell remembers one high school weekend, when Chris decided that they were going to build the world's greatest rocket.
Chris had strung six model rocket engines together, and then placed it in a large tube.
Naturally, Chris stuffed some fireworks in there for good measure.
With a few close friends and his brother Alex, they went into a field and prepared for liftoff.
With their necks tilted upward, Chris hit the ignition switch.
The rocket tube moved up the launch pole a few inches and promptly exploded in a crackle of fireworks.
The guys had only one word for their rocket test: "Awesome."
According to Michael.. “Chris Wilcox is Mark Twain's greatest unwritten character.”
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When it came to being a cousin…Chris was a rock star.
My brother John shared this story with me.
A year and a half ago, Chris told John he got an internship with a company in Chicago.
Immediately, John told Chris he could stay with his family.
Chris accepted his uncle’s offer.
John’s children, Juliann and Elly, were excited too.
You see, Chris was a man, but to John’s kids, he was a 6’5” nine year old.
He would play hide and seek, and carry them on his shoulders.
The poor guy would come home from work to relax, but he always had the energy to chase the kids.
He was a great addition to John’s home.
He brought to John’s family excitement, great stories, and was always willing to lend a hand.
At the end of the day, Chris gave his undivided attention to all of his cousins.
He loved to play with them and they loved having him around.
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Chris' range and reach had a profound impact on a many Purdue Boilermakers…here’s one that comes to mind.
According to his buddy, Josh Calvert,
“Tex was one of the first guys I met at Purdue. He got me to join the rugby team with him.
We were going to live together before I joined a frat.
We sat next to each other in math class.
He became one of my best friends freshman year.
He was crazy, simply put.
Everyone knew Tex because he was wild.
Tex was also one of the most intelligent guys that I knew too.
I remember when he went on a crazy tear of 4.0's.
He was a dear friend.
There are a lot of people from Texas, but only one Tex.
I will continue to spread the word that the gas companies are not as bad as people make them out to be. Just like we discussed many times.
I can’t believe you are gone.
I know you are making everyone equally happy in heaven as you did on earth.
You were a great guy and an even better friend."
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When it came to putting others first…Tex did just that…
One example is his relationship with Benjamin Hurt..
"Chris came to a game at SMU last semester and we got to talking.
I was going through some hard times, and Wilcox took it like a champ.
Surely he was there to have a good time, and not listen to my sob stories.....but that’s exactly what he did.
In fact, I don't remember him saying one thing about his degree, great job, or great apartment; he just listened and let me know how sorry he was.
We hadn't talked in three years - and you'd think it had been three days.
That's who he was genuine and selfless. The world would be a better place if we all treated people the way Chris did. He will be loved, missed, and never forgotten. “
Benjamin...we couldn’t agree more.
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As mentioned earlier, Chris embraced the outdoors…he loved to fish…couple that with a friendship and you have the perfect combination….just ask his childhood friend Mike Blowers.
Mike told me Chris was the kind of friend he will never be able to replace.
Mike met Chris in high school while he was going through a rough time in his life. A former friend of Mikes had moved away and it hurt…
Chris came into Mike’s life at the perfect time.
They hit it off great.
They became fishing buds.
Chris and Mike spent so much time fishing, sometimes entire days, but in all honesty, they really didn’t catch many fish at all.
They joked about that all the time.
Often, they would load Mike’s little plastic boat on a small trailer and would have to drive down the interstate and pull off the side, go down the embankment to unload.
It was a great little lake, their oasis on the side of a major highway.
This was their escape.
Eventually they found a small sandbar in the lake.
Over time they named this place the “Nut Bar”, for what reason Mike cannot remember why.
They would anchor the boat, take the seats out and sit in the water on the sandbar and talk about everything.
They talked about their futures.
They had long in depth talks about similar classes they were taking in college.
They talked about girls in their lives.
They even planned to study abroad for a semester together. That never worked out though.
Chris and Mike have been the best of friends for the longest time.
But when they went their separate ways for college, they started talking less.
They were both busy with their own things.
Mike was in a fraternity.
Chris was in a fraternity.
They both were studying engineering, so school work was demanding.
But every time they were both back in Texas, they made sure to at least have lunch together.
And whenever they got back together, no matter how long it had been since they talked or seen each other, they always picked up where we had left off.
It was as if they hadn’t been separated at all.
Chris was like a brother to Mike.
To quote Mike, “I don’t think I’ll ever have a friendship like I did with Chris ever again.
He was one of a kind.
He was my friend.
He was the brother I never had."
Mike…thank you for sharing…
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Chris, the time has come for me to step down but before I do I want to thank you for your warmth, humor, love, compassion and joy that you brought to our lives.
You made the world a better place.
Your parents taught you well.
You were an extraordinary son and grandson.
An affectionate brother
An amusing nephew
An endearing cousin
And a loyal friend
…for this we applaud you.
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Chris…you’re with God now. It’s time for you to fish the pristine waters of heaven and catch your daily limit.
We love you
Will & Ashleigh Gravlee
April 2, 2009
Dear Robert, Ashley and Raleigh,
We are so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family during this difficult time. We will pray for you every day and we know Chris is safe with the Lord.
All Our Love,
The Gravlee Family
Joanne Mello Pratt
April 2, 2009
We so love Christopher. We are so glad that we came to know such a wonderful human being. He will always be a part of our family. May we all strive to be more like him...kind,considerate and generous, that way his spirit will always remain and he will forever be in our hearts.
Love, Joanne,Cassie and Michael
Sue & Dave Johnson
March 27, 2009
Dear Nancy & Robert
We just learned of the loss of your son Christopher who we remember from the days at Prince of Peace. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you & your families
Sue & Dave Johnson
March 26, 2009
Dearest Christopher,
You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We find peace knowing that you are in God's heavenly kingdom. We miss you and look forward to the time when we see your warm smile and can give you a big bear hug. You are deeply loved.
Cathy Bessant
March 25, 2009
Nancy,
I remember Chris as such a little guy, maybe 5 or 6, running around when we would have bank get-togethers. He has always been full of love and laughter. I cannot imagine what you and your family are going through. Just remember that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many, including me. Sending you a hug that Moms everywhere understand. Love, Cathy
mack ingram
March 7, 2009
"
weeping may endure for a night, but joy will come in the morning" The love of GOD will progressively fill the
void left by Chris passing.
with Love,
the Ingram Family
John Davis
March 2, 2009
Robert, Nancy: My sympathies and prayers for your both. We have wonderful memories of Christopher from his childhood years as a neighbor, friend, playmate and teammate of Zach. Although I did not have the chance to express my thoughts to you personally at the service, I wanted to take this opportunity to tell you how touched I was by your words. Robert, I remember vividly your story of Chris from the Indian Guides campout - a real tribute to how his mind worked and the way he lived his life. I hope you, Melanie and Alex and your family members will be comforted in the coming days by your faith and from the memories of a wonderful son and person.
Ashley Forbes Kellogg
March 1, 2009
Ed, Nancy,Melody and Alex, I can not comprehend your loss. I am so sorry. Chris was so loved by you.
Nancy (O'Meara)Molidor
February 27, 2009
Dear Nancy I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know your son Chris but can only imagine how wonderful he was based on the comments I have read. I have often said to my husband how kind and sweet you were in high school when I knew you and can only imagine your son inherited your loving personality and smile. My prayers are with you and your family. Love to you
Britten Echols
February 26, 2009
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time. We lost our 13 year old daughter, 2 years ago and we truly feel your pain. Take one day at a time and remember the memories. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Barry Wilcox
February 24, 2009
Robert, Ashley, Ed, Nancy, Melanie, and Alex
Shana are sadden and still grieving over Chris's death. He and all of you are in our thoughts and prayers more than you can imagine. He was a great nephew. He will always be remembered as being tall, handsome, bright, friendly, and funny. We always enjoyed seeing him during the holidays. Unfortunately, we learned too late, the depth of "Tex's" character and charisma from all the stories we heard about him from during his funeral. His impact was profound and the world will be at a loss without him. Heaven awaits him. God bless all of you and God bless Christopher Wilcox.
Best Regards,
Barry and Shana Wilcox
Kyle Rains
February 24, 2009
Robert, Glenn and the Wilcox family:
I was very upset to learn of the loss of Christopher. Please remember that you have a lot of people here in your hometown on whom you can rely for support.
David Lief, DPM
February 23, 2009
I was so very saddened to learn of Christopher's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Derrick Schaible
February 23, 2009
I am so sorry about losing this great man. I knew him from my brother's fraternity. My deepest thoughts and concerns go out to Chris parents. He was a funny and great guy.
Billy Logsdon
February 23, 2009
I am shocked and saddened to have learned of Chris's passing. I worked at Jones and Boyd during the years that Chris was an intern there. Having had the privledge of him working directly with me in the field most of his time there, I got to know him quite well, and that makes this so much harder. I am sorry I have not responded earlier or made his funeral as I no longer work in Dallas and news sometimes travels slow. My heart goes out to you all in this time of unbelievable loss. May you find comfort in the knowledge that your son touched everyone he came into contact with in a profound way, myself especially.
Scott Hassell
February 22, 2009
Robert and Ashley:
We are devastated to hear of your loss, and know that Christopher sits at God"s right hand. Please count on us to help you bear this burden in any possible way. Our family's Love goes out to you.
Scott, Ann Shannon, Madison, Grayson and Tristan Hassell
Bob Kerr
February 22, 2009
Chris
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Nancy and Dan Morgan
February 22, 2009
Dear Nancy and family, our love and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. A mass will be said for Christopher after Lillian and Tom return to LaGrange.
February 22, 2009
Dr.Wilcox, just wish to send prayers and deepest sympathies to you, Ashley, Alex,Melanie, Nancy Mello and your entire family..Father Jonathan's beautiful words about Christopher, were so touching and left Christopher's footprints in our hearts. We felt like he had touched us in a very special way, as he had touch everyone else who was in his life. Such a beautiful tribute and way to remember this very special loving young man. We will always keep Christopher and his family in our prayers. Gloria Guzman & Steve White
Sheila Alford
February 21, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Dr. Paul and Cara Bierig
February 21, 2009
Cara and I are deeply saddended by your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. We can not come close to understanding the pain you must be going through. Take comfort in the love and support of your family and friends.
Kimberly King/owner SOLA HAIR STUDIOS
February 21, 2009
"Come unto Me, all you who are deeply troubled [with such heaviness], and I will give you rest".
Matthew 11:25-30.
Deepest Sympathy to Dr. Wilcox and Chris's family.
Paul Basnight III
February 21, 2009
I met Chris a short time ago. He was introduced to members of the Enchilada platform as our new engineer. He got right to work learning the platform. He showed to be an exceptional engineer. I will always remember Chris from his height. He had a lot of passion for his job and he expressed much interest in the platform. I was in shock to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Elmwood Fitness Center Downtown
February 20, 2009
For Chris, working out was a part of his daily routine; all of us at EFC were lucky to know him. He was so outgoing, always smiling, always had a story to tell. His presence will be missed; it already is. Miss you Chris, will never ever forget you.
Joan Runnels
February 20, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you who knew and loved Christopher. May you give each other strength during this difficult time and your memories give you some comfort.
Shell and John Papaila
February 20, 2009
Dear Robert and family:
Shell and I want you to know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. In this incredible time of sadness for you, take comfort in how many people knew what an awesome young man Chris was. Remember the smiles he brought to your face and those who knew him. All our love, Shell and John
Christy Sim
February 20, 2009
Chris,
You were my first friend here in New Orleans. I kept thinking to myself that this is the nicest guy I have ever met in my life. Remember when I tried to teach you how to drive a manual and you couldn't even go into first gear. It stalled everytime. Those were some good times we had. I miss you dearly and pray for your family.
Christy "the girl next door"
Bea Marrufo
February 20, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jack Deeves, S.J.
February 20, 2009
God loves Christopher very much.
I wish I had known him.
Father Jack Deeves, S.J.
Cindy McAvoy
February 20, 2009
Chris was an exceptional young man and it was such a privilege to meet him. He always had a smile on his face and a genuine interest when you talked to him. He has left a lasting imprint with his colleagues at Shell. I feel truly blessed to have met Chris.
Your family is in our prayers. God Bless.
Jeff Boes
February 20, 2009
Chris, it seems like yesterday I was sitting next to you in junior English, enjoying your quick wit and brilliant personality. You will surely be missed. My thoughts are with you and your family
Kelly Slosar-Brown
February 20, 2009
It is my hope and prayer that your faith, family, and friends provide comfort and support for you during this time of great loss and grief.
Joseph Chun
February 20, 2009
Dear Robert:
Maureen and I are saddened by the loss of your son Christopher. We can only imagine your grief and pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and we will share in the rosary today. All our love and prayers, Joe and Maureen Chun
Craig Kreutzer
February 20, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
cynthia douglas
February 19, 2009
God bless your family, James Douglas is supporting Alex all the way and knows how much of a great big brother Chris was and and is.
Thoughts of strength for your family
Cindy, Blanch, Kay, James Douglas
George and Lynn Fisher and Michael Maloney
February 19, 2009
In loving and fond memories of our dear friend Christopher.
Calinda Yew
February 19, 2009
Chris and I had just met 3 months ago in New Orleans, but has become a real and loving friend. As I was completely new to the area and to Shell, Chris always reached out to me and invited me to join him in many social activities. I have never met anyone like him. His heart and personality was so big. I will miss his presence and will always remember the good things he has brought in my life. My prayers are with Chris' family - comfort and peace be with you.
Dr.& Mrs Stephen Hamn
February 19, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Patrick Darby
February 19, 2009
Although I was just getting to know Chris as a fellow Shell employee, he was always a pleasure to be around. Myself and a couple of other co-workers had recently went golfing and had a great time being around him. He was very friendly and loved and will be missed by everyone who knew him. God Bless You, Chris.
Karla Lutz Bowling
February 19, 2009
We are so deeply saddened to hear of Chris's death. His obituary is a beautiful, touching tribute to a special young man. His life was a testament to his values and the example of his loving family. He will be greatly missed on this earth but his spirit is forever etched in the hearts of everyone who had the fortune of knowing his kind and gentle soul. With love and prayers, Karla Lutz Bowling, Krista Lutz Castillo, and Joannie Lutz Reimann (daughters of Joyce Cunningham Lutz)
Timothy Connolly
February 19, 2009
Chris was a wonderful person and an exceptional engineer. He will always be in my memory. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
God bless you Chris.
Hampton Myers
February 19, 2009
Chris, there are no words for this. You were a great person, and your good deeds will live on, finer and more permanent than the life of any single man.
Robert DiCarlo
February 19, 2009
I met Chris just a few months ago. But anytime you were around him, he made you feel like you were best of friends. He was smart, funny, and full of energy. He was the kind of person that you just wanted to be around. I had the pleasure of going fishing with him, working with him and just joking around. He will be missed. My heart and prayers go out to his family.
Matthew Reznicek
February 19, 2009
Chris, you will surely be missed, but know you are still a very dear part of the Jesuit community.
Melissa Wong
February 19, 2009
I am devastated to hear of Chris' passing. He was a brilliant young man and will be greatly missed.
Naresh Copeland
February 19, 2009
I, like Chris, am new to Shell and had the pleasure of knowing him. He reached out to me by offering to share different places to live in New Orleans and by planning to incorporate me into his fishing trips. I love to go FISHING! I will greatly miss his presence but I will forever remember his kindness and thoughtfulness. May the Lord comfort his family, friends, and all those who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Jackie Damiani
February 19, 2009
Jim, John and I were heart-broken to learn the news of Christopher. What wonderful memories we have of him as a child and buddy for John. Know you all are in our prayers. The Damiani Family
Charles Currie
February 19, 2009
Deepest sympathies to the family. Chris will be sadly missed by all whome he touched.
Adam & Sheila Zak
February 19, 2009
Our prayers are with Christopher and all those who love him. May God's Blessings shine upon his soul.
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