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John Brewer
February 14, 2019
The entry below about Charley from my perspective at The New York Times should have noted that it's from John Brewer of Port Angeles, Wash.; [email protected].
Charley's 2004 book
February 13, 2019
I'm embarrassed to begin this message by noting that Charley and I had drifted apart by the early 2000s, the curse of a new job, distance and life events.
I just learned this week of his death, years after it occurred.
But Charley never really left me. He made a huge impression on me, and I am honored to arrange to have his guest book with its many gracious messages restored to Legacy.com and made a permanent part of the Internet.
It's the least I can do to honor and remember an exceptional man.
I am the former executive editor and CEO of the New York Times News Service and New York Times Syndicate, 1988-1997. I retired in 2015 after almost 18 years as publisher and editor of the Peninsula Daily News, a community newspaper serving the beautiful North Olympic Peninsula of Washington state.
My links with Charley go back to the NYT days. He made me into the "ancient mystic wire service executive editor on a fog-shrouded eastern island" who played a cameo role in Charley's wonderfully imaginative tales that were part of his BONG newsletter. They were titled: "The Further Adventures of Herman 'Speed' Graphic, ace photographer for the Chagrin Falls Commercial Scimitar, and his Faithful Companion, Typo the Wonder Pig."
BONG (Burned-Out Newspapercreatures Guild, another creation of Charley's impish humor) was devoted to -- how should we describe it? How about this --- quality newspapering with a human touch.
That meant funny stories about newsroom characters (think "Front Page") and many "you're not going to believe this happened" news stories.
Through BONG he punched holes in pretensions and overwrought journalism and conveyed telling lessons about good newspaper work, doing all this in his own humorous way. (Charley, as I'm sure all his friends will tell you, created laughter and diversion as other men and women created dot.coms and online industries.)
Because it was always so funny -- and, boy, don't all of us need a good and honest laugh? -- I used to include parts of BONG (and Speed and Typo, its "comix section") into my own newsletters sent over the wires of the New York Times News Service to our subscribers from about 1989 to 1997.
The BONG items always delighted the subscribers. Charley was not only funny, but he was also one of them -- a wire editor.
He liked to call himself, tongue in cheek, a "copyboy" (a copyboy was a young and junior worker on a newspaper, nonexistent today; Charley's email in San Antonio was even [email protected]), or a copy editor (a desk editor who edited news stories) . . . but his specialty was being a wire editor.
Let me explain. Charley's job was to search the "wires" -- Associated Press, United Press International and the NYT News Service -- for the most interesting national and world stories of the day to share with his newspaper's readers.
In that hastily put-together piece of chaos known as the daily newspaper, his world was behind the scenes. His name never appeared in the masthead, he was deeply anonymous to the general public.
But he did a job that helped define his newspaper to its readers.
He would come to work every day and scour the wires for the biggest news of the day. Could be a war. Could be a mine disaster. Could be a science marvel.
For Charley, the job was about finding the right story. The right way to present it to readers. The full truth. The best writing.
He was the powerful gatekeeper, the responsible representative of the reader, the key cog in the publishing wheel.
Charley was smart and selective, and he was very, very good at that job.
He certainly let me know whenever NYT stories didn't make the cut. And I quickly learned from his calls that this was a man who knew who from whom and whether you lie down or lay down.
More importantly, it was also clear from his questions over the phone that this man had an eye for detail, an intolerance for inaccuracy, an unerring nose for news -- and he seemed curious about almost everything.
As I got to know him better, I also found Charley to be an unfailingly friendly, helpful and keenly capable man who I really enjoyed working with.
He knew his stuff. In fact, Charley was a talking encyclopedia.
He seemed to know everything about everything -- the result of years of personal experience and main-lining literally thousands of news stories plus devouring books and other newspapers
He could speak quite capably on subjects as diverse as World War II, Middle East affairs and Civil War weaponry.
His job as wire editor also allowed him to meld his love of facts with his knack of knowing what readers really care about be it celebrity mischief or Persian Gulf mayhem.
I also discovered in our dealings by phone and by letter that Charley was very, very funny, and incredibly creative, not only as a writer and editor but as a woodworker and recycler of old newspaper items. I still have a nameplate he made for me from old typewriter keys.
I also prize my copy of "Only Copy Editors are Immune, Volume One," Charley's 2004 book.
It forever enshrined Speed, Typo and the other players who sprung from the theater of Charley's mind and years of keen observation in newsrooms (other players like Absentee Publisher Gimlet Peen and Features Editor Hyperba Lee -- it was easy to match up all of Charley's characters with real-life co-workers).
And the book was dedicated to me!
"Things haven't been the same since the ancient mysic wire service executive editor left the fog-shrouded eastern island." Charley wrote.
How incredibly flattering . . .
Charley and I had finally met face to face sometime in the mid-90s in New York City.
I don't remember exactly what we talked about. But I do recall two things:
First, his shirt.
His shirt seemed to be a virtual bandolier for pens two each in both pockets and a couple tucked between the buttons.
This was an era in which the pen was more important than a computer screen and this was a man who was never going to be stuck with a dry pen.
Then there were his eyes. I remember clearly that day 25 or so years ago looking into the eyes of that big, rumpled man.
They were the intelligent eyes of a man who I knew -- knew from experience, knew from our interchanges, just knew -- sized up every situation quickly, precisely and fairly.
25 or more years later, I've never forgotten those eyes.
This guest book is a testament to Charles Senour "Charley" Stough III, an exceptional man . . . I now join all of you already here who remember him. Charley lives on in our memories.
And for me . . . personally and professionally . . . Charley lives on embodied by journalists who practice the craft the way he did with excellence and with love . . . and with a wonderful sense of humor.
We all got together again(: We miss you so much.. I enjoyed meeting my family. Love you!
Alicia Jeanne Stough
December 6, 2011
Randal Oliver
December 2, 2011
He was a great journalist and a better man.
Nancy Roscoe
December 1, 2011
Charlie will be missed. He was a great person.
Nancy Roscoe-- Ohio Association of Second Harvest Foodbanks
Columbus, Ohio
Marilyn Flynn
November 30, 2011
We called him Carlitos. He was our first nephew and we loved him so much. My heart aches for Alicia, Gina, George, and all the sweet grandchildren he treasured. I treasure the memories.
Aunt Sissy
Kelly Lipp
November 29, 2011
I only "knew" Charley through his BONG Bull but I felt a pang in my heart seeing his obit. An old newspaperman who clearly loved what he did, he will be missed for the standards he upheld.
Amy (Etmans) Huschka
November 29, 2011
Charley was an amazing guy to work with. He had a tremendous sense of humor and taught me a lot about life and journalism through his amazing stories. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Lilia Romero
November 29, 2011
What a wonderful life! My thoughts & prayers are with his family & friends.
Hal Davis
November 29, 2011
Charley was unique. I guess he wasn't bigger than life, but he sure wrestled it to a draw.
Charley lured me from New York to Dayton, with a promise of fun and a challenge to maintain true-grit journalistic integrity at a paper whose bosses he suspected had something else in mind.
In doing so, he introduced me to colleagues I'll never forget.
The world is a better place for having Charley in it.
Linda Monroe
November 28, 2011
His wit, his unblinking common sense, his fearless speaking of truth to power, and his goodness will long be remembered.
Molly Blackshear
November 28, 2011
Love you Uncle Charley
Alicia Jeanne
November 28, 2011
I miss you Grandpa..
You're always going to be there for me, I know it.. & on my wedding.. & prom, I'll think of you.. I know you'll always be proud of me.
Alicia Stough
November 28, 2011
Rest in Peace, Grandpa..
I miss you so much, and I know that we didn't see each other very much, but I feel the lack of presence made me more attached to you..
You mean so much to me..
Just by reading this Obituary, I learned so much that I didn't know.. And it all made me love you even more.. You're extraordinary!
I hope you're having a great time in heaven, it's been almost a week.. How are the cigars&rootbeer floats up there? ..Save one for me! (A root beer float, not a cigar..!)
See you later.
-Ali G.
George Hesselberg
November 28, 2011
Sorry to see Charley go. He was a beacon of logic. I hope he rests in a place where good grammar and a great lede are still appreciated.
Anne & Rick Meyer
November 28, 2011
We are so sorry to hear this! Charley was so kind and did so much good. We remember him fondly from our time at Christ Church. You are in our thoughts and prayers, Alicia.
November 27, 2011
Aunt Babe will sure miss her nephew that she called "Doodle Bug". Without a doubt he was the greatest! (Dothan, AL)
Karla Knox-Gordon
November 27, 2011
Charley was a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family who over the years have become my family too. I love you Alicia, Gina, and Isai. If you should need anything please let me know.
Geo Stough
November 27, 2011
Dad, you spoke often of the old days in the newspaper business. I saw the look in your eyes as the world changed. You never looked back. At a time newspapers ruled the world, you were the T-Rex that ruled them all. Rest in Peace. Take it easy on the Publisher until I get there, I want to ride the blue cart again. Glad to see they gave you back the good cigars.
Wes Hills
November 27, 2011
The world is so much more dull and empty without Charley. He was one of a kind and such good company. May you, his family, be comforted in remembering how proud he was of you and how much he loved you. Wes Hills (Hillman, MI)
Esther Muela-Jackson
November 27, 2011
"Papa Charlie" as my family knew him, will be missed dearly and we loved him very much. I appreciate every thing he did to help my mom.
Con carinos y besos,
Esthercita, Esther, Y Alex Muela
Jessie Steinkruger
November 27, 2011
My grandpa was amazing! He is and always will be in my heart. He is not going to be forgotten ever. <3 you grandpa Charley!(always my guardian angel)
Mike Billington
November 27, 2011
Charley and I shared a lot of the same memories, working in small newspapers where the community is right in your face every day; where news is taken not only seriously but personally. That experience made him someone us old dinosaurs could talk to about what we do without first having to explain what a glue pot, pica pole and wonder wheel are... rest in peace Charley. The world is poorer without you.
November 27, 2011
Charley will be missed; his granddaughter Jessica misses him very much and he will always be her guardian angel.
Sherry Salazar
November 27, 2011
Charley was a great man and touched so many lives with his wisdom and advice. He will truly be missed. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Much love
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