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Eugene Bookhammer Obituary

Eugene Donald Bookhammer

Eugene Donald Bookhammer, age 94, of Lewes, DE, passed away at his home on February 23, 2013. Gene was born on Twin Oaks Farm near Lewes on June 14, 1918, son of William Hayes and Winifred (Jenkins) Bookhammer. He was the youngest of their ten children.

Gene was graduated from Lewes High School in 1936 and married Mary Catherine (Kitty) Williams in 1942. They were married for 63 years.

Gene served in the Army in Europe during WWII and was awarded the Purple Heart and the Bronze Star. Returning home, he resumed his lumber mill business and built a home near Love Creek for Kitty and his two daughters. The bridge over the creek is now named for him.

As a young man Gene became involved in Republican Party politics. He attended three National Conventions as a delegate, and in 1962 was elected to the state Senate where he served as minority whip and majority leader. He was subsequently elected Lieutenant Governor for two terms serving with Governor Russell Peterson and Governor Sherman Tribbitt.

Gene was a member of many service organization and boards, among them, the Rehoboth Lions Club as President in 1948, and the Nur Temple Shrine as Potentate in 1972. He was on the board of Wesley College and joined the board of Beebe Hospital in 1959, continuing his work with Beebe until his death.

He took great pleasure in giving back to the community where he was born and lived the whole of his life. He was always looking ahead and sought to remain positive and upbeat. Even during his last years he collaborated with author Richard Carter on "Gene Bookhammer and His World". This book came out in 2009. He enjoyed hunting, playing golf and cards at the Rehoboth Beach Country Club, and taking Kitty out dancing on Saturday night.

Gene was predeceased by his wife, Kitty, the love of his life, and by all of his nine siblings. He is survived by his daughters, Joy and her husband Orville Basinski of Rehoboth Beach, and Jeanie Greenhaugh of Milton, DE.

The family gives special thanks to Jerry Scott for his care and friendship to Gene in his last years.

Gene was always looking for ways to serve and said he learned more from public service than he gave. Politics was a part of that, but his longtime association with Beebe Medical Center satisfied him the most. So, in lieu of flowers the family suggests donations in Gene's memory to Beebe Medical Foundation, 902 Savannah Road, Lewes, DE 19958.

Family and Friends are welcome to celebrate Gene's life and memory at the Rehoboth Beach Country Club on Monday, March 4, at 11 am.

Arrangements by Parsell Funeral Home, Lewes, DE

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Published by The News Journal from Feb. 28 to Mar. 1, 2013.

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Julia Ferguson

February 22, 2021

This man had the kindest smile n loved his family with all of his heart

Amy Kratz

March 8, 2013

I want to send my condolences to your family. You father was a good man and I still have a picture of him riding a bicycle in the bike-a-thon held for me after I was a victim of a violent crime. That's the kind of man he was and I will remember him for that goodness and community mindedness. I am so sorry for your loss.
Amy Kratz

Julia Vecchioni-Ferguson

March 4, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of such a kind, inspiring man. He sleeps with angels now.

Randall Huber

March 1, 2013

Dear Jeanie, Joy and Orville,
We are saddened to read of your father's death. May he rest in peace and may he and Kitty dance together through all time. I pray that God will strengthen you and comfort you through these difficult days ahead. May your memories of your dad always bring smiles to your faces and may warm feelings of love well up in your hearts whenever thoughts of him arise and when his name is spoken.
Thinking of you with love and sincere condolences,
Randy and Sue Huber

Susan Nida

February 28, 2013

Deepest sympathy and prayers to the family...so sorry for your loss.

John Kirk Jr.

February 28, 2013

I served with Gene in the General Assembly.I'll never forget his advice.One of which was it's better to have been a has been than a never was.

Nancy Burbage

February 28, 2013

I have worked with and for Gene for many, many years, and thought of him as a good, good friend.

Deb McCredie

February 28, 2013

I had the privilege of knowing Mr. Bookhammer during the years he served on the Board at Wesley College. I was Executive Assistant to President Reed Stewart and always enjoyed Mr. Bookhammer's sense of humor and down to earth manner. May he RIP...his legacy will live on.

Carol DEHORTY

February 28, 2013

Fond memories of Gene and Kitty at many Republican affairs. What a beautiful man

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