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Merritt "Sam" Burke III obituary, 1943-2015, Lewes, DE

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Merritt (Sam) Burke III

AGE: 72 • Lewes, DE

Merritt Burke III, "Sam", of Lewes, DE passed away on Thursday, June 18, 2015 peacefully at home on Lewes Beach with his family at his side. He was born in Milford DE on October 28, 1943, son of the late Merritt Burke Jr. and Katherine Pfrommer Burke. A glimpse of his life at the early stages of his career is reprinted below from an article which ran in the Delaware State News on Monday, August 29, 1977.

Sam Burke has a style all his own

By Tammy Brittingham

Staff Writer

Monday, August 29, 1977

Georgetown—It's difficult to characterize a man like Merritt (Sam) Burke III. The Sussex County deputy attorney general has many faces and none of them suit the proverbial "successful young attorney" stereotype. Burke's tweed suits and fashionable ties blend well with the understated decor of his Sussex courthouse office. His surroundings are the mark of success. But his station in life does not dictate to Burke. A patched naugahyde couch purchased by a friend for five dollars has a prominent spot in his spacious office. And just outside, in the parking spot reserved for the attorney general's staff, is a beat-up blue pickup truck whose cab is cluttered with paper and rope, all sorts of odds and ends and a mug half-full of very cold coffee.

Burke is an easygoing guy. He smiles frequently and provides his friends with plenty of laughs when he recalls one of the many amusing anecdotes he has collected over the years. But even though every courthouse employee knows him as Sam, Burke con-siders himself "a very low-profile guy." "I'm a very private person," he says, bringing the tips of his tobacco-stained fingers together to form an arch. "It's not that I don't like people. I always have time for my friends. But for instance, when I'm sitting on the beach reading a book I don't want someone coming up to me and starting an idle conversation," he says. At 34 his hair is showing signs of gray. But his tan weatherbeaten face is ageless. There are wrinkles, especially around his eyes. But they are evidence of a man who has spent much of his time outdoors, squinting against the glare of the sun. "I enjoy living," Burke says, tugging at a bushy auburn moustache, his most noticeable trademark. "I like to read, go hunting every single day of the season, sail, fish, sit on the beach. Today I might go duck-hunting, tomorrow I might jog racehorses. I like to try different things." His favorite author is Ernest Hemingway, whose outdoorsy down-to-earth characters he is not unlike. "I'm very close to pigs and cows and chickens," he says solemnly to emphasize the down-home aspect of his personality he is most proud of.

Burke, who was born in Milford, is a Sussex native, though he was raised in Newark. "I'm very proud to be a Sussex countain," he says. After high school, Burke earned a bachelor's degree in agriculture from the University of Delaware. Following a stint in the army, he returned to academia at the University of Tennessee where he studied law. In 1972, he joined the attorney general's office in Wilmington, then transferred to Sussex after spending a week in Georgetown where, Burke said, he was temporarily assigned to clear a backlog of cases. He met his wife Patty and was glad he recalls, to agree to her request that they live in lower Delaware. The prosecutor, whose courtroom dramatics sometimes include pounding the podium and shouting, considers himself a family man. Burke speaks fondly of his three- year-old namesake and vividly recalls his wife's 22 hours of labor that preceded the child's birth. "Being a parent is an awesome responsibility," he says. "Oh, I thought I knew that before we had Merritt...but I see all kinds of young guys in court for burglary, robbery...going off to prison, and I wonder what went wrong, what did their parents do? Then I think about my son." His work is draining, he admits, but adds he enjoys it. "Sure I will probably go into private practice someday, but that is a tough decision to make," he says. So far, his life pleases him. "You know something, I wouldn't change it, I wouldn't do a single thing differently, if I had it to do all over again," he says leaning back, his arms folded behind his neck. "I'm very happy."

After working for several years as a prosecutor, known to many as "the attorney general below the canal". Sam then continued his career practicing criminal law with Brown, Shields, and Chasnoff.In the early 1990's he resumed his career with the state as a public defender where he practiced law until he retired to care for his late wife. Sam was an outdoorsman at heart, who especially enjoyed spending time at Broadkill Beach hunting with, and teaching his family and friends about nature. He also enjoyed teaching the lessons of life to anyone who would listen. No task was ever to difficult for Sam. One of his favorite quotes was "work is the rehabilitation of mankind". When not on Lewes or Broadkill beach he would be found working on his farm at Fort Saulsbury tending to his many animals, especially his champion Kiko goats.

Sam also enjoyed travelling with his Dear Friend Trish whether it be a drive in the country or a trip around the world. Trish's companionship really put the wind back in Sam's sails. In addition to his parents he was predeceased by his wife Patricia Meade Thompson Burke, "Patty" on October 5, 2012. In addition to his Dear Friend Trish he is survived by four sons, Merritt Burke IV and his wife Linda of Milton, DE, Laurence Layton Burke of Broadkill Beach, DE, Thompson Asbury Burke and his wife Lauren of Greenwood, DE, and Christopher Meade Burke of Broadkill Beach, DE; six grandchildren; two sisters; Kannie Woods and husband Bill of Oxford, MD and Deborah Bower Burke of Boston, MA; his loving dog Bess and five grand dogs, "and Special Friend Buckshot".

Memorial Services will be held on Thursday, June 25, 2015, at 11:00 AM, St. George's Episcopal Chapel, 20274 Beaver Dam Road at Route 23, Harbeson, DE, where friends may visit one hour prior to services. Friends may also visit on Wednesday, June 24, 2015 from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM at the Parsell Funeral Homes & Crematorium, Atkins-Lodge Chapel, 16961 Kings Highway, Lewes, DE. Burial will be private at All Saints Cemetery, Angola, DE. In lieu of flowers contributions are suggested to the Civil War Land Trust, 1156 15th Street NW, Suite 900, Washington, D.C. 20005. Please visit Mr. Burke's Life Memorial Webpage and sign the online guest book at www.parsellfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by The News Journal on Jun. 21, 2015.

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Josephine bradbury

June 15, 2019

It's been a long time Sam but you're in a better place and the boys are doing well just keep guiding them from up above sincerely cookie and Bob Bradbury

Andre Beauregard

July 14, 2015

He was a man that taught me how to play liar's poker. He was part of the good old boys that will never exist again. He made me the attorney I am today and showed me how to be a true Sussex countian. He will be missed.

June 23, 2015

Lewes Beach at Pilot Point will never be the same.
I will still see the image of Sam and his beloved wife and canine friends walking the sands to enjoy life together. Rest in peace ....all s. m. ridgely

Cookie & bob Bradbury

June 22, 2015

Always was a pleasure to chat..you will be missed by the
Sons who you taught to love life and all it's creatures...
May you be blessed in the travel of the heavens...
The bradburys

Dan Roberts

June 22, 2015

Trisha, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and Sam's family. I am in school so I can not be there. I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and I have asked the Little Sisters to pray for all of his family, you to be strong and of course Sam's soul. Love you, Dan

patricia Bennett lare

June 22, 2015

Well Sam u will be missed by everyone I have good memories my mom always said call Sam he can help u and if he can't he will tell u.So my deepest sympathies to the family and all your friends.

Kathy Linden-Kennard

June 21, 2015

Remembering all the fun times on Townsend Road with you, Kanny and Debbie. I loved it when the Burke Family moved into the neighborhood. Also the summers on Lewes Beach where your mom taught me to knit. My sincerest sympathy to your family but especially to Kanny and Debbie. there truly was only one Sam....and I loved him.

Jim Linden

June 21, 2015

Good bye, old buddy, old pal......we had a lot of fun times together, didn't we?

Franny Green

June 21, 2015

Sam, if had to pick memorable moments about U of D in the 60's it was when you, Ronnie Janicki, and I used to cut classes on Friday at noon and go to lunch at Frenchy's Tavern on Ogeltown Rd. On a more serious note, Burke family please accept by deepest sympathy for your loss. Rest in Peace my friend.

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