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Michael Murphy Obituary
Palmyra/Macedon/Ontario: Died suddenly on February 10, 2012 at age 41. Beloved husband of Kris; father of Collin and Shaun; son of Margaret Murphy and Stephen (MaryLou) Murphy; brother of Dan (Amanda); nephew of George (Cindy) Trapp; son-in-law of Ann and Charlie Schmidt; brother-in-law of Mike (Kim) Cahill; uncle of Ashley, Amanda and Hannah Cahill. Also survived by many cousins and friends.
Mike was a New York State Licensed Funeral Director and was owner of Murphy Funeral Services of Ontario, Palmyra, and Macedon. Mike was also involved in many civic and professional organizations and had a joy for life that marked all of his actions.
All are invited to call 3-7 PM on Monday at the MURPHY FUNERAL HOME, 1961 Ridge Rd, Ontario and 3-7 PM on Tuesday at the PAYNE & MURPHY FUNERAL HOME, 1040 Rt 31, Macedon. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 11AM Wednesday at the St. Maximilian Kolbe Parish at the St. Mary's of the Lake Church, Ontario, followed by his Committal Service at Palmyra Cemetery. Donations may be made to a charity of one's choice in Mike's memory.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Murphy
February 19, 2012
Dear Steve and family, We were so saddened to hear about Michael. He was a wonderful young man. May you find strength in the Lord.
Marvin and Barbara Maimone, Ontario
Rogerr Anseeuw
February 17, 2012
Dear Murphy Family,
Our prayers are with you all, Mike was a wonderful person and we were proud to have known him. You were all very lucky to have been a part of his short life. We thank Mike for all he did for us. May you all find peace in the love Michael left behind.
The Anseeuw family
Tom Briggs
February 15, 2012
We are heart broken to hear the news about Mike. It was a blessing to have known him. He was a great individual and he will be dearly missed by everyone. Tom and Sandy Briggs
John Schlafer
February 15, 2012
Having attend the wake, funeral service and graveyard service, I really saw how much Mike was loved by everyone he touched and even some he didn't. The line of cars that streached over 1 1/2 miles in route to his final resting place. The church that was filled to capacity, and the young childern who came from school to honor Mike. To Steve, Mary Lou, Kris, Collin, and Shaun, you have only to look up and he is there. He has not left you only in body. His spirit will live forever and all you have to do is ask and he will answer. My sincere condolances and prayers are sent your way. Stay strong and know Mike is alwsys near.
Joan Quinn
February 15, 2012
To the Murphy Family: I am both shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Michael. I remember him so vividly playing with my Michael when they were small. He always had such a happy and friendly smile. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please except my sincerest sympathies.
Sharon Rhodey
February 15, 2012
My Sympathy is with your whole family. I can't believe he's gone. We just saw and had a very nice conversation with Mike when he did the Funeral Plans for my sister who passed away on the 10 of January. His smile was a treasure. His personality made you feel comfortable and he truly cared about the loss of your loved one. He was just to young to leave this earth. He will be truly missed by all.
Joanne Nulton
February 15, 2012
Dear Murphy Family,
Our prayers are with you all, Mike was a wonderful person and we were proud to have known him. You were all very lucky to have been a part of his short life. We thank Mike for all he did for us. May you all find peace in the love Michael left behind.
Joanne Nulton and Family
scott dorfner
February 14, 2012
Rest in peace
Bill Austin
February 14, 2012
sorry for your loss. mike and i hung out as kids and i would still run into him now and then. he will be missed and was a good man.
Jim/Elizabeth Hoteling
February 14, 2012
To Michael's family:
We were so sorry and shocked to hear of his passing. We only knew him through the funeral home; no one could ever forget that smile. He was a genuine caring person, perfectly suited to his profession. He will be greatly missed by everyone. Sincerely, Jim and Elizabeth Hoteling
February 14, 2012
Lou and I were saddened to hear about Mike.We offer our prayers and condolences to Kris and the boys and to all his family. We will miss his smiling face. Enjoy your memories of him.
Lou and Carolyn Rivellino
February 14, 2012
Family of Mike, we are so sorry for your loss. I will never forget his smiling face. May God be with you and your family.
Jim & Carmen Chase
Betty Hatch
February 13, 2012
I didn't know Mike, but I know his motherinlaw and fatherinlaw. "family" is their first and last name! I wish good thoughts and memories of Mike always be with his family and friends. Seeing his friends and family today, what love he must have shared with many!
John Blankenberg
February 13, 2012
I first met Mike when my father passed away in1997. Mike came to my Mother's home at 6 am in the morning. Eventhough it was a very sad time for the family (Blankenbergs) , my mother served us with her home made Molasis cookies. I will always Mike for his kindness and his all of the time smile,and everytime I saw Mike after that morning .He always asked me if i had molasis cookies for him. ( with a big smile) . Mike and i aways shared lots of humor. Regardless of when and where we met. I will be at a loss when i go down route 31 through Macedon. I will never forget him. To Mike's Family...So sorry for your loss, John
February 13, 2012
Through very difficult times during the passing of our relatives, Mike's caring and compassion helped to ease our sadness. He will be deeply missed. Our prayers go to you and your family. Gerry and Lynnette Smith, Macedon, NY
Bill Alborn
February 13, 2012
I will miss you Mike
Bill Alborn
Becky and Norm Johnson
February 13, 2012
so sorry for your loss. my family used his funeral homes for many many years,The Knapps and Morrises,then I became friends with Annie and Charlie and met chris and the boys and Mike a few times . will be praying for you all.
February 13, 2012
Dear Steve,MaryLou,and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Michael was a genuinely nice person and will be greatly missed. He was a credit to his profession and the community.
May he rest in peace.
Eric and Julie (Cass) Kullberg
Paul & Susan Read Maier
February 13, 2012
We were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing.Our deepest sympathy & prayers are sent to you.
Kevin & Kristin Curtis
February 13, 2012
We were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing. We remember him as a sweet young man during our time working at Stickley in Victor during the 1980's and early 90's. Our hearts go out to all his family and particularly, to his Mom, Margaret, who was a co-worker. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Candy and Dave Stonemetz
February 13, 2012
I wanted to express my heartfelt sympathy for you and your boys during this time. Mike was such a prominant figure in the community, and was there for so many of us during our times of sorrow. His wonderful mix of empathy and humor were so welcome while we mourned my mother in law. And I know she was smiling down as Mike drove her ashes around in a Corvette! Please know that there are so many people who are praying and thinking of you and the boys during this time. May you find comfort in the memories and love. Sincerely, Dave, Candy and Madison Stonemetz
Del & Sandi Primmer
February 13, 2012
Steve, Mary Lou & family. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you.We truly know your sorrow. Mike's smile & laugh will be in our memories forever,such a very special young man. The loss & sadness is so large & overwhelming. Our deepest sympathy & prayers are sent to you. We only wish we could be there with you to give our support. Del & Sandi Primmer, Minneola FL.
February 13, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss.I met Mike about a year ago when my Mom passed away .He made the process so much easier for all of us to deal with,as it also was a very unexpected death. He seemed to always have such a great smile every time I saw him.I'm sure he will be greatly missed by all that knew him.But just wanted you to know he touched my life the day of my Mom's passing.My thoughts and prayers are with family and friends of his...GREAT PERSON Ken Reeners (Palmyra NY.)
Janet Stafford-Bushart
February 13, 2012
Michael was such an inspiration to the community. He knew his job and the people around him. When I ran into him I always recieved the biggest smile off his face. My deepest sympathy to the family and friends. May he rest in peace.
Randy Ebert
February 13, 2012
The Ebert family is shocked and very saddened by Mike's passing.In recent years he helped us through the deaths of both our parents. He even was able to come up with humerous anecdotes as we discussed arrangements.He truly was a talented man very well suited for his occupation. To say that we've lost one of the truly good ones is an understatement. We all morn this loss.
Beth Remis
February 13, 2012
I have not seen Mike in many years, but I had spent time with him in 1988 at SUNY DELHI. He was always there to keep me company, help motivate me through a tough freshman year of college and be a big brother of sorts. I will never forget how he so willingly looked out for a friend who needed a guiding light and he was willing to be that. I know he will be very missed by his family and I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great man and will certainly be missed by many.
Sally McPike
February 13, 2012
Michael was such a visible man in our close-knit community and showed such compassion to all through his business. He will be truly missed. My sincere sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
Gina Dunning
February 13, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mike was a great person and will be greatly missed.
Julie and Dick Vice
February 13, 2012
I send my sincerely, heartfelt sympathy to the entire Murphy family for the loss of Michael. The Murphy family has touched my family as well as many others during such difficult times. Michael will be missed by family, friends and will be a great loss to all communities and organizations he belonged to. We will keep the family in our prayers and may God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Cande Niles/Hadlock
February 13, 2012
My sypmathy to all of the family and to the community. He will be missed!!!
Sharon Amesbury
February 13, 2012
I along with many will miss his smile and concern for anyone he spoke with. He made the passing of a good friend bearable. As I was her hairdresser he asked if I would like to do her hair. I did and was able to honor her one last time. For that I will be eternally grateful to him. He helped me say goodbye in a special way. Thank you Mike. My heartfelt sympathy for his family and many friends.
Janice Halsey
February 13, 2012
My heart go's out to your family.Mike was such a great young man, hopefully you will find comfort in memories.
Louise Gadbois
February 13, 2012
My deepest sympathy on your loss, Kris. Your mother is a dear sewing friend. May memories of happier times give you comfort now.
Louise Gadbois
Debbie Franco
February 13, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
sharon harvey
February 12, 2012
so sorry to hear of your loss sharon harvey (eric harveys mother)
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