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Joan Hilger Obituary

Passed away peacefully, July 12, 2010, at age 73. Predeceased by her husband, Ray Hilger; daughter, Mary Catherine Martell and brothers, Richard and James Wall. She is survived by her sons, Mike (Barbara) O'Donnell and Mark (Stefanie) O'Donnell; grandchildren, Sean and Katie O'Donnell & Alex and Reid Martell; sister, Mary Clements; sister-in-law, Ruth Wall and several nieces, nephews and friends.
No prior visitation. Family and friends may attend her Funeral Mass, Wednesday, 9:30am at St. Pius the Tenth Church (3000 Chili Ave.) Interment, St. Pius Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to The Golisano Children's Hospital or the Wilmot Cancer Center.
ALVAH HALLORAN & SON

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jul. 13, 2010.

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Tom & Jenny Brady

July 22, 2010

Mike & Mark. Your mother was a wonderful person. She was part of our craft group and brought so much fun and laughter to the gatherings. She loved her family and bragged about her wonderful grandchildren, and even brought Alex and Reid to meet us. We will miss her very much and feel blessed to have known her. She was so good to everyone especially Mary and Ray when they needed her help she was tireless. Please except our sympathy on the loss of you mother.

Sue Page

July 22, 2010

Mark, Mike and Family,
I am sorry to hear about your mom. She was quite a character and I am glad that i had the chance to know her. Know now that she is at peace and with Ray once again. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Steve Lowry

July 15, 2010

Mike and Mark,
I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother. Know that everyone prays for you and yuor Mother is in peace and in God's kingdom .

Rachael Dollinger

July 14, 2010

Mike, Mark and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. She was an incredible woman and I enjoyed hearing all her stories. I am glad I had the chance of getting to know Joan, she was such a sweet lady. My prayers are with you all... she is at peace now <3

Jim Krull

July 13, 2010

Mike and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Dave Thompson

July 13, 2010

Mike and Family,
I was very sorry to hear about your Mom. I didn't know her but she must have been quite a lady. Our thoughts, prayers and support are with you.

July 13, 2010

Mike, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although your mom may no longer be here physically she will always be in your hearts. All our love, Glenn and Ana Wheeler

Gene & Madlyne Trunzo

July 13, 2010

Mark, Mike, Barb & Family:
We were very sorry to hear of the passing of your Mother. We always enjoyed the time spent with her and your family for so many years. Please accept our most sincere condolences, our thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family at this time.

Karen and Pete Fallone

July 13, 2010

Mark, Mike, Barb, Sean, and Katie, So sorry to hear about Mom (Grandma). Her smile, laughter, and thoughtfulness will always be treasured. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.

Karen and Peter Fallone

July 13, 2010

Mark,Mike,Barb,Sean,Katie,
So Sorry to hear about Mom (grandma)Her smile laughter and thoughtfulness will always be treasured.My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.

July 13, 2010

Mark, Mike and family,
May you find comfort
in knowing that Joan
is in a wonderful place
of love and light
where there is no pain and sorrow.
We are so sorry for your loss.
Claire & Dan McGuire
Bluffton, SC

Denise Peters (Trunzo)

July 13, 2010

Mark, Mike and Family,
I found out yesterday of your mom’s passing. I’m really sorry. She was a great lady and she was someone that I have thought about often over the years. I have such great memories of her. I’m so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

July 13, 2010

Mike and Family, Mom may have left too soon,but she will always be with you all in spirit. One day you'll all be together again. Think of her often at happy times and even in hard times. It helps to know she is there if only in spirit. Our prayers are with you all in this time of loss. Florence Muscolino(Mike Polizzis Mom)

Steve Franusiak

July 13, 2010

Mike, my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family through these tough times. Sorry for your loss.

Jeanette LoBrutto

July 13, 2010

Mike & Mark and family

Sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a Beautiful and Strong Woman. Someone you are proud of!! God Bless you and your families and know that she is in God's Hands taking caring of you all.

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