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Mon, Paul J.
Greece: Tuesday, January 19, 2010. Pre-deceased by his father Joseph Mon. Best friend and husband of Diane, Pa of David & Tina (Jared) Twamley; son of Dorothy Mon; brother of Margaret Castelluzo & Joe Mon Jr. Retired after 37 years with Kodak, Paul had a deep love of family, enjoyed vacations at the beach with Diane; golf, hunting, fishing and going to the pool hall on Sunday afternoons.
Friends of Paul are welcome to join the family Saturday 11:00 a.m. at Christ the King Church for his Funeral Mass and for calling hrs. at the funeral home 12:00 - 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may donate to Hildebrandt Hospice Care Center or Adirondak Mountain Club. Interment at the convenience of the family. Paul lived by the phrase "If it was easy anyone could do it."

PAUL W. HARRIS FUNERAL HOME
570 Kings Highway So. 544-2041
www.harrisfuneralhome.com

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jan. 21, 2010.

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Shannon & Jeff Kozak

January 28, 2010

Mrs. Mon-Twamley,

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Please know that you are in our thoughts at this most difficult time.

January 27, 2010

My condolences to the Mon family.

I've only known Paul thru the online Pool forums of which Paul was a long time and active participant. Over the last 10 years of reading Paul's posts and trading messages, I feel I got to know him, though I never had the chance to meet with him in person. Unfortunately, our paths never crossed.

As you know, Pool was Paul's passion. His writings can be read here, click on the "forums" and search for "Paul_Mon" : www.azbilliards.com and www.billiardsdigest.com, as well as rec.sport.billiards.

Eric Hu, NJ

Lindsay Bonsignore

January 26, 2010

Mon family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. Lindsay Bonsignore

Debbie Parker Lockhart

January 25, 2010

Dear Mrs. Mon, Margret, Joe Jr., Diane and family members,

I am so sorry I was unable to attend the visitation hours on Saturday. I would have liked to express my sympathy to all of you in person.

It was with great sadness to hear of Paul's passing, another loss for the generation of kids who grew up on Brockley Road.

My deepest condolences are extended to all of you. Know that my Mom, Rita Parker, and I will keep you all in our prayers.

Sincerely,
Your Former Neighbor

January 25, 2010

Dear Ms. Mon, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Im so sorry for your loss. love, Jeff & the Jung family.

January 24, 2010

Diane,
Kim and Sam told us about Paul and we are so sorry to learn about his illness and passing. We always enjoyed your company when we got together at the DeLuca's. Gary ran into Paul this fall on the golf course and they had a great chat. Our hearts go out to you and your family and we hope to see you again. Nancy and Gary Palozzi

January 23, 2010

RIP Paul the pool world will miss you. I was lucky enough to have known and met Paul several times over the last 14 years, he was one of the good guys. The JimBoArmy will miss you.

Jim Brennan

Laura Pastecki

January 23, 2010

Diane,

I was so sorry to hear of the loss of you beloved husband Paul. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. My deepest sympathy to you all.

Love,
Laura (Cerri) Pastecki

Bill Pelligra

January 23, 2010

Diane, I want to extend my sincere sympathy. Paul and I were good friends and co-workers in Thermal Printer & Kiosk. Before that time I used to do design support work for him when he was at Gerber Plant. He was a great man, very well respected with a great sense of humor, who I got to know very well over the years. We also shared some history at Bishop Kearney, but I never knew him there. We most recently reconnected via email through our good friend John Timpano. I will be praying for Paul and your family. God bless you.
Bill Pelligra

Jim Williams

January 23, 2010

So sorry to hear about Paul. Paul was a mainstay of our Optical Disk and Automated Disk Library programs at Kodak back in the 80s. I think it's safe to say everyone who had contact with Paul liked him and, especially, respected him. We became friends. Paul was truly "one of the good guys", and I'll miss him. My wife, Sally, and I send our sincere thoughts and prayers to his loved ones.

Julia Vaccarelli

January 22, 2010

Diane, David, Tina and Family,

We have known Paul for over twenty years. We had the pleasure of being his next door neighbor as well as his friend. As a neighbor, he was always willing to help. I remember the mornings we would wake to find he had snow blown our driveway. Whenever we needed help with a project or a hand moving somthing, Paul was there. As the years went by, we remained good friends. We will miss his kind spirit, his great smile, and his funny stories. He will be forever in our memories and hearts. We were lucky to have known him. Our prayers are with you all. Love,
The Vaccarelli Family

Maureen VanLare

January 22, 2010

Diane, David and Tina,

Our deepest sympathy. My mom lives right behind you and I remember last year when Paul gave me some great advice when I was closing our pool. Paul was always there when we needed anything after my dad had passed away. So if you ever need anything or any help with the pool just call. My prayers go out to you all and I am so sorry for you loss.

Mary McKain and Family

Lori Hance

January 22, 2010

I met Paul in 1991, when we worked at the old Gerber plant for Kodak, and then our paths crossed again when I rejoined the Kodak Thermal Media group. He was always an easy person to talk to. He spoke very highly of his family and you could tell how proud he was of them! I always enjoyed overhearing him on the phone with his mom (almost) every morning.
He will be missed by all of us that knew him at Kodak.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Steve DeLorenzo

January 22, 2010

Diane, David and Tina,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband and father - he was an exceptional man. I worked with Paul at Kodak for 12 years. He was so kind and so much fun and helped to make our stress filled days much more enjoyable. I last saw Paul (and Diane) at Sam's Club last fall - we had a nice talk and I gave both of you my recommendation for the TV you purchased. You are all very lucky to have had such a wonderful man touch your lives. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Steve DeLorenzo

Pat Finch

January 21, 2010

Dianne, Ranger Davey Boy, and Tina,
There are no words to express my feelings. I am so greatful to have had the many wonderful years with Paul as our guest at "The Farm". Paulie's way of telling a story and his easy, comfortable humor will live on in my memory forever. If I can help in any way please call. Love to you all, Pat Finch

John Coia

January 21, 2010

My deepest condolences to Paul's wife and children. I met Paul a few years ago through my brother playing golf. We played weekly and had some great times playing golf and enjoying a burger and a beer afterward. He was a class act, they don't come any better. You will be greatly missed Paul..........God Bless you and your family.

K Caldicott

January 21, 2010

My deepest sympathies. I worked with Paul in the CAD/CAM arena at Kodak in Rochester. He will be missed.

January 21, 2010

Diane, David and Tina, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I did not know Paul, but anybody who is a best friend to Diane is someone who is very special. I pray you all find comfort in the fact that your husband, best friend, and father is in a much better place than the rest of us are. God Bless. Tammy Rice

January 21, 2010

I met Paul many years ago at the Super Billiards Expo and always though of him not only as a customer but also a good friend. We send our sincere condolences to the family.

Jack & Toots Justis
Justis Cases

January 21, 2010

Diane, Dave and Tina,
There are no words to express how very sorry we are to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. God bless you all.
Love,
The Mitrovits family.

January 21, 2010

Paul always willingly took the time to help me with printers at work. He is missed. My deepest condolences.

Elizabeth Falk

scott Phillips

January 21, 2010

I worked with Paul and also bowled with him in the 80's. Paul was a mentor for me learning computer aided drafting. He was a brilliant class person and lots of fun to hang out with. We will miss him and what he brought to the world.

Gideon Forrest

January 21, 2010

I knew Paul through pool and internet pool groups. In the sometimes fractious internet world, Paul was universally perceived as a stand-up guy and a class act. His loss has touched many, many people, even those who never met him in person. I had the great fortune to have met Paul in person, as well as his lovely wife and children. My thoughts, and the thoughts of many more, go out to his family in this sad time.

January 21, 2010

When we lose someone we love, the loss seems too great to bear. But God sends us friends and family to comfort us and show that He deeply cares. May you all feel God's love at this time of healing.

God Bless - Linda Puckhaber

Jake MacDonald

January 21, 2010

I worked with Paul on the Picture Maker products at Kodak, for just a few years actually, but it did not take long for us to become fast friends. We both enjoyed a good burger, and he introduced me to several of his favorite burger joints. As it turned out, we had many things in common, too numerous to list here. He was a genuine, gentle man. I miss you Paulie Mon-mon. We'll meet again.

Nicole Morano-Gonzalez

January 21, 2010

Even though I hadn't seen Paul in many years, I was fortunate enough to be able to reconnect with him in the past couple months. He was a great man, and a great friend to my father. He went out of his way to help me and my mother through a tough time in our lives when my father passed. I know he will be dearly missed, but he is not alone...
Love, Nicole Morano-Gonzalez

January 21, 2010

To Diane and your family,
I send my deepest condolences.I have had you on my mind for some time now. I remember the day you and Paul met. We thought he was so cute!
I'm here if you need anything at all.
Your old friend
Laura

i going to miss you bro

January 21, 2010

Dan Derleth

January 21, 2010

On behalf of many of his colleagues and good friends at Eastman Kodak, Paul will be sadly missed. Paul was a wonderful person who always could be counted on and was friendly to all who had an opportunity to work with him. Our prayers to the Mon family. May Paul be the guiding light for the rest of us.

Deb White

January 21, 2010

I never met your husband, but he obviously loved you; therefore, he's one of the good guys. I lost my husband 4 months ago and have a vague idea of the pain and tests ahead. With the support and love of your family and friends, it will make the road ahead a little less bumpy. Take their hands and feel the strength. Deb White

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