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Thomas Passamonte Obituary
Thomas N.
(Tom Monte)
Rochester: Peacefully, April 5, 2014. Predeceased by his parents Gus and Josephine, mother of his children, Arlene Passamonte. Survived by his children Thomas Passamonte (Mary Newell), Gary Passamonte (Domenic Vecchioli), Laurie (Michael) Scarpulla, Joseph (Danielle) Passamonte and grandchildren Gabrielle (Mark) Magnanti, Sara Passamonte, Justin Passamonte, Olivia (Mark) Langdon, Sophia Scarpulla, Tyler Passamonte and Perry Passamonte; great-grandchildren Lillian, Evelyn and Micah Joy; sisters Francis Melville and Tina Lamendola; Loving cousins, nieces, nephews and many special friends.
Family and friends are invited to a Memorial Service Monday, April 14, at Holy Ghost Church, 250 Coldwater Road at 3:30pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a music program of your choice in honor of Tom's life-long love of music or to a local comfort care home in the Passamonte name.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Passamonte
Judith Heagney-O'Hara
April 7, 2019
Revised from 2014:
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)udith A. Heagney-O'Hara
P.O. Box 18723
Rochester, New York 14618-0723
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 at 2:48 AM
From: "Judith Heagney-OHara"
To: "Judith Heagney-OHara"
Subject: Tom Passamonte...
While at Tom's service today, I recalled enjoying his company in St. Martin/St. Maarten while On Ontario Liquor trips(their employer) with my husband....
Listening to him playing and singing every weekend while I worked at Sweet's Party House...
And enjoying him at all the trips and get togethers with family and friends...
To seeing him performing again a few years ago..
To a telephone conversation most recently -
Although afterward I did not know he became ill -and with no goodbye..
I will miss him very much - A 'Special' person...
May his music in your hearts keep him close to you all always~
Judy Heagney-O'Hara
)udith Anne Heagney-O'Hara
P.O. Box 18723
Rochester, New York 14618-0723
)udith Anne Heagney-O'Hara
P.O. Box 18723
Rochester, New York 14618-0723
Patrick Hotchkiss
April 16, 2014
Tom, So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I have known Tom from back in the 60's when I played at the Edgewater and he was at Cresent Beach.
Sang many times with him. Sinatra will be there to greet him I am sure!
Patrick Hotchkiss
Bass Player vocalist
Mr and Mrs Joseph DiJune
April 15, 2014
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
April 15, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Judith Anne Heagney-O'Hara
April 14, 2014
While at Tom's service today, I recalled enjoying his company in St. Martin/St. Maarten while on Ontario Liquor trips with my husband...
Listening to him playing and singing every weekend while I worked at Sweet's Party House...
And enjoying him at all the trips and get togethers with family and friends...
To seeing him performing again a few years ago..
To a telephone conversation most recently-
Although afterward I did not know he became ill-and with with no goodbye..I will miss him very much - A 'special' person....
May his music in your hearts keep him close to you all always~
)udy Heagney-O'Hara
Ronald Fox, Unity Hospital
April 14, 2014
I am saddened to read of Mr. Passamonte's passing. I have been thinking of him over the last few weeks. My prayers are with you all.
Nikki Dubner
April 14, 2014
Our condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers for your entire family.
April 13, 2014
Tom was the highlight of my wedding. Such a sweet and talented man. My prayers to the family.
Gina Bianchi
April 13, 2014
Tom was the highlight of my wedding, such a sweet and talented man. I am honored to have know him. My prayers to his family.
April 13, 2014
Tom, I was very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. God rest his soul.
Sincerely, Mrs. Joseph Ross
April 13, 2014
Kathyann Weber
April 13, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Passamonte family.
Kevin Skinner
April 13, 2014
Uncle Tom was a Great person and a FABULOUS singer Now he's in Heaven playing music with all the Greats . my thoughts and prayers are with all of you
Rosie Taravella
April 13, 2014
Thank you for the music and the good times for our whole family.
Annmarie Cherolini
April 13, 2014
RIP Uncle Tom, your legacy with live on with your very talented family. You will be missed but never forgotten. One day we will all be together again. I love you, your niece Annmarie
cathy. john defazio
April 13, 2014
Our prayer s are with you love the Defazio family
April 13, 2014
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