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Richard Young

1939 - 2010

Richard Young obituary, 1939-2010, Rochester, NY

Richard Young Obituary

Wednesday, December 15, held by family, surrounded in love. He was an incredible and loved father and PupPup, a devoted and fun husband, a worshiped brother and for so many, a hero and an irreplaceable friend.

Richard was born in Penfield NY on October 17, 1939, to the late Carl and Margaret Young. He graduated from Penfield High School where he excelled in sports winning the amateur version of The Hickok Belt. He attended the University of Rochester then moved to New York City where he graduated from The School of Visual Arts and attended Pratt Institute and The Art Students League of New York. It was the beginning of his lifelong love affair with drawing, with photography, and with New York City.

He served in the US Army, trained in Special Forces, Airborne and attained the rank of Sergeant at Fort Bragg, NC.

In 1965, Richard brought his talent and imagination to Kodak where he was a member of the Motion Picture Services unit, directing and photographing movies for sales presentations, for showing on Public Television, and new product launches. In 1976 he created the movie, "Washington The Man" which was Kodak's gift to the nation to celebrate the Bicentennial. It was shown in a specially built theater in Washington, DC, where it was seen by hundreds of thousands of visitors.

After 25 years at Kodak, Richard left to point his camera into the darkness of global problems needing to be solved, to bring attention to those needing to be heard. With Worldwide Documentaries he photographed "I'm Still Here: The Truth About Schizophrenia" followed by two more powerful movies: "A Closer Walk", a film confronting the Global AIDS epidemic, and "Not My Life", a feature length documentary on modern day human trafficking which he was in New York City doing the color correction on a month ago. On December 11th "Not My Life " had it's world premier in Luxor, Egypt at the First Lady Egypt's global conference on Human Trafficking. Getting calls from his colleagues from Worldwide Documentaries while the film was playing against a temple in Egypt was a thrill to him! Four days later he passed.

Richard had an enduring sense of curiosity, a passion for restoring Mopar muscle cars, hence his vanity plate, "Rumbles", and an attraction to people -- guiding, inspiring, mentoring them -- telling their stories on film, enriching their lives. Those who worked with him speak of his extraordinary artistic gifts - his vision and wisdom; his patience and grace; his sensitivity and enthusiasm and friendship - and transforming even the most tragic subjects into beautiful films. His work received two Emmy Awards and an Academy Award nomination.

He leaves behind his wife, Pamela Young!; daughter, Jacqueline and son-in-law, Nicholas Perrins, and their three children Owen, Macy and Sawyer; his siblings -- Carol (Richard) Habes, Jeffrey (Carol Ann) Young, Michael (Geri) Young, Jan (John) McLean, and Debora (Dennis) Wyckoff; the mother of the light of his life, Rose P. Young; his brothers and sisters in-law -- John (Laura) VanDerWerken, Donna (Leslie Reeves) VanDerWerken, JoAnn VanDerWerken, Mary (Frank Costanza) VanDerWerken, and Lisa VanDerWerken. He was "Coolest Uncle" to scores of nieces and nephews and knew the love of many wonderful and tender friends. His beloved dogs, Berkeley Boy and Truman, who in the way that dogs do, gave him unconditional love and attention until the last possible moment wait together for him to come home. He generously donated his body to the Anatomical Gift Program at the University Of Rochester.

A Mass to celebrate this kind man's life and work is planned for January 29, 2011 at 1:00pm at Blessed Sacrament Church, 534 Oxford Street, Rochester, New York, followed by a reception until 5:00pm at NXT Media, 6 North Main Street, Fairport, New York -- a place he loved to be!

In lieu of flowers his wish was for donations to The Humane Society at Lollypop Farm or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Dec. 19, 2010.

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Lynda Cook

November 15, 2011

November 15. 2011

Dearest Jackie,

I am so saddened to learn of your Dad's passing. I've so many fond memories of him, and of your grandparents, Jeff, Mike, and sisters on my many visits to Penfield, when we were ALL so young.

Having lost touch with Rody after her move to your area, and my numerous moves, I very much wanted to wish you a happy 45th, and began calling the only other valid "Young number" I had, which was your Dad and Pam's. Eventually she and I spoke briefly, and she gave me your office number, which I lost before I could call you. She didn't tell me of your Dad's passing, or answer my calls again. So, finally it occurred to me to try to reach Richard on-line somehow. Thus, I've so sadly learned. Strangely, though so much time had passed, he had been very much in my thoughts for many months.

Jackie, I've loved and wished you well all your life, relayed through your Mom for years, because YOU were always so busy with school and career. I do hope you'll reach me, and that Owen, Macy, and Sawyer will also have an "Aunt Lynda," although your Mom did call me "Auntie Mame!"

Sheryl Boughter

July 28, 2011

Pamela, although i was so happy to see you last night at the tennis match, I was so saddened by the news of Richard passing. I remember the days we passed in the halls of Kodak, and there was always a peaceful calm and happiness about him! My condolences to you and your family.

April 12, 2011

The Young Family,

Despite the fact that I was an intern, within minutes of meeting (and bonding over our love for cinema) he loaned me his Bolex to shoot a spec commercial. That was Richard. In an industry of nay-sayers, you could always count on his support.

John Fiorella
www.untamedcinema.com

May Vandenberg

February 24, 2011

Pamela, I am so, so saddened to hear of Richard passing. I haven't seen you both in such a long time, but have thought often of you both wondering what you were up to with that beautiful home of yours, the "puppies", your gardens, his cars, all of your adventures, which I loved hearing about when we would get together for our annual breakfast to catch up with each others lives. I didn't know Richard was ill and wish I could have been there for you in some way. As so many have said offering their condolences, we all know you were so precious to each other, and I hope all the wonderful memories you made together will soften your loss at this time. My love and prayers to you and your family. "Mayvis"

Tori Budgeon-Baker

February 7, 2011

Jacqueline, I was so surprised and saddened to hear of your father's passing. I felt compelled to express my condolences. My mother-in-law passed a week before your father after a long illness also and I understand what a hard process and time that can be in your life. I have fond memories of your father and remember seeing you both at one of the filming locations for 'Washington the Man'. I still travel by that tree on the hill in Victor occasionally and always think of your father.

Christine Van Zile Stabins

February 2, 2011

Pamela,
I have worked with Worldwide making their travel arrangements ~ including Richards for years. All of us at the office were so very sad to hear the news. I recently had the pleasure of viewing his latest work at the premier of Not My Life at Lincoln Center. He had an amazing eye and the movie that he worked so hard on with Robert is just increadible.

We shall all miss his creativity and kindness. Our most sincere condolences.

Emma Brown Waller

January 17, 2011

Pamela,

Words can't express the sadness I felt when I read about Richard's passing. He was a wonderful and talented man.

I found a quote by an unknown source and thought about you and Richard.

"When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure."

Richard will be treasured by many people.

You are in my prayers.

Luigi Casella

January 12, 2011

Pamela, fortemente rattristato tua notizia ,accetta le mie piu' profonde condoglianze. Luigi Casella

January 11, 2011

Dear Pam,
I was so sad to hear the news about Richard. The tribute in the paper was beautiful and I learned so much about Richard's history and background in much more detail....very enlightening. I am proud to have known him at work and on the volley ball court. I know you two were a match made in heaven, and that you will look forward to seeing him once again. You are in my prayers. Love, "One Eye" Renee

Pat & Cliff Barnett

January 8, 2011

Pamela,

I felt as if my heart had stopped when told of Richard's passing. He was a wonderful person. During the years I was honored to work for him at KBTV were some of the most exciting years of my life.

He will be missed by all of us who love him. I always admired him for his love and dedication he felt for his career and family.

Richard loved you very much and know that you brought much joy to his life.

Always remember he will live on in our hearts. Hold on to all the beautiful memories.

Donna Covannon

January 8, 2011

Dear Pam,

I just heard about Richard's passing and am very saddened. I have fond memories of Richard - his kindness, warmth, style and of course talent. I, too, often think of you and how you radiate those same qualities.

During these difficult times, I hope you can reflect on the wonderful life you shared.

Warm regards,
Donna and Ed Covannon

Betsy Hendrick

January 4, 2011

Pam,
My heart goes out to you and your extended family.
I had know idea he was sick. I am praying for you.
Betsy

January 1, 2011

Dear Pam,

I am so sorry to finally hear this news. You know how much I loved and admired Richard, he was an original in so many ways, and so immensely talented both in art and his greatest of all gifts: humanity. God bless you and Richard's eternal soul.

Alan Packard

December 27, 2010

Dear Pamela, Sorry this is late, but i traveled to Philadelphia to help my son and his wife with their sick 1 yr. old. Denny (especially) and i are devastated about Richard's death. I'm so glad the Penfield gang had their reunion last summer. He will be missed by so many. We are so sorry for your loss.
Denny & Marion DeLeo

Jim Hastings

December 27, 2010

Dear Pamela,
I was so sorry to hear about Rich's passing. I got to know Rich from his love of Mopar Muscle cars. I always looked forward to talking with him at the Log Cabin Cruise nights. He never bragged about his amazing talent of photography but the few things he shared it was apparent he had a gift. He always had a smile and stories to tell and was just fun to be with, I will miss him.

Jim

Jim Larson

December 23, 2010

Pamela:

I'm certain that Richard told you some great stories from the time we first met and played baseball in Penfield and when we were roommates in New York while attending the Art Students League. He, I and Peter Deuel, who died tragically in 1972, had a great time together. I know that through the years, he cherished his independence and freedom, his wonderful family -- and you!! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paul & Shino Mclaughlin

December 22, 2010

Dear Pamela,
We are so sorry your beloved Richard has passed. He was a wonderful, wonderful man.
May warm memories help soften your sorrow. We miss his charming smile at Midtown work out area.

Paul & Shino

December 22, 2010

My sister Pam, I am so sorry for your loss that words are hard to come by. I am sure you will always have many great memories of the life you and Richard had together. Our prayers are with you and all of Richards friends and loved one's. ....John & Laura VanDerWerken

Ceola Bacot

December 22, 2010

Dear Pamela,
a truly inspirational man. Richard always had a smile and kind word. H e would always as about my children. He remembered my eldest daughter liked to write short stories and was a creative writing major in high school. I am so very sorry for your families loss of his smile and tender heart. Know that he left a legacy behind, a legacy of love warmth and caring. Richard will always be remembered for being Richard.

Ray and Rebecca Berkeley Streety

December 21, 2010

Dear Pam,
You must be so proud of all that Richard stood for and accomplished. And you must also be proud of and grateful for all you were able to contribute to him and your life together. We could see how much he loved you. May the memory of that love make you strong and able to bear the grief that is sure to grow in the next months and may it help to heal the void and prepare you for the next phase of your life.

Doug & Claire Kennedy

December 21, 2010

Dear Pamela, A lovely tribute to your Richard in the paper. Much love and prayers go out for you and your whole family at this time.

Evelyn Laboy

December 21, 2010

Dear Pamela,
My sincere condolences to you and your family for Richard's passing. Whenever we had conversations of you and Richard, you always had a huge smile on your face - a smile of deep love, respect and admiration. God Bless You and bring you comfort and peace!

Audrey East

December 20, 2010

Uncle Dick may you rest in peace. Aunt Pam and Jackie, my deepest sympathy for you all. I love you. God bless you all. He is heaven with my mommy and uncle dick along with his loving parents watching over us. Uncle Dick you are inspirational man. Truly great in soo many ways. I hope My brother Jake can follow in your footsteps in the film world. I always wanted to travel with you on one of your journeys for work. I am mad I never was able to. God bless you.

December 20, 2010

Pam,
I'm so sorry to hear of Richard's passing. Richard was a very talented individual taken far too soon.
Don Duryee'

December 20, 2010

Richard was a wonderful person and we will miss his vists. Our prayers go out to Pam and Jessica and her family.
Marty & Patty Pierson

Jonathan Barlow

December 20, 2010

Pamela,
I'm saddened to hear about Richards passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

December 20, 2010

Pamie - I was shocked to hear this sad news. I have thought about you several times and do hope you find comfort in all of the very special memories you have Richard. He was definitely a very special person to you and many people. We will always remember the great brunches at your home, which Richard prepared for us. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you. JoJo

Don Ver Ploeg

December 20, 2010

Within my Kodak motion picture and video production group, Richard was certainly one of our most creative and multi-talented filmmakers. The producer our “clients” asked for first. His imaginative work never disappointed.

A giant in every regard, Richard will be missed wide and far.

Candice Taylor

December 20, 2010

Uncle Dick you will be missed by all of us my best memories was going to your house for christmas and playing with the cousins in the library and playing in the snow. Pam I am so sorry for your loss...

Chris Moore

December 20, 2010

Pammy, what tragic news. I'm so sorry to hear of Richard's passing. He was such a great man. He loved you so much. You and all who are grieving this huge loss are in my prayers.

Richard Smith

December 20, 2010

Dear Pamela and Family Members,

I worked directly with Richard at Kodak office during my Kodak career where our supervisor was Jerry Joseph. Richard had such an artistic and keen sense for telling a story using Motion Picture Photography. Our time together while working for Kodak was one of the most rewarding times ever for me. He enriched my life in so many ways and I will always be forever grateful for having known such a talented person. I later hired Richard to assist me with a few film projects while working at MEC.

I am so very saddened to hear of his passing at such an early age but Blessed in so many ways for having known such a wonderful and talented person.

God Bless you all and know that he is always close in our hearts.

Richard Smith

Rebecca Lawson

December 20, 2010

Dear Pam,
Although we haven't seen you in several years, the image of your smiling face is implanted in our memories of 30 years at Kodak Office.
John and I want to extend our sincere condolences in the loss of your beloved Richard. May God Bless You with wonderful memories of your life together.
Your friends,
John and Rebecca Cox-Lawson

Anna Koelsch

December 20, 2010

Dearest Pamela, I write this to you with sadness in my heart for your loss....and the loss to all of us who had the privilege of knowing Richard. I have the warmest memories of you both and will always keep them with me.

Elly Stevens

December 20, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Pam. You're in my prayers.

December 19, 2010

Dear Pam,
Richard was one of those people that made me feel like a
better person for knowing him. His talent, creativity, and passion for his work was an inspiration. I think his final work speaks to his love of his craft. Plese know my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Live Gently,

Gary Whelpley

Karen and Bob McEwen

December 19, 2010

Dearest Pamela,
We were shocked and saddened by the news, you are and will stay in our thoughts and prayers.

Jay Hardesty

December 19, 2010

Pamela,

Although our times together were few and far in the past I have quite fond memories of the two of you being able to light up a room with your "coupledom". Richard had an infectious laugh and a lively sense of humor along with a deep reflection and sense of care. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss for you, family and all who knew Richard.
Blessings,

Tony Zollo

December 19, 2010

Dear Pam,
May you be comforted by the prayers of those that care for you and your family. We all share in the sorrow of your loss. God bless you.

Patricia Schreiner

December 19, 2010

Pamela Jean, please accept my sincere condolences on your Richard's passing. What a beautiful soul! I still remember the night many years ago -- just around this time of year --when you first danced with Richard. The two of you have danced through life together ever since. I am convinced that his spirit will always be with you and that Richard will continue to be "the wind beneath your wings." Peace be with you.

Dick Burandt

December 19, 2010

Pam: Dick was just a very fine person with out standing talent. He will be missed. You are in my prayers.

December 19, 2010

Oh, Pam, my heart aches for you. He was such a special man and I know he was the wonder of your life. I so wish I could be there to give you a hug. Just know that you are in my prayers and shall continue to be.

Much love, Debbye Vangellow Hilfiker

MaryAnn McCullough-Douglas

December 19, 2010

Pamela,

Sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Richard.

Sharon doell

December 19, 2010

Pam you are in my thoughts and prayers, along with all those that loved him. What a remarkable individual.

Linda DiStefano

December 19, 2010

Dearest Pamela - Richard, the love of your life, may be gone from this earthly existence, but he will never be far from you. You will feel his spirit and you will know he is close. You will see him again! God bless you!

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