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Michelle R. "Shelley" Trainor

Michelle R. "Shelley" Trainor obituary

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Novi, Michigan

Michelle Trainor Obituary

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MICHELLE R. "SHELLEY" Of Novi. Age 47, after a 10 month battle with ovarian cancer, passed away peacefully with her family at her side on August 22, 2016. Shelley is survived by her husband, Chris; her three children, Jack (17), Jeffrey (15), and Lauren (12); mother, Nancy Foley; brother, Todd Foley, (Maylanie); niece, Celia; uncle, Ron Sossi; father, Tim Foley (Amy); half-sisters, Sydney and Claire Foley; father in-law, John Trainor; mother in-law, Nancy Trainor; brother in-law, Daniel Trainor (Claudia Berg); niece, Alexis and nephew Ryan. Shelley graduated from Birmingham Seaholm High School and earned a BS, Family and Community Services - Child Services from Michigan State University. She was a proud sister of the Delta Gamma Sorority at Michigan State University. After college, Shelley worked in the fields of early childhood education, provided childcare and eldercare benefits to local companies, and supported efforts to prevent drug and alcohol abuse for teens. Recently, Shelley worked in the Novi Community School district as a special education paraprofessional. Shelley loved being a mother and was very active in her kids' lives and was also a big supporter of the Island Lake of Novi Community where the family lives. She was an advocate for always helping others in need as she promoted anti-bullying efforts with Kids Empowered and she was also a board member of the Congregation of Every 1, a nonprofit charitable organization based in Novi. Her charity, volunteerism and leadership are a lasting memory for all and she will be deeply missed by many. In lieu of flowers and other gifts, the family has requested that donations be made to Kenya Relief, a nonprofit charitable organization that was very special to Shelley after she traveled to Africa on a humanitarian mission. Please visit kenyarelief.org for more information. Use the drop-down menu to select "Other" and type 'Shelley' to make contributions in her name. Memorial service will be 7 p.m. Friday, August 26, 2016 at the O'Brien/Sullivan Funeral Home, 41555 Grand River, Novi, MI, 248-348-1800. Family will receive friends 1-9 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.

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Published by Hometown Life from Aug. 25 to Aug. 28, 2016.

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Julie Phillips

August 30, 2016

I never knew Shelley. However, as a mother my heart felt so much sorrow for her precious children. This candle is for her light which was.is brilliant. And for the children, that they may find her loving light of her everlasting spirit to carry them out of their sorrows to days where their memories together will make them smile once again.

Karan Wiklanski

August 28, 2016

I am so sorry to learn of Shelley's passing. I knew her when she was on the Board of Troy MediGo. She was a lovely young woman and I am happy to have had the chance to know her.

August 26, 2016

Sincere condolences to the family, may you find comfort in this Bible passage. "I have heard your prayers. I have seen your tears. here I am healing you. " 2kings 20:5

Cynthia and Bill Bechill

August 25, 2016

Chris, Jack, Jeffrey, Lauren, Nancy and family,

Thinking beautiful thoughts of Shelley and all she has accomplished. Her legacy will live on for so many lives she has touched both near and far. Our sincere condolences for your loss. Wishing you much love, strength and peace. Lucky to have known Shelley through our Americare family. xoxo

Cynthia & Bill Bechill

Julie Gibson

August 25, 2016

Chris, my sympathies to you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

Ken C

August 24, 2016

My deepest sympathies to you and your family, Chris. Your family, the community, and the world have lost one of the best. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Tom O'Connor

August 23, 2016

To the Trainor family,

My heart aches for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord be with all of you during this most difficult time.

Tom O'Connor

August 23, 2016

My heart aches for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord be with all of you during this most difficult time.

Donna Marasco

August 23, 2016

Chris, your family is in our prayers.

Sauna Gordon

August 23, 2016

So sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Cyndi Summers

August 23, 2016

Nancy, this is addressed to you. I didn't know Shelley, but I can tell from reading her obit that she was a beautiful woman, both inside and out. The kind of daughter a mother couldn't be more proud of. I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, to Shelley's husband and kids, and to your whole family. I wish you love, strength and, eventually, peace.

Brad Bitner

August 23, 2016

My heart and prayers go out to the Trainor family.

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41555 Grand River Ave, Novi, MI 48375

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41555 Grand River Ave, Novi, MI 48375

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