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SHIRLEY ABBOTT Obituary

S.L. ABBOTT Shirley Levoy "S.L." Abbott passed away peacefully on April 23, 2013 from complications of congestive heart failure. He was born July 23, 1924 to Aaron "Jack" and Vera Goodwin Abbott in Fairview, Oklahoma. He was raised by his mother from the age of two to eight when his mother died prematurely while they were living with his grandparents Theron and Eva Goodwin. His grandparents raised him on their tenant dairy farm outside Stewartville, Minnesota where he attended a one room school house and came to love farming. His father married Floy Coe Abbott when he was fourteen and they took him to live in Clinton, Oklahoma and then to El Paso, Texas where he attended Austin High School and met Arline Beahler. He and Arline Beahler were married on Cinco de Mayo, 1945 and they honeymooned at the Noisy Water Lodge in Ruidoso. Austin High School would later name him their Outstanding Ex. As a young man growing up in El Paso, he had many jobs but often mentioned running the rides at Washington Park, distributing handbills for the Chew Grocery, working as a soda jerk at Gunning Casteel and as a bellboy at the Cortez Hotel. He attended the College of Mines where he was a Cheerleader. When World War II was declared he left school and enlisted in the US Army and served in the South Pacific in Saipan. After the war he returned to El Paso and married Arline, after she typed his discharge papers as a civilian volunteer. They moved to Portales, New Mexico where he worked in an uncle's jewelry store which was later moved to San Diego, California. It was in San Diego that their only child Alan was born. He said Alan was an only child because they took one look at him and pledged not to do that again. Their next move was to Santa Rosa, California where he and a partner started their own watch repair and jewelry store. While there he graduated from Santa Rosa Junior College. He was admitted to study optometry at Pacific University in Forest Grove, Oregon where he completed his B.S. and his Doctorate of Optometry. Pacific University would later name him it's Outstanding Ex. While there, he built a small boat and joined the Air Force Reserves where he got his private pilot's license. Boating and flying would become passions for him. Dr. Abott returned to El Paso to start his optometric practice and was one of the first in the region to fit the corneal contact lens. As his practice grew, he met a charismatic young Catholic priest by the name of Father Harold Rahm. He began to work with Padre Haroldo and he converted to Catholicism and served with Father Rahm as Chairman of the Board of Our Lady's Youth Center. His belief that Texas should be a two party state led him to enter Republican politics where he served as El Paso County chairman at a time when he said the party was so small they held the county convention in a phone booth downtown. He also served as Deputy State Chairman of the Republican Party. He ran unsuccessfully for the State Senate three times, State Comptroller once and was finally elected to the State House in a special election in 1977, thus becoming the first Republican elected to the State House from El Paso County in that century. His favorite opposition bumper sticker was one that said "Surely not Shirley". He continued his flying by helping to organize the Civic Air Patrol in El Paso and infamously landing his plane in the Balboa Park Zoo, when he ran out of gas on final into Lindbergh Field in San Diego. The FAA inspector who rushed to the site was not amused to find him with a gas can trying to refuel and fly to Lindberg Field. He also began sailing a Schock '22 in the Sea of Cortez and late in his life cruised his beloved Khotso, a Nordic Tug, in the Baja of Mexico. When he could no longer walk, he placed a recliner on the aft deck and held court from there. In the late 60s, he started Pan American Optical Company which operated in various sectors of the ophthalmic optical industry. This enterprise later became Sunland Optical Company and was the largest military optical contractor in the United States. He developed Greenbriar Manor and Lynwood Garden Apartments and was a shareholder and founding director of Continental National Bank and Valley Bank. In the early seventies he was named Small Businessman of the Year by the El Paso Small Business Administration. Having lived through the Great Depression with his maternal grandparents on their tenant farm he had a passion for the rural life. At different times, he operated a cattle ranch in Hatch, New Mexico, developed a pecan farm in Anthony, New Mexico, grew alfalfa and cotton in Tornillo, Texas and grapefruit and oranges in Borrego Springs, California. His and Arline's favorite was the Texas Citrus and Game Farm in the Eastern Cape of South Africa which they operated with their grandson Jason. It was their "Out of Africa" experience. In the mid seventies he was appointed to be the Regional Director of the Bi-Centennial Administration and he traveled a five state region giving patriotic speeches celebrating our countries 200th anniversary. About this time he co-founded the Granaderos de Galvez which honored the Spanish influence on the development of America. He and many El Pasoans traveled to Spain on numerous occasions as guests of the Spanish government. He was honored as Honorary Consul General of Spain for Texas and on one of the group trips was presented with the highest honor awarded a non Spanish citizen, The Order of Isabella La Catolica by King Juan Carlos of Spain. In 1983 President Reagan appointed him Ambassador to the Kingdom of Lesotho, which is an independent monarchy in Southern Africa. His Ambassadorial orientation was performed by Ambassador Shirley Temple Black whom he teased about causing his name to become a popular girls' name. He painted portraits of the King and Queen of Lesotho which he presented to them at the Royal Palace, without creating an international incident. He was also a published poet. These artistic talents he inherited from his mother. He was charming, a fearless adventurer and lived every day of his life. He was a mesmerizing story teller and when pressed would admit that some of his stories were true. He was predeceased by Arline, his loving wife of sixty-five years, whom he missed every remaining day of his life, and survived by his son Alan, daughter-in-law Beth (and her prolific Postlewaite clan, too numerous to mention here), grandson Jason and his wife Mariane, granddaughter Allison Kaelin and her husband Bill and their children Brayden and Leah. He is survived by his brother Bill and his wife Donna, he was predeceased by his sister Cleta Yeatts and his brothers and sisters in law Lt. Col. Lee E. Beahler, his wife Anne and Al O'Leary and survived by sister in law Maybelle O'Leary and her daughters Aleen Ball and Patsy O'Leary, brother in law Dr. John Beahler and his wife Electra. He is also survived by cousin Karla Boggs and her husband Senator Larry Boggs. He asked that there be no formal ceremony. Special thanks are given to his caregiver Merly and hospice nurse Monet Ruff, RN. For those wishing to make a memorial contribution, you may contribute to the Arline Beahler Abbott Scholarship in Business Administration at The University of Texas at El Paso, which he endowed in Arline's honor. University Development, Kelly Hall, 7th Floor, 500 West University Avenue, El Paso, TX 79968-0524 or to a charity of your choice.

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Published by El Paso Times from Apr. 27 to May 4, 2013.

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Stephen Auldridge

April 21, 2021

Mr. Abbott was the best American Ambassador I ever worked for during my 30 years in government service, including two "tours" in Vietnam. Ambassador Abbott and his wife were so very gracious and friendly towards my wife and I, as well as to other staff members at our embassy located in Maseru, Lesotho. We exchanged many Christmas cards with them after we had departed that post in 1986. They were such a loving and caring couple. The "real deal" in my opinion, and were an excellent example of the American spirit overseas for others to experience! We loved them. May Mr. Abbott and his wife RIP always..... S.E.A.

Steve Auldridge

April 21, 2021

He was the best Ambassador I ever worked for overseas during my 30 year career. He and his wife were great Americans in my opinion...

DANIEL VARELA

September 11, 2013

R I P MY FRIEND YOUR DRIVER DANIEL VARELA

DANIEL VARELA

September 11, 2013

R I P MY FRIEND...DANIEL VARELA YOUR DRIVER

Steve and Wendy Auldridge

September 1, 2013

As the Chief Communications Officer at the U.S. Embassy in Maseru, Mr. Abbott was my Ambassador from 1983 through 1986. I believe I remember my wife Wendy and I attending his 60th birthday at his Maseru, Lesotho Ambassador's Residence. He was such a nice person and boss at our small embassy. I remember he graciously allowed my family to use his apartment near Disneyland in Anaheim, Ca. one summer on our home-leave vacation. I remember feeling such a great love between him and his wife Arline. And I remember his wonderful chili relleno stuffed peppers! We loved him as a friend and as one of the best Ambassadors we ever served under living overseas. Our condolences to his family. We will always remember him and his wife as two amazing and happy souls and such great American citizens who served their country proudly.

Larry & Esther Candelaria

May 14, 2013

May God bless the Abbott family. Thank you Dr. Abbott for being a being such a great influence in our lives.

May 10, 2013

Sorry for the loss of you loved one. No one wants to see a loved one go. That's why we can look forward to the paradise earth where death will be no more.
T.H

Don Franche

May 7, 2013

In the last day of Dr Abbott's life we are honored to have served a loving, true gentleman, genius, and mentor. He is surely missed. StayHome Care Solutions, Inc.

Manny Estrada

May 6, 2013

Alan,

Our condolences to you and your family. I too have wonderful memories of your father. He was a great leader, had a wonderful sense of humor and was a good and just boss.

Our prayers and blessings,

Manny & Tencha Estrada

David Lawrence

May 3, 2013

Sorry for your loss Alan. Your father left a wonderful legacy. God bless the family.

Art Juarez

May 1, 2013

To the Abbott family,
I would like to say how sad I am to hear of Dr. Abbott's passing. I worked for him in the early 70s at Sunland Optical. I took Dr. Abbott's and Arlene's advise to finish school which I did. I became a Federal Agent and always knew that Dr. Abbott was always around. I wish Alan and his family peace and may you find comfort that Dr. Abbott touched me in a very special way that I will always remember. May he rest in Peace.

Art Juarez

April 30, 2013

Dear Alan, Beth, Jason, Allison and family,

Our condolences to you during this time of loss. We have wonderful memories of both your father and mother.

Blessings,

Keith and Connie Ward
Richardson, Texas

ceci amor

April 28, 2013

My condolences to you and your family. Mr alan abbott.

April 28, 2013

Hello All,
I first met Shirley and Arline when they had a litter of Shih Tzu puppies. They were living in Antigua Village in a condo.

Arline always claimed Shirley bought the house on The Point for the dogs. I think she was correct.

When Shirley had a legal question he turned to me and my deceased husband for advice. When Shirley had a political view different than mine (often), he sent an email or deposited materials in my mailbox.

We had a relationship of mutual respect for each other. I have missed Arline gardening in front of the house. I will miss Shirley's written missiles. These are two extraordinary people.

Betty Schulman,
Neighbor and Friend

Chris Surratt

April 28, 2013

I remember Shirley and his family from when I was a little girl. He was always a life-long and wonderful friend to my Dad. From hearing my dad read his letters over the years, I will always remember what a tremendous sense of humor he had! He came from a unique and wonderful generation that is nearly gone; he will be remembered and missed.

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