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Gary Charcalla Obituary

Loving son, husband, and father, Gary Lee Charcalla, age 49, of North East, died Friday, July 15, 2011, in Richmond, Virginia, due to an automobile accident. He was born December 15, 1961 in Erie, son of Richard and Vera Saltsman Charcalla of Lawrence Park. Gary graduated from Iroquois High School in 1980 and was currently employed at Erie General Electric. Along with his wife, Brenda, he was an active volunteer for Make a Wish Foundation. Gary enjoyed motocross racing with his sons, camping, boating, hunting, and the outdoors. Gary truly lived each day of his life to the fullest and will be remembered by all who knew him. In addition to his parents, he is survived by his wife of 22 years, Brenda Thompson Charcalla, whom he married July 22, 1989; his sons, Dustin, Dalton, and Brock Charcalla, all of North East; brothers, Richard (Cyndie) Charcalla of Ocala, Fla., and Mark (Nanette) Charcalla of Fort Wayne, Ind.; sister, Darlene (Richard) Robb of Harborcreek; mother and father-in-law, Ronald & Geraldine Thompson of Harborcreek; sisters-in-law, Rhonda (Andre) Gonzalez of Florida and Linda Cagnoli of Greene Township; several nieces, nephews, and cousins. Friends may call at the William D. Elkin Funeral Home, 65 South Lake Street, North East on Sunday 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. and are invited to attend a funeral service on Monday at 11:00 a.m. at the East Lake Road Alliance Church, 4500 East Lake Road. Officiating Rev. Rick Rubeis. Interment North East Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Make A Wish Foundation, 1001 State Street, Erie, PA 16501.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Jul. 22, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
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Eric Parmenter

July 21, 2012

It's been a Year now, I am so sorry for the pain and tragic memory of that day. May the lord help guid your family!

July 14, 2012

It will be a whole year tomorrow. I think about you everyday my old friend. Your even in my dreams. I miss you and I love you buddy! We go back the farthest other than your blood brothers! Keep shining down Bro! Spingo

Charlotte (Beck) Gnagi

March 28, 2012

Gary, I remember you fondly from our school days together at the Big "I". May God watch over you and bless your family.

Pamela Lee

August 6, 2011

Brenda,
My heart goes out to you. It was so sad to hear about this tragedy. I'm always thinking about you and your family.
Pam

Brian, Deanna, Brandon and Amanda Coburn Family

July 31, 2011

Your in our prayers. May memories bring you peace.

Richard & Vera Charcalla

July 30, 2011

Gary our Loving Son,
After two weeks our thoughts of you very quickly bring tears to our eyes. We miss hearing your loud commanding voice coming from your strong upper body. Yes, your talk was sometimes rough and intimidating, but we knew you were actually a gentle person, caring, loving, considerate, fair, and above all, honest. We have many good memories, but we wanted more. Now we'll have to be content to cherish the memories we have.
We love you.
Mom and Dad

Darlene Robb

July 30, 2011

Gary my Little Brother,
I am proud of all that you accomplished--building your home, raising & providing for your family, and enjoying & helping your many friends and family. I'll remember your boundless energy and resourcefulness. Always something going on; there was never a quiet or dull moment when you were around. Remarkable.
Love from your sister,

July 28, 2011

Although I don't know your family personally, my children The Farabaugh's went to school with Dustin, Dalton and Brock. We are very sorry to hear of your loss. I know things are tough now but with time it will get better. I am so sorry for you family.
Beth Starvaggi.

Mark Charcalla

July 28, 2011

Brenda and the boys,
My brother stayed at the wheel to his last breath. He paid the ultimate price to save his wife and family. If this was a military situation he would be up for the Medal of Honor. He would want you to stand tall, have pride, do what you say, put family first, and have fun doing it. He was my best friend for nearly half a century. I will never forget him.

July 27, 2011

We were sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. May God be with you and your family.
Baky and Joanne Ibrahim

July 26, 2011

Brenda,Dustin, Dalton,Brock,The Charcalla & Thompson families:
I am so saddened about the tragic loss of Gary. This is one of the rare times when I am at a loss for words. May it bring you some comfort to know that others care deeply and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Brenda, I'm only a phone call away!
With love & deepest sympathy,
Janet & Jim Bojarski

Richard Weismiller

July 25, 2011

My family sends you all our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time.

Joe Krupp

July 25, 2011

Dustin and family,
I am sorry for your loss and you have my sympathy. I know that your family always has a lot of fun together which makes it even more difficult.

Amanda Arcand

July 25, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

July 25, 2011

"To the Charcalla family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Gary will be missed by all that knew him. Doug & Robin Hadlock (Cochranton, PA)

Ron Schrubb

July 25, 2011

Dick and Vera and family,...Thoughts and prayers for all of you at this time of your tragic loss.

Linda Donaldson

July 25, 2011

To the Charcalla Family...Although I only met Gary once, I know how much my grandson enjoyed the Charcalla household. May God bring you peace with fond memories and the knowledge that Gary will forever watch over you.

Wilma Davenport

July 25, 2011

To the Charcalla family,
My thoughts & prayers are with you. God bless.
Wilma Davenport (Carol Mazur's Mother)

July 25, 2011

To the Charcalla Family, our Prayers and Thoughts go out to the family. Gary was a great guy he will be missed. Dennis,Diane. McIntosh

Sue Yarnell

July 24, 2011

Darlene and family,
So sorry for your tragic loss. I will be praying for you all to get through this difficult time.

July 24, 2011

Branda and Boys,I am so sorry for your loss.Gary was a great guy and a good friend we will all miss him so much.My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.And if there is anything i can do for you just let me know."Bill Sutter (Venango Pa)

Shelly (Hoyt) Spacht

July 24, 2011

Brenda,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers have been for you and your family during this unspeakable time.

Tara Miller

July 24, 2011

To the charcalla family, I am so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you.

Ann (Krantz) Thornton

July 24, 2011

Vera & Dick,
You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your son. It is so sad.

Kyle Giewont

July 24, 2011

It was an honor to know Gary. It meant so much to me that I was able to be included as a part of his family, and my memories of our time in Virginia Beach will be everlasting ones. My heart goes out to Brenda, Dustin, Dalton, Brock, and the rest of the family; May we keep his memory alive in our thoughts forever. I love you all!

Your other son,

July 24, 2011

Brenda and Boys,
"Don't cry because he's gone, Smile because he was here". Gary will be missed by all who knew him. Be comforted in knowing your friends and family are only a phone call away when you need anything. We will always consider Dalton our other son and now we will be connected forever.Love you all.
Kelly & Ed Giewont

Dave & Patty Beaumont

July 24, 2011

Gary was a great guy. Brenda and the boys were lucky to have him in their lives. He will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts go out to the family.

Bill & Vicki Boria

July 24, 2011

Brenda, Dustin, Dalton, Brock and the Charcalla Family, we are deeply saddened by your loss, may the fond memories of Gary help you through the tough times.

Sister Sue & Joe Traficante

July 24, 2011

Dear Brother Dick, Our hearts go out to you and Vera. To Brenda and all of your family.

Dee Shuckhart

July 24, 2011

Brenda, Dustin, Dalton and Brock we are so sorry for your loss! Gary was a great guy! We had a lot in common! Our prayers are with you all! Dee, Mike, Brian, Bobby, and Cody Shuckhart

Ron and Paula Meier

July 24, 2011

You were a great friend,and will never forget you..

Bill & Diane Prindle

July 24, 2011

Our deepest sympathy. The family is in our thoughts and prayers.

judy smolinski jackson

July 24, 2011

Brenda and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you...

Dick Charcalla

July 24, 2011

Brother, I will miss you and remember you always...Dick

Lisa and Shawn Festa

July 23, 2011

Brenda,
We are so sorry for your loss, you and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers.

July 23, 2011

Dick and Cyndie: We share your sorrow and your loss. tom and kathy sheridan

July 23, 2011

we are sorry for your loss he was a good friend. Bob & Brett

Jody Sutton

July 23, 2011

So sorry for your loss!

Theresa Scully

July 23, 2011

Brenda and family,
Thinking of you through this most difficult time. I am so very sorry for your loss of Gary. May all of your precious memories bring you comfort. Prayers and love to you and your family.

John and Jamie Snyder

July 23, 2011

Brenda and family,
We will greatly miss Gary. He was a good friend and a wonderful man. Our hearts go out to you and the boys. Please, if there is any way we can help. let us know.

Elaine Komorek

July 23, 2011

Brenda,
I can't express enough sorrow for the loss of Gary to you and your family, I am keeping you all in my prayer.

Mike & Dawn Hines

July 23, 2011

It's the ones left on earth that suffer the most. I cannot express how sorry and devastated I am for the whole Charcalla family. Brenda, you are a strong woman and I will be praying for you continually.

V. Akers

July 22, 2011

To the Charcalla's

Brenda and boys. Cyndie,Dick,Jason and Deana.I am sadden by your loss. . You all are in my thoughts and prayers.. God is at hand!
May God keep your hearts lite..
Sending blessings

From the V.N.Akers family

Donny Yosten

July 22, 2011

Love you mommy Brenda. I'm always here for you and my brothers!

July 22, 2011

we will all miss gary he touched so many of our lives you will be in our thoughts and prayers. edward orton ripley ny

July 22, 2011

Brenda and and boys i am so sorry for your lose. You and your family are in my prayers. If you need anything just call. Gayle,Tim and Sarah Lindvay.

Eric Parmenter

July 22, 2011

Brenda and family, we are so sorry for your tragic loss. We hope you get threw this and focus on the future it will be hard but people out there care and the kids need you more right now. Our condolences out to your family: Mr. & Mrs. Eric Parmenter.

Lisa Butler

July 22, 2011

Brenda and Boys, I am so sorry for your loss. Words just can't say enough! you all are in my prayers.

July 22, 2011

Brenda,
I am so sorry for your loss, words can not express. My prayers go out to you and the entire Charcalla family.

Janice (Lasky-Hinterberger)

Dirck, Julie, Kady and Brennan Weitzel

July 22, 2011

Brenda and boys, We are so very sorry for your loss! Take comfort knowing he is with our lord and is now a angel watching over you all. You have amazing family and friends to help get you through, lean on them...its what were here for! God Bless!

John Emhoff

July 22, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Nicole Peterson

July 22, 2011

You are in our thoughts. Skeeter & Darcie

DEBBIE WALKER

July 22, 2011

BRENDA AND FAMILY MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TRAGIC TIME

July 22, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
From all your friends at Hinklers

Mrs. Jeannie Eller

July 22, 2011

Dear Brenda and Sons,
May your faith be a comfort to you and friends and family circle you with their love in the difficult days ahead.

July 22, 2011

Brenda&Family,
May God Guide you and your family through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Truly Mike,Cathy,Nick & Sarah Herring

Jeff Johnson

July 22, 2011

Brenda and the Kids,
So so sorry for this tragic accident. You all are in my prayers.

Bigs

July 22, 2011

Lord our God, You are always faithful and quick to show mercy. Gary was suddenly taken from us. Come swiftly to his aid, have mercy on him, and comfort his family and friends by the power and protection of the cross. We ask this through Christ our Lord. AMEN.
Until we meet again...............God Speed Charks! Sincerely, Spingo

PAUL & DIANNE MATTERS

July 22, 2011

Rube & Gerri
So sorry for your loss -our prayers for your family Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort you all tomorrow
Pyayers for your family

Jane Lehman

July 22, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Ira and Betty Goldblatt

July 22, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Julie Newcome

July 22, 2011

Brenda,
I am so sorry for your loss. Gary will be dearly missed by all who knew him. If there is anything I can do for you or your family please let me know.
Julie Newcome (Whaley)

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