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Benjamin and Debbie Howe obituary, Hanover, PA

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Benjamin Howe Obituary

Benjamin 'Ben' Howe, 54 of Littlestown, passed away Friday August 20, 2010, in the Outer Banks, N.C. He was the husband of the late Debbie S. (Rye) Howe. Born November 17, 1955, in Baltimore, Md., he was the son of the late Maynard Howe and Mary Jane (Bankert) Stengle and step father John E. Stengle of Hanover. Mr. Howe was a member of Hanover First Church of God, Hanover. Ben and his wife Debbie taught the class Divorce Care at the church and took part in mission trips. Mr. Howe was employed with Harley Davidson of York since 1990. Ben is a member of the Harley Davidson Workers Union and was an avid hunter. He enjoyed restoring cars, motorcycle riding, camping, traveling, his cabin in the mountains and most especially spending time with his family. Surviving are two daughters; Leslie Messinger, New Oxford; Amanda Howe, Gettysburg; three grandchildren, Jacob Howe, Paige Messinger and Daylee Vasel; also two sisters, Faye Small and her husband, Ronald, Hanover; Jane Casale and her husband Brian, McSherrystown. He was preceded in death by his father mentioned above. A service to celebrate the life of Ben will be Friday, August 27, 2010, at 11:30 a.m. at Hanover First Church of God, 600 Fairview Drive, Hanover, with the Rev. Jerry E. Shoap and the Rev. Dan Thomas co-officiating. A time to share memories with the family and have an opportunity to view will be Thursday 2 to 8 p.m. at the Church. Burial will be in York Road Cemetery, Hanover. Memorial contributions may be made in Memory of Ben to Hanover First Church of God, 600 Fairview Drive, Hanover, PA 17331. Wetzel Funeral Home and Crematory, Inc. 549 Carlisle Street, Hanover is assisting the family with their arrangements. To share memories of Ben and view a video tribute, please visit www.wetzelfuneralhome.com Debbie Howe LITTLESTOWN Debbie Howe, 56, passed away Friday, August 20, 2010, in Outer Banks, N.C. She was the wife to the late Benjamin Howe. Born October 19, 1953, in Lake Charles, LA., she was the daughter of Delbert and Mary Sue (Palmer) Rye of Nanjemoy, MD. Debbie was a member of the Hanover First Church of God. Debbie took part in the Music Ministry at the Church. She along with her husband Ben taught the class Divorce Care and took part in mission trips. Mrs. Howe was employed with Aflac as an insurance salesperson and was also a Mary Kay Consultant. She was a former member of the Hanover Chamber of Commerce. Debbie was a member of the Hanover Rotary Club, Red Hat Society and was an advocate for Breast Cancer Awareness having been a Breast Cancer Survivor. Debbie enjoyed Playing and teaching piano, bird watching, traveling, boating, camping, motorcycle riding, the cabin in the mountains and most especially spending time with her grandsons and family. Surviving in addition to her parents are two daughters and two sons: Wendy Owen and her husband, Robert, Hanover; Benjamin Greene, Washington State; Beth Greene, Baltimore, Md.; John Michael Bryson and his wife, Jacque, Palmdale, Calif.; two grandsons, Justin and Joseph Owen; three brothers, Bruce Rye, Nanjemoy, Md.; Kerry Rye and his wife, Amy, Glenwood, Md.; Kent Rye and his wife Diana, Damascus, Md. A service to celebrate the life of Debbie will be Friday at 11:30 a.m. at Hanover First Church of God, 600 Fairview Drive, Hanover, with the Rev. Jerry E. Shoap and the Rev. Dan Thomas co-officiating. A time to share memories with the family and have an opportunity to view will be Thursday 2 to 8 p.m. at the church. Burial will be in York Road Cemetery, Hanover. Memorial contributions may be made in Debbie's memory to Breast Cancer.org, 7 East Lancaster Ave., Third Floor, Ardmore, PA 19003. Wetzel Funeral Home and Crematory, Inc., 549 Carlisle Street, Hanover, is assisting the family with their arrangements. To share memories of Debbie and view a video tribute, please visit www.wetzelfuneralhome.com

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Published by Evening Sun on Aug. 24, 2010.

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Kim OConnor

September 21, 2010

Thinking of you.

August 28, 2010

May the pain of your losses be someday replaced with warmth at their memory. Deb was a lovely person with a beautiful smile. She will be missed by her friends at Women on their Way.
Denise Jackson

Gregory & Diane Shorb

August 26, 2010

Music, when soft voices die

Music, when soft voices die,
Vibrates in the memory—
Odours, when sweet violets sicken,
Live within the sense they quicken.

Rose leaves, when the rose is dead,
Are heaped for the beloved's bed;
And so thy thoughts, when thou art gone,
Love itself shall slumber on.

By Percy Bysshe Shelley
The Poetry Foundation

Gregory & Diane Shorb

August 26, 2010

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Steve & Mim Clapper

August 26, 2010

To the families of Ben and Deb Howe, Steven and I were saddened to hear of the lost of two very special people in our lives. It still does not seem real to us.

They both touched our lives in so many ways. Their smiles. Their laughter. Saving them seats on Sunday mornings. We will miss our pew partners. We will miss the facebook posts and pictures of family events. Where you could see how much they loved you all so much. But most of all - we will miss them.

And although they were not in our lives for very long, they will remain in our hearts forever.

We will continue to pray for both families.

Lisanne & Micheal Gray

August 26, 2010

Debbie and Ben, may you rest in enternal peace together. We will surely miss you.

ML Frey

August 26, 2010

My thoughts are with you in the loss of two beautiful people.
May God provide a measure of comfort in your wonderful memories.
God bless you!

Carol Burns

August 25, 2010

The Ladies of Women on Their Way - Gettysburg Mixer, POWER Network and the staff of the Wyndham Gettysburg offer our condolences to the family and friends of Debbie Howie as she will be certainly missed professionally and personally. We also give our respects to the family for Benjamin Howe.

August 25, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Dorvera Owens

August 24, 2010

To the family and friends of Debbie and Ben, I am so sorry for the lost of two beatiful and loving servants of God. Debbie was a friend I will dearly miss. She was an inspiration to me and I will continue to pray for her family.

Cousin's Helen Gladys Clair & Melinda With Deepest Sympathy

August 24, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Butch&Kitty Little

August 24, 2010

TO all family & friends,
Our condolances.It is quite a shock.May God bless you and keep you in this time.

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