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KENNETH LAWRENCE LAUER

KENNETH LAWRENCE LAUER obituary, Fort Wayne, IN

KENNETH LAUER Obituary

KENNETH LAWRENCE LAUER, of Fort Wayne, died on Friday, Dec. 27, 2013. Born Feb. 27, 1926, he was the fifth child of Paul Anthony Lauer and Florence Elizabeth Becker. His siblings were Margaret Ann (Lauer) Sherlock, Richard Paul Lauer, Mary Alice (Lauer) Burns, Phyllis Mae (Lauer) Traylor, and Lawrence James Lauer. Ken's formal education began at Saint Peter's Catholic Grade School, where, on the first day, he began lifelong friendships with Paul Ueber and William Hodde (later Father Hodde) and acquired deep respect for the School Sisters of Notre Dame. Following the divorce of his parents, the family moved into the parish of Saint John the Baptist. He graduated from that grade school with the Class of 1940 and attended South Side High School. His treasured friends from those years were Carl Schurenberg and Warren Lotz. Although he had the following degrees: Bachelor of Liberal Arts from Butler University, Master of Arts in English from Colorado State College of Education (now Colorado University), and Master of Arts in Library Science from Western Michigan University, the school he always loved was South Side High School. While a student there, he was President of both his Junior and Senior classes, recipient of the Kiwanis Best Citizen Award, a member of National Honor Society and the Four-Year Honor Roll. Graduating during World War II, Ken aspired to serve his country in the Army, Navy, or Marines. However, because of amblyopia in his left eye, he was not accepted. Still determined to serve, he joined the Maritime Service. His first trip was on the S.S. Alcoa Master. He and Paul Ueber sailed together on the Liberty Ship Hubert Howe Bancroft and on the S.S. Sea Fiddler, a cargo / passenger ship, which transported German prisoners of war back to Le Havre, France and brought home American soldiers. Aboard the S.S. Pompero, Ken sailed all the way around the world. On Jan. 27, 1951, Ken and Mary Joan "Jo" Piatt were married in the rectory of Saint John the Baptist Catholic Church. He died one month before the 63rd anniversary of their wedding. Their children are Beth Ann Lauer, Linda Sue Lauer, and Philip Gregory Lauer. Greg's wife is Joletta Charun Lauer, and their children are Austin Charun Lauer, Braden Charun Lauer, and Audrey Charun Lauer. Ken taught English in Lovington New Mexico High School and at Indiana Institute of Technology. He also did technical writing for ITT. During his years at Butler University, he had worked summers for Fort Wayne Public Library, now Allen County Public Library. Fred Reynolds, Head Librarian, persuaded Ken to change careers by working at ACPL and going to library school for three summers. During this time, he made 52 trips to Newberry Library in Chicago to help ACPL build its now famous genealogy collection. ACPL was building branches. Ken opened the first small Waynedale Branch and the newly constructed Hessen Cassel Branch. He managed it until the new Shawnee Branch was opened. He then became branch manager of Shawnee, and he loved the staff and the patrons. Following his retirement from ACPL, he worked part-time at Do It Best Hardware on South Calhoun. Many Shawnee patrons shopped at Do It Best. What could be nicer than continuing to see them and to make new friends? Having been a Boy Scout, he was pleased that his was a Scouting family. Whenever possible, Ken helped with Beth's and Linda's troops and especially remembered a money raising project of Troop 325. He cut the Christmas tree shaped boards onto which the Girl Scouts glued nuts and pinecones which they had gathered in Foster Park. The trees were sprayed gold and sprinkled with glitter. Later, during all of Greg's Scouting years, Ken went on the camping trips and made certain that Greg's Eagle Project succeeded. Further, he served on the Board of Directors of Limberlost Girl Scout Council. Reading was his joy, and he liked Glenn Miller music and traveling. In museums, he wanted to read every word on every explanatory sign. Beyond learning from the explanations, he often pointed out errors in grammar and punctuation, as well as logic. His collections were of coins and old radios. If he had been a wealthy man, he would have collected cars, starting with Model T's and A's. In addition to his family of eight, Ken is survived by his brother, Larry; 19 nieces and nephews; two cousins; and eight Godchildren. Mass of Christian Burial is 11 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 4, 2014, at St. Therese Catholic Church, 2304 Lower Huntington Road, Fort Wayne, with visiting one hour prior. Visiting with relatives and friends also from 5 to 7 p.m. Friday, Jan. 3, 2014, at Elzey-Patterson-Rodak Home for Funerals, 6810 Old Trail Road, Fort Wayne. Regarding memorials, the family has requested NO flowers and NO traditional memorials. Instead, PLEASE do an act of kindness in memory of this sweet and kind man. "He will surely smile down on you from Heaven." To leave condolences, please visit elzey-patterson-rodakfuneralhome.com

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Jan. 1, 2014.

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Lorraine Simon Williams

January 7, 2014

Beth, Linda, and Greg, I wish I could have stayed in town and spoken to you in person. I was fortunate to be able to have a short visit with your mom. I have many warm memories of your dad as we, the neighborhood children, grew up. Many times when I was back to visit mom and dad, I would see Ken out in back and we would have a nice chat over the backyard fence. I am so sorry for your loss.

Mary Smith

January 7, 2014

Thank the Lord for the true gift of Ken Lauer in our lives for so many years.

January 4, 2014

Beth, my sympathies to you and your family. Pearline Gatewood

Claudia Davis

January 3, 2014

My sympathies to the Lauer family at this most difficult time. May your memories be a comfort

Carl Kilduski

January 3, 2014

The Lauer family is in my thoughts and prayers this week! Carl Kilduski Betty, Roscoe, and Dave too....

Mary,Dennis & Peter Henning

January 3, 2014

Dear Jo and family, Our years next door were the best. As we have gone far from Tacoma, we have tried to carry forward the spirit of neighborliness that you and Ken lavished on us. Peter is now grown but his world was shaped by the early years and going to Mr. Lauer's library. Ken would take an interest to show him a special exhibit or new book. He was our Mr. Lauer and we will carry him in our hearts always.

January 3, 2014

Mr Lauer was such a kind gentleman and helpful in many ways. My sympathy to you. Kay R. Roberts

Serena Smith

January 3, 2014

You are all in my heart. I remember him as a gracious, kind man.

Devaun Patten

January 3, 2014

Wishing the entire family peace at this sad time. I also have many great memories working with Ken.

Cathy Bell

January 2, 2014

Deepest Condolences to the entire family for your loss. He touched so many lives in so many ways and will be remembered fondly and missed dearly. Greg and Cathy (Husar) Bell

Byron Black

January 2, 2014

I enjoyed the brief time I worked with Ken Lauer at the Shawnee Branch during the summer of 1993 just prior to his retirement. Ken helped my beginning as librarian to be a pleasant one.

Lori Harris - Casiano

January 1, 2014

Beth, Linda, Greg and Mrs. Lauer, my prayers are with all of you during this time of loss. I have so many great memories growing up with your family that I will treasure forever. Lots of love and God bless, Lori Harris - Casiano

January 1, 2014

SO SORRY TO SEE HIM LEAVE US ALL. WHAT A GENTLEMAN AND KIND PERSON TO HAVE ALL THESE YEARS. KEN YOU WILL BE MISSED BY ALL. HELEN M. CELAREK

Debbie Hershberger

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo, Beth, Linda, and Greg I am so sorry for your loss. I regret being so far away I won't be able to attend the service. When my daughter Melissa showed an interest in reading we frequently visited the library near Southgate. I remember walking in and seeing Ken, telling Melissa how our family knew him. He was a kind and gentle soul. He will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my prayers.

Paul and Kris Koehler

January 1, 2014

To all of Ken's beloved family we send our most heartfelt love and prayers. Never was there such a beloved man. He was the most beloved head of his children and grandchildren, and even of those who were fortunate enough to be friends of his children. To you Grammy Jo, Greg, Joletta, Beth, Linda, Austin, Braden, and Audrey we share in your sorrow and love for this most precious of men.

Lovingly, Paul, Kris, Olivia, Gabrielle, Adrianna, Avamarie, and Christian Koehler.

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo and family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband and father,Ken. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God give you strength and may you hold on to all of those cherished memories that you had together.
Kent and Geralyn Hagenbush and family

Carl Jones

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo,
I got to know Ken at South Side and he was always full of enthusiasm and with a friendly smile. It is good that you are surrounded with love and peace from the family and friends. It is always difficult to lose a friend and a husband. Thinking of you.

carl schurenberg

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo & Beth,
It is so tough to lose a Best Friend.It was a real blessing in my life to know such a very nice guy!

Linda Chapman

January 1, 2014

My sympathies to all the family. As a librarian and co-worker with Ken, I had great respect for his knowledge, enthusiasm and kindness. It was a pleasure working with him. He will be greatly missed but his memory will be treasured and inspiring.

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo,
My sympathy and prayers for you and your family. There are many happy memories of Ken and our grade school days at St. John's.
Rita Clemmer

January 1, 2014

Dear Jo, You and your family have my deepest sympathy. I valued our friendship over the years, and I was looking forward to hearing from you this Christmas. Now I know why I have not heard. God continue to bless you. I read and remembered every word in the obituary. I love you. Mary Anne Brown

December 31, 2013

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY YOU DRAW CLOSE TO OUR LOVING GOD BY READING HIS WORD, AND FIND COMFORT IN THE HOPE THAT HE GIVES US ALL : OF SEEING OUR LOVED ONES AGAIN IN A BEAUTIFUL NEW PARADISE HERE ON EARTH.

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