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Terri Staschke
May 31, 2015
What a blessing to have BJ (the blooming idiot) she would call herself as my aunt. We have so many great memories with both Aunt BJ & Uncle Gif & how proud they were to be Harpers. Who wouldn't be! We love & miss you BJ & know you are watching over Doug & Sarah from up above the stars
Mary Werries
May 31, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Brian Goodspeed
September 1, 2014
I didn't hear about this until now. She was a great teacher and she inspired me to get into astronomy. She will be truly missed. Prayers and thoughts for the family.
Former Student
Brian Goodspeed
May 19, 2014
Dear Sara and Doug,
It was my privilege to be able to call BJ a friend for more than 60 years. She was one of the best friends anyone could ever have. Hugh and I send our deepest sympathy to you, Diane, Debby, Tommy and your families. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Ann Shaffer
Charlottesville, VA
Sara Harper
May 18, 2014
I feel blessed to have had parents that loved me no matter what! And especially thankful for all the fun adventures, travels and roadtrips with my mom. BJ is dancing with the Lord and at peace. Amen.
Richard & Valerie Hynd
May 18, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
May 17, 2014
The Gallery is wonderful!!! We all have such wonderful memories and it is hard to believe we have come to the time to say goodbye to all our wonderful family that has gone before us. We have been so lucky to have had all these good times to remember and we will all surely meet again. Sorry none of us could make it to the services, but Betty Jo knew how much we all loved her and will miss her GREAT spirit and energy. Hope we can all get together at some place and time soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jeanne Wiland Mayenschein
Cindy Houser
May 16, 2014
I will miss my Tuesdays With BJ forever. She always had a smile on her face even when she met me at the door in her pajamas. I miss her so deeply. Hope now Beeg you have all your questions answered.
May 16, 2014
We were blessed to have know B.J. She was a great lady. She will be missed. Vic & Mary Mayer
May 16, 2014
Sara, I'm so grateful that your brought BJ along with you when you visited me in Prescott a few years ago. I had never met your Mom before and we had such an enjoyable visit. BJ was a delight and so talented and gifted.....an amazing and wonderful woman. Thank you for the gift of that visit Sara.
June Poe, Prescott, AZ
Sylvia Hyde
May 16, 2014
Dear Sara and family,
The Lilly Endowment brought BJ together with me and many other Hoosier teachers over the years. She and I shared a love of the stars and the long history of man's quest to comprehend. We both traveled in Britain and loved to visit and dream and explore at the historic and prehistoric sites, especially the standing stones that so wondrously reflect the star map. We also shared a history with coaching track and officiating for meets. It's a bit like putting a part of myself away to no longer have her smile, her voice, her presence as part of my days. I look to the stars and think of her. As I imagine and dream and write about the things we shared, I will keep her in my heart. She is where we can't embrace her with our arms, but our hearts will always hold her. I send my love.
Doug Harper
May 14, 2014
What a blessing to have BJ Harper as my mom! The "Star Lady" is dancing with my dad before the Lord in Heaven! Praise God! Enjoy the view from the other side of the stars, and know that you made a huge difference in the lives of many!
Jim & Karen Brudi
May 13, 2014
Sara and Doug,
It was always fun to visit with BJ after the FWAS meetings at the Pizza Hut. We would talk about just about any topic under the Sun, including the Sun. Her travelogues were always interesting and gave us the opportunity to experience places that we will probably never see. Karen and I will always remember running our chain reaction device with BJ for which she was the absolute master.
Jim & Karen Brudi
Sondra Glidewell
May 12, 2014
BJ, you were always so upbeat and fun to talk to however briefly and we shared a passionate love of playing Enya's music in the classroom. You were a wonderful inspiration.
Nora Judge
May 10, 2014
Laughter, sharing our life experiences, inspirational and creative ideas and practical implementation, always such a bright shining lady, BJ these are treasured memories. Bless you always.

Working on an art project 2011
Jim Merz
May 10, 2014
BJ's enthusiasm and energy were an inspiration. She was always keen to help out with our art projects and TekVenture adventures.
Bridget Vogt
May 9, 2014
Thanks for all the star nights BJ. We learned for 8 years! Miss you! Bridget Leo Leesa and Anyta
May 8, 2014
Love and sympathy to BJ's family from her childhood friends and neighbors in Morgantown who remember her with fondness.
The "Cagey Sisters", Sharon, Susan and Diane
Linda Breitenbach
May 8, 2014
What a rich, long and exciting life the Starlady lived!
Anne Newman
May 7, 2014
So glad our paths crossed when you were in Ireland. You inspired me to look to the stars. Shine brightly BJ and my thoughts are with those left behind.
May 7, 2014
Doug and Sarah.....my thoughts and prayers to both of you.I knew your family when you lived in Litchfield and members of St.Timothy UMC..
Donna Smith ......Frisco,Texas
May 7, 2014
How do you say goodbye to a friend of 70 years? She was the kind of friend that I could call at any time and it was like we had just talked yesterday. I will miss her wonderful smile, her constant chatter, her infectious laugh, her deep faith and her friendship. She was a special lady and a wonderful friend.
Susan Higginbotham (Bolingbrook, IL)
Jane Hanafin
May 7, 2014
I will always remember Mrs. Harper as a wonderful teacher and person. Her optimism and laugh were infectious!
Miruna Popescu
May 6, 2014
BJ has touched so many lives. She was the kind of person you meet once and never forget, so kind and positive, and so strong. A wonderful woman.
Jodi Rabich
May 6, 2014
I'm deeply sorry to here about Mrs. Harper passing. She was a great and one of my favorites. She will be miss dearly. I send my sorrows to the family and friends. May God Bless you.
Peggy Williams
May 6, 2014
I met BJ when I coached Volleyball at Shawnee Middle School. She was one of my officials for many years. I then had the plaeasure of working with her at Northrop. She was a special person who will be missed. Absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. May the peace of God be with you all during this difficult time.
Kayla Pauley
May 6, 2014
To Mrs. Harper's family,
She was a wonderful lady and an amazing teacher. She was one of few teachers that inspired me to become a teacher myself. I still use the things she taught me in every day life. The world is a little less bright without her. We can take comfort that she is with our Savior and reunited with her husband. I'm very sorry for your loss. She was well loved by all.
My condolences,
May 6, 2014
Loved you and the many years we were together as little couisins
Brian Booker
May 6, 2014
Doug and Sara,
I can't say enough good things about BJ. She was always smiling and probably the most positive person I have ever met. She really cared about people and was willing to help any way she could. I am really going to miss BJ. She was my mom at school. She was my "official mentor teacher" when I started teaching, but more important she taught me to teach kids. I am very grateful to have had BJ in my life.
Cynthia Myers
May 6, 2014
Blessings to you and your family.
Wyndham Traxler Carter
May 6, 2014
BJ was a wonderful Lilly Fellow that I got to know through the ETCW workshops in Terre Haute. I can imagine her impact on students as a teacher and person. Cherish her memory. She will be missed among the Fellows.
Sincere Sympathy,
Wyndham Traxler Carter
Flora, IN
Fellow 1991 & 2002
Charles Bash
May 6, 2014
I enjoyed meeting, working for, and talking to BJ.
Torie Allen
May 6, 2014
Doug, your mother must have been an amazing lady. One thing is certain - she knew how to raise a good man and leader. May God hold you in the palm of His hand, Torie
Mary Ripley
May 6, 2014
BJ was my son's favorite teacher! It was she who inspired him to come up with the idea of the radio telescope at Northrop. We became good friends and she even spent a Christmas with us after Bob died. She was a great teacher and a great friend. She will be missed!
steve hallam
May 6, 2014
We are thinking of you in your time of grief.
The Hallam's
Anna ( Margy ) Farrelly
May 5, 2014
Doug and Sara your Mom was an amazing influence on me as a child that remains with me today as an adult. You were both cherished & loved by her as BJ was dearly loved by so many of us whol lives she touched . I love you both- hugs from CT. Anna ( Margy)
Kevyn Creech
May 5, 2014
Dear Sara & Doug-
Your mama was one-of-a-kind! She was a gracious, intelligent, fun-loving human being, and the earth was made better for her being on it. I am so glad you all were able to be with her on her final days. Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss.
Love,
Kevyn ("Aunt Kevy" to Bobby)
Anyta Vogt
May 5, 2014
BJ you were the best teacher/friend ever. You will forever be in my heart, and your lessons will be taught a thousand times over.
Joni Smith
May 5, 2014
I had the privilege of working with this amazing lady at Northrop. She loved teaching! She would teach anybody who was willing to listen, including me! She was always so bubbly and could make anybody laugh! I will see her again someday. She will be missed!!
Frankie Kovacs
May 5, 2014
BJ, you touched so many lives and will continue to make such an impact because of sharing your expertise at Northrop and Wayne. I will remember you always but especially on a clear evening when I'm looking at the stars.
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