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Dakota Dumas Obituary
He was born in Rochester on July 8, 1991, the son of Patricia Poulin and Alfred P. Dumas. He was a lifelong resident of both New Durham and of Farmington and graduated from Farmington High School in 2009.
He enjoyed playing video games with his friends. Dakota loved wolves and huskies, especially his new Siberian husky puppy, Duncan Arcticwolf Lane. He loved playing video games like Rockband, Halo, and Battlefield Bad Company with his friends online, even while battling cancer.
He is survived by his mother, Patricia Poulin of Farmington; his father, Alfred Dumas of Rochester; his two sisters, Trisha Poulin and Faith Brown of Farmington; his maternal grandparents, Esther Lane of Florida, Mr. and Mrs. Roger Poulin of Florida; his paternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred L. Dumas; his aunts and uncles, Roger Poulin Jr., Tina Poulin, and Terri Berrill and her husband, Doug; his many cousins; his godson, Ethan Perry; and his numerous buddies and buddettes.
He was preceded by his grandfather, Phillip Lane and his best pal, Lucky Dog.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Rochester Seventh Day Adventist Church, 22 Cushing Blvd., Rochester, at 11:30 a.m., Friday, April 29. His interment will be in the Sawyer Cemetary in Warren, Maine, Sunday, May 1 at 1:30 p.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dakota Dumas
Megan Zopf
May 16, 2011
My heart goes out to you Tricia. I know Dakota hung on as long as he could but I guess the guy upstairs had a bigger job for him and he must have agreed to move on to the next plane but the really neat thing is now you have him around you all the time and in time, you will start to see the signs of his presence. For now I think what is needed most from friends is a squeeze of a hand or a hug. You have been through a lot this past year and I for one know some of the pieces of your pain. Take all the time you need to heal Tricia.Love to you and all your other family members.
Jess Therrien
May 16, 2011
Dakota was one of my very best friends. I began working full time before he got sick, and every time I would be home from work for the day, he would be in Dartmouth, or in Boston. I didn't have much time to spend with him, and we could barely find the time to hangout once he was sick. He always had his appointments, and I always had work. I deeply regret this, and wish I could have been there a lot more for him during his fight. Everytime I heard in advance about a party or event for him, I requested the day off, and ALWAYS saw him.
Dakota was one of the most strong willed people, and I am going to miss him greatly. I love him with all of my heart, and not a day goes by without me thinking about him. He will live on in our hearts and minds forever.
I love you Dakota,
And I'll see you when it's my time.
<3
Joan Carlson Morrill
May 15, 2011
If Heaven weren't So Far Away. Is a perfect song for Dakota. Although I never met him, as mother who has babies in heaven I understand the loss, the memories and the empty arms. God Bless You take your time to heal sweet girl.
Dawn Stanhope
May 2, 2011
our hearts and prayers go out to you all in this time if sorrow. Dakota will always be a brave warrior in our minds and your family will not be forgotten. Love from the staff and volunteers at David's House.
Rebecca Tremblay
May 1, 2011
Dakota was a classmate of mine. I have to admit that I was not close him but from just seeing him in classes and the halls he seemed like he was a great person. I'd always see him with his friends talking and just being happy. I wish I had actually knew him personally. My deepest prayers and sympathy are with his family and friends. May God be with you in your time of loss. R.I.P Dakota
May 1, 2011
What an amazing young man you raised and cared for! I believe his courage and integrity have and will continue to inspire family and friends in the years to come. Thank you for the privilege of inviting me into your home. - Judy S.
john,alice nyari
April 29, 2011
our thoughts and prayers are with you all. we love you.
Candy Danforth
April 29, 2011
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
April 29, 2011
Our thought,s are with all of Dakota,s family.Love Pauline,Sid,Irene and Richard.(lewiston, Maine
Cathy Plotkin
April 29, 2011
Fred and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May happy memories get you through this difficult time.
Penny & Michael Morin
April 29, 2011
Our deepest condolances go out to Dakota's family. May your fond memories bring you joy in this time of sorrow.
Rochelle Clark
April 29, 2011
My sincere condolences to the entire family. Dakota was one of the bravest people I have ever known. Hugs & prayers to all of you.
Ed & Lorna
April 29, 2011
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Doug Berrill
April 29, 2011
I am thankful for the lessons Dakota taught us in how he lived his life and fought against cancer.
To all those who loved Cody he will be missed beyond what any words can describe.
I pray that we all find comfort in the arms of our savior Jesus Christ through this troubling time.
God Bless,
Doug & Aunt Terri
Carmen Hanscom
April 28, 2011
Al, I just want to say how truly sorry I am to hear of the loss of your son. I know I havent talked to you in a while but I just wanted to extend my sympathies and thoughts and hope that as time goes by it gets easier for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and may Dakotas memory keeps you going on the rough days.
Mark & Tina Dixon
April 28, 2011
Although we didn't know you well our son Jared did. You were a very good friend to him and for that we thank you.May you rest in peace.
Lura jackowski
April 28, 2011
Condolances.. Dakoda will be missed by many.
He was a courages young man that accomplished more in his last year of life than most do in ten years!
April 28, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
States Family
April 27, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
April 27, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Wendy Dorr
April 27, 2011
My deepest sympathies to all of you. The memories that you hold in your heart will always be with you.
Sandy
April 27, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
April 27, 2011
Our sincere condolences.
The Homemakers Health Services
Donna Cronier
April 27, 2011
Patty and Tricia I am so sorry for the passing of Dakota, I remember him when I used to babysit him as a little child,Please remember all the good times.May he rest in peace, he is free of pain now.God bless and my prayers are with you and your family.
Scott Chamberland
April 27, 2011
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Tina (Chamberland) Huckins
April 27, 2011
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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