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Ingvars Vittands Obituary

DURHAM - Dr. Ingvars J. Vittands, 83, died on Monday, November 20, 2017. Born in Riga, Latvia to Valters and Biruta Vittands, he and his family spent their early years commuting between the city and Jaun Piebalga in the country at his grandfather's mill. Forced to flee their home, the family lived in Germany for a time moving from Greifenheagen, Utersen, Weidel and finally Hamburg. Despite the challenging times, he never described them as difficult, but focused on his parents' persistence making certain the children were well-educated. He often reflected on his professors who bicycled from class to class, who demanded complete memorization of Goethe's poetry, while at the same time arranging the occasional overnight camping trips for field learning, which he described as one of the best times of his life.

In 1950, the family emigrated to Boston. Stories from his time working at Collins Box Factory and with Mezitts' Nursery became standard dinner table conversation. He would recount the week where the boss, the secretary, and the driver all were gone, leaving him alone to keep the factory going. When the boss returned, he was amazed to see that his business had not completely fallen apart and offered him a permanent position, but was told "No thank you. I'm going to become a doctor." Much to Mr. Collins amazement he did just that. All of these stories were designed to teach the lesson that whatever you do, do it well.

He attended Boston Latin High School, and went on across the river to Harvard College. His time in Cambridge was briefly interrupted to serve in the US Army. Initially he was stationed in Verdun, but subsequently was reassigned to Berlin to serve in a special unit which traveled freely in the Russian zone for purposes of diplomatic relations. Upon his return to the states, he completed his AB from Harvard and continued at the University of Rochester where he earned a doctor of medicine degree. He completed an internship and residency program at the Cleveland Metropolitan General Hospital, followed by a residency at the Mayo School of Medicine.

In 1970, he moved once again to a city called Rochester, where he began a 38 year career as an orthopaedic surgeon. He practiced at Frisbie Memorial Hospital and Wentworth Douglass Hospital. He went on to establish orthopaedic floors at both hospitals and was the first to perform Total Joint replacement surgery in the state. In 1990, he became involved with the Intergovernmental Committee for Migration, providing humanitarian assistance to war-injured Afghans. The irony was that he used a Russian surgical technique (Ilizarov) to treat these soldiers.

He was a skilled surgeon-but more than that he took the time to listen to his patients and allowed them to share their stories. This kind of patient-centered care often led to interesting forms of treatment, such as using work boots in lieu of casts. Not always the most fashionable form of treatment but certainly more convenient. He had a special affinity with children and it was fascinating to watch him take a fearful, crying child and turn them into an active member of their own care team, demanding that he give them "one of those shots to numb it" and then "fix the problem!" A patient could easily put a smile on his face by demonstrating, in the midst of a store or a showroom, what a great job he had done.

He fit the definition of a Renaissance man in his love of reading, music, history and travel. There was no topic that he had not just read about and he could hold his own in any conversation. Music was a constant in his life, and he was particularly proud when the latest Boston Symphony conductor came directly from Riga. No day began without a cup of coffee and an hour or two on Bambi watch. On sailing trips, there was always a reward promised to whoever spotted the first whale and his greatest pleasure came when he was allowed to release "his" rehabilitated hawk back onto the property. His love of boats and sailing was well-known by his friends and family, and there was no better antidote for a long, difficult week at work than a day on the boat. It was never about the destination, only about floating along aimlessly with the wind at your back. He lived for those days and a two week vacation on the water was all it took to allow him to keep up with the demanding pace of life on land. It was a simple prescription--guaranteed to work-- and it did right up until his last day with us.

He leaves behind his wife of 35 years, Donna. He is survived by four children: Kaiya Hefele and her husband Bernd, Tammy Mandell, John Vittands and his wife Wendy, Anika Vittands as well as two siblings: Jake Vittands and Laila Prosser.

He is survived by six grandchildren: Andrea Mandell, Rachel Mandell, Wendy Mandell, Karl Hefele, Katrina Hefele, Celeen Hefele.

Each and every one of them held a special place in his heart and it was always his desire to teach them how to be a person of great strength and dignity, someone who contributed something to the world and who honored the age-old traditions which he carried with him throughout his lifetime.

SERVICES: A celebration of life will be held in the spring. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to a charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat on Dec. 15, 2017.

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Jeff Cabral

January 9, 2018

My thoughts & prayers go out to Kaiya, John, Tammy, Donna and Family. May the memories of Ingvars live on. Hearing about the family New Yrs Eve get togethers and attending once was very special. My sincere sympathies go out to all that knew Dr. Vittands.

K Amidon

January 5, 2018

Dr. Vittands was the best doctor ever. He gave me a cortisone shot and before he did I asked if it was going to hurrt and he said yes. He walked away and threw the needle in the sharps container. I asked if he did it and he said yes. I said I didn't even feel it. He said I must have done it wrong. He was the best !My mom, the nurse, thought so too!

Kathy Hennelly Sessler

December 29, 2017

I was so sorry to hear of Vitt's passing.
What an Icon! I admired him,also enjoyed his friendship. My Mom loved him! I was part of his 3rd floor ortho wing, his domain. My family sends you our sincere sympathies.

Denise Whitehouse

December 22, 2017

Donna, I am sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Your former teammate in 6th grade

Susan Dupuis

December 21, 2017

With sympathy from the family of Dr. Robert & Kay Hatch.

Arthur Dionne

December 19, 2017

His help at Docks In and Docks Out will be missed.
R.I.P. Ingvars

Nancy (swain) Luchauer

December 19, 2017

To the Family

I was saddened to hear of Dr Vittands passing. I used to work for him many many years ago... He was a very kind man and funny at times. I remember being in his Rochester office one afternoon .. I was the office help... and his assistant was off that day and a young Boy came in and Doc had to reset his leg in a cast...and I remember Doc saying to me .. "I am going to need your help "
So that afternoon I ended up being his assistant and loved it .. loved watching him with the young ones. He had his own way of dealing with them when they were so afraid.
He will be missed by many people but never forgotten for the wonderful work he did.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Hold onto those precious memories to help get you thru the hard times.
He rests now in a wonderful place.

Jill

December 17, 2017

Dr.vittands was able to save my foot in a major head on collision accident. I had multiple internal and external injuries. I asked if I was going to live in the emergency room and he said I only tell the truth. This doesn't look good but I will do everything I can for you. I said goodbye to my family and my three and five year old daughters before he operated on me. He worked on me with multiple surgeries and used other parts of my bones for joint fusion. He gave me hope and an extended life. I spent ten years with dr. Vittands until he retired. He called me a princess for all I went through with tears, pain , acceptance then appreciation for having my life back. Dr. Vittands was my angel then and I believe he is an angel to all of us now .

December 16, 2017

God Bless you Dr. Vittands, you were a wonderful Person and Doctor. Thank You

Sue Roy-Smith

December 16, 2017

Donna:

So sorry for your loss. He was an amazing doctor to me and my husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Paul Lofria

December 16, 2017

Kaiya I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Renaie (Levesque) Marquis

December 16, 2017

Dear Mrs. Donna (Chabot) Vittands,
I am very sorry for your loss.

-your former third grade student from 1978-79

Patrick Foss

December 15, 2017

Rest in peace, Doctor Vittands. You set and healed my oldest daughter's broken leg many years ago. She was never in finer hands. Thank you always and forever.

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