Ralph Lewis Abelow, 68, of Frederick, passed away at his home surrounded by his family and friends on Thursday, April 6, 2017 from MS. Ralph was a unique and caring individual who touched the lives of all who knew him. Ralph was the loving husband of Christine, his wife of 15 years and understood he was twice blessed with the loving support of Christine and his mother Paula. Ralph was born January 20, 1949 in Manhattan to Paula Brunner Abelow and the late Ira Abelow. He was one of the first graduates from Thomas Johnson High School in 1967, then attended Western State Colorado University in Gunnison, Colorado where he earned a Bachelor's Degree in Economics. Ralph's 36 plus years as the owner of Carpets Unlimited/Abbey Carpet in Frederick and Hagerstown gave thousands of people the opportunity to enjoy Ralph's uniquely outgoing personality. Prior to his illness, he was a member of the Carroll Creek Rotary Club, Business Network International, Mid Atlantic Floor Covering Association, Frederick County Homebuilders Association, and several County Homeowner Associations. In his spare time Ralph was a competitive triathlete who loved to be outdoors hiking, fishing, gardening, and skiing. He loved to dance, cook and listen to classical music. He also enjoyed spending time at home playing with his two dogs. In addition to his mother Paula and wife Christine, he is survived by his proudest accomplishments, children; Joshua Abelow and Elizabeth "Tisch" Abelow. Additionally he is survived by his Brother; Eugene Abelow. And numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. In addition to his father he was preceded in death by brothers; Jonathan Abelow and Evan Abelow. A graveside service will be held on Thursday, April 13th at 1 pm in the Garden of Solomon at Resthaven Memorial Gardens, 9501 Catoctin Mountain Highway, Frederick. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the MS Society (www.nationalmssociety.org) or Hospice of Frederick County (www.hospiceoffrederick.org). To sign the online guestbook, leave condolences, and to check on the arrangements go to www.resthaven.us.

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Published by The Frederick News-Post from Apr. 8 to Apr. 11, 2017.

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RALPH THOMAS

November 5, 2019

I just learned of Ralph's passing. Ralph was a classmate of mine at Frederick High School through the 11th grade when he transferred to the new Thomas Johnson High School. We were friends and we used to joke around a lot that we had the same first name.I enjoyed his humor and his enthusiasm. My prayers go out to his family.

May 9, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength you need to get through this very difficult time (Philippians 4:13)

Debbie Maury

April 16, 2017

Christine,
I am so saddened to hear of Ralph's passing. My heart and deepest condolences go out to you and your family. I am thinking of you.

mike corrigan

April 13, 2017

:( I couldn't make your service today. I miss you.

your buddy, Mike

April 13, 2017

Our sincere condolences to Ralphs family. He was such a kind loving man and a great friend to myself and my husband. May god bless his family at this time. Nancy and Steve Turner

caroline feaga

April 13, 2017

Hi Paula and family. Your family were great neighbors.

Michael Smith

April 13, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chip Scott

April 13, 2017

I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Abelow family. Ralph was a friend of mine since elementary school. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Nelly

April 12, 2017

Jesus performed powerful works that showed on a small scale how such prophecies will become a global reality. His death was fundamental to the future elimination of every cause for sorrow. So important was Jesus' death to the fulfillment of God's purposes that Jesus commanded his disciples to commemorate it.Luke 22:19, 20.

T V

April 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. (Isaiah 61:1, 2) With heartfelt sympathy.

mike corrigan

April 11, 2017

Guess we'll have to finish the book we started together on the other side someday, Ralph. Sorry you're gone, but it's only for the time being. I'm glad I got to know you and Christine, who was a tower of strength. See ya. Hope my prayers helped.

Mike Corrigan

Janine McKay

April 11, 2017

Our deepest condolences to the family of one of the kindest man we have ever known. For years we also had the same flooring business as Ralph, but we worked together as a family of businesses, never as competitors. When we closed shop, he was still there as a friend, to help my husband. When Rod passed, Ralph came to my store to see how my children and I were doing. I have never forgotten Ralphs' genuine friendship and kindness.I hope you and Rod are laughing and sharing fabulous stories now.

April 10, 2017

Christine,
I'm so sorry for your loss

John Cimabue

April 10, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss.May the God of comfort give you the strength you need to endure.B.H.

April 9, 2017

I would like to offer my condolences to the Abelow family, for the passing of Ralph. It's in times like these when the loving promises of our Heavenly father can bring you comfort and can even soften some of the pain that you are feeling in your hearts.-1st Thessalonians 4:13,14
DS

April 9, 2017

Ralph was a wonderful husband, father and civic leader. He was truly loved and he will truly be missed by so many. Christine, I will always be here for you...

Tamie DeWitt

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