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ETHELBERT BARKSDALE Obituary

BARKSDALE, ETHELBERT COURTLAND

E.C. BARKSDALE 'LAND'

Entered into larger life on 26th May, aged 68. He died at home of a heart attack after multiple and escalating health problems. Deeply deeply cherished by his wife, Sheila, who was with him at the time.

Beloved son of Ethelbert Courtland Barksdale ('Bert') and Marjorie M. Miller. Family mourners are his brother, Stephen W. Barksdale (always a true, constant and loving guide in his life), wife, Marilyn Moody, nieces Elizabeth and Julie.

A special thank you is due to Dr K.P. Reddy of Williston who, with his staff, Patti and Diana, gave a calm and reassuring presence and thoughtful care to Land's final months of illness. Despite the excellent and very competent care Land received from many people at Shands and N. Florida Regional Hospital, he was bewildered by the vexations of his body and was happiest at home, spending many peaceful hours teaching himself Ancient Greek and gazing at a garden of sunflowers set in a grove of sacred trees and bamboo. He loved trees ("The People with the Green Heads") and as an intellectually gifted child, was allowed to sit in the shade reading 'Alice in Wonderland' on his grandparents' farm and uncle's ranch in rural Texas. At the tender age of 12, on seeing in a book Gainesville described as 'Tree City of the South' he determined to make this town his home and work at U.F. Also at the age of 12 he won a national high school debate contest. He came to teach Russian Literature at U.F. in 1972 after obtaining his Ph.D from Ohio State University in 1971 and a year spent teaching at the University of California at Irvine. Gaining full Professorship at U.F. was a happy day for him and he rewarded the university with great loyalty and conscientious labor. What a stimulating lecturer he was! He never baulked at giving individual students extra attention and spent considerable time and energy supporting younger co-workers. He very much enriched the vitality of the then German and Slavic Department. Much gratitude is due to Dr Mary Watt, Chair of the new department of Languages, Literatures and Cultures for her sensitive and timely easing of his burdens at work in the final months of his illness.

Deeply patriotic, Land's gentle soul had a horror of war, grieving for the loss of young lives in the Armed Forces but he fully appreciated their sterling contribution to guarding the Tree of Liberty. His courage took the form of not being afraid to 'speak out' and to unravel the complexities of Truth and Social Justice. This he did with great insightfulness and original thinking. it would honor his memory if readers would fully relish the 'Jewel in the crown' of free speech that his native country strives to preserve and spread across the globe. A livelong Anglophile and well-steeped in history due to his father's being a Professor of History at the University of Texas at Arlington, Land sought out the nobler aspects of British History and culture, visiting England every summer for many years with Sheila.

A deeply religious person, Land thoroughly enjoyed attending Father Jeremy Hole's Sunday School classes at Holy Trinity Episcopal Church (where he and Sheila were married in 1990). With his astonishingly wide-ranging intellect, buttressed by a healthy dollop of humor, Land there sought - as he sought all his life - to connect the supposed divergencies of religion, philosophy, science and literature. His published works reflected this avenue of approach to understanding the wonders of the cosmos, but it was the sparkling vivacity and clarity of his mind that left an immediate impression on all those lucky enough to wrestle with one of those magical, spellbindingly - convoluted - yet-grammatically tidy discussions which he relished. Even brief conversations with Land were marvelous - by turns erudite, eloquent, apt or outrageously quirky. He was a joy to live with on a daily basis. What will be most missed is Land's unfailing courtesy, his total acceptance of other people's human lapses, his tenacity, his generous and kind nature and zest for life, the astonishing range of his intellect and love of all the Arts, his joyful spirit and the resonance of his beautiful speaking voice whose strength sprang from all these God-given qualities.

'HIS THE HEAVENLY KINGDOM'

In Land's memory, please think about: buying yourself a book! Leaving a splendid tip in a local restaurant; driving carefully and courteously;; waving to a tree, a flower or the dolphins in the ocean; becoming an engaged citizen; being kind to your cat... Above all, say a prayer for the peaceful repose of his soul.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 2, 2012 at 2:00 P.M. at Forest Meadows Funeral Home, 725 NW 23rd Avenue, Gainesville. A guestbook is available at www.forestmeadowsfh.com

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Published by Gainesville Sun from May 31 to Jun. 1, 2012.

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Nicole C Meier

July 8, 2025

Dr. Barksdale was my favorite professor at UF by far. I enjoyed his courses on Russian literature. He not only taught us but made it fun- not an easy feat. He entertained us all with silly and imaginative jokes as well as took us all on a trip through time.

Hal Rennert

May 25, 2020

Land Barksdale was the kindest and most considerate human being I have ever known. I still carry around with me in my billfold a note written by him on the hotel note paper in Baltimore, Maryland, where we shared a room and travel expenses in behalf of the University of Florida, while attending the SAMLA Convention, Nov. 2002, the weekend before Thankgsgiving. Here is what he wrote:

WELCOME!!!
Hal,
SHEILA camE BEcauseE I'vE BEEN SICK. I aM OVER THE CONTAGIOUS PART. SHE HAS ANOTHER ROOM. I'LL BE BACK TO SLEEP HERE & I'VE GONE TO LOOK AROUND BALTIMORE
CHEERS,
LAND

Tears come to my eyes every time I come across this slip of paper. I miss Land very much.

Stay tuned, I have some more delightful anecdotes to tell you'all.

Hal Rennert

Jennifer Chalsma

February 16, 2013

I was saddened to hear of Land's death. He was a friend of my dad when we lived in Columbus in the 1960s.

I first met Land when I was perhaps 5 or 6. My brothers and I always looked forward to his visits. He brought us goofy gifts wrapped in newspaper or bags, which he would help us unwrap, always loudly exclaiming why we would love his gift. He bent down to our level and told us funny stories and strange facts that would just make us giggle. We all liked it when Land came to visit!

Over the years my parents have filled me in on Land's whereabouts. This was some news I was sad to get. My blessings to your family at the loss of such a fine person.

September 12, 2012

I just read about Land's death in the Ohio State Alumni magazine. He and I were on a Russian language study tour of the Soviet Union in 1966, back when the Soviet Union was still the Soviet Union. Throughout our nine weeks on a Soviet ocean liner and in the Soviet Union itself, he was the source of a constant stream of quips, jokes and hilarious commentary. I vividly remember his carrying around a glass Coca-Cola bottle, and refilling it throughout Russia, noting that although it was Communist water, he was keeping America in his thoughts. Similarly, in hotel rooms and other venues. he would look up to the ceiling and pretend to shout, "Can you hear that comrades? Can you hear that, Lenin?"

I have not seen him since 1966 and that trip, but I remember him fondly.

Sincerely,

Phil Schieber
Columbus, Ohio

June 2, 2012

Land was a true humanist, an authentic human being, a great colleague, and a friend in need. I will miss him very much. Sasha Burak, LLC Assistant Professor, UF.

Tom Loyd

June 2, 2012

Sheila,

Harry called me from Italy last night and conveyed the sad, sad news that Land had passed away. We talked for a long time and recalled those wonderful, glorious years when we worked with Land at the University of Florida. That was over 30 years ago in the old German-Slavic Department. There was never a dull moment with Land, and we treasure our countless memories of him. We were brand spanking new PhD's from Harvard (Harry) and U.VA (Tom) when we arrived in Gainesville around 1976. Before we knew it, Land had made himself our mentor and protector. What a great guy! After all these years, Harry and I still address each other with the noms de guerre that Land bestowed on us: Harry was “Childe Harold,” or “The Childe,” and I was “St. Thomas,” or “St. Tom.” Why noms de guerre? We were engaged in the titanic struggle for tenure, and Land wanted us to succeed! He made us feel special with those pet names, and he encouraged us without fail. He was making that pilgrimage with us. Sheila, our hearts reach out to you. Yes, Land was brilliant, but we loved him because he was the most gentle, kind, and considerate man we have ever known. We wish we could be there to comfort you and give you a hug today. Please accept our condolences, and know that we are grieving with you and hoping that in time your memories of Land will mend your broken heart.

Land,

We love you. Your spirit will live within us as long as we are on God's earth, and we will never forget how you supported us when we were young, struggling assistant professors at the University of Florida. We know St. Peter opened the gates wide and welcomed you home. Until we meet again, Land . . . Auf Wiedersehen!

Tom Loyd
Arlington, Virginia

Harry Marshall
Siena, Italy

Kathy Niklaus

June 2, 2012

I am extremely sad to hear of Land's death. I first met him in 1967!!!!!!! He was an extraordinary person. The world is definitely a poorer place without him. My deepest condolences to his family.

Sharon DiFino

June 2, 2012

Land was the most unique individual I have ever known. He was the kindest, noblest spirit on this earth. Land's great intellect and passion for literature will always inspire me. I will miss him terribly but his spirit will forever roam the halls of Dauer. My prayers are with Sheila and his family.

Barbara Johnston

June 1, 2012

Land was a gentleman, a scholar, and a person who truly cared about those around him. His gentle soul will be missed by those who knew him. I am sure he is now entertaining the angels with his wit and humor and looking down on us with much love.

Galina Rylkova

June 1, 2012

I absolutely loved and respected Land. I will miss him so much. He was one of the very best things that happened to me at UF. Galya

Diana Child

June 1, 2012

Mr. Barksdale was so kind and constantly made me smile. I always looked forward to seeing he and Sheila. I'm rereading Dr. Zhivago like I promised. Even though we won't be able to discuss it, I know it will still make him smile.

Striding along Offa's Dyke

John Thomas

June 1, 2012

Sadly we shall not see his like again! But joyfully he will always remain in our memory. What a unique character - our privilege to have known and loved him!

Land and the Flowerpot Man

Judith Thomas

June 1, 2012

Land was a unique and very special son-in-law who leaves us all with wonderful memories, perfectly complemented by Sheila who was a perfect partner for him. A wonderful recollection we have is of his delight at climbing Bredon Hill after reading A Shropshire Lad with its spectacular views, and another of him sitting with a book on his lap, watching with puzzled amazement as Sheila's 4 year old nephew and his twin sister entertained him with all the things they could do with flower pots, big and small. Your wonderful voice will live with us for the rest of our lives dear Land.

Hal Rennert

June 1, 2012

My sincere condolences to Sheila on the loss of her husband Land Barksdale, a wonderful and supportive friend and colleague at the University of Florida. I am deeply thankful for those many hours with him -- especially for those many hilarious car trips together to Atlanta! Land Barksdale -- what a loss!

Suzanne Duke

June 1, 2012

This was a great tribute. So sorry for your loss.

Otto Johnston

May 31, 2012

Land was one of the dearest and finest men I have ever known. Widely read, clear thinking and marvellously humorous, Land made a big impact on those fortunate to know him. My condolences to Sheila, Steven, Marylin and all his colleagues. I will miss him because he played a major role in my life. Otto W. Johnston

Benjamin Hebblethwaite

May 31, 2012

Land's reading of the Gullah language had a beautiful Texan tone. We will miss you, Gullahman.

Ivan Eubanks

May 31, 2012

Professor Barksdale was one of my favorite and most influential teachers. I can begin to say how much I will miss him and lament the loss of him.

May 31, 2012

May 31,2012
What a beautiful man this must have been. Just wanted you to know, this was
the most interesting obituarie of a person I have ever read. Great discription of himself. Thank You! Nancy Davis-- Florida

Bianca Dufty

May 31, 2012

although it's been many years since i saw him last, i remember a kind gentle man who seemed to love the sights of mother nature, who spoke slowly and softly, and seemed to have a magical spirit. my prayers are with aunt Sheila, and all of those who loved him for exacly who he was. may you walk with angels Land, and may you rest in peace. x x x

Mack Tyner

May 31, 2012

As a student of his, trying to learn Russian in the early seventies, I will never forget his humor and the interest he paid to us poor students. Rest in peace, Professor, your legacy will live on.

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