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Ruby Kirkland Obituary

DALLAS - Ruby Hayes Kirkland, 73, of 1308 Mayberry Road, died July 20, 2012, at her home surrounded by her family.

She was born in Gaston County, daughter of the late Pink and Pauline Nichols Hayes.

She was preceded in death by her husband Odell Kirkland. She was retired from Talon, Inc and was a member of Community Pentecostal Center in Stanley.

Survivors include a son Ronnie Kirkland and wife Georgia of Dallas, a daughter Tammy Rathbone and husband Ken of Bessemer City; two sisters Ethel White of Dallas, Gail Harding of Belmont, a brother James Hayes of Gastonia; eight grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren.

Funeral service conducted by the Rev. Eddie McGinnis will be held 2 p.m. Saturday at Community Pentecostal Center in Stanley.

Interment will follow in Hillcrest Gardens.

The family will receive friends from 12:30 to 2 p.m.

Memorials may be made to Hospice of Gaston County, PO Box 3984, Gastonia NC 28053.

Woodlawn Funeral Home of Mt Holly is in charge of arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Gaston Gazette on Jul. 21, 2012.

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July 27, 2012

Ronnie and Tammy my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss. Barbara Dellinger

Michael Harding

July 21, 2012

I will miss my aunt Ruby I love her so much. My prayers are with the rest of the family I love all of you.

Phil &Darlene Allred

July 21, 2012

We are so sorry Ronnie & Tammy, she was so loved by everyone and will be terribly missed.
I love you aunt Ruby, there will be no more pain or sickness. Rest in peace with Odell.

Linda "Twin" Ollis

July 21, 2012

Tammy and Ronnie, I am so sorry for your loss. My love and prayers are with the Kirkland, Hayes, Harding and White families. Many wonderful memories of Ruby. R.I.P. Ruby and Odell!

kay settlemyre

July 21, 2012

tammy and ronnie i am so sorry for your loss. i loved ruby like a sister i will miss her very much. she was such a beautiful person. i will always remember all the good times we had together. worked with her many years and enjoyed everyone day with her.keeping all of you in my prayers. love you all. if you need anything let me know. rip ruby and odie love you both

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