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Jerome M. "Jerry" Mileur

1934 - 2017

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

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Jerome Mileur Obituary

HADLEY  –  Jerome M. Mileur of Hadley, friend, professor, baseball fan and mentor to many, died Tuesday, Sept. 5,2017, at the age of 83 after a very brief illness. He died surrounded by many that loved him deeply which, had it been allowed, would have filled a baseball stadium.

Jerry Mileur was born in Murphysboro, Illinois in 1934 to Charles and Mildred Mileur. He developed a love of politics, baseball, and puns, and was devoted to his home state and its history. He went to college and graduate school at his beloved Southern Illinois University (SIU) where he was a member of Phi Kappa Tau fraternity. He earned his bachelors degree in Speech Communication in 1955 and a doctorate in Government in 1971. He maintained a life-long connection to SIU and established a lectures series, in honor of his SIU mentors, at the Paul Simon Public Policy Institute, where he had served on the board of directors for many years.

He joined the Political Science faculty of the University of Massachusetts at Amherst in 1967 where his teaching and research focused on U.S. political parties and elections. He quickly became the best friend to a number of sports fans, and best friend to an equal number of people who could not spell the word "Cooperstown." He taught at UMass for 37 years during which time he advised a large number of doctoral students, was chair of the Department of Political Science, was awarded the UMass Amherst Chancellor's Medal, and founded the Jackie Robinson Initiative which marked the 50th anniversary of baseball's integration. He was an accomplished author and editor.  But his attention to his students was most important to him, and life changing for those who benefitted from his wisdom, consideration and concern. He leaves behind an enormous group of "Jerry's Kids;" a large cadre of devoted graduate students who learned from him in the classroom and well beyond it and who continue to this day to spread the intellectual gospel they learned from him.

His dedication to his communities, both in Illinois and in Massachusetts, was evidenced by his extensive political activity, his support for the arts, and his long-standing weekly breakfasts, lunches, and happy hours with friends of all ages. 

Some knew Jerry for his love of baseball.  He was the long-time owner of the Harrisburg Senators until 1994.  Even to this day, if you mention his name at the stadium people will say "Jerry brought baseball back to Harrisburg!" Others will remember Jerry for his dedication to the St. Louis Cardinals, a love that was kindled by his much-loved grandfather August Willi. Jerry published two books on the Cardinals and his third volume was completed just a few days before his death.  Others will think about his collections of political memorabilia and extensive frog collection which he kept at his home in Hadley affectionately named "Frogs Folly."

But for most, Jerry Mileur will be remembered for his immense heart that was filled with kindness, and a generosity that was peerless. His unrivaled ability to care for others was matched only by his corny wit and his fierce intelligence. His family and friends joyfully enjoyed his many puns, humors songs, and humor.  You could see the depth of his interests and his extensive world travels by walking through his house which was a testament to his curiosity and sense of adventure. But the biggest testament to his love of life was his very large collection of friends. He socialized, traveled and adventured extensively with them and was always planning the next event or trip with them. To say "he will be missed" is such an absurd understatement and one he would certainly, in his humbleness, deny.

Jerry had a loving family across the country and was a beloved figure at family weddings and gatherings. He will be deeply missed by them all. He was preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Mildred Mileur of Murphysboro, Illinois.  He grew up with and maintained a close connection with cousins.  He is preceded in death by his cousin Margaret Reddy (survived by her husband John Reddy).  He is survived by his cousin Lou (Nancy) Derickson and his cousins Ron (Maureen) Reddy, Rona (Mike) Vargrosky, David (Ashley) Reddy, Karen (Archie) Cole, and John (Bev) Reddy.

Visiting hours with friends and family will be held at the Douglass Funeral Home in Amherst,  Sunday, Sept. 10, from 2 to 5 p.m. with a brief service beginning at 4 p.m.  A full memorial service will be held in Amherst, Sept. 30, with details to follow. 

Given Jerry's long commitment to others and his community, we ask that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made in his name to the Amherst Survival Center, 138 Sunderland Rd., Amherst, MA 01002, www.amherstsurvival.org. God speed, Jerry, and may you rest in peace.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Sep. 7, 2017.

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dave trembley

November 13, 2017

I am shocked by the loss of this tremendous person. We shared the opportunity of working together in Harrisburg,Pa. in 1987 as Jerry was the owner of the Harrisburg Senators and i was the Manager - his love of the game of baseball was unmatched and the way he treated people was special. A terrible loss. One of the best men one could ever know.

James Der Derian

September 12, 2017

One of my best memories of Jerry was out on the deck of his new house in Hadley, surrounded by colleagues, students and friends, as he prepared burgers and hotdogs for grilling. I asked him what was his secret to good grilling and he said 'it's all in the firestarter', at which point he drenched the already lit coals in more 'boyscout water'. Jerry always had a lot of flare.
RIP,

Bill Vicars

September 11, 2017

I've known Jerry since we were grad students at SIU in the early 60's. He was in political science while I was in industrial/organizational psychology. He was also serving as an assistant director of the Labor Institute, so we had some overlapping academic interests. But most of our relationship centered around our mutual love of the St. Louis Cardinals baseball team. I fondly remember traveling to Busch Stadium for several games over the years back then. His father and some of his colleagues made up the merry band of fervent fans. Those were great times! My wife and I also enjoyed Jerry and several of his fellow faculty members at a Cardinal spring training series in Jupiter, FL many years later. I especially treasure my signed copy of Jerry's book on the 1946 world champion Cards, which was the first redbird team I remember. His vivid description of Enos Slaughter's "mad-dash" from first for what turned out to be the winning world series run reminded me that that was what imprinted me for life as a Cardinal fan, much to the displeasure of the rest of my Cub-fan family! Rest in peace, old pal.

Jon Gere

September 9, 2017

An amazing person, so accomplished, Mr baseball and so much more, family friend for decades, never without a smile and kind word, thanks for people like him ,who gave goodness to us all.

Barb Olson

September 9, 2017

Jerry has been a part of our family for as long as I can remember - he and Dad were colleagues at UMASS and the best of friends - he came for Christmas' - he was so loved by all of us - he spoke at Dad's memorial service just last summer - a kind, funny, sweet, amazing man that I will always hold in my heart - love and light Jerry - behave up there - Barb Gere Olson

September 9, 2017

I had Jerry as an undergrad at UMass in the late 70's. He was a wonderful Professor, with a keen interest in political parties, and I always remember the framed political posters that dotted his office walls. He was a natty dresser, and was always up for a chat. Just a few months ago, I saw him in Hadley in his driveway bringing in his recycle bins, and stopped in for a quick conversation on presidential politics. I was honored to sit with Jerry at the Memorial for Ed Gere when he was chosen by the family to deliver the eulogy. The UMass community, and baseball fans everywhere will not be the same with Jerry's passing.

Paul & Nancy Hamel

September 8, 2017

Just a lovely man. Kind and generous to all. What a scholar and lover of baseball. He will be missed by many!!!

September 8, 2017

I grew up with Jerry in Murphysboro, IL and first met him in 1945 while playing in a softball league in sixth grade. We recently remembered being bused to Carbondale that year to hear Cardinals great Rogers Hornsby discuss the art of hitting. Jerry graduated Murphysboro High School in three years and I stayed on to enjoy my senior year, but he always associated himself with our class of 1952. I attended SIU as a freshman, and during 1953 Spring break went with Jerry to St Petersburg, FL to see the Cardinals in spring training. In 1954 I was at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign and Jerry was there taking courses in Labor and Industrial Relations. He agreed to be best man at my upcoming wedding that December. After that, even though I live in CA, we stayed in touch and saw each other at high school reunions. Once in a while when I was in New England he was my gracious host. In 2004 he attended my 50th wedding anniversary here in CA, and gave a very nice toast to the bride and groom. After my first wife died in 2006, I went with Jerry to Cooperstown and to Harrisburg to see his baseball team play in the new stadium he helped build. The next year we took a Danube cruise from Budapest to the Black Sea. He consented at that time to again be best man at my upcoming 2008 wedding, where he was our guest and gave another excellent toast to me and my new bride, Stella. Jerry and I kept in touch after that and last met at our 60th high school reunion. Jerry was always a gentleman and I don't remember him ever saying anything bad about anyoneexcept for Republican politicians. I'll remember Jerry always as a lifelong friend. Dave Berrier of Carlsbad, CA.

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Jim Smith

September 8, 2017

Thanks Jerry for gour advice, guidance and friendship over the decades.

Garrison Nelson

September 8, 2017

Jerry Mileur was the quintessential nurturing mentor. His positive impact upon a generation of high qualified UMass-trained political science scholars will be felt for years to come. Jerry's generosity and good humor were apparent in every encounter that we had at both the New England and Northeastern Political Science Associations. This is a heartfelt loss for us at NEPSA and NPSA. RIP, Jerry.

Bill and Mary Crotty

September 7, 2017

Very sad news. Jerry was a wonderful person and one of a kind in so many ways. He made an impact on us all and we will miss him terribly.

Mary Stevenson

September 7, 2017

I met Jerry Mileur on my first day in college at SIU, in September1953. He invited my roommate to go to events for new students the next evening, and she asked Jerry to ask one of his friends to be my date. He picked a friend since third grade in Murpysboro, Il and we four had an entertaining double date--the first and only as it turned out. Two years later, Thomas(Bud)Stevenson and I were married, and Jerry was a very special guest.The friendship continued, though the distances between us increased through separate roads to graduate degrees. The goal was to become college professors. Jerry found his niche at Univ. of Massachusetts, and devoted 37 years to the campus at Amherst and its students. Tom did the same for 35 years in Missouri, at St.Louis University. We exchanged visits over the years. He took us to wonderful historical sites in New England. We took him to the baseball stadium--Busch Stadium, home of the St. Louis Cardinals! As every friend of Jerry knows, nothing could top that!
Last Sunday I recieved a call that I never wanted to hear, that this friend of a lifetime was grievously ill. It was one of the saddest days of my life. This gentle man. This exceptional Educator. This Generous donor to many funds helping the less fortunate among us was passing away.
Jerry has a multitude of friends, including thousands of former students, "Jerry's Kids", who will pay their respects.It is my fond hope that one will step forward and carry on with the programs and contributions set in place by the man who helped them find their path in life.
Vaya Con Dios, Jerry. Mary and Family

Harvey Soolman

September 7, 2017

Only knew Jerry on social media, where we met over baseball and politics. I am very sad to lose someone so interesting just as I was getting to know him. My condolences to all his many friends and his family.

george cernada

September 7, 2017

Thanks again, Jerry, for that white knuckle, passing lane all the way, race to Cooperstown.Look forward to the new book. Rest in Peace !

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