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Andrew Asbury Obituary

ABILENE Andrew Gordon Asbury, 21, of Abilene, went to be with his Lord and Savior on Tuesday, Jan. 11, 2011, as a result of injuries suffered in a motor vehicle accident. His funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 15, 2011, at Pioneer Drive Baptist Church in Abilene. Burial will follow in Elmwood Memorial Gardens. Arrangements are by The Hamil Family Funeral Home. There will be no formal visitations, but viewing will be possible beginning at 9 a.m. Friday, Jan. 14, at The Hamil Family Funeral Home. Andrew was born to Gordon Asbury III and Aloma Asbury in Dallas, Texas, on Sept. 17, 1989. He attended Wylie Independent School District from kindergarten through 12th grade and graduated from Wylie High School in 2008. He played football and was a member of the varsity golf team his junior and senior years. At the time of his death, he was a junior at Texas Tech University majoring in energy commerce and planned to attend law school at Baylor University, as did his father, Gordon Asbury III and grandfather Gordon Asbury Jr. Andrew became a member of Pioneer Drive Baptist Church after accepting our Lord Jesus Christ as his Savior at age 8. During middle school and high school, Andrew was a member of a Yo-Bro group led by his mother, Aloma Asbury. Yo-Bro is a small group of young men who met weekly to encourage each other in their Christian growth and it was an integral part of Andrew's life. Andrew was known to study his Bible nightly and his relationship with his Savior grew and continued to grow until the time of his death. Andrew's priorities in life were his relationship with his Lord Jesus Christ, his relationship with his family and his relationship with his friends, who were numerous. He was an accomplished auto-mechanic who rebuilt and restored a 1970 Mustang over a three-year period while in high school. This car was a prized possession and he became so proficient at auto-mechanics that he was routinely asked by friends and acquaintances to perform repairs and improvements to their vehicles. While he was very private about his academic achievements, after entering Texas Tech University, his academic abilities blossomed. After completing half of his junior year he maintained a 4.0 GPA while pursuing a degree that is known to be challenging. He was the recipient of the Texas Tech University Anderson Consulting BA Scholarship awarded for academic achievement and was appointed to the President's Honor List every semester he attended Texas Tech University. He was also a member of Phi Eta Sigma Honor Society, Alpha Lambda Delta Academic Honor Society for Freshman Students, The National Society of Collegiate Scholars and Sigma Alpha Lambda National Leadership and Honors, all of which are honor fraternities and/or societies in which membership is by invitation only. Andrew was preceded in death by his grandfathers, Wesley Mokry and Gordon Asbury Jr. He is survived by his parents; his brothers, Bryan and Caleb Asbury; his grandmothers, Earlene Mokry and Janice Asbury; one great-grandmother, Elizabeth Jennings; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Pallbearers include only some of Andrew's closest friends: Weston Victor and Greg Roberts of Houston, Drew Thorpe of Dallas, Andrew Federico of San Luis Obispo, Calif., and Clay Burson, Tanner Evans, Taylor Massey, Cameron Rogers, Abe Templeton, Addison Templeton and Case Wilson, all of Abilene. A special thank you to all of the Asbury friends and family who have spent countless hours supporting them through prayer and their presence during this very difficult time. Also, special thanks and appreciation is extended to Doctors Taliafero and Trammel and the nurses and staff of Hendrick Medical Center who provided care and comfort to Andrew during his final hours on earth. Memorials may be made to General George Patton Museum, Patton Museum Foundation, P.O. Box 25, Fort Knox, Ky. 40121-0208; or a Texas Tech University fund in Andrew's honor set up at First Financial Bank. Many who knew him expressed their heartfelt memories: Andrew's first grade teacher, Debbie Lambert, remembers him well. "Andrew was very smart, even in first grade. He was a leader-handsome and very respectful. Andrew was one of those kids that a teacher never forgets. On break from Tech, he came to eat lunch more than once with his little brother, Caleb, who often talked to me about his big brothers. On one visit, Andrew hugged me and asked, ?Do you remember me?' Andrew was the same tall, respectful boy I had taught in first grade."

"I remember Andrew as always having a big smile on his face. He enjoyed life," Jeff Rogers, a family friend stated.

Cameron Rogers expressed, "If there is one thing that I can say about Andrew, it is that he could make me laugh and smile and feel better. We met in the first grade, and in junior high we had a weekly prayer group called YoBros."

"He was my best friend through high school and college. We were inseparable. He always stood up for his friends. I have a lot of good memories, and his family will be some of my best friends for the rest of my life," said Tanner Evans.

Taylor Massey recalls, "More than anyone else I know, Andrew was real. He never had to fake being generous or honest because that was just who he was and how he acted all the time."

"Andrew was a loving friend and was dear to everyone's heart. My greatest memory is the smile he brought to everyone when he was around," remembers Abe Templeton. "He was the friend who would drop anything to help another person. He lived life to the fullest. He will be dearly missed. I loved Andrew, and I love his family."

"Andrew was someone who would drop everything to come help you. He made you feel included, no matter what. He was one of those rare guys that if you did not see him for a while, you could walk straight up to him and have a great conversation. If I had to describe Andrew with one word, I would say, ?genuine'," said Addison Templeton.



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Published by GoSanAngelo from Jan. 14 to Jan. 16, 2011.

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Paul Rusnak

January 21, 2011

Gordon and family,

I am very sorry to hear of your tragic loss; I am truly speechless and will keep you all in my prayers. May God hold you and keep you close in your time of need.

Maria Keels

January 21, 2011

Aloma, I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn't know until just yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God comfort you all in this sad time in your life. Give Cleb a big hug from us. God Bless you. Greg, Maria and Mason Keels

Ray and Mollie Cothran

January 14, 2011

Gordon, Aloma, Bryan and Caleb, we are so very sorry for your loss. No words can express our true feeling for you in this extreme time of sorrow. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Deborah Smith Koch

January 14, 2011

Gordon, Aloma and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray GOD will wrap his arms around you and comfort you in this time of sorrow. Please know that you are all in my prayers.

Deborah Smith Koch

David Mokry

January 14, 2011

Aloma...my memories of you are as a cousin and babysitter when I was young. I cannot begin to imagine or comprehend your loss. I am terribly sorry and ashamed that I never took the time too meet Andrew. What a great young man! You are in my prayers and I know that GOD is with you and your family.

Lydia at the bank

January 14, 2011

Aloma I am so sorry for your unbelievable loss. May God soon give you comfort. It appears that Andrew was a wonderful young man that certainly touched a lot of lives.

Sharla Sanders

January 14, 2011

Aloma and family - I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and will continue. May you know the peace that only God can give. May you know that the arms that hold you and hug you are from HIM. God bless you. - Sharla Sanders

January 14, 2011

Aloma and Gordon - Our hearts break for you during this time of unfathomable loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. - Phillip & Gayla Day

Bill Ucherek II

January 14, 2011

Aloma and Gordon - We are so very sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and your family during this heartbreaking time - Brenda and Bill Ucherek II

January 14, 2011

All our love to you and your family. Even though we never were fortunate enough to meet Andrew in person we felt we knew him well from Aloma sharing so many stories of his life with us. It is so true that God only takes the best. Tom, Bev, Balion, Kiki, and Alton

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