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James McHale Obituary
A vigil service is 7 p.m. Thursday at St. John's Catholic Church in Fairfield. Funeral Mass is 11 a.m. Friday at the Fairfield High School gym, followed by burial with military honors at Sunset Hills Cemetery in Fairfield. O'Connor Funeral Home is handling arrangements.
Survivors include his parents, Bonnie and Joel McHale of Fairfield; sister Wanda Milliman of New Iberia, La.; brother Michael (Annette) McHale of Harker Heights, Texas; grandmother Irene Gilpin of Bangor, Maine; nephews Bradley Milliman, Lance McHale and Ben McHale; niece Brandy Milliman; several aunts and uncles, numerous cousins and lots of friends.
Jimmy was born May 12, 1977, in Great Falls, and moved around a lot because of his father's military career.
He graduated from Fairfield High School in 1995 and received an associate degree in avionics from ITT in Denver, Colo. He joined the U.S. Army in 1995 and served at Fort Carson, Colo. After his initial tour with the Army, he joined the Montana Army National Guard, serving at Fort Harrison. He then rejoined the Army and was currently stationed at Smith Barracks, Baumholder, Germany, from where he was deployed to Iraq.
He received the Purple Heart, Bronze Star, Army Accommodation Medal, three Army Achievement Medals, Global War on Terrorism Medal, two National Defense Medals and the Combat Action Badge.
Jimmy enjoyed golf, chess, other challenging games, video gaming, and was a computer whiz. He loved the outdoors and enjoyed camping in the Bob Marshall area.
He was preceded in death by grandparents Clarence and Violet Hamann; grandfathers Peter McHale and Virgil Gilpin; and an uncle, Henry Hamann.
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Memories and Condolences
for James McHale
March 27, 2015
Mic,
I still think of you every day. I recently came across pictures of us at Oktoberfest.. one of you crammed into the back of that ford stationwagon sleeping. Its been 7 years and I still remember all those times hanging out and goofing off. I miss you. Love you always.
Russell Slaven
May 25, 2014
I miss you brother, Ill never forget.
JJ Hall
May 3, 2014
I'm sorry to here this Jimmy was a good friend of mine when I was station at Fort Carson we worked in the motor pool together it hurts my heart to hear that he is gone. My heart and thoughts are with you guys.
Charlie Gili
April 21, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the McHale Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Peggy Childers
July 26, 2012
July 30, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. James A. McHale:
Always remembering James. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
July 31, 2011
July 30, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. James A. McHale:
Please accept my remembrance of James on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Russell Slaven
July 30, 2011
Love and miss you brother, I'll see you on the other side.
December 31, 2010
Blessings and thank you. God be with you.
Peggy Childers
July 30, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. James A. McHale:
Remembering James on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
July 30, 2009
To the family of Sgt. James A. McHale:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
July 10, 2009
Today I heard song. A song that talked about love and the fact that you should tell people you love that you love them before it's too late. The people you love, the people that love you will be the people who will ALWAYS be there for you... here or there.
Jimmy, this song made me think of you. You were, and are, always there for me. It's been almost a year but the pain doesn't go away. I miss you... always and forever! H x
Rich K
June 21, 2009
My sincere condolences and sympathy to the family and friends of Sgt. McHale. Each year Illinois holds a motorcycle rally which, in part, supports the Middle East Conflict Wall in Marseilles, IL. Each rider receives a dog tag with the name of a fallen service member. This year I received Sgt. McHales' name.
I am compelled every year to learn what I can about the service member I receive. Today, I read about a wonderful person who gave his life in support of our country. God bless Sgt. McHale and his family. Sgt. McHale, you are a true hero.
June 16, 2009
i am sorry about the loss of your love one may your family have the strenght and peace that God gives to those who greiving like your family.he also gives all that hope of seeing them again soon under wonderful conditions my deepest sympathy
Kim Straker
June 15, 2009
Remembering and honoring Sgt. James McHale. May his parents, family and friends find some comfort in the many words written here about this fine young American soldier.
His years on earth were too few, but he lived a life of service, and showed loyalty, courage and dedication to his Corps and his Country. May God bless James, his loved ones and America.
Jeannie Tolle
June 13, 2009
Dear Joel and Bonnie,
Please accept my condolences for the loss of your son, James. I pray that your memories of him bring you comfort and in time ease your pain. God Bless you all.
Rest In Peace young hero, you will never be forgotten. You are with our grandson now, he had just turned 19.
In Loving Memory of our Grandson,
PFC Aaron J. Ward
4/28/89 - 5/6/2008 KIA Anbar, Iraq
Bonnie Hollenback
June 12, 2009
My heart goes out to Sgt. McHale's family and friends. With every soldier there is a story - and many stories come from behind the scenes. The lives of our sons and daughters serving isn't easy as all military parents know and understand. And there is always one soldier or memory that touches our children's lives, Sgt. McHale is one of them.
Yesterday my son Sgt. Kyle Hollenback arrived back home safely from Taji Iraq. Kyle has served almost 6 years in the Army, and two tours were in Iraq. He is a Crew Chief on the Medevac Blackhawk. He has airlifted hundreds of injured soldiers and civilians, including small children. Kyle spoke to me briefly about a fallen soldier that he will never forget - Sgt. James McHale. Kyle had never met Sgt. McHale until July 22nd - the day he got the call for Medevac. After Kyle did his duty, he was unable to get Sgt McHale out of his mind. He followed up on his condition in Germany, and even when Sgt McHale was sent to the medical center in the states. He continued to follow up on him until the end of July when he learned that Sgt McHale had passed on. It has been almost a year since the loss of this fine soldier. To this day, Kyle is unable to talk about the tragic incident other than this soldier is the one that touched his life.
Today I searched the Internet to find information regarding Sgt. McHale and found this guest book. As I read about Sgt. McHale I discovered he had the same values as my son Kyle - such giving of themselves to our country and world to make it a better place. With this said, I send my heartfelt thoughts to the parents of Sgt McHale, and would like to thank you for raising such a wonderful giving person who gave his life for our country.
Gregory
June 12, 2009
My heart and prayers go out to all of my fallen HEROES. From a retired military member thank you very much for your sons service to our country.
Paula (Tillery) Trueax
June 8, 2009
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family members, immediate and extended. We all mourn together. My son, CW2 Joshua M. Tillery died in a helicopter accident as a result of enemy fire on Jan. 26th, 2009. We are parents of heroes and our children were the best of the best to give up their lives for others. God Bless you and please contact me if you need to talk. In loving memory of another son who gave his all so we can be free.
debbi
June 1, 2009
To the parents and family, I offer my heartfelt sorrow for the death of your loved one. So many times we don’t understand why this has to happen to us but know that you aren’t alone. There are many who have also suffered the death of their loved ones and we know that you will get through the day one minute by minute. When my son was killed in action I thought the world would end but through connection with others who had gone through this terrible tragedy I found that I wasn’t alone. When and if you would like to reach out and talk, vent, cry or just know how to get through each minute of the day please contact me. You are now a Gold Star Family and as such you should know that many of us are here to help and listen. May God bless and comfort you each and every day.
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In memory of my son
SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/2006 Samarra, Iraq
CO-A 2/505th PIR 82nd Airborne
SFC Ray & Terri Brown
May 28, 2009
Thank you for your service. You will never be forgotten.
Kathy & Chris Catalanotto
May 25, 2009
Remembering you James and all your fellow fallen comrades on this Memorial Day (& each and every day) and your families.
Thank you for your service and your sacrifice.
"Freedom is not free. All gave some, but some gave all".
God Bless and keep you and Bless your families and give them strength & comfort.
Luna Family
May 25, 2009
Thank you James for serving our country.
Patrick Weasel Head
May 25, 2009
As a Viet Nam vet, and Native Montanan (American Indian), I send my condolences to family and friends of James. With heartfelt thanks to you and your family for having a son that served.
May 24, 2009
To let your family know, you are not forgotten this Memorial day
Diane Everett
May 24, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Heroes never die; they remain in our hearts forever.
Please know there are many thinking of you and caring.
Charles H. Miranda
May 23, 2009
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Follow The Rainbow To Heaven.
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A Soldier had die out on the
battlefield;
Broken hearts are weeping For
Them,
But take comfort of knowing
that God had sent Them a
rainbow from heaven;
The Souls of the Soldiers
have gone to there home
in heaven,
Our Loved One's has follow
God's lovely rainbow in the
sky;
All the way to the end of the
sky.
That leads all the way to the
other end of the Lord's
house in heaven,
So just keep on praying and
trust that God will send us
that same rainbow in the sky;
Where Our Loved One's are
waiting For You and For Me at
the end of the rainbow in
heaven.
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Jerry Martin, SFC (Ret)
May 23, 2009
Thank you and God Bless you SGT McHale. Your country and family are very proud of you. Never forgotten!
L. Reed
May 23, 2009
MCHALE FAMILY,
God Kingdom promise: God will certainly render judgment among the nations and set matters straight respecting many peoples. And they will have to beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning shears. Nation will not lift up sword against nation, neither will they learn war anymore. He is making wars to cease to the extremity of the earth.. And God himself will be with them. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. May these words give you all a measure of comfort and hope.
John Stobbe
May 21, 2009
Thank you James for your willingness to serve our country. We wouldn't be the greatest nation in the world if it were not for brave, conciencious young men such as yourself. Your sacrifice will always be remembered!
Michael Iezzi
May 20, 2009
Father we entrust our brother James to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold James in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Mary Ghaney
May 19, 2009
May God Bless James and your family.
M. Woody McHale
January 12, 2009
Your sacrafice will never be forgotten, your bravery will always be honored.
M. Woody McHale, FDNY
M. Woody McHale
January 11, 2009
I cannot begin to imagine the difficult times your family has gone through in recent months. I would like to express my most sincerest sympathy in the passing of James, and hope that you will be comforted by his memories, his bravery, and his unselfish, dedicated service to his country. M. Woody McHale, FDNY.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 8, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to the McHale family and friends in the loss of James. I did not know James, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. James you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
T Starman
January 1, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss.
Lori Bergstrom
November 4, 2008
Today I vote in honor of this veteran.
Sgt. McHale you did not die in vain.
Thank you for serving our country.
Kenna Larra
October 31, 2008
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Diana thomas
August 28, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss no words could ever replace your pain. my son PFC Bryan thomas died on june 23 2008 in iraq. your husbands name rings such a strong bell in my heart. I know its hard but there is some light at the end of the tunnel. you are in my prayers.
SGT Russell Slaven
August 26, 2008
he was my bestfriend out here. we were like family, we knew each others familys. we traded storys and laughs. together 3 years and 2 deployments, ill never forget him. im deeply sorry for your loss. god always takes the great ones...
Heather Slaven
August 23, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My brother Sgt. Russell Slaven was really good friends with James and he was also deeply saddened. My brother was based with James this year and was home on leave when James passed. I wish no one would ever have to go through what you are going through and once again I am deeply saddened for your loss.
Gary Allain
August 21, 2008
Sgt. James A. Mchale
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
James A. McHale (May 12, 1977 - Jul. 30, 2008)
August 20, 2008
Debbie and Bob Wilson
August 17, 2008
Dear Joel & Bonnie,
Our hearts and prayers are with you at the loss of your brave son.
We understand what war is about and we also understand what it means to lose something that we ourselves would give our life for.
God Bless,
Deb & Bob Wilson
Jim McGowan
August 15, 2008
“The nation grieves the loss of another American Hero.”
My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your loved ones this is such a loss for you're family and our country, and his sacrifice is deeply appreciated. My hopes thoughts and prayers are with you all. God bless you.
Chris Devlin
August 13, 2008
My deepest condolances go out to the McHale family. I met Jimmy thru a friend in Germany, and we may not have been that close, but we spent a pretty good amount of time together. He was a great guy to hang out with, and had me laughing constantly. Going back to Germany won't be the same without him.
Ryan Day
August 13, 2008
Thank you for everything you did for this unit. You will be in my prayers and your sacrifice will always be appreciated and always remembered.
SSG OLIVER HERRERA
August 13, 2008
Your courage and service I honor..You fought with courage,love,and valor..But now my brother, your dues are done..we'll continue this fight till the battle's won...My heart is bleeding and my tears carry a burden..My prayers wish you're up there in Heaven..Your memories we'll carry now and forever...And in our hearts You'll ALWAYS be our #1 Soldier...To SSG McHale's family and friends..In behalf of 1st Platoon, C Company 40th EN..would like to let you know that we share the grief and sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful person...A leader in heart.. A warrior in spirit...A brother-in-arms...We love him very much!
sgt john allen
August 13, 2008
Jim was one of the greatest and funniest guys i knew he was always there for anybody who needed help. Jim you will always be loved and missed brother. love and miss you bro i will never forget the great times we had together RIP jim
Stephanie Rafoss
August 12, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
justin powers
August 12, 2008
jimmy was a real good guy, i got to hang out with him enough to know that, and this hit us all hard. you will be missed.
Misty Handa
August 12, 2008
I just wanted to let you know how much Jimmy ment to me. He was the best friend anyone could ever ask for.He was so much more he was my second brother I'll never ever forget him.thanks for all that you did for us Jimmy,you always had the courage that we all wish we had love ya misty bug,dwight,tristan&tasha
Sandra Wagner
August 12, 2008
Rest In Piece Jimmy. We'll miss you:(
christine (adamson) sheldon
August 10, 2008
to jimmy's family, i just wanted to say that me and the rest of the class of 95 and the rest of the town of fairfield will make shure that jimmy's life will never be forgotten. we all will help make shure of it. he will forever be a hero. my heart aches for you. i am so sorry for your loss but he lives on, and i know that some day we will all get to be together again with jimmy, i just wish i had seen him more over the last few years. my thoughts and prayers are with you.
debbi
August 9, 2008
To the family and parents of James I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
http://goldstarfamilysupportgroup.
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In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Debbra Smith
August 9, 2008
Please let me rephrase:
God bless and peace be with you always~
Debbra Smith
August 9, 2008
To the family of Sgt. James A. McHale:
May you find peace and comfort now and in the days ahead knowing your James will not be forgotten. I too, know the pain of losing a son in the fight for OIF
Gob bless and peace be with you always~
Mother of PV2 Daren A. Smith
3-89th CAV, 4th BCT, 10th MTN DIV (Light Infantry)
Baghdad, Iraq - 12/13/07
The Lyons family
August 8, 2008
Dear McHale Family,
I have thought of your family all day 8/8/2008, and I have been lifting you up in prayer. Only our precious Lord could know the depth of your pain and be the source of comfort you need. Our son-in-law Danny Sestina served with James and loved him like a brother. We met your son and he stayed with us in Cambridge, OH. I am so very proud of all of our young men and women and thankful for the sacrifice they make. May the Lord bless you and confort you in the days ahead. You will remain in our prayers. Danny wanted to be there to show his love and support but he is serving in Afganistan.
Julie Young (Konen)
August 8, 2008
Sincere condolensces to Jimmy's family during this time. Thank you Jimmy for your time served for our country and for all that you accomplished. You will always be remembered, not only as a classmate of 95, but also as a fellow soldier since I served as well. May your family find the strength and support they need during this time.
Karen Witt
August 8, 2008
To the McHale Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are very proud of all our MT. Fallen Hero's they will never be forgotten. The Witt famiy
Lela Graham
August 7, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Jimmy's family. I graduated with Jimmy and also have served in the Army. Even though I was only in Fairfield for one year, I have fond memories of Jimmy.
God Bless You.
Kayla Brown
August 7, 2008
McHale was in my unit and we were deployed together in 05-06. He was a very stand up guy, very funny and did his job without the griping that some do. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Rest in Peace, Freddy K. You will be missed.
Gary Tolle
August 7, 2008
James, God bless you soldier and thank you for your brave and honorable service to a grateful nation and for paying the ultimate price for our freedom.. You are now in great company with God and so many other fallen hero's before and after you. On 5/6/08 my nephew PFC Aaron J. Ward was killed in action in Iraq and my final promise to him was to never forget him and our fallen hero’s, we will never forget their commitment and sacrifice. To the McHale family, words cannot express the pain we now share, but our families will forever have a bond and we will be thinking of James and your family and will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. Please accept my heart felt condolences and my prayer that god help you cope with this tragic loss and may the memories of your HERO carry you through each day. From one Gold Star family to another!
Rutledge Family
August 6, 2008
Joel, Bonnie & families,
Our deepest sympathies to you all. We cannot understand what you are going through. Know that we lift you to the Lord in prayer often and ask that he surround you all with his comfort, guidance, and mercy. Your Jimmy was a wonderful man who gave his all to protect our freedom. May the knowledge that he is in God's kingdom now bring you solace during this time. You are so dear to us. Know how much we love you and that we will be here for you always.
In Christ's love,
Kelly, Kristie, Brantly, Andrea, & Lance
M L
August 6, 2008
McHale family,
I don't know you or your family (I grew up in Choteau) but I extend my sincere condolences. Your courage is inspiring and both of your sons' service is greatly appreciated.
B V
August 6, 2008
Sgt. James Mc Hale - You served your country with honor, commitment, and courage. Stand down soldier, your mission here is complete. We thank you for your service and keeping us free.
Mc Hale family and friends - James will always be a True American Hero to us and NEVER forgotten for his sacrifice. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Greg Tavary
August 6, 2008
May God bless you with comfort, peace, and His joy to help you over come the death of your son, I can never thank him or you for the blood shed for my freedom and liberties in the great country, all men and women who serve and sadly those who give thier up most are hero's to be honored forever in this Nations history. His service to us should never be taken for granted, his memory should never be mocked, or used as a political manuvering by anyone, understand this, you are held in prayer by many that you do not know including me, yours in the Peace of Jesus, Greg Tavary USAF vet
Leigh McNellis
August 6, 2008
McHale Family,
I did not know your son, but having had a son and step-son serve in Iraq, I can share a mother's fear. You have truly experienced a loss that words cannot begin to describe. My heart breaks for your family. Please let your wonderful memories comfort you during this difficult time. We thank you for your son's ultimate sacrifice to his country to keep us all free. May God be with each of you.
Kim Prevett
August 6, 2008
From a woman whose husband is in Afganistan now I kinda know what it is like. James is a hero and so are all those in his life. May God bless each of you.
Chris Durante
August 6, 2008
I am honored to have known and served with Sgt. James McHale. Words here cannot describe how much jim meant to all he knew. Rest In Peace jim
Kay Propst
August 6, 2008
I never met you but thank you for this supreme sacrifice Mr. McHale.
Rene` Johnson
August 6, 2008
McHale Family,
My heart breaks for all of you. I lost my son in Afganistan on April 30 of this year. (Capt. Andrew Pearson). I wish I had words to make the hurt go away but there really aren't any. All I can say is we thank you for sharing your son so we can all live in freedom. Your son and your family made the ultimate sacrafice for that I thank you. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Gary Manning
August 6, 2008
Sorry about your son, be sad but most of all be proud of him
Brad Bauman
August 6, 2008
Bonnie, Joel & Family -
I can not imagine your heavy hearts at this time and obviously words can not mend your hurt. I can only say thank you to you and your family for allowing your son to serve in our military and protect our country. You have given the ultimate sacrifice so that we may live in the greatest country in the world. Please accept my sincere condolenscences in the loss you are experiencing. May God walk with you during this time and help you in easing the pain that must come with the loss of a child.
Paula Hawley
August 6, 2008
I don't know you and I didn't know your son, but he served and protected his country and it's people and for that I will forever be thankful. May you have comfort knowing that he is still helping the people of this great country through his organ donation. My deepest sympathies for your loss and I keep you in my prayers
The congregation at Calvary Chapel of Great Falls
August 6, 2008
Dear Bonnie, Joel and Family,
Our hearts break for you over the loss of your son, Jimmie, and for the deep loneliness you suffer without him. We sincerely thank you for supporting him as he faithfully served to protect and defend our freedom and we'll remember you in prayer before our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Who knows the depth of your pain and will lovingly bear you up today and always.
Colleen (Wattnem) Brockett
August 6, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. My Son, Chad served with James in Germany. Please know that we will be forever in his debt for his sacrifice.
karla duffy
August 6, 2008
My dad was with the Guard at Fort Harrison in the mid-60's. My condolences at your loss.
Cindy Allestad
August 6, 2008
My condolences to you, Mr. and Mrs. McHale and Mike, on the loss of Jimmy. He will always be remembered and loved by our family. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Cindy Allestad and family
Spc Laura Schmitt
August 6, 2008
Jimmy will never be forgotten. he was one of the most outstanding leaders and one of the funniest guys ive ever met. i am so grateful to have been friends with him. Rest in peace brother. we pray for you always. (drink one for us, were gonna need it.)
Shyla Sanders
August 5, 2008
Hello, I want to express my sympathies. Jimmy was a great friend and support to many.I did not know him,but from the tributes in the Tribune and other places he repesented Montana and the USA with Pride .God Blessand keep you always.
Matthew Williams
August 5, 2008
James,
You will forever be remembered in my heart. You were always optimistic in life. I will stay that way untill we meet again.
SGT Matthew E. Williams
MT Army National Guard
Arthur Barnes
August 5, 2008
Fallen hero's who's mission is done.
Tears stain the flag, one, by one.
Loved one's worst fear, and a soilder's pride. Pain and glory stand side by side. Laid bare on the alter of freedom for all to see.
Stand down soilder and rest in peace.
A.K.Barnes
To the family of Sgt. James McHale.
No words can give you solice. Actions will all seem contrite.
But Know; the families of all who serve stand with you. We know your pain could easily be our own.
God Bless you and ease your way.
From the family of Sgt. TJ Rayl, who was serving with James in Iraq and who will always call him brother.
Sgt James A "Jimmy" McHale
August 5, 2008
Richard Zinkand
August 4, 2008
I wish there was something that i could say that would
in some way take away the pain from my heart and the
hearts of all those that were close and dear to james
but there is nothing.
james was a great friend and he always knew how to
brighten your day even when he was down himself.
no matter how bad i thought my day was, he would
alwyas offer me a heineken to cool off with and tell
me that someone else somewhere had it worse than i
did.
James didn't deserve to go this way, he was to good
of a person but god needed him in heaven and so now
he is an angel looking over us all.
McHales navy, I will forever miss you and you will
remain in my heart and on my skin. The times in germany
were some of my best and i will forever cherish these
memories.
thank you again man. Please keep an eye out for me.
If I ever go to war my Friends, Well never be apart,
Though we may not meet again, Ill hold you in my
heart. Remember all the times we had, Dont let your
memories cease, Your friend is a Soldier now, Dear
Friend, And Ill die to bring you peace. And when I
go to heaven, And I see that pearly gate, Ill gladly
decline entrance, Then stand my post and wait.
Im sorry Sir I cant come in, Im sort of in a bind,
You see Im still a Soldier Sir, So I cant leave
them behind.
RIP JAMES McHALE....
Mary
August 3, 2008
Dear family of Sgt McHale,
My deepest wishes for your family at this time. Thank you for raising an incredable young man who gave his all for us.
Army Mom
Holly Whatling
August 3, 2008
There is nothing I can say that will take the pain away from the family and each of the friends of Jimmy at this time!
The people here in Europe, myself included, cannot imagine him not coming back... the Pub and every other place I went to with Jimmy will seem empty without him.
He didn't deserve this... he was a wonderful person and he is now an ANGEL!
He ALWAYS had words of wisdom and always knew how to keep me calm and in check :) All he really wanted was for everyone to get along and hang out over a few pints of Guiness... :)
Jimmy, we hate that you are gone but we know that you would want us to be happy... we have stopped the stupid and pointless arguing, we are building bridges all over again. You were right, you always were... I just wish it hadn't taken me so long to realise it.
Thank you for everything you ever did for me. Please look out for me... I still need you :)
Always in my heart and in my memories,
H xx
Samm Thomas
August 3, 2008
To the family of Sgt. McHale,
I am truely sorry for your loss. I can honestly say I know how you feel. My husband PFC Bryan Thomas was killed along with Capt. Greg Degalssio on 23 June 2008. They were the first two to be KIA from this deployment. If you need anything please contact me. I will be at the service they are having here on Baumholder later in the week. From one Soldier to another, I salute your son for what he, my husband, Capt. D, and all the other soldiers out their in Iraq are doing. I deploy in Feb 09' myself, and I WILL keep your family in my prayers.
Thank you!
Capt. Degalssio 77-08
K.I.A. 23 June 08
PFC. Thomas 86-08
K.I.A. 23 June 08
Gale Poindexter
August 3, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt James A Mc Hale. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXAX__FZYg4
SHIRLEY DONEY
August 3, 2008
REST IN PEACE SGT. MCHALE, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
August 3, 2008
Rest in peace.
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
August 2, 2008
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to SGT James A. McHale our Brother in Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for James. And to James it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made in combat while serving the U.S. Army and his country. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. James, you are a brave Warrior, a true Patriot and a national Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,409 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to James’ family and loved ones.
Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
melanie klaeser
August 2, 2008
i wish i could do something for you...but i know nobody can help you with your pain.Sgt. James A. McHale was in the same unit with my fiance and.i´m sure
Sgt. James A. McHale did a great job for his country!
love, melanie
Suzanne MacDaniel
August 2, 2008
To the McHale family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold James' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04
Sandy Bonesteel
August 2, 2008
My condolences to the family of Sgt. James A. McHale. I know there are no words that can go as deep as the grief they feel. There are no words that can ease their pain. But I hope and pray that there is the comfort of knowing that there are many, many people who care very deeply about them; and that care so very deeply about James.
Janice Oswald
August 1, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SGT McHale....I am so sorry for your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
kathi poppert
August 1, 2008
James, Thank you for your brave sacrifice for our freedom, rest easy soldier you will never be forgotten. to James's family I am so sorry to hear of your loss, may God bless you all in the days ahead. we do not know eachother but are forever joined as my nephew PFC Aaron J Ward at age 19 while seriving in Iraq on may 6 2008 was also added to the long list of American Hero's who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country's freedom. may God bless us all and protect the so many other soldiers still fighting. Rest in Peace James, America loves you.......
Proud aunt of PFC Aaron J Ward
US ARMY miltary police ( forever a dragonslayer)
melanie klaeser
August 1, 2008
Sgt. James A. McHale was with my fiance in the same unit in irak and in germany.i´m sure he did a great job for his country!
i pray for him and his family!
love, melanie
Valorie
August 1, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Jeannie Tolle
August 1, 2008
Please accept my sincerest sympathy for your loss of James. I know no words will help ease your pain. Sgt. James A. McHale is an American Hero and will never beforgotten. I pray your memories of James bring you comfort. God bless all of you.
In Loving Memory of My Grandson
Pfc. Aaron J. Ward
KIA 5/6/2008 in Iraq
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