James Graff

James Graff

James Graff Obituary

Published by The Greenville News on Jun. 2, 2011.
Captain James Howard Graff

Marengo, IL

Capt. Graff was born on June 21, 1939 in Pittsburgh, PA and is the son of the late Howard and Geraldine Lea Graff. He was of the Presbyterian faith. Prior to entering the Air Force, Capt. Graff graduated from Case Institute of Technology in Ohio, where he earned a degree in Management Science. He was also a member of the Phi Kappa Psi fraternity. Once out of college he entered the US Air Force where he became a pilot. On October 3, 1965, on the plane First Lt. Graff co-piloted failed to arrive at Nha Trang Air Base. All five crewmembers were then listed as Missing in Action. While in MIA status, First Lt. Graff was promoted to the rank of Captain. On October 11, 1965 a recovery team located the wreckage of the C130E aircraft appox. 40 miles south of Nha Trang and approx. 12 miles northeast of Phan Rang, RVN. There were no survivors and comingled human remains were recovered. Capt. James H. Graff and the other crew members were buried in a mass grave in Arlington National Cemetery on October 26, 1965. From 1985-1996, the CIL received human remains from numerous unilateral sources - primarily refugees fleeing Southeast Asia - that were purported to be the remains of US Military personnel lost in the vicinity of Khanh Hoa Province, Vietnam. Not having the technology to resolve these cases during this time period, the CIL placed the remains in a Hold status pending future developments. In addition to the remains, an identification card with the name James H. Graff and thumbprints, as well as a tooth, was turned over by a CA congressman in 1996. In 2001, after improvements to DNA testing procedures were made, a DNA sample was obtained from Geraldine Graff, mother of Captain Graff. In January 2011, dental and skeletal remains were positively associated to Captain Graff. On February Feb. 22, 2011, Jim's daughter Lora, was notified by a representative of the Air Force Mortuary Affairs office that her father's remains had been positively identified. Capt. James Howard Graff received a Purple Heart and the Distinguished Flying Cross for his honorable military service. He is survived by two daughters: Lora (Brad) Booher of Greenville and Janette (Robert J.) Wenger of Fort Walton Beach, FL; six grandchildren: Jessica Troxel, Ryan Finch, Aaron Finch, Kristen Booher, Megan Booher, and Caleb Booher; one brother: David (Ellen) Graff of Los Gatos, CA; one sister: Carol (John) Freimark of Longmont, CO.

Funeral services will be conducted on June 4, 2011 at 11:00 AM at the M.J. Dolly Cooper Veterans Cemetery in Anderson, SC. Flowers are not accepted at the cemetery. Therefore, the family request that memorials be made to the: Rolling Thunder 10 Crossvine Way Simpsonville, SC 29680. www.gracelandmortuary-sc.com

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Sam McGowan

June 5, 2011

I knew Jim Graff when we were both in the 779th Troop Carrier Squadron at Pope AFB, NC. He and a crew went to the Pacific and ended up at CCK AB, Taiwan a couple of months before I went to Naha, Okinawa. I was at Cam Ranh Bay the night he was killed. Since we were in different units, I didn't know who the crew was for a day or so. I am glad his family now has some closure.

Ken Wilhoite

June 3, 2011

Welcome Home Brother.

June 2, 2011

God Bless you sir for your sacrifice.

john w.

June 2, 2011

Rest in peace Capt. Graff. God be with his family and friends. I was a sgt. in the 8th combat fighter wing.

L. Phillips ~

June 1, 2011

Thank you so much Capt. Graff for your sacrifice so that I was able to grow up in a free nation. I was only a toddler when you gave your life for me...for everyone. Thank you for making freedom and democracy more attainable to so many throughout our world.
With love and honour to you and your family,

Marie Patterson

June 1, 2011

God bless you family for having to wait so long to find this out I pray for all the things he missed in life and I hope and pray that he got to hold his grandkids before they were sent down from Heaven,May you have closure at last just remember that as long as you are alive he is never really gone you will always have him in your heart.Marie Patterson

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