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The Reverend Arthur J. Murphy, Roman Catholic Priest in the Archdiocese of Hartford and Pastor Emeritus of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in West Hartford, died in the early morning on Friday Dec. 20, 2013 at St. Francis Hospital and Medical Center, with his brother Steve at his side. He was the son of the late James J. and Lucy Jackman Murphy of West Hartford. The founding pastor of St. Thomas, the Rev. John F. Callahan baptized him into the Christian Life on Dec. 16, 1929. Father Murphy was a member of the 1st graduating class of St. Thomas the Apostle School, St. Thomas Seminary "49" in Bloomfield and St. Bernard's Seminary in Rochester, NY, "55". He was ordained on May 19, 1955 in the Cathedral of St. Joseph, Hartford, by the late Archbishop Henry J. O'Brien. He was an avid golfer and member at Wethersfield Country Club for many years, a dedicated Alpine skier, an instructor in Religion and Marriage at Sacred Heart High School in Waterbury, 1958-1961, and at South Catholic High School in Hartford from 1965 - 1991. He was a member of the Capitol Region Conference of Churches for 25 years. He was a former Chaplain for the Catholic Daughters in the Americas, currently served as Chaplain of Council 3600, Knights of Columbus at STA, and celebrated 50 years as a priest in 2005. After a temporary assignment at St. Thomas, Goshen, in 1955, he served in the following parishes; 55-57 St. Mary, Lakeville, 57-64 St. Patrick, Waterbury, 64-75 Sacred Heart, Wethersfield, 74-91 St. Mark the Evangelist, West Hartford, and 91-until his retirement on August 26, 2011 at St. Thomas the Apostle in West Hartford. He continued in his retirement to help at St. Thomas the Apostle until recently. He is survived by his 2 sisters and 2 brothers; Sr. Mary Ellen Murphy RSM at the University of St. Joseph in West Hartford, Vincent C. and Nancy Murphy of Sherman, Sheila Rose and Walter Gilbert of No. Falmouth, MA, and Stephen D. and Donna Murphy of West Hartford. His many nieces and nephews also survive him. He was predeceased by his sister and brother-in-law Anne Marie and John Melly formerly of Niantic and Vero Beach, FL. Funeral services will begin Sunday Dec. 22, with Calling Hours from 1-4 p.m. in St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 872 Farmington Ave. West Hartford. His Mass of Christian Burial will be Monday Dec. 23 at 11:00 a.m., in St. Thomas the Apostle Church. Archbishop Leonard P. Blair will be the principal celebrant. Burial will be in his family plot at Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield. Donations in his memory may be made to St. Thomas the Apostle School, Fr. Arthur J. Murphy Scholarship Fund, 25 Dover Rd. West Hartford, CT 06119. Online remembrances may be made at www.molloyfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant from Dec. 21 to Dec. 22, 2013.

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Gerard and Carole StHilaire

December 15, 2020

Father Murphy was a very kind man and friend to all that had the privilege to know him. He will never be forgotten in the hearts that know and love him. Rest in peace Dear Father Murphy.

Carole and Jerry StHilaire

December 16, 2019

He was a gentle, soft spoken man with a heart of gold and compassion for everyone. He is truly misses even today ! There can only be one Father Arthur Murphy and we were lucky to have known him !

December 16, 2019

Gone but not forgotten ! You will always be remembered in our hearts and prayers ! As another year passes dearest Father Murphy may be with your family in Heaven knowing those of us left behind will always have fond memories of a sweet and caring man who loved people and God !

Rest in peace Father. You have earned your rest !

January 1, 2014

The world has lost a saint.

Andre & Anne Denault

December 31, 2013

My husband & I went to South Catholic High School and were in Fr. Murphy's Marriage class there. In June of 1972, he married us at St. Augustine's Church in Hartford--and we are still going strong! We were blessed to know him, and know that he will be sorely missed. Our sincerest condolences to all his family, and everyone fortunate enough to have been touched by his gentleness.

Carole and Jerry St Hilaire

December 28, 2013

You will be sadly missed dearest Father Murphy!

The St. Hilaire Family

Maureen Reidy

December 23, 2013

Our sincere condolences to the family of Father Murphy. He was the presider at my wedding and also at my father's funeral Mass at St. Thomas. I will always remember how caring he was at these significant events in my life. He will be deeply missed.

Lea Gostyla

December 23, 2013

So many wonderful memories of Father Murphy and his kind and generous heart. He will be so missed.

Brian DeConti

December 22, 2013

The DeConti Family is here to remember the life of Fr. Murphy.

December 21, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the family of Father Murphy. I remember when all the school children sang Happy Birthday to Father Murphy...He was so happy! He also loved watching the children during their Christmas Pageant. He touch the lives of so many people.
With sympathy,
Kathy Albert teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle School

Rob Guinan

December 21, 2013

Fr Murphy came through unbelievable snow to see my father at Mt Sinai hospital and he was very generous to me and my family. He was a prince among priests and an exceptional person. I'm very grateful to know him.

Rich & Joan Colbert

December 21, 2013

Steve and family,
Many fond memories of Father Murphy from his days serving the parish of Sacred Heart in Wethersfield. May he rest in peace.
Please accept our sincere condolences and know you all shall be remembered in our prayers.

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