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Gary Ashton Obituary

ASHTON, Gary Penfield Gary Penfield Ashton, 60, of West Hartford, reluctantly departed this life on Sunday (June 24, 2007) at home. Born on August 15, 1946, in Hartford, he was the son of the late G. William and Barbara (Blackmore) Ashton. He was predeceased by a younger brother, Billy. Gary was a graduate of the Hall High school class of 1964 and attended the University of Hartford. He worked as a stock analyst for John Guttmann and Associates and was co-owner of a Video Galaxy store in Bristol before retiring. Gary always had a sharp wit and wry observation and was known for his humor as well as his eccentric side. He often spoke of being at the ripe 'old age' of 60 and of life's uncertainties. Thus he requested that when he passed, it was important to him that his obituary would contain the phrase 'reluctantly.' Gary had a passion for family and the holiday seasons, but once the New Year arrived he began the countdown to the Masters Golf Tournament. Any winter storm complaint was countered with "but remember, the Masters is only ten weeks away" and dismissed. His passions included his friends, Golf, the Red Sox and his Cadillac. Gary was loved like a son and brother by his uncle and aunt, David and Charlotte Ashton of West Hartford; by his cousin and best friend Sue Ellen Larsen; cousins Sally Ashton, Nancy and George Dewey and their offspring. He is also survived by an uncle, Arthur Blackmore and his family of South Windsor; and his lifelong friend Ed Tirone of Naples, FL. Gary leaves behind anyone and everyone who has ever met him as he was an unforgettable positive force in all our lives. A graveside ceremony, presided by Fr. Charles Topper, will be held at 2 p.m., Thursday, June 28 at Fairview Cemetery, 200 Whitman Ave., West Hartford. Following the service, friends are encouraged to join the family for a celebration of Gary's life at the Fernwood Restaurant, 1113 New Britain Ave., West Hartford. Memorial contributions can be made to the charity of the doner's choice. Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home, West Hartford, has care of arrangements.

Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 27, 2007.

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Re. Jean Cook Brown

June 28, 2007

To the family of Gary Ashton: I was sorry to hear of the death of Gary. His mother and father were long time members of our church and Gary was always supportive. I loved his mother very much and got to know her when she volunteered her time in the church school. Blessings to them and him and you. Rev. Jean Cook Brown, Unversalist Church of West Hartford.

Sam Medina

June 28, 2007

I'm fortunate to have known Gary and will always remember him as a person who made those he knew feel good. My wish for those that were closest to him is that they find comfort in the memories they have of him.

Elizabeth Turner

June 28, 2007

Although I am a newcomer to this family, and only knew Gary for a few years, when I think of family gatherings, I first remember Gary's great spirit, rich voice and hearty laugh, and how no occasion was boring when Gary was a part of it.

He will always be in my heart, if not my life.

Anthony Pollicito

June 27, 2007

Dear Sue and Family,
I had the chance to meet Gary a few years ago. He was friends with my good friend's father Tony DiBella. Gary and I would talk technology and stocks. The best were his stories from the past and looking back at all the good times he had. He will be missed. My condolences go out to Sue and family.

Erin Adams

June 27, 2007

Sue, although I haven't the opportunity to meet you, Gary mentioned you so often during the times I spent with him. He was very fond of you. I am Wayne DiBella's niece, Tina's best friend. I lived with them in Windsor Locks for some time and had the joy of knowing the infamous Uncle Garro, as we candidly called him, for so many years. We celebrated Christmas together 2 years ago and it remains one of my favorite memories. He was my lone Red Sox supporter in a Yankee house and cheered them on with me, loudly, over Tina and Uncle Wayne, the Yankee fanatics. We have shared many nights together filled with stories of his past "wild crazy days" as he would call them. He brought so much joy, wisdom and genuine love to my life and I will miss him dearly. Please let us know if there is anything I can do. I am very sorry for your sudden loss.

Jill Gagen

June 27, 2007

To Sue and family. He will be missed but also remembered in my heart and loved. Jill

Seth Dewey

June 27, 2007

Gary, you will be sorely missed. You have been an important fixture at family gatherings for as long as I can remember, and it will not be the same without you.

"No one leaves you
When you live in their heart and mind
And no one dies
They just move to the other side"

Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home

June 27, 2007

Our heartfelt sympathies in this, your time of grief.

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