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Elise Beam
January 12, 2025
I am his 4th cousin and I am currently studying playing the alto saxophone. I never got to meet him of course but his music is a true work of art. May he be always remembered as a wonderful composer, cousin, and family member.
Daniel Berkman
April 9, 2020
So sad to hear of the passing of James Sellars, my composition teacher when I was at the Hartt School in the early nineties.
I always felt he was the only one at Hartt who really got me. I miss his humor and warmth.
I still have a short Instant composition he had written for me, I believe he wrote as I stood there watching. Persistent Dan. His nod to my love of Minimalism. But being true to his teaching nature he added a post script, Anyway, Persistent Dan is not Minimalist! Its Bachian!
I learned of his passing when I visited in 2017 to honor my grandparents who were co-founders of Hartt. This news was the saddest of all.
James was a great teacher and dear fiend.
Rest In Peace, James Sellars.
Daniel Berkman
Lawrence Dillon
September 26, 2019
I studied Composition with James in the late 70s and early 80s; no teacher had a more profound impact on me. I even had the privilege of living in that vibrant house on Albany Ave. for one year, renting a room on the top floor. It was a heady experience for a young composer -- James was not just a musician but an artistic thinker, a composer whose work brimmed with ideas. He understood and responded to his times in ways I still find ingenious. And the home he made with Gary and Robert was a haven for artistic thought, a place where both accepted and new ideas were challenged and celebrated.
For many years now I have had my head in the sand; very sad to learn that I missed James' passing.
James Mason
March 29, 2017
I will miss your humor. God bless, Love.
Mary Rybka-Bartholomew
March 28, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss Gary and Robert. James was a shining light in Hartford. He was an inspiration to many. I have many fond memories visiting your home especially the dinner honoring Virgil Thompson and staying up to midnight waiting for the night blooming cerus to bloom.
May you Rest In Peace along with your seven lovely Aunts.
Brent Muno
March 28, 2017
In only short meetings did I know James, but in those brief moments, I cherished his creativity.
Ruth Miller
March 27, 2017
James, I love you for the rest of my life. You and Gary and Robert and Finn changed everything for me. What is everything? A small part of everything is: participation (and acceptance!) in an atmosphere of genius joyful abandon, tenderness, loyalty, ravishing sensuality, ecstatic music making and and its reenactment, observing wondrous guests who were so attracted to your household (who were making special stops in Hartford), seeing how you all inspired younger people not just to achieve, but to live and vibrate. Definitely expanding and deepening my love of gay men. The sources of such gifts and energy as yours, James, can sometimes exact a price, and I know your life was not without pain and frustration. In that, you had the most beautiful companions possible, who loved you in difficult times and well as in blissful times. That taught me that enduring faithful lifetime love is not a contract.
I was lucky to have seen a comet return in my lifetime.
Prof. Alexandra Burack
March 23, 2017
I am heartbroken to learn of the death of my old, dear friend and mentor, James Sellars. I consider myself unfathomably lucky to have met Jim in 1982, and to have been immediately welcomed into his extended family of musicians, writers, artists, and activists. Ever-present in my memory are the 1980s and 90s years of salon afternoons with Jim, Gary, Robert, Finn, and a coterie of genuinely original artists and intellectualsall of whom were a profoundly positive influence on my life and work. Jim was a rare man of indefatigable energy, and a great part of his legacy for me is how central the act of creating community was in his deeply humanistic aesthetic. There can be no overstatement about how honestly Jim provided a kind of elemental creative nourishment to artists of all crafts and perspectives. All of us who found ourselves in Jim's orbit sensed immediately that we were witnessing an original presence, a truly human human being who could unite in the face of difference, respect in the face of intolerance, and make new in the face of the derivative. To earn Jim Sellars' trust was to receive a gift of the most profound acceptance and support; it was an honor in the grandest sense of that word to feel one was a trusted friend. I will always remember the many years I house-sat for the Sellars household and the joy of tending gardens; dusting the endless bookshelves with enticing worlds of art, music, and poetry; writing poems at the farmhouse kitchen table; and taking phone messages, which were never routine, and often startled me, discovering Leonard Bernstein's voice on the line. I am so grateful for Jim's sparkling and remarkable presence in this world; for his enthralling music, his wit, his love of language and those who shape language, his raucous laugh, and mostly, for the elegant and authentic hand of friendship he extended to this poet and teacher as a young woman learning how to serve Art and respect those who made it. To the beautiful Sellars family, I extend my most sincere condolences on the loss of our extraordinary James.
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