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Jeffrey Skilton Yates

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Jeffrey Yates Obituary

Jeffrey Skilton Yates, 59, of Farmington, passed away peacefully Monday, (May 13, 2002) surrounded by his loving family. He was born October 16, 1942, in Hartford, the son of the late J. Arnold and Alma S. Yates. A graduate of Farmington High School, he served as Farmington's first police cadet in 1962. He served two years in the United States Army Military Police. He returned to Farmington to continue his career with the Farmington Police Department, retiring with the rank of Captain. He received his Masters Degree from the University of Hartford, and was a graduate of the FBI National Academy. He served on the Board of Trustees of First Church of Christ Congregational, Unionville. He was a corporator of Farmington Savings Bank, director of the Farmington Foundation, Inc., past president and active member of the Exchange Club of Farmington, Secretary of Farmington Police Mutual Benevolent Association, coordinator of Farmington's New Police and Community/Senior Center. He leaves his wife of 33 years, Eileen (Ingvertsen) Yates; daughters, Kathleen Yates of New Britain, Jennifer Yates of Unionville, and Kimberly Yates Scott and her husband, Christopher B. Scott of Farmington, and unborn granddaughter, Alexa Yates Scott, due August 3, 2002; two brothers, Roger A. Yates and his wife, Madeline of Old Saybrook, Alan W. Yates and his wife, Karla of Louisville, CO; his aunt, Jean Lejeune of Ocala, FL; his nieces and nephews, Alana Yates, Karl Yates, Carl Murawski, Kirby Murawski, Kristin Ingvertsen and Amy Ingvertsen; his sister-in-law, Susan Ingvertsen of Unionville; his brother-in-law, Gene K. Ingvertsen and his wife, Anne of West Cornwall; his mother-in-law, Inez Nardini of Avon; and his father-in-law, Gene A. Ingvertsen of Melbourne, FL. Friends may call at the Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rte. 4, Unionville, TODAY, May 16, 4-8 p.m. Funeral services will be held Friday, 11 a.m. in First Church of Christ, Congregational, 61 Main St., Unionville, with the Rev. Thomas F. Dean officiating. Burial will be in Riverside Cemetery, Farmington. Memorial contributions in Jeff's memory can be made to Farmington Foundation, Inc., P.O. Box 8, Farmington, CT 069034 or the Farmington Police Mutual Benevolent Association, One Monteith Drive, Farmington, CT 06032.

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Published by Hartford Courant from May 15 to May 16, 2002.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Yates

26 Entries

Steve Cox - Sgt. (Ret.) UCHC PD

May 22, 2002

Jeff Yates was one of the people who encouraged my interest in law enforcement (along with then Sgts. Getz, Capodiferro and Theriault) when FPD started its' initial Police Explorer program in 1973. He was always there with a quick & easy smile, he listened to my questions and answered them instead of simply turfing off a 17 yr. old kid with long hair. I never heard anything bad said about him, which speaks volumes for someone who served in multiple supervising capacities for so many years. He'll be remembered as not only a good, solid person but as someone who helped shape people's lives. God bless Jeff & his family.

Chris Kerr

May 20, 2002

Dear Eileen & Family,

Our deepest sympathy on your loss. Jeff and I had quite a few talks in the past years and he helped me out a few times with his words of wisdom. Jeff was a good man and will be missed tremendously.

All our love,

Chris, Laurie and Isabella Kerr

Don (Pete) & Judi Petersen

May 19, 2002

Dear Eileen and family,

We were saddened to learn of Jeff's death. We have been praying that you and the family would be comforted and nurtured by our loving Savior during this most difficult time. Judi and I are so glad we had the chance to spend time with you and Jeff last October. We'll treasure the memory of our visit together.

Love, Pete and Judi

Susan Ingvertsen

May 18, 2002

Eileen, Kate, Jen, Kim & Chris,

You were so blessed to have had such a kind, devoted, and loving husband and father. The tribute that this community gave him was so well deserved, and he gave us one last gift by allowing us be a part it. We couldn't have been more proud to have been part of his family. He will always hold a special place in our hearts.

Love,

Susan, Carl & Kirby

Robert & Sarah Woods

May 16, 2002

Our deepest sympathy to the entire Yates family...It is a very sad time for all of you...We hope that the memories you hold will help you get through this difficult time...

Meg Wehrly Moore

May 16, 2002

I was a typical 8 year-old neighborhood kid when Jeff & Eileen moved in to their house, but I remember it vividly because they were so tolerant of me. I ended up getting lots of babysitting opportunities from it! I don't think there was a nicer, kinder person on the street than Jeff.

Tom & I send our heartfelt love and well wishes to Eileen, Kathleen, Jenn-a-fur, and Kimberly. We wish we could be there to pay our respects to a wonderful man and his family.

Felicia Farnham

May 16, 2002

Dear Eileen, We are so very sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. We will miss Jeff for his kindness and gentle ways, and his smile could always light up a room. Jeff will always be the "best looking man" I have ever met. My Mother and sister send their love and prayers, as well as my brother Neal. We all feel very fortunate to have had his friendship through the years. Our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you. Felicia, Joe, Mariann, Mary and Neal

Alana Yates & Paul Wright

May 16, 2002

"To laugh often and much, to win respect and affection of others, to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived ... this is to have succeeded" (Emerson)

Uncle Jeff was a great success in life, an amazing person, loved by many, especially his family. It helps to know he's watching over every one of us now.

We love and miss you very much and are there with you in spirit.

Hugs and Kisses,

Alana & Paul

Mary Olivieri-Mullins

May 16, 2002

Well, what can I say? I don't know if I have the words to describe the depth of my my sympathy for you, my 'Cousins', that I love so much.

I can't remember not knowing Jeff. When we would all get together he was the calm in the eye of that crazy and effusive storm we all created with our laughter, ongoing conversation and Aunt Inez'a home-made pasta and cream puffs. His smile would illuminate the room.

I remember one time when I was a banquet waitress at a party the police were having in New Haven. I turned around and there was Jeff! Well, he stood and talked with me for quite a while - and I'll tell you - it was the longest conversation I ever had with him. I'm beginning to believe he just couldn't get a word in edgewise when our whole family congregated!

I loved him and I love you all very much. I wish I could be there. Please know that I am there in spirirt.

Love, 'Cousin Mary'

Keith Phalen

May 16, 2002

Lori and I could never repay Jeff and Eileen for their kindness and generosity. We will miss one more of the Tyler Lake Legends----,

All the Phalens

Sammi Dawley

May 16, 2002

I think Jeff's thoughts would be similar to these.......

AFTERGLOW

I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one,

I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when day is gone,

I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,

Of happy times, and laughing times, and bright and sunny days.

I'd like the tears of those who grieve to dry before the sun,

Of happy memories that I leave when my work is done.

To the entire Yates Family....may time and love bring you peace.

Rich & Marie Mulhall

May 16, 2002

Jeff protected, served, and was a good friend. It was an honor to serve with him. He will be missed by his brother and sister officers. Our prayers are with him and Eileen.

Madeline Azarian-Yates

May 16, 2002

When I think about my brother-in-law the word "exceptional" comes to mind. What a legacy he has left. We can learn much from his quiet, compassionate ways.....

John Penfield

May 15, 2002

I was shocked and saddened to hear about Jeff's passing. He was a gifted man and a gift to the people in his life. Our families go back to the 40's. Alma was maid of honor

in my mother's wedding. Jan. 12,1942

Phil and Elaine Farrell

May 15, 2002

Dear Eileen and family, We are deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Phil and Elaine Farrell

Jack, Debbie, Jackie & Pat Matava

May 15, 2002

Our sympathy and love go out to each of you, Auntie, Kathleen, Jennifer, Kim and Chris. The kids were so proud to call Jeff their Uncle and Jack and I even prouder to call him a very dear friend. Our love for him is eternal and we will always cherish the special times we shared. May your memories be a source of comfort.

Love always, Jack, Debbie, Jackie & Pat

Joe and Liz Blum

May 15, 2002

Dear Eileen, Jennifer, Kathleen, Kim, Chris and Baby Alexa...

We were deeply saddened to hear of Jeffs death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a wonderful man and will be sadly missed. Please know that he will always be with you.

Phil & Aleta Amato

May 15, 2002

Dear Eileen, Kathleen, Jennifer,Kim and Chris....

Your loss is shared by so maney....we love you and can't tell you how proud we are to have had the opportuity to be a part of your family over the years. We will miss him deeply and always remember him in our hearts!! All our love the Amato's/DeGrandi's

Jim and Nadine Tattersall

May 15, 2002

Jeff, it was an honor to have worked with you and for you for twelve years and known you for many, many more. You have earned the honors and recognition you have received and the love and admiration of us all.

Kate Fleming

May 15, 2002

To the Yates Family:

Mark & I are very deeply saddened at the loss of Jeff. He was a good man who had a heart of gold and that wonderful bright smile! Kim & Chris you take care of that little that's on the way! Your dad will be very proud of the new arrical in a couple of months. He is watching over you with his parents to give you comfort & peace at this time of sorrow. We love you both.

Love always

Kate & Mark Fleming

Ellen Mattocks

May 15, 2002

Jesus released a soul today

Ever up where angels stay.

Serving God both then and now

Understanding why and how.

Souls of others come to greet.

They gather at the Father's seat.

He, the son, stands between

Enveloping the soul so lean.

Carefully the book laid bare.

He, the soul, is listed there.

Rightfully the soul meets judge.

In God's eyes, devoid of smudge.

Songs of joy fill Heaven's dome.

This soul, so dear, is finally home.

Jeff was a special gift to anyone who ever met him. His calming soul will always be remembered with great affection.

Peter Sweeney

May 15, 2002

It was a pleasure having the opportunity to meet Mr. Yates through Chris and Kim. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

The Sweeney Family.

Robin Bangham

May 15, 2002

To the Yates Family: Matthew and I are thinking of you during this very difficult time. Your family has always been special to me and Matthew. Jeff was a wonderful man and he will be missed dearly.

Robin Bangham & Matthew Charpentier

Candi Hitchcock

May 15, 2002

Grief is not a weakness, it takes strength to mourn and there are many sharing your time of sorrow.

Dale Petersen

May 15, 2002

Jeffrey Yates,

A model gentleman!

A kind and caring person.

A soft spoken Christian witness.

Admired and respected by all.

You will be missed!

Dale

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