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GADBOIS, Jeremy Stanley Jeremy Stanley Gadbois, 21, of Brooklyn, passed away Friday, (April 25, 2008) due to injuries previously suffered during an automobile accident. Jeremy was a strong, patriotic man with a desire to help others that went above and beyond that of the average person. His unselfishness on a daily basis left a lasting impression on many. Immediately following the events of September 11, 2001, Jeremy at the age of 15 made his way into Ground Zero and participated extensively in initial search and rescue efforts, where he remained until more organized efforts were established. In October of 2005, Jeremy joined the Red Cross as a volunteer and spent time helping Katrina victims in Mississippi by setting up and maintaining shelters, food service and water supplies for displaced citizens. He was also instrumental in setting up the first regional database to help diaster victims track lost family members. Jeremy had been nearing completion of physical therapy for a shoulder injury, during which he spent time volunteering with the elderly at Haven Health. Upon completion of his rehab he was committed to joining the U.S. Army with the intention of becoming a Ranger in the Special Forces. Jeremy loved the Patriots and Red Sox. He played semi-pro football with the Worcester Wildcats and most recently the Central Mass Fury. Jeremy leaves his parents, Bill and Laurie Gadbois; brothers, Billy and Jacob; sisters, Sera, Julia and Cassia; sisters-in-law, Becky and Tracy; brother-in-law, Bill; and a host of close friends and family. A Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday at 11 a.m. at the Gagnon-Costello Funeral Home, 33 Reynolds St., Danielson with Ministers Don Bixby and Barry Barkley officiating. Burial following at South Cemetery, Brooklyn. Calling hours are on Tuesday, 7 - 9 p.m. and on Wednesday morning from 9 - 11 a.m. before the funeral service.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 27, 2008.

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Joshua

April 23, 2019

With having kids now I fully understand a parents love. Jeremy is loved even today and missed whole heartedly. I think of him often and what could be.

I put my faith in god and what his ultimate plan is for me, for Jeremy, for my family. My heart goes out to my uncle aunt and cousins as I know this is always a hard time for them.

One day we will see Jeremy again and it will be even better than it ever was here on earth. Cant wait to see that big smile and tell him how much I missed him.

Jamie

September 3, 2017

Miss you Cousin. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I'll never forget our unforgettable memories. Your always in my heart man.

Mom .

December 18, 2016

~ That time you sent me flowers at work in a smiley face cup and the note read " Hi I love you Mom ". sigh ..............

Just so you know, we are surviving. Learning and living.
Those beginning years and I wondered if our family would ever smile again,laugh again be happy again.
We do and most days we are.
You are thought of and talked about often.
Each memory of you brings a bittersweet collection of emotions.
Angry that this ever happened to our family!
Fear this could happen to another member.
Sadness and tears as the days continue to add and the reality of your absence deepens those feelings and the "I miss you" whispered words rise up from some deep dark corner of the heart.
Laughter comes now as grandchildren,your nieces and nephews have been added to our family.Good thing for us.
Appreciation , deeper appreciation for one another.
We say I love you more. Hug more. And are especially elated to share one another's accomplishments.

Love you Jeremy
I miss you
~ Mom

Alexa

April 24, 2016

I miss you the most Jeremy.
Think of you always

Mylene Mommy to Sean

April 23, 2016

Remembering Jeremy Sending Laura and family sincerest HUGS.

BJ Judd

May 1, 2012

Jeremy, a candle is lit in your memory. Visit your Mom with sweet angel kisses, she misses you so much.

norman berry

April 25, 2012

god bless you jeremy you are very missed by everyone love cousin norman

kristin weaver / prochnow

January 14, 2012

jeremy I just found this on here I light a candle for you buddy ! I remember when we were kids and our familys got together at buffim ville and spent 4th of july there and the fun times we had when our dads brought us all biking and they showed us the water that went out so far but never got deeper then our knees ! bill and laurie im so sorry he was a great person and he will be remembered forever in our hearts my prays are with your whole family !

Linda Pitti

January 5, 2012

Laurie, your son Jeremy sounds like a very special young man and gone way to soon from this earth!!! He did more for people in his short 21 years than most people do in a life time!! You have all the right in the world to be so very proud of him!!! May God Bless you & yours and May Jeremy Fly High with all the angels as he is now one too!!! Love Always!!! Linda

November 1, 2011

People die, but we do not lose them. They are forever threads in our fabric, memories in our heart, and love in our being. They are now and always will be a living and loving part of who we are.

November 1, 2011

My heart strings still make music
One string has snapped and can never be replaced.
Another broke and is spliced
Music is different but a melody remains none the less.
~ mom

BJ Judd

April 25, 2011

(((Jeremy))) Candles will be lit today in your memory. Please visit your Mom today, she misses you so much. Hug?

Chuck & Edy Orr

April 25, 2011

Laurie .. our condolences on the loss of Your son, Jeremy .. adding our prayers for You as You cope with his being gone .. as parents of a daughter who also left this earth before her time but by God's will, we share Your grief and Your loss. Never forgotten, but accepting with more understanding as the years pass,
Sincerely

Gadbois

April 19, 2011

It's almost been three years and not a day goes by where I don't think about you. It's been two years since I've visited you and I hate myself for it. I miss you so much Jeremy. You we're a good friend and ready to lend a helping hand. My heart is with your family this month because I know that they miss you too. I hope that the happy memories of you will comfort them and bring them closer than apart. I hope to see you again someday.

ma .

April 4, 2011

today i am remembering a day in the store, you walked up to me and said " can we have these ring dings and sweet talk her"?, and the astonished look on your brothers faces...and them mouthing ..." nooooo thats not what you were supposed to say " !!!!! Miss my son and all he added to our family.

gadbois

April 3, 2011

love you and miss you !

.

December 26, 2010

975 days and still not any easier than the 1st. Getting harder than ever !!!

me

December 17, 2010

you been on my mind..and i just want to talk..i miss you knowing everything in my head.

Ma .

December 10, 2010

959 days ...... miss you still. and always will

JANET CUSSON

September 22, 2010

THE PAIN IS JUST AWFUL.IT IS HAD TO EXPLAIN IF SOMEONE HASN;T BEEN THROUGH IT. RAYER'S ARE WITH YOU. HUGS TO YOU AND YR FAMILY

Cheri Whitton

August 28, 2010

Dear Bill and laurie, what a truly wonderful son you had Im sure you are so proud. Im sure he was such a special person God needed him in heaven. I to lost my daughter in a automobile accident, and she to was an amazing person, and I feel she must of been needed in heaven. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Cheri Angel Mandys Mom.

Gadbois

June 22, 2010

miss you so much. seems like yesterday we were together. i remember you looking at me with that big grin telling me to drive safe bud. love u and the family

Cathy Odle

June 7, 2010

Thinkin of you today, Happy Birthday Jeremy

Little ONE

Marge Brutscher, Angel Mom to Gatlin

May 29, 2010

Please visit with my son up there, I have a feeling that you two would make great friends.

Ma

May 17, 2010

No matter how hard I try
No matter how many years go by
No matter how many tears I cry
I still can't say goodbye.

Chris Kondoudis

May 12, 2010

Laurie, Bill, and family: I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I will be keeping you all in my prayers. I too lost my son in an automobile accident on March 3, 2004. Life as you well know will never be the same. God Bless You, Chris

Kevin & Donna O'Day

May 7, 2010

Bill and Laurie, I know your pain, we also lost a son 09 June 2007 to a vehicle accident. Our son was 23. Ryan was great at making friends and I'd like to think he has met Jeremy. Your son was well accomplished at such a young age and such a special kid. I wish I knew him. Fellow PGR Kevin E. O'Day, Plainfield, CT [email protected]

Cathy Odle

April 25, 2010

Thinking of you today, wishing I was closer to your mom!!

Jessica

April 25, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

ma

April 23, 2010

I yearn to see him working and playing with his brothers, there was just something almost magical about it. He earned the nick name “lil basid” for his ability to drive them nuts ! How I yearn to hear them call him that just once more. I yearn to see him argue with his older sister and then back again to being the lil brother.
I yearn to see and hear him giving big brother advice to his baby sister, and sticking up for her.

laurie gadbois

April 23, 2010

cathy Odle

April 3, 2010

Got to know your mom today, a wonderful woman! <3 angle zacharys mommy
cathy

Patricia McClancy

December 8, 2009

Laurie and family,
You know I have been very remiss in not actually taking a look at your legacy book for Jeremy and for that I am sorry. He is/was a very remarkable young man, loved by many and now continuing his work right up there with all the angels, I bet he is for sure doing much there.
My love and thoughts are with you and prayers of course......
Jeremy watch over those who love and miss you so greatly.
Angel mom to Amy Trish

Donna Phelps

October 27, 2009

Jeremy,
May God Bless You And Keep You. May His Guiding Light Shine Upon You. You are now one of his angels, so soar as high as you can go. Alway's remember those who love you. You will be missed dearly.
Friend of your Mom's

Tasha Gadbois

October 26, 2009

Love you Jeremy, and all of my family, thinking of you.

Sidney Wilson

October 26, 2009

Jeremy Send mom a big angel hug today. Love Sidney Dariens mom

October 1, 2009

Nature

As a fond mother, when the day is o'er,
Leads by the hand her little child to bed,
Half willing, half reluctant to be led,
And leave his broken playthings on the floor,
Still gazing at them through the open door,
Nor wholly reassured and comforted
By promises of others in their stead,
Which, though more splendid, may not please him more;
So Nature deals with us, and takes away
Our playthings one by one, and by the hand
Leads us to rest so gently, that we go
Scarce knowing if we wish to go or stay,
Being too full of sleep to understand
How far the unknown transcends the what we know.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

September 4, 2009

not a day goes by where i don't think of jeremy. Miss him much.

Diane Smith

September 2, 2009

Jeremy was a fine young man. My heart breaks with yours on the loss of your beloved son.
Diane (Angel Moms)

Mom ?

June 7, 2009

This a very sad and empty day.
No matter how hard I try
No matter how many years go by
No matter how many tears I cry
I still can't say goodbye.
Missing Jeremy more than ever.

Lorraine Kelly

May 27, 2009

My dear Laurie,
I am so sorry for the loss of your special Jeremy. He seems like a very special young man and am sure he is much treasured with our angels in God's care.
Love & hugs,
Lorraine, mum to angels Craig & Jeff from Australia

Tina Geesey

April 6, 2009

Dear Laurie
I am sending you love today on this very difficult day. I lost my only son 3 years ago. His birthday is this month so I too hate this month. I am sendind you a big (((HUG))) from one sad angelmom to another. Bless you and your family. I am here with you to walk this very difficult life together we share.
Tina Geesey (angelmom) to Barry
http://barry-geesey.memory-of.com

laurie gadbois

September 13, 2008

I can't get used to living here,as my heart is broken and these tears I cry for you.Miss you so much. Love Mom

Sylvio & Michelle Gario

September 5, 2008

Dear Bill, Laurie and Family,

I always think that the loss of a life impacts everyone. John Donne said it best in Meditation XVII, "No man is an island". Jeremy certainly impacted everyone. I am sorry for the family and the world's loss.

Kathy Sutton

July 3, 2008

Dearest Bill, Laurie and Family,
We learned of the sad news of Jeremy's passing. Our hearts and prayers go out to you all. It's been a while since we saw you last, probably at a pot luck at the Mayer's. We have warm, fond memories of you and your kids and we miss you. We know you are missing Jeremy. We pray for God's comfort and peace to get you through this difficult time. Love Craig, Kathy, Remington and Levi Sutton

David & Lauren Brushett

May 22, 2008

Dear Bill, Laurie & Family:

Both of our families share so many wonderful memories. You have always had a special place in our hearts. We love you all so very much. With Heart felt sympathy.
Love, Dave, Lauren, Nathaniel, Benjamin, and Matthew Brushett

Liam Duggan

May 12, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Jeremy. I was praying for him every day. Jeremy was a great guy and I was lucky to know him. My deepest condolences to the Gadbois family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Peter & Sharon Pistorino

May 9, 2008

To the Gadbois family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult experience. With care, Peter and Sharon

Daniel Hamilton

May 5, 2008

To the entire Gadbois family... I hope that people will be inspired by Jeremy's kind nature and aspiration to help others. It is obvious that he spent his days trying to make this world a better place. The world needs more people like him. Best wishes to you all. It has been a great pleasure to get to know all of you over these past few years. Hang in there...

Nick & Sue Silvestro

May 5, 2008

For Bill, Laurie, & Jeremy's brothers & sisters:

Heaven has gained a beautiful angel
God has called him back to His fold
Watching over his family and friends
At His side as was foretold

His smile is in your thoughts
His love is in your hearts
His memories will keep you going
When the world around you stops

Have comfort in His love
Through your faith will come peace
Jeremy will be with you always
His presence will never cease


With our deepest Sympathies,
Nick, Sue, Chris, & Seany

Dennie Brown

May 1, 2008

To the Gadbois Family,
I'm truly sorry for your loss. I did not know Jeremy very well, althouth Billy was one of my best friends growing up. I know this is a tough time for all of you. If there's anything at all that I can do, please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Eleanor and Laurence Martin

May 1, 2008

Dear Laurie and Bill---Please except our sincere sympathy for the loss of your son.Lauren has kept us informed on his terrible accident.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The martins

Steven Durning

May 1, 2008

I'm truely sorry for your loss.
I had the opportunity to work Jeremy on a few occations and thought he was such a nice guy. I didn't realize just how much of himself he gave to help others. He will surely be missed by all.

Eric Lockhart

May 1, 2008

Thinking of you

Joanna green

April 30, 2008

We have never met, but I am deeply saddened by your loss. With his kind soul, so much love and so many prayers Jeremy must have soared to heaven! Please find solace in the image of a happy peaceful Jeremy.

michelle

April 29, 2008

I wanted to write and send my prayers to you all for the loss of this great man ! I do not know him or the family but this story just saddened me. I am thinking of you all.
take care

Bob & Julia Mitchell

April 29, 2008

To the Gadbois Family--Dear Ones----Our hearts go out to you---We haven't had the privilege of knowing you or Jeremy personally, but may time and comfort from God, along with precious memories bring you peace. You are in our thoughts & prayers--With Care In Him,

Monica, Mark, Sarah, Michelle, Matthew Stone

April 29, 2008

Laurie and family. This is such a tragic thing to have happened to you and your family, but after working with you and hearing you speak so fondly of Jeremy and upon reading about him, I sincerely feel that he is at ease now and will always be with you all. You are all in my families thoughts and prayers every day. Peace be with you all.

D. D.

April 29, 2008

Although I did not know Jeremy, I feel compelled to write my condolence. From reading his obituary, I believe Jeremy was an earth angel who through his compassionate ways, bestowed many gifts upon those in need. He had a huge heart and then God needed him back in heaven. We can all learn from his unusual short but meaningful life. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

Michelle & Alex

April 28, 2008

We are so sorry for your terrible loss. Our hearts and thoughts are with you.

Bonnie DeSouza

April 28, 2008

Dear Laurie and family, my heart is hurting for you all. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.... Bonnie DeSouza

Jessica McLaughlin

April 28, 2008

Laurie and Family,

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Jeremy sounded like a wonderful young man who touched many lives; a testament to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bryant Pikcilingis

April 28, 2008

I am so so sorry for your loss, Jeremy was had a huge impact on all our lives. You'll all be in my prayers. Much love,

Racheal

April 28, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I went to elementary school with your children, and it broke my heart to read that someone so full of life had his life cut short. I have your family in my prayers - I could not imagine being in your shoes. I hope it brings you comfort that his spirit will be kept alive through each act of kindness that is performed through the inspiration of your son.

Angela Kaye

April 28, 2008

Dear Bill, Laurie & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My family has been been praying for him and you all since the accident, we will keep you all close to our hearts during this sad time. Jeremy was an incredible person from what he gave back in such a short time. He will be missed. Love Angela Kaye & family

colleen dalmer

April 28, 2008

my heart aches for you and your family at this time - to lose a son out of season is something i've never experienced, so i can't say 'i know how you feel', but it must be an unspeakable, deep heartache that will take time and God's tender care and help to endure and to heal...my heartthoughts are with you all...with tender care and warm love,
colleen

Julie (Pearson) Adadjo

April 28, 2008

To the Gadbois family,
We are thinking of you and praying for you as you take one day at a time. Jeremy accomplished a lot in his short life and leaves behind many cherished memories.

Chris Lopolito

April 28, 2008

Bill, Laurie and Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of Jeremy. I have not seen him since he was a baby. But reading all the accomplishments in his life has made life a little better for all of us and many thanks to him for that. With all our love,
Christine, Stephen, Cheryl & Kids, & Stephen

Tom and Sharon Melelndy

April 28, 2008

Dear Bill and Laurie,
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and grief. We are praying for you that you will have the strength and courage needed to go through this difficult time.

Bruce & Deb West

April 28, 2008

To the Gadbois Family -
Thoughts and Prayers go to you, during this difficult time...
Thankful for the one that knows all and can comfort - Bruce & Deb

Angela Church

April 28, 2008

Bill, Laurie, Billy, Jacob, Sera, Julia,Cassia, Carolyn, all of you...we are holding you close in our hearts and prayers. We remember fondly our years and times as young families and how influential your family and your love for each other taught and touched our own family. You all mean so much to us. Please know you are in our everyday thoughts, and prayers. May God somehow lift you through this experience the way you have lifted and touched so many with your family's kindness and love for all those around you.

zachary berry

April 27, 2008

to the gadbois family i am so sorry that jeremy past away and i did owt know him well and i loved him and he loved us and he is all in our hearts

zachary berry

April 27, 2008

to the family of jeremy gadbois im so sorry that jeremy past away and i,did not know him that much but i loved him and we all love him and he,s all in our hearts

Donna Mayer

April 27, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We feel so much a part of you. From our very beginning here, you were all in our lives, from the building of our home,(even Jeremy had a hand in that) to meetings together. We know God can be such a comforter at this time. Love, Scott, Donna, Rachelle, Kara and Trent Mayer

Tammy Negron

April 27, 2008

We are very sorry for your loss. My son goes to school with your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I am very sorry that we will not be able to attend the services but it's just too soon for us since we just lost my husband/father.
Sincerely,
Tammy Negron
Brian and Kristal Simon

Susan M.

April 27, 2008

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My heat broke when I saw his beautiful picture and incredible story of the man that he was. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Words cannot say enough. I am so sorry. His smile is contagious and beautiful.

Lisa Cote

April 27, 2008

Sera and Family,
There are no words, nothing I can say or do that will lessen your grief. I met Jeremy twice, and each time he made a significant impression of a person who went beyond being a decent human being. The world and many peoples' lives are lessened for his loss. His impact and caring were well beyond someone of his years. He's a credit to all of those who love him.

Jeanie Pearson

April 27, 2008

Bill, Laurie, I think the world of you, you mean so much to me. I remember how kind you were to me as a teenager, and how loving and close your family is. Each and every one of your children are special to me, I'm thinking of you all. Laurie, you are the true meaning of a mother, so patient and kind and loving. My heart goes out to you all. Take care.

David & Joyce Peterson

April 27, 2008

Dear Gadbois Family,
We are saddened by your loss. Jeremy seemed like he was a wonderful son. Cherish the many fond memories you have of him and the wonderful days you spent with him. We just can't begin to imagine your great pain and loss. May you know of God's peace and love through this difficult time.

Ivan & Norma Klopfenstein

April 27, 2008

Dear Bill, Laurie and family,
Words fail but our hearts are filled with love for each of you.

Stasia Cyr

April 27, 2008

Jacob and family:
I am very sorry for your loss. My thought and prayers are with you. God bless.

Ann Thomas

April 27, 2008

Bill, Laurie and family; Our hearts go out to you during these difficult days. Fond memories of you all assure us that your strength will hold fast. Cherish the memories.
Love, M. Ann & Gary Thomas & Craig Davison, Fort Worth, TX.

Berry

April 27, 2008

Bill,Laurie & Family,
No words can describe your loss. Our prayers are w/ you & your family.We are here for you if you need anything.
Love All of You
Jamie,Lori & Family

April 27, 2008

I did not know Jeremy, but as I read the accomplishments this young man performed in his short life, I felt compelled to tell you how sorry I am for all of you. Having lost a brother in a car accident at the age of 24, I know the pain you are feeling right now. Know that family and friends can help you through this time. God bless all of you. Debbi Z

Charlotte Farrar

April 27, 2008

To the family of Jeremy Gadbois,

I did not know your son and I do not know your family but just reading the obituary of your loved one compelled me to send condolences to the family of such a wonderful giving young man. He gave more in his 21 years than some of us give in a much longer life time. He was a true angel that walked amoung us. May God Bless and I am very sorry for your loss.

Carol & David Pikcilingis

April 27, 2008

We were very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you all.

Debra Boulanger

April 27, 2008

Sorry for your loss, much love and respect to the whole family..Jeremy will always remain in our hearts and has given all such wonderful memories.
Timothy & Debra Boulanger

Jeremy

April 27, 2008

Jeremy putting a roof on my house last summer

Alexa Pikcilingis

April 27, 2008

To The Gadbois Family,
You all are in my thoughts everyday. I love you all and couldn't express how much it has ment to me to be a part of a woundeful family over the past few years. You will be in my prayers.
Love you guys, Lex

jim-joan Berry

April 27, 2008

to the gadboise family.we are so sorry for you,r lose.our heart go out to you all,

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