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LISITANO, Sebastian D. "Mickey"

Sebastian D. "Mickey" Lisitano, 92, of East Hampton, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Friday, (July 13, 2012), just five months after his beloved wife, Louise W. Lisitano, passed. Mickey was born, one of twelve children, to the late Sebastiana Lombardo and Joseph Lisitano Sr., on December 12, 1919, in Middletown, and was married to Louise McGrath Wallace for 65 years. Mickey worked as an occupational therapist at Connecticut Valley Hospital in his younger years, and then worked for Color Mart Framing and Middletown Plate Glass, both in Middletown, as an accomplished framer and repairer of frames and porcelain, then working part-time up to just three years ago. He was a talented antique enthusiast and could repair just about anything with skills that he taught to himself. He enjoyed remodeling houses and his many trips to Vermont to attend antique auctions to extend his knowledge. He loved traveling out west and was especially fond of studying Native American paintings, collectibles, and folklore so he could develop his own amateur painting skills. He loved gardening, producing his own peppers for canning and caring for his numerous flower beds. He was especially proud of his two sons and their families, who learned so much from him and will miss him dearly. He is survived by two sons and daughter-in-laws, Michael and Elaine Lisitano, of Waterford, and Ronald and Linda Wallace, of Cobalt. He had three granddaughters: Kim Wallace Anderson (Phil), Heather Lisitano Warner (John), and Carrie Lisitano Rose (Ryan), and one grandson, Randy Wallace (Kendra); and he had five great-grandchildren whom he adored: Braden and Callen Wallace, Jordan Rose, and Margaret and Ryan Warner. He leaves three brothers, Andrew Lisitano of Newington, Fred "Smitty" Lisitano (Betty) of Portland, and Joseph Lisitano, Jr. of Middletown, and one sister, Anna Bongoirno (Angelo) of Middletown. He also leaves behind many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers, Frank Lisitano( Anna), Salvatore Lisitano, John Lisitano, and Gino Lisitano (Phyllis) all of Middletown, and three sisters: Constance Lynch of Florida, Lucy Peterson and Victoria Kalinowski , both of Middletown and his longtime friend, Frank Dumond of East Hampton.
There will be no calling hours. A private family memorial service will be held at Rose Hill Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Middlesex Hospital Hospice Unit, Leukemia Research Foundation or the American Cancer Society in his memory. The family wishes to thank all the nurses and staff at Middlesex Hospital Hospice Unit and "Stay @ Home, LLC" and Benjamin of Manchester for their wonderful care of Mickey. They made him feel comfortable and safe and he felt at home.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 18, 2012.

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Linda & Ron

July 12, 2023

Dear Dad, Eleven years have gone by, and we have missed you every day. You were such an important part of our lives and we talk about you all the time. You were a wonderful dad and we love you! You are now at peace. Smitty and Betty have joined you in Heaven. Bless you, Love Always, Linda & Ron

Ron Wallace

August 7, 2012

My Dad, Mickey

Although you're not my birth dad, you've loved me since I was small,
The name “Dad” belongs to Mickey,
my father, the one who raised me… tall

A father is not the one whose blood runs through my veins.
He's the one who stayed by my side throughout my triumphs and pains.

I remember you were there for me when I was just a young fellow,
And all through my life, you were right there to say, “My son”….”Hello”.

You were my hero, to stand by me every step of the way,
You were my hero, to comfort me and tell me everything's okay.

You were my hero, to take the role in my life of being dad.
You were my hero, saying “Listen to me”…. cheerful, never sad.

You are my hero, my father, my best friend,
And my love and respect for you will never end.

Your son, Ron

RIP peace, DAD !

Alexis Johnston

July 30, 2012

Michael and Elaine, Ronnie and Linda, and all the family,
So sorry to hear of Mickey's passing. I have so many nice memories of your Mom and Dad and my Mom and Dad, all of us, for so many years. Especially in Vermont when they would share going antiquing which they so much enjoyed. God Bless them all, together in heaven revisiting their lives adventures.
With love, Alexis

Carol Groves

July 20, 2012

Ronnie, Linda & Family ~ My thoughts are with you. I know how much you loved your dad, Mickey, ~ he was a wonderful man who lived a full & meaningful life. With Love, Carol

Ron Donovan

July 19, 2012

Mike, Elaine and family,
SO sad to hear about Mickey's passing!
You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Debbie (Cohen) D'Amico

July 19, 2012

Mike, Elaine & family - so sorry to hear of your dad's passing.

D.A. Saia

July 18, 2012

Dear Elaine and family...Treasure your special memories...Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Roxanne Brozyna

July 18, 2012

Rest in peace Uncle Mickey. You were a dear sweetheart! <3

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