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Max & Lauren (Davis) Cosman
February 1, 2002
We didn't visit often enough in recent years, but as all his friends (and relatives) would agree, it was always fun reminising and talking with Jerry...and, even enjoying a beer occasionally!!
Twenty five (or so) years ago, Jerry and Debbie introduced us to a little slice of heaven here on earth which became an annual retreat for us for many, many years...Monhegan Island, Maine. In all our return trips there, we always thought of the first trip with Jerry and Deb. As the LAURA B mailboat pulled up to the old dock, the local fishermen were unloading (and gutting) a 300lb Halibut fish they had caught in their nets that day. What a sight! Dinner for all! Thanks my friend. You had a way of finding unspoiled places like the island...or northern Vermont lake camps...or Heaven!
Peace!
Max & Lauren
Kate Karlonas
January 21, 2002
Dear Deb and Geoff,
Martin and I were so saddened to hear of Jerry's passing. Although we've kept in touch via Christmas cards over the years since our move north, we remember fondly the early days at mother Aetna, our first apartments. Martin didn't work with us, but the four of us wined,dined and played BC( before children). What I remember most about Jerry was his sense of humor and his making us laugh, sometimes until the tears came or a bathroom break was in order. Deb do you remember our going to the races in NH.,you won $200.,got so excited jumped up and down and fell injuring your foot/ankle.Jerry was in rare form that day. What fun we had. He loved life and enjoyed his family and friends.
Kate
Denis Kobichev
December 15, 2001
You were my American Father. And I can't believe that I will not see you any more in this life.
Last spring we began writing each other. He was in good form in spite of his sickness. He had really nice sense of humour. It's true, because even I (russian) understood his jokes.
He laughed when it was funny and he sweared when he was angry. He was living man. He was real.
God bless you.
P.S.: Excuse my english.
Jerry, Fishing on his rock in Vermont on Big Lake Averill
Geoffrey Stauch
November 27, 2001
Jerry wore many hats…
A Husband, a Father, a Son, a Brother, an Uncle, a Cousin, a Friend, a Neighbor, a Fisherman, a Marine, a Nature Lover, an Avid Reader, a Horror Movie Fan, a Music Lover (of all kinds), a card player, an Encyclopedia, a Web Surfer, a Foot Guarder, a Bartender, an IRS agent, a worker for Colts Firearms, an Underwriter…the list is endless.
To me the most important hat he wore was Father.
My Dad taught me how to fish, how to play cards, how to canoe, and how to play basketball. Dad taught me how to drive on the dirt roads of Vermont when I was 15 years old; he expanded my taste in music, books and movies. Dad gave me his sense of humor (some may disagree with me but I think this is a good thing). Dad, Mom and I used to go camping quite a bit and Dad and I would stay up late sitting around the campfire for hours just talking and enjoying each other’s company. Dad and I loved sitting down and watching “The Simpsons” together…I guess you could call it a little tradition that we had.
Jerry had a great passion for life and it sure showed…He made the best of every day he had on this earth. Even though his stay here was not long enough, he touched many lives and made each day brighter with his smile. I only had the pleasure of knowing my Dad for 20 years…what I wouldn’t give for 20 more.
I miss my father a great deal, but he is no longer suffering. Someday, somewhere, we will be together again. So Semper Fi Dad…I love you.
P.S. Put in a good word for me will ya?
October 1965
Pete Townley
November 19, 2001
I was reunited with Jerry About a year ago. We were in the same Company in Vietnam. It was a ple asure knowing him. My deepest sympathies are with his family. I do remember him smoking fairly heavily and now he's in a place where he won't need them. Semper Fidelis Jerry Your brother Pete
Gordon Guy
November 18, 2001
(JER, you know where I had to be when Prince Sirki came for you, but I'm sure you got an aisle seat from Charon on your jouney over.)
After what my pal Jerry had suffered these past three years, I was not surprised by his taking leave of this veil of tears; nor could I be saddened that he has escaped to a better place, for certainly no friend, husband, father, and fighter has more earned his right to eternal respite. He deserves to be where he doesn't have to strain for every breath - and where, maybe, he can take up smoking Benson & Hedges again - .
You wouldn't think so skinny a body could leave such a huge void. It has.
We've lost all that was Jerry Stauch; his unerring friendship, his devotion to his family, his amazing wit, and his high intellect. Our only gain is that he shared all of himself with us for the entire time he was here.
Margaret Mancarella
November 9, 2001
I worked with Jerry at Aetna at a critical time when everyone worked full tilt to achieve common goals. Jerry was wonderful a great talent, a great humourist, a great man. I understand the family's loss and wish to share this poem which I wrote after my dear brother's passing this past June. God bless you all. Maggie
we celebrate the lives we’re given/the ones that remain and those who are driven/from this world and from our sight/and from our plans of what might/have been our futures shared together/and travel plans that depended on whether/we chose to leave our hearths and homes/and go to places our loved ones roam/still we celebrate the lives we’re given/and ask for strength when some are driven/from this world and from our sight/and cause the heart to cry at night/when the sounds of their laughter fill the mind/and other thoughts of the most common kind/... their gestures, their nod, their casual gait/all the simple physical human traits/still we celebrate the lives we’re given/and search for reasons why some are driven/from this world and from our sight/and from our plans of what might….have been.
Godspeed Jerry!
Shirley S. McGarry
November 8, 2001
Jerry's Open Door
The door to Jerry's home-like his heart
Was always open
Where everyone was welcomed
And you knew, when you stepped through that door
You would find-great conversation,lively debates, wonderful humor, smiles, laughter and - LOVE
For Jerry knew how to live and love to the fullest
That is his legacy to us
And we know that the door will still always be open
For our love and his love will keep it that way.
Lorraine and Ken Worley
November 7, 2001
Dear Deb and Geoffrey,
We were saddened and shocked to hear of Jerry's passing. Please know that we are carrying you in our hearts and prayers for this day, and those to come. Even now Jerry's guitar sits in the corner of this room and so we recall his generosity and gentle spirit. WE understand your great loss.
May God grant you strength and peace as you draw close to friends and family. Lord, Hear our prayer.
In His love, Lorraine Ken and Spence
David Stauch
November 7, 2001
Jerry
Goodbye my beloved brother.
Pass you gently through the night.
For a new dawn will be coming.
A day filled with happiness and light.
It is now our time for grief and sorrow.
Our lives filled with a void that is wide.
But, I believe in another tommorrow,
when brothers meet on the other side.
There will be those days when deepest in my thoughts,
I will stop to remember those things to me you taught.
So thank you for those good times,
and even for those sad.
We got through those times together.
For that I am truly glad.
There are so many more things to tell you.
So much more I want to say.
But my heart is too much saddened.
So I will say them when I pray.
Dave,
Curtis Eidson
November 7, 2001
Our hearts are troubled because of your loss. I, as all Marines, wish to say Semper Fi to this another lossed friend. Our Lords gates are even safer now that another marine is on duty.
Tom Kirk
November 6, 2001
I'm very sorry for your loss. Jerry & I first met as recruits in Parris Island in the Marines back in 1964. Even back then Jerry showed everyone, including the Marines, he had what it takes to succeed at anything he attempted. Some years later, Jerry & I met again when I became an Underwriter at Aetna. We were friends for many, many good years. Jerry was a top notch Marine and a true friend who was always there for you! I will miss Jerry very much & he will always be in my prayers. As Jerry & I always ended our e-mail messages over the years- Semper Fi.
Fran Pressey
November 6, 2001
Deb - There are so many memories - Jerry, was a fine gentle man whose smile could fill a room. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Please let me know if there is anything I can do - write me - or call when you can.
Terri Cornelius
November 6, 2001
Deb: Jerry was the most special person I ever met at Aetna. Everytime I would call the home office and talk to him he would make me smile and laugh. I remember the last time he came out here and was able to spend sometime with Jon and my family. Take care and please keep in touch! You and Geoff are in my thoughts.
Bill Bradley
November 5, 2001
Jerry was a great man. He was a sergeant over me in the Marines & I learned much from him that helped me stay alive in Vietnam.
He will forever be alive in my thoughts & prayers.
Semper Fi Jerry!
Kelly White
November 5, 2001
Jerry was one of the first people I met when I started working at Aetna. He could cheer up the worst of days with his wonderful smile and neverending jokes. I'm very sorry for your loss. Jerry will be missed by many.
Patricia White
November 5, 2001
I'm so sorry to hear about Jerry. We had such fun the day we went fishing with Bill and Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve Zimmerman
November 5, 2001
Jerry was one of a kind. Always with a "can do" attitude, I will cherish his memory always.
Tammy Riverol
November 5, 2001
I wasn't aware how ill your husband was. My thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. I know I am far away, but if there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask.
My deepest sympathy,
Tammy
Trey Whitaker
November 5, 2001
Jerry was a wonderful man, a character, and a gentle person who lived his life to the fullest extent. He'll be missed by many but not forgotten.
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