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Barry Bower Obituary

BOWER, Barry Barry Bower, 73, of Boynton Beach, FL, died unexpectedly on Wednesday (May 6, 2009). He was the beloved husband of Harriet (Lerner) Bower for 51 years. Born in Hartford, son of the late Edward and Eva Bower, he lived in Newington over 40 years before moving to Florida. Mr. Bower owned and operated West Hartford Appliance and retired from H.B. Communications. Barry served as an Auxiliary Connecticut State Trooper. He loved playing golf, relaxing on the beach and being with his best friend, his dog, "Molly". Barry will always be remembered for his unbelievable sense of humor and his ability to fix anything. Besides his wife, Harriet, he leaves his daughter Elyssa Kopf and her husband Dr. Stephen Kopf, his son Eric Bower and his wife Robin Bower, all of New York, and his loving grandchildren Michael Kopf, Jacki Kopf, Samantha Kopf, Cody Kopf, Joshua Feldman, Lauren Feldman and Chloe Bower. In addition he leaves his sister Shirley Lieber and her husband Hal, brother Norman Bower and his wife Lois, sisters-in-law Harriet Bower, Naomi Levenson and many loving and devoted nieces, nephews and wonderful friends. He was predeceased by his brothers Bernard and Murray. His funeral service will be held on Sunday, May 10, 2 p.m., at the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington. Burial will be in B'Nai Shalom Cemetery, Wethersfield. His family will received friends at the home of Bonnie and Jan Bower, 36 Cornish Dr., Newington. To share a memory with his family, please visit us at www.newingtonmemorial .com

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 9, 2009.

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Michael Cohen

May 28, 2009

Harriet, Eric and Lisa,

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Barry. Barry had such a great way with people. He had a Knack of making kids like me feel important. I always remember riding to and from football practices in his big Ford LTD's telling jokes. You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Ellen Baggish Carlton

May 23, 2009

Harriet, Elyssa, and Eric,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Barry. Although I haven't seen you in many years, I often think about your family and have fond memories of great times with all of you. Barry was such a nice man...I hope your wonderful memories will bring you comfort at this difficult time.

Barbara Siskin

May 19, 2009

Harriet & Family,
Our deepest sorrow on Barry's passing. I remember Barry fixing our TV on Blue Hills Ave. He was a great man. Many good times at B'Nai Sholom. May he rest in piece.

Barbara and Syd Siskin, Newington

Frank & Puba Niro

May 19, 2009

Dear Harriet,
We are so sorry to hear of the pasing of Barry. We have great memories of Barry walking over to see us on beautiful summer days and telling us jokes. My God Bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Caroline & Sid Blecherman

May 13, 2009

Dear Harriet and family: We are so sorry to learn of Barry's passing. We wish you strength in the days ahead. May you be comforted by your good memories.

May 12, 2009

Harriet & Family,

So sorry to hear of Barry's passing. Although we haven't seen each other in years we have fond memories of the good times we used to have. We will keep you in our thoughts & prayers at this very difficult time.

Sari & David Rutt
Ft. Myers, FL

Rosalyn Shotten

May 12, 2009

Harriet,
So sorry to read about the loss of Barry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Rosalyn and Norman Shottern

Lauren Miller Cattel

May 11, 2009

To the Bower Family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Lauren Miller Cattel
Rocky Hill, CT

Howard & Joanne Barron

May 11, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

May 10, 2009

Harriet and family, we are very sad to hear of your loss---please accept our sincere sympathy

Arlene & Bob Barenbaum
DelRay Beach, Florida

Debbie Bayer Cohen

May 10, 2009

Growing up at B'Nai Sholom, I always remember Barry bringing a smile, and usually a joke, to shul. He was a great guy, loved by people of all ages. May his memory be for a blessing.

Fred and Shirley Stein

May 10, 2009

We were shocked to hear of Barry's sudden death.He was a wonderful neighbor,good friend and Mr fixit for us and everyone. Our thougts and prayers are with you. He will be deeply missed

Beth & Ben Ancona Jr.

May 10, 2009

In loving memory of one of Newington's great families, May God bless you, Harriet & Eric and all. Barry, welcome home and may you rest in peace. Amen,

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Irv & Rochelle Rosenberg

May 9, 2009

Dear Harriet, Elyssa, Eric and family,
We extend our deepest sympathy to all of you on the untimely death of Barry, z"l. We hope that your many wonderful memories of him during happier times will be a comfort to you during this very difficult time. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
May his memory be for a blessing.
Irv and Rochelle Rosenberg

Bower Family

May 9, 2009

Dearest "Little Auntie Harriet," Elyssa, Eric and families,

Please number us among the shocked and saddened, with the news of the passing of our beloved Uncle Barry.

We always looked up to him, with that wry sense of humor, that slow, sly smile and the unwavering support he gave all of us, especially our mother, following our own father's passing. Mom proudly told anyone who would listen that "Barry is my rock," and she was so right.

The memories we have of the years we spent together would fill more than one volume. We only hope that time allows you to heal slowly, and that you find comfort in the strength he gave to so many people.

With much love,
Bonnie, Jan, Al, Sue
Michaela & Stephen

Bob & Judy Cohn

May 9, 2009

Our hearts are sad but our memories are happy ones...of the Barry who was "always there" when we needed advice on how to fix almost anything...of the Barry with the funny, dry sense of humor...of the Barry who loved to think of pranks...of the Barry who really cared and was so kind especially to our parents...of our great golf trip and of so many other wonderful times together in the past 45 years...our hearts are heavy, but we can't help but smile when we "remember". Our love goes out to the family that he was so proud of and that he so adored.

Ricki & Mike Schless

May 9, 2009

Our hearts are with you. We are so sad and shocked about Barry's passing. We have so many memories over all of these years of Barry as our dear friend and neighbor.We shall miss him. May he rest in peace.
Love, Ricki & Mike

Dave Paul

May 9, 2009

Harriet,Lisa, Eric, so verry very sorry to learn of your dad's
passing. When I met Barry, Eric, you were a member of our sports teams and we became a very good friends He always supported our little endevors we had at the time. There are not many "good guys"like him around, and he was very special. please except my sincere condolences in this
time of sorrow. Dave Paul & family

FAYE & IRNE BARON

May 9, 2009

OUR SORROW GOES OUT TO HARRIET AND
FAMILY AT THIS SAD TIME. BARRY WILL BE
MISSED. WE ENJOYED OUR LAST VISIT WITH
BARRY AND HARRIET. MAY HE REST IN PIECE.

FAYE WHITE

May 9, 2009

I HAVE WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF ALL THE YEARS
WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS. MY HEART IS BROKEN
OF THIS SUDDEN AND SAD NEWS. BARRY WAS A
TRUE FRIEND AND BEST BUDDY OF FREDDIE.
MAY HE REST IN PIECE.

Gretchen Levitz

May 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. As a child growing up on Eagle Drive, Barry was a comforting presence, such a devoted husband and father. May his memory always be for a blessing.

Newington Memorial Funeral Home

May 9, 2009

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

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