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DOWLER, Thomas J. Thomas J. Dowler of West Yarmouth, MA, formerly of Southington, CT passed away peacefully on October 26, 2010 at home surrounded by his family. Tom was the beloved husband of Florence (Brooks) Dowler. Born in Paterson, NJ, Tom was the son of the late Thomas J. Dowler and Helen (Tierney) Dowler. He graduated from East Hampton High School where he was an outstanding basketball and baseball player. He also was a graduate of Tunxis College. Tom worked for 30 years as a Facilities Assigner in the Engineering Department at Southern New England Telephone. During his tenure at SNET, Tom was VP of the Telephone Pioneers of America Charter Oak Chapter #88, Business Agent for the United Telephone Workers of America, and was selected to be part of the 1984 Olympic Torch Relay across the U.S. Tom was also the proprietor of Flo D's hot dogs and was well known for his homemade chili. Upon retiring to Cape Cod, Tom chose to keep busy working in a variety of positions. In Connecticut, Tom was a member of the Improved Order of Redmen-Wonx Tribe #28, Financial Secretary of the Knights of Columbus Isabella Council #15, Eucharistic Minister and religious education instructor at Mary Our Queen and St. Dominic Parrish. Tom coached his sons and their teams in baseball and basketball. During his time on the Cape, Tom was a member of the Sons of Erin, the Retired Men's Club and Financial Secretary for the Knights of Columbus - St. Pius X Council 10346. He was an avid golfer and cribbage player, and enjoyed watching the Red Sox, UConn basketball, Boston Celtics and his beloved Pittsburgh Steelers. He was fortunate to travel to Pittsburgh to see the Steelers play and to meet former Steelers great Lynn Swann. He enjoyed travelling with his wife and friends and spending time with his family. In addition to his wife, Tom is survived by four children. Cathee (Mark) Hayner, Thomas (Cathy) Dowler, Mary Jacques and Steven (Amy) Dowler. He was Gampy to nine grandchildren, Kady, Kristie, Abby, Bailey, Hanna, Nikki, Matthew, Megan and Mari. He will be missed by his dog Tobey. Memorial Masses will be celebrated on Friday (October 29, 2010) at 11 a.m. at St. Pius X Church, West Yarmouth MA and on Saturday (October 30, 2010) at 11 a.m. at Mary Our Queen Church, Plantsville, CT. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the VNA of Cape Cod Hospice, P.O. Box 370, Hyannis, MA 02601. Notes of sympathy and comfort to the family may be submitted at www.MorrisOConnorBlute.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 28, 2010.

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Melonie Schumacher

June 20, 2011

Dear Dowler Family,
My father was in the U.S. Army with a Thomas Dowler, and asked if I would try to locate him. I would have to get back to my dad about his enlistment dates, but he graduated from high school in 1957 so he would have probably been in the Army from then to around 1961. Could your father/husband be the Thomas by father is trying to locate? My dad also mentioned that he thought the Thomas he knew lived in Cookville, TN. at one point in time. I saw no mention of that location in the obituary, however. My father has fond memories of the Thomas Dowler he was enlisted with, and has mentioned on more than one occasion wanting to get in contact with him. I wanted to grant my father's wish by helping him. I apologize if your loved one is not the Thomas Dowler we are looking for. In any case, you have my sympathy over the loss of your loved one.

Greg, Susan and Bryan DiDonato

November 5, 2010

Dowler family,

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I knew him from coaching in Northern Little League in Southington, CT and he was always in good spirits and fun to be around. Our condolences go out to the entire family at this time.

Harold & Marilyn Huntley

October 30, 2010

Flo and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you

October 29, 2010

Mr. Dowler was a great man. Very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with your family. Pat Clynes, Houston TX

October 28, 2010

TO THE TOMMY DOWLER FAMILY:

We,the Class of "54" would like to extend our sincerest sympathies to you all. How very special Tommy was to all of us. He was such a warm, caring, and wonderful person to grow up with. He always had a pleasant word for everyone and his great sense of humor will always be remembered by all of us. He bore his burdens well, and set a perfect example of what being a true christian is all about. God Bless you all at this time and may your hearts heal in time and may the sorrow you feel today be replaced by all the precious memories of a most special person.

With Special Prayers and Sympathies,

The Class of "54" Reunion Committee

Theresa and David Miner
Marilyn Miller Hanson
Mary Sandin Drews
Warren and Dot Haines
Charlie Denler
Mary Weinzerl Loos
Susan Smith Johnson
Pepper Hitchcock
Gayle Clark Rogers

Ron and Kathy McPhee

October 28, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time of such deep sorrow.

Craig Aldrich

October 28, 2010

Dear Dowler Familiy,
We are deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Although it may be difficult now, rest assure that he is in peace now.

Craig, Nancy, and Zachary Aldrich; Ethan Bartley

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