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SCARINGE, Lawrence "Larry"


Lawrence "Larry" Scaringe passed away at Southington Care Center on March 7, 2013 at the age of 70 after a courageous battle with Parkinson's disease and cancer. He is survived by Betty, his loving wife of 48 years. They were married in Plainville on Oct. 10, 1964. Larry is predeceased his mother, Veronica (Kacinskas) Scaringe and father, Vincent Scaringe. Larry is lovingly remembered by his son, Michael Scaringe and wife, Susan of Newington and his daughter, Lori Durocher and her husband, Stephen of Southington. He will also be missed by his four loving grandchildren, Matthew Scaringe, Emily Durocher, Joshua Scaringe, and Brian "Bo" Durocher. He also leaves his twin sister, Joyce Blake of Southington and her husband, Fran as well as several nieces and nephews. Larry was born in New Britain on July 2, 1942. He graduated from Plainville High School in 1960. He then served in the United States Navy during the Cuban Missile Crisis. He worked at Fafnir Bearing in New Britain for 25 years. He then worked for 10 years as the head of security at New Britain High School. After retiring, he worked for Briarwood College part-time for three years. Larry enjoyed spending his time attending his grandchildren's girls' and boys' basketball games, boys' and girls' volleyball matches, marching band performances, orchestra and band concerts. He was a very devoted and loving "Papa" who would never miss a chance to attend any of his grandchildren's special events—sometimes happily keeping him running from school to school to cheer on from the stands and encourage his four grandchildren. Papa very much loved Matt, Emmy, Josh and Brian (Bo). Larry spent a great deal of his time while raising his family going on family camping trips with special friends, neighbors, and their families. Lasting friendships and memories were made during the 18 years he camped. Larry enjoyed traveling to Aruba for warm, sunny beach vacations and inevitably within hours would make new friends with whom they would stay connected for years to come. Larry will be remembered for his kind, giving spirit that shone through to all that he worked with, cared for and loved. He was often a man of few words but louder actions. He will be remembered for his gift of connecting to people no matter what their age or background—he always found a way to make you feel comfortable. Those who knew him best knew of his acts of kindness and outspoken funny ways.
The visitation will be held at Della Vecchia Funeral Home on Monday, March 11, 2013 from 4-7 p.m. The Funeral service will begin at DellaVecchia Funeral Home held at 9:15 a.m. Tuesday, March 12, 2013 with a procession to St. Thomas Church, Southington for a 10 a.m. Mass. The procession will then go to St. Joseph's Cemetery in Plainville. Memorial donations may be made to the Larry Scaringe Memorial Scholarship fund c/o Farmington Savings Bank, North Main St., Southington, CT 06489. For directions and online condolences please visit www.dellavecchiafh.com

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Published by Hartford Courant from Mar. 9 to Mar. 10, 2013.

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Florence Dowler

March 14, 2013

Dear Betty, Joyce and families. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. So many fond memories of good times together. May God's peace sustain you.

Nancy Kowalski

March 11, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Beth Smedick

March 11, 2013

Betty, So sorry to hear of you loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Beverly Fiondella

March 11, 2013

Dear Joyce & Family

At this difficut time may you find strength and peace knowing your brother is in a better place and at peace.

Sincere sympathy
Bev & Donald

Dr. Anthony & Susan Ciardella

March 10, 2013

Betty, Lori & Family, With our sincere sympathy to you and your families. We enjoyed knowing Larry for many years and will remember him with fondness.

Jane Dowling

March 10, 2013

God bless you and your loved ones ~ Rest in peace.

Niaomi Carter

March 9, 2013

I too remember your beloved as one who was committed to keeping the students of NBHS safe. God bless him. May our heavenly father give your family comfort in this hour.

March 9, 2013

Betty, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time. Jim and Joyce Suess

Lizaida Menendez

March 9, 2013

I will always remember Larry as the 'tough' security guard at NBHS, but every once in awhile he cracked a smiled. May he rest in peace and my sincerest condolences to his family.

Phyllis Gediman (Ratliff)

March 9, 2013

Betty, So sorry for your loss. I lost my husband in 2011 and if you ever need somebody to talk to, please call me. 860-747-4455.

March 9, 2013

Betty, You and your family are in our prayers at this sad time. Love to all of you.
Richard and Elaine Testa

March 9, 2013

Betty, I am so sorry for you and your family. Larry was a special guy to all who knew him. Ann Malafronte

Peggy Wilcox

March 9, 2013

Betty, Joyce and family please know your in our thoughts and prayers. Wish we could be there for you, we're sending our love. We'll be seeing you soon.
Peggy & Bob

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