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John Fotiathis Obituary

FOTIATHIS, John K. John K. Fotiathis 1952 - 2007 John K. Fotiathis, 54, of Agawam passed away June 18, 2007 at Baystate Medical Center. Beloved husband, son, father, brother, he leaves behind his loving wife Jo-Ann Fotiathis of Agawam. Son of Pauline Fotiathis of Connecticut and the late John Fotiathis. His children Raemarie Bellamy, Gina Bunnell, April Fotiathis, Myrcine Hymes, Samara Gunn, and Anna Camyre. Beloved grandfather of Heather Bellamy, Zoey Bunnell, Alex Fotiathis, Destiny, Allizah, Keyenna and Avril Fotiathis, Jacob Camyre and Andrew Geberth. Beloved brother of Anna Kerchoff, Stella Fotiathis, Myrcine Maldon, Daniel Fotiathis, Denise Heath, Thomas Fotiathis, Roberta Fecto, Stephanie Cromack, Steve Fotiathis, Louis Fotiathis, Allen Day and Glenn Day. Beloved uncle of Tina Dorn, Jeremy Lamontagne, the late David Cromack, Jessica Ortiz, John, Justin, Thomas John Fotiathis, Christina and Kyle Cromack, Heather Heath, Leroy Chammings, Shanna and Sara Fecto, Missy Gilly, the late Adam David Cromack, Jamie Cromack, Christian Heath, Leo Wiedersheim, Paul and Robin Dorn. Uncle of Delyla and Zack Ortiz, Izabella Burgons and Damien Gunn. Beloved of many friends too numerous to mention, he will be sorely missed by so many. A memorial service will be held Saturday June 30th, 2-6 p.m. at Holy Cross National Catholic Church, 723 Enfield St., (Rt. 5), Enfield, CT. Nowak Funeral & Cremation Services has been entrusted with the arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Spleen St., Framingham, MA 01701

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 23, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for John Fotiathis

Sponsored by His Devoted Wife Jo-Ann, His Loving Brother Tom and His Dear Friends Nichole and Joe.

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Raemarie Patria Fotiathis Bellamy

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Raemarie Patria Fotiathis Bellamy

June 14, 2022

Not a year goes by that I don't miss you or a day that I don't think of you. I cherish all my memories. Love you Dad.

Raemarie Komas Bellamy

June 14, 2021

Roberta Fecto

June 14, 2020

Gone but never forgotten.....

Raemarie Bellamy

June 14, 2020

Miss you more today than yesterday

June 19, 2019

Think of you all the time,wish you were still here to share our lives together.love you till the day after forever...your sis, Berta

Way back

Joann Fotiathis

February 8, 2018

Miss u. Out anniversary just passed. Always thinking of u.

joann fotiathis

October 19, 2016

I was just thinking about you this morning and I still miss you being there when I wake up. You are a good man. And it's very hard to find one of them. I haven't found anybody to meet up to your expectations and I doubt I will

Christina Scott

June 27, 2014

Happy Birthday in Heaven Uncle Johnny. I love and miss you always & forever

Stephanie Hurley

June 27, 2014

Happy birthday I miss and love you always & forever

February 28, 2014

miss u dad love u always

Tom & Lisa Fotiathis

June 18, 2013

My dearest brother, there has not been a day that has gone by that I don't think of you. Your memories live each and every day close to me. My heart breaks more and more as each day passes wishing I could see you once again. You are forever in my heart and in my thoughts. I love you dearly my brother..Till will see each other again I love you...My bro and my best friend

Stephanie Hurley

June 18, 2013

So hard to believe 6 years have gone by .. So many things have happened in the 6 years .. Some good ..a lot not.. .i miss you big brother more then words can say.. I miss your pranks your guidance your Humor ..Even though at times was kind of a sick Sence of humor..lol.. I will miss you till we meet again.. I love you bro

Raemarie Fotiathis Mismas

June 18, 2013

Dad, six years have gone by,yet still seems like yesterday. Still miss you so much! Love you.....

Christina Cromack

June 18, 2012

Uncle Johnny,
Hard to believe it's been five years. I miss you and think of you often. You brought joy to all that knew you and you touched the lives of so many. I will never forget you and will hold the memories dear. I have had so much loss in my life and it's made me realize how precious life really is....watch over my baby Adam and my brother David and all our loved ones until the day when we meet again in Heaven....
Love Always & Forever,
Chrissy

Tom & Lisa Fotiathis

June 18, 2012

It has been a long lonely 5 years since you have left us. You memories still touch us to this day. We speak your name and then cant say no more, for the tears come down our face..We just want you to no. that you are and always will be missed and loved until we meet again.

June 17, 2012

your always close to my heart,missing you as always..love you til the day after forever...your sis berta

april fotiathis

June 29, 2011

hey dad happy birth day and we miss and love u..i know u watching down on us...u got a grand dauther on the way her name is lexie love always april desting avril keyonna alizah

June 28, 2011

always with me in spirit and my dreams. love you today and til the day after forever, berta

Lisa Mark

June 25, 2011

4 years and still think about you all the time. You are in ours hearts always and dearly missed. You smile and sence of humor,your jokes and pranks,and most of all, you will always be remembred. We all love you Johnny and miss you...Tom & Lisa

Joann Fotiathis

June 22, 2010

Jonny
It's hard to believe 3 years have passed. You are still all around here. I think about something we did or that you said practically every day. You will never be entirely gone.
I will have your "in memory of day" July 3rd 1pm my house pot luck as usual and the pool and hot tub are open. Please come and celebrate the life of a wonderful husband, father and brother.
Thanks,
Joann Fotiathis

Christina Cromack

June 18, 2010

Uncle Johnny,
It's been 3 years since you left this earth and moved on to a better place. It's still hard to believe that you're gone. I love you and miss you so much.
Love Always & Forever,
Your niece, Chrissy

Stephanie Cromack

June 18, 2010

Johnny ...I can't believe it's been 3 years ... I miss you so very much.. Love you always & forever your baby Sis
Stacy

tina & Alex fotiathis

June 17, 2010

My Dearest Brother Friend Gampie,
We sure do miss you but you know that when we talk every night.
LOVE & KISSES
Alex and Sis

roberta fecto

June 14, 2010

johnny,
thinking alot about you this week.missing u as always.but i remember your smile and jokes and it seems you still make me laugh.i keep you close always. i love you forever, your sis,berta

wendy warren

June 4, 2010

Dear Johnny,
It is getting close to ur birthday.and your 3 years,Sence GOD has taking you from all of us. I miss you and talk to you all the time.I know u hear me,because I feel you in my heart.I just hope u will still come and vist us all in our dreams...
love you and ur freind always...Wendy

april fotiathis

May 31, 2010

hey dad it getting closer to ur b-day and i cant stop thinking of u wish u were here with us love always and forever

Tom & Lisa

May 26, 2010

John someone posted this on my facebook page and as i was reading this to Tom I could not read no more. This is for you my dearest friend and brother.

God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be,
So he put his arms around you and whispered "Come with me"
With Tearful eyes I watched you, and saw you pass away,
Although I loved you dearly, I could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating..hard working hands at rest.
God broke my heart to prove to me..
HE ONLY......TAKES THE BEST....

Stephanie Cromack

June 27, 2009

Happy Birthday Johnny..WE love and Miss you LOve you always & Forever Stacy & Jamie,Christina & Kyle

My baby in his fav hat

June 23, 2009

Love you baby

June 23, 2009

Joann Fotiathis

June 23, 2009

Dearest Johnny,
I can't believe it's 2 years. I look at your alter every day...your pictures, our wedding, the pic of us on the couch holding each other and the plaque you made me of what cancer could never do. I read those words over and over and take great comfort from them because you told me they were ALL TRUE. Never a day goes by I don't burn incense or a candle for your memory. It helps me stay connected. Thank you for still being there for me in your own way.. I feel you all the time. You are truely the one Fotiathis that one could count on and I'm glad you were my Fotiathis for as long as you were...they are and remain the best of times.
I teach the Grey your favorite phrases. Of course her name is of a Greek Goddess. It's nice to hear her say...whatever or April fools (one of my favs)or good day...want a tea?.....the Grey loves that one as she barks like a dog and growels like a cat. I know you would have loved to teach her a few more phrases...Goddess knows what she'd say if you were here!! I can only imagine.
I miss you my baby. Our memories are the only things that last.
My Grey will say your fav stuff for another 60 years and some one who loved you will hear "your words" for a long time. I think you would have liked that.
I hope the Grey will give every one a "good day" and "cup of tea?" on your memorial day. So many friends who love you have already said they'd love to come again and are as enthusiastic as last year or more so. This year will be bigger my love and next year bigger again. You inspired such loyality in your true friends. Never seen the like baby...thru thick in thin they have stuck by you, me and the memory of your good, kind loving heart.
On the 4th look for the fire works my love they are for you.
Your Jo-Ann

Lisa

June 21, 2009

Johnny
I miss you more than words can says, I miss that laugh of yours, I miss the jokes you use to tell, I miss hearing your keys on your side jungle when you walk, I miss your sarcasm. I just miss you and everything about you. Lisa

Tom Your brother always

June 21, 2009

My Dearest Brother,
It has been two years since you left us and I would of written sooner but just could not get myself to write, so now that I am here I would like to tell you that this time of year is very hard for me, for our closeness is always in my heart, and you are on my mind always. I will never forgot the times we had spent together, good or bad, because those are the memories I have of you. I pray for you every day and I know that you can hear me, I just wish that I could hear you once again. My heart is broken and tears will fall when I think of you. I miss you terribly and love you. I hope you can see all the love that is here for you. I miss you. Tommy

Christina Cromack

June 20, 2009

Uncle Johnny,
I think about you and miss you all the time. I keep the memories close to my heart. You were so kind, smart, and funny. You lit up a room when you walked in it (and I don't mean with your cigarette!) You and Papou take care of my Baby Adam and David. Love and miss you always.
Your Niece,
Chrissy

berta

June 19, 2009

hey johnny thinking of u yesterday today and tomorrow, u will always be with me because ur never far from my thoughts.i love u til the day after forever. we miss you
love ur sis and family

Stephanie Cromack

June 18, 2009

Johnny...To remember is sometimes painful....to forget you impossible..
We love you

I see the last link didn't work..click on the pic..or the link
Johnny June 27,1952 to June 18,2007

Stephanie(Stacy) Cromack

June 17, 2009

Johnny I can't believe it's 2 years ago that you left us.I miss you so much but I'm so fortunate to have so many memories of you that I can reflect on and they always bring a smile to me..I know your always looking out for us with Dad and David and Baby Adam..Your all in my thoughts I Love you and miss you. Your baby sis & Family

Here's a Video I made in memory of you click on the link below...

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stella fotiathis

June 16, 2009

My Dear Brother,
It isn't to often that you leave my mind we miss you so much, Alex is always saying something about you. he tells me he prays for you, sure hope you can hear him.
Tomorrow will be a hard day for us its the day you left this world and the day your pain stopped and mine began but now I do have peace and you will never leave my heart.

LOVE & MISS YOUR SIS & ALEX

jaonn fotiathis

June 5, 2009

Hello Family and Friends,
I am having a 3rd memorial picnic for John on the 4th of july. And they should have fireworks for our John lol.I will start about 2pm with food, pool, hot tub. I got a slip in slide for the kids. I will provide dogs burgers cheese rolls chicken. Please bring a potluck dish, bathing suit, towel. We will go to the fireworks then return to make a bonfire in the fireplace in the back yard. Come join us family and friends,
Love Joann

Joann Fotiathis

April 29, 2009

My Dearest Johnny
I was just thinking about you as I do almost every day. I miss you so much. Look down and help us as a family to love one another. I know you would be happy that things are better now around here. I have worked hard to straighten things out for myself and Jacob and every one who depends on me to be there for them. I can't be there for any one if not for the fellowship. Look down on your brother and bring him peace from his grief. I pray for him every day. He loves you so much.
I know you are there for all of us John. I will always love you. Your unforgetable my love.
Your Wife Jo

Stephanie Cromack

April 13, 2009

Johnny.My thoughts drift so often to you. I was making Grapeleaves and you come into my thoughts..I get a new cell phone with GPS and I think Johnny would love this.Your Never ever far from me.Happy easter.
Love Always & forever Stacy

SIS & alex fotiathis

April 12, 2009

Hello My sweet brother you were very misse on Easter wish we could have fought about the greapleavs, We love and miss you very much.
SIS & ALEX

Lisa & Tom

April 11, 2009

Johnny, Just wanted to say that you are forever in our hearts and in our thoughts every single day. We watch the dvds that you made and remember how you made us all laugh, and cry. We miss you tremendously. No words can say how much. Tom & Lisa

Christina Cromack

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas in Heaven, Uncle Johnny. You are missed and loved very much. I know Christmas in Heaven must be great(all the best and newest electronics!) LOL.
Love always and forever,
Your niece, Chrissy

Stephanie Cromack

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas Johnny ..You and Dad Take care of David and Adam for us.
I love and Miss you.
Love Always & forever
Stacy

Joann Fotiathis

September 3, 2008

Hello Johnny
Jacob and I went camping to your favorite spot in CT. I felt you down there in the trailer. Like you were sitting at the table like you always did calling the trailer your office.
I am glad you spent so much time camping there as I will never go and not think of you
Love Joann

april fotiathis

July 4, 2008

hello da i miss you and wish youwere still here with me,wellhappy late dads day and happy b-day love always and for ever.love april ,destiny, avril ,keyonna,alizah,and johnel.

Joann Fotiathis

July 3, 2008

Dearest Johnny
I still feel your presence Johnny.

I know you saw how much you are loved last weekend during your memorial....so many family and friends were there. My appreciation to all those who came to celebrate your life Johnny. We had a wonderful time....telling "John" stories, talking with each other, crying and laughing with each other. I know you were watching from above and saw how much you are still loved by those who came to honor your 1 year passing.
Thank you to the family and friends who helped make this a success.
Special thanks to April for helping set up and clean up later. Auntie Anna and Heather for crying with me. We made a wet time of it LOL.
Tom for comming when I know Sat is a busy day for him. The enormous support shown by John's friends.
I intend to do it again next year. Know one will or could forget you John.
Remaining your love.
JoAnn

July 1, 2008

Happy birthday, I know I am late...So sorry. please stop yelling at me.... I forgot johnny.....

Stephanie Cromack

June 28, 2008

Happy Birthday Big Brother...We miss and Love you ...Love Always & Forever Stacy,Jamie,Christina & Kyle

wendy warren

June 19, 2008

johnny it has been 1 year and I still have your email on my buddy list,I hope you are getting the prayers & messages.you are with me always.I have had about 20 dreams of you sence you have been taking away from us. please keep comingto me in my dreams. love Wendy

Christina Cromack

June 18, 2008

Uncle Johnny,
I Can't believe that it's been a year since you left us. I think of you all the time. I am so greatful for the time we were able to spend together. Those memories I will cherish always. I miss talking with you, I miss your jokes, I just miss you. Take care of Baby Adam and David for us. I Love you & miss you. Until we meet again in Heaven.
Love Always & Forever,
Your Niece, Chrissy

stella fotiathis

June 18, 2008

My Dear Brother,
You are in my thoughts every day but I'm sad today because this is the day one year ago I lost one of the most important people in mine and Alex's life we talk to you every night and sure hope you are hearing us well Johnny we will talk to you tonight you ARE LOVED AND MISSED.
your sis and Alex

Stephanie Cromack

June 18, 2008

Johnny
I can't tell you how much you are missed....I think of you so often..I can't tell you how often I have gone to pick up the phone to call you to mostly ask your input or to share something....I'm sure you and Dad are takin care of David and Baby Adam for us .. I love you and miss you
Love always & Forever Your Baby sis Stacy

Joann Fotiathis

May 11, 2008

My Dearest Johnny
Not a day goes by I don't think of you. It's still hard. They say time is a great healer but it only helps a little to blunt the sharpness of the feeling....sooo....
I am planning your memorial for june 28th 2pm till whenever and asking every one to bring a dish to share and a beverage to drink. It's here at home so bring a bathing suit towel and so on. I know you wouldn't want a somber afair baby. So we will celebrate your LIFE sweety...my unique man.
Love joann

april fotiathis

April 23, 2008

dad well just wanted to let you know im doing really good,im sure your looking down .we miss you,destiny, and avril been home for a while.well life is different with out you around.wish you were here to watch my children grow,anyways sometime in the future we"ll meet again.we love and miss you .....love,april,destiny,johnel,avril,keyonna,alizah.........

Christina Cromack

December 25, 2007

Uncle Johnny,
This years especially hard because it's our 1st Christmas without you & Adam. Our Christmas party was not the same. You are truly missed. I'm so greatful that we became so close the past couple years. You were the most caring, funny, giving and loyal person I've ever known. I Love & miss you always.
Love Always & Forever,
Your Loving Niece,
Christina

Stephanie Cromack

December 25, 2007

Johhny
This is my First Christmas without you in 45 years.Wow how differant it is not for you to call you were always the first one to on any occasion.I know you and Dad are watching David and Now Adam.I miss you so very Much.Merry Christmas.
Love Always & Forever
Your Baby Sister

Lisa Mark

October 29, 2007

JOHNNY, Time has past since you left. I just wanted to tell you that you are thought about everyday. its been 4 months plus since you left. It seems like forever. We went to your house in agawam the other day and I had to leave. It is not the same without you there. I could feel you there, or maybe I was just hoping that you would walk outside. I dont no but we love and miss you dearly. with all our hearts. Tom and Lisa

heather bellamy

September 1, 2007

grandpa,
i miss you more and more every day. theres certain times i go to call you and realize you wont answer. It hurts.It hurts even more seeing my moms pain over you being gone. i love you more than anyone will ever know, and i will continue to pray and talk to you every night.
love you more,
heather-marie

wendy warren

August 8, 2007

johnny.
there is not a day that goes bye that I do not think about you. Me and the kids talk about you all the time , just yesterday we were talking about how u use to leave your cigarette in your mouth and leave the ash on and it would stay there and not fall.
It is little things like that that are so dear and how we do not forget things like that.
we hope you are happy now and with every body you love.and tell Elvis we all said hi....lol

Tom and Lisa Fotiathis

August 2, 2007

Johnny. A private number came up on my phone today I thought it was you and realised it cant be you. I broke down and cried.Some times when a certain show comes on tv. I say call Johnny and tell him its on. We just have not excepted the fact that you are really gone. Every day you are a part of our conversation WE MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS EVERY DAY AND IN OUR HEARTS... ALWAYS

Stephanie Cromack

August 2, 2007

Johnny I miss you
Love always and forever
Your baby sis

stella fotiathis

July 20, 2007

To my dear Brother Johnny,
It has been one month and two days sence you left this world, all I can say is things are not the same with you gone.
I hurt so much every day, you were such an important part of my daily life.I will always be greatfull I had you for almost 55 years.
Your little sis

Lynda Augustus

July 4, 2007

John,
I'm sorry that I never had the pleasure to meet you. You must have been pretty amazing to win the heart, love and devotion of Jo-Ann. My condolences to her and your family.

Carol Drake Kim and Justin Wyckmans

July 3, 2007

Joanne and all of Johnny's Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. As you all know Johnny was one of my dearest friends. I missed him when I left Mass. But was grateful I was able to speak to him before his leaving us. I was able to tell him I loved him, and how very special he will always be to me.
I know what a loving man he was, his gentle ways, His laughter, his practical jokes, His love for music, life and friends, but most of all family. He was never so proud of anything in life as he was of his heritage and all loved ones. It was an Honor and a Pleasure to have been a part of his life and to have him be part of our family and our lives. He will truly be missed, but forever loved. So, our condolences to you joanne, april, Stevie, and all his family and children. You will all be in our prayers. God Bless.

Avon Pryce

July 3, 2007

JoAnn sorry about your loss. I know that you loved John verry much. John seemed to be a verry nice and caring man. Although i have not met John in person I feel like ive known him from listening to JoAnn talk about you.You will certainly be missed. JoAnn be strong. R emember JoAnn John might be gone but his memories and his love will last forever.Hang in there girl.
Love Avon Pryce.

angela rodriguez

July 3, 2007

I Have never met John, But I have heard many dear molments,
shared in his life from his Wife Joanne, Who I have the pleasure of working with.

Myrcine Maldon

July 1, 2007

Johnny, I know that I wasn't your favorite person. But I never thought that I'd ever say Good-bye. You and I both know that we really did love each other. No matter what, we're family. I am going to miss you very much. Danny, Keith, Lisa and Mom will show you around. Just listen to them. Good-bye Johnny, till we meet again. Love, your sister, Myrcine

Donna and Deano Kuczynski

June 30, 2007

John was such a great guy-He was one of a kind. It is a good thing that we all have so many happy and funny moments to remember him by. He touched alot of people and helped many too. I am sure he is smiling on all of us now. Our deepest sympathy to his family and extended family and all of the people and friends who had the pleasure of knowing him. He was a rare person who will be remembered and missed by all.

wendy warren

June 28, 2007

to all of johnnys family.i am so sorry about johnny. we had a special bond between us we talked everyday and he said he will miss all of us when he is gone.
johnny i love you always have and always will.
i will miss you terribley.

Barbara Dearborn

June 28, 2007

Jo ann
May god watch over you in your darkest days and let your memorys hold you tightly and comfort you.We are so happy that you and john had these past few years together as we seen you both were happy and you could see the love you both shared. Jo ann seeing you happy with John made us happy for the both of you because you both deserved the best and you both were the best.We had sat and visited john when you were not at home oneday and he gave me an ELVIS purse and we spok in length about you and him and he said he was so happy being married to you and that these were the best couple of years he ever had. He loved you more than any other lady in his life..he is so proud of you jo.and he said he finally had someone who could give back what he gave out...LOVE,RESPECT,HONESTY.
you could tell he was in love.

Barbara Dearborn

Barbara Dearborn

June 28, 2007

John
You have been family forever and a day. You will be missed and we will never forget you.God bless Jo ann for having you in her heart and being blessed as your wife. shes a beautiful person and she deserved the best and john thank you for being a great husband to her....we will always keep you in our hearts and our thoughts..... sincerly
MR @ Mrs Wm @ Barbara
Dearborn

WENDY WARREN

June 27, 2007

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
JOHN K FOTIATHIS..


LOVE ALWAYS WENDY

Christina Cromack

June 27, 2007

Uncle Johnny, Happy 55th Birthday in Heaven. I love and miss you so much. You will always be in my heart.
Love Always & Forever,
Christina

Rhea Chancey

June 27, 2007

My deepest condolences to the enitre friends & family of John. I knew him growing up as a kid until I was a young adult. He was a great great man. I will miss him very much. I can just see him sitting with an umlimited supply of tea and loud music in the mornings. If there is a heaven I'm sure he is in it watching down on all of us.
Take care all of you.
I will miss you John.
Happy Birthday.
Love Always, Rhea

Stephanie & Jamie Cromack

June 27, 2007

Johnny Happy Birthday ...I Love and Miss you so very much.
We love you Always & Forever

patty fotiathis

June 25, 2007

i miss you,love always patty.i will never forget you you will always be in my heart. patty

april fotiathis

June 25, 2007

i miss you i cant stop thinking of you.you will always be in my heart.destiny loves you always.

JAMES E BALIN

June 23, 2007

sorry for your loss. my condolences to you and your family

Pauline Fotiathis

June 22, 2007

Dear Family and Friends

There is no way for me to express the loss that we share in losing a loved one. I will always miss Johnny. He takes all our love with him. He was a lucky man to have so many people who loved and cared for him. He is going to live on through the ones he has left behind.He has no more pain.

Ma (aka) yia-yia

Thomas Fotiathis

June 22, 2007

Johnny, I MISS YOU IMMENSELY. No words can say how I hurt. You were a part of me and me -you. I went to call you a couple times since Monday at 5:32 a.m. I have to get use to communicating thru spirits. Is Dad fishing while you are on your computer in heaven?? I LOVE YOU BRO., but you already know that. Tom...... My Heart Hurts. My brother, my best friend

heather bellamy

June 21, 2007

grandpa,

i loved you more than anything and i always will.
i still cant believe you are actually gone. i miss you more than ever! you were amazing! you were not just my grandfather but also my friend. you could make me laugh when i was down, or make me smile just by grabbing ahold of my hand or kissing me on the cheek. i could confide in you with EVERYTHING!
you told me a little while ago "heather, im so glad i met you and your mother before anything happened to me" grandpa, i am too! you were one of the best things that EVER happened to me. you held me up when i was falling, yuo were my smile when i was a frown, you were my clyde and i was your bonnie lol. grandpa there is noone else that could EVER compare to you. you were deffinitly one of a kind! a wonderful man! you were an AMAZING father, brother, grandfather, husband,uncle, and friend. i want to thank you again for being my rock! for being my friend, for being my grandfather, for being the most wonderful thing of all... YOU! grandpa, one of the last things you said to me was i was"your little baby" you held me sooo close and gave me a kiss, looked at me and said"i love you" and all of it seemed SO real, SO perfect, i didnt want it to end.i miss you so much, and u will remain in my heart until the day we see each other again. until then you are my gaurdian angel along with my daddy.
your grandaughter,
heather

gina bunnell

June 21, 2007

dad i luv and miss you so much i think of you so much everyday and wish you was here with me,

heather bellamy

June 21, 2007

Grandpa,
its still so hard for me to believe that you are gone.
i miss you more than you will ever know.

i remember one of the times we were talkin and you told me
'you were glad you met us(my mom and i) before anything happened.

and i kept thinking...
'would it have been easier on me if we hadnt met 9 years ago?'
well i found out that
no grandpa it would not. im SOOO glad i met you.

you changed my life in so many ways i cant even say. you were and still are an AMAZING person. you helped me cope when my dad passed away, and i thank you again.you are in heaven with him now so i know im lucky to have the two BEST gaurdian angels ANYONE can ask for.

and even though you THOUGHT you were god... i guess you are now going to have to share the spotlight! im sure thats okay though!

you touched SO MANY hearts in SO MANY ways. you could NEVER understand how much you really meant to me or anyone else grandpa.i loved you unconditionally and i ALWAYS will. i am a part of you and that makes me VERY proud to be able to say that.
you and i had a bond that can NEVER be replaced... you were not just a grandfather, just a dad, just an uncle, just a husband, just a brother, grandpa you were a BEST friend. you could ALWAYS make me laugh no matter how down i was. you could put a smile on my face just by grabbing my hand, or saying 'i love you'
my last moments with you were(and im sooo happy to say this) IRREPLACEABLE, AMAZING, WONDERFUL, ..... PERFECT!

you grabbed my hand held me sooo close and sooo tight and called me your little baby. you kissed my cheek and said heather...i love you.
and when you said those words and held me close it felt sooo real soo comforting, and i loved it! i loved you. we will always love you and never forget how wonderful and kind u were. always in our hearts and souls. may you always rest in peace. xoxo forever and always.
LOVE,
your grandaughter,
heather

p.s. try not to beat my dad at dominoes TOO bad up there. ya gotta let him win once in a while ;) i love you.ill see you again one day. until then.. your always in my heart.

Raemarie Fotiathis-Mismas

June 21, 2007

Dad,
I still can't believe you aren't here to say "get me my tea" Samara and I drank one together for you. ...I heard your voice today and for half a second my heart leaped thinking you are here............you will always be in my heart as you always have been. The memories i have with you are priceless and will be cherished as long as my heart still beats. I know you made me promise not to be sad but my heart is hurting right now, i hope you understand. you were an incredible man that all your family and friends are missing now and who love you dearly. i know you are in heaven now with all those others that are dear to us. take care of my brother and wayne for me as i know they will be there for you. i am keeping my 3 promises to you. i love you dad and will see you one day soon.
Your Daughter
Raemarie

Laurie Leach

June 21, 2007

Johnny,
Though I didn't know you really well, but the times we met you were a pleasure to be around....you had a great laugh!!! and it was contagious. I know how much your family loved you and that is a lot of love....you will certainly be welcome in heaven with open arms.
God Bless your family, I know how much they will miss you. Rest well my friend, you are safe now.
Port St. Lucie, FL

Cheryl Staples

June 21, 2007

Jo-Ann, I never had the chance to meet your husband but i'm sure he was a wonderful person. My sympathy to you and all your family. If you need anything let me know.

Candy Garland

June 21, 2007

Jo-Ann, Tommy and all John's family - I extend my deepest sympathy and condolensces for the loss of your husband, brother and friend. I know that he was well loved by each of you. Now you feel grief and sorrow at his passing; however, remember that John is not suffering anymore and he has found peace. There was something a friend said to me when my fiance passed in early February - "Earth has NO sorrow that HEAVEN cannot heal." For whatever reason, I found great solace in that. I hope and pray that it may give you one second of peace and serenity. I pray the peace, love and light of God be with each and every one of you at this time of grief and sorrow. With Love,

ALEX FOTIATHIS

June 20, 2007

DEAR GRAMPEE
YOU WERE THE BEST. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART.I WILL ALLWAYS PRAY
FOR YOU EVERY NIGHT.AND I WILL TAKE CARE OF THE DOGS.I WILL ALLWAYS REMEBER YOU.
LOVE,
ALEX FOTIATHIS

kim fotiathis

June 20, 2007

To all, im so sorry about johnny he will be very missed. Even if you had the blues he could make you laugh and smile again. He was a very special and good hearted person. Im very sorry love kim,erica and little dan

Tiffany Bazzurro

June 20, 2007

JoAnn, Tommy, and all other family and friends of Johnny's, please accept my most sincere condolences. Johnny was such a good guy, and it was a pleasure to know him. He had an awesome sense of humor and was so generous to the people around him. Love you Tommy & JoAnn... God bless you and please God take good care of Johnny.

With Love,

David

June 20, 2007

Dear Jo-Ann
I was so sorry to here of Johns passing, My deepest sympathy for you and your family
Dave from East Windsor, Ct.

Sarah Day

June 20, 2007

John I only meet you once but I feel like I have known you forever. You had been a friend to one of my best friends for 20 years and only good things were ever said about you. What a wonderful person you must have been to have so many people who truly loved and cared for you.

tina fotiathis

June 20, 2007

My sweet brother,
God saw you tired,and knew there was no cure so he put his arms around you and wisperd come to me.
with tearful eyes we watched you,
we were all there to and saw you pass away.although we loved you dearly we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stoped beating,and giving heart at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us he only took the best.Always in our hearts.
LOVE Tina Alex & Kathy

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