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Aurea Ciuro
May 25, 2025
Hey Lillian! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers always. I know you know how much we miss our friend and neighbor from Vilseck. I always remember how we met, me coming to my housing apartment and you coming to me with your big and friendly smile saying "Hi, I´m Lillian, your new neighbor!" Keep an eye on my family please.
Áurea & family.
942d QM
November 11, 2022
Always upbeat and smiling...Lillian was our favorite soldier every breakfast at the Tallil Dining Facility. We are honored to have served with her!
October 15, 2022
Lils, I remember the day I met you. We instantly bonded over our children's artwork. I felt so relieved every time I stepped into your office at the 4005th. It's been so long, but I still remember you. You were always so patient and kind. I was so stunned and devistatated when I heard you were killed in action. Honestly, I thought you'd live forever!! We are still so very proud of you!! We love you, and will never forget you. With honor and respect, I salute you, my fallen sister. I still can't believe you're gone. Until we meet again. SSG Hogan
Shawnda Bass
May 28, 2022
Hey Lils,
I still miss you friend. So much, it still hurts. I just saw a message on here from Ayinde and it makes my heart happy to see that he's doing well. CONGRATULATIONS on being a Garandma!!
I love you.
Billy Ray Todd
May 27, 2022
RIP Lilly
Sherman Wells
January 26, 2022
Lillians Mother and My mother is sisters. This year March 10th at 3pm in Omaha Ne. we will be holding a street renaming for my cousin to rename the street she grew up on in Omaha Ne. Caldwell St. will now be named Lillian Clamens st.
Kim Spurlock
June 3, 2021
Lilly, thinking about you and your laugh and smile. lol. Boy did we have fun growing up as kids, sitting on your porch laughing playing games. Memories.
Betty Reyes
June 2, 2021
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Billy
May 28, 2021
Memorial Day weekend is upon us once again, my heart is saddened when think of you and others service members that gave all. Peace be Still
Rest In Peace you’re not forgotten
Sherman Wells
October 23, 2020
I miss your beautiful smile everyday cousin........ It’s not a day that go by that I don’t think about you...Plus I got this big ole tattoo of your name on my arm when you crossed over so I never miss a day that you don’t cross my mind ❤❤❤❤ Typing this now I cry just missing your voice... missing your kindness and Love you showed me growing up....
Cousin Sherman
COL Karl Wright ARNG (ret.)
October 21, 2020
This has been a long journey for me to finally find SSG Clamens and express my gratitude and deep appreciation for her kindness and bringing a sense of normalcy during a time of chaos while deployed in Iraq. I only knew SSG Clamens for a very short time, but was able to observe her very kind approach to other soldiers and her willingness to talk briefly with them and to me while we were in the waiting room at the TMC at Camp Liberty. She brought a feeling of calm, empathy and respect, which we all needed and I especially needed. I was a Battalion Commander at the time dealing with and compartmentalizing a lot of stress. She was a much needed calming influence. When she passed, I had no idea how much it would affect me. I hardly knew her, but she was a bright shining star in an otherwise foggy difficult time. I learned years later her loss was a triggering event for PTSD for me. It was one more loss I couldn't compartmentalize away. I finally came to grips with it in 2019. I have had a bracelet made in remembrance of her and reflect often upon the kindness she shared with many of us in 2007. She was an angel among us, and I shall always remember her and always be grateful. May god bless you, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. You were taken too soon but I will never forget you. Yours is a life well lived.
Ayinde Williams
February 16, 2018
I finally made my own way and I'm in the process of completing my own family; me and my fiancé getting the same bachelors degree in graphic arts. She's a horticulturist like yourself. Not everyone knows, but you loved plants and animals you were just allergic to cats n dogs. But it was the roses you loved and Mom if you could see them; my fiancé and our daughter. I'm going home to be with them and face the world I left behind. It's harder than I imagined but it's what I need to do. I miss you and I just prayed on you. I love you mom! Watch me take on the world again! I won't be alone. <3
Jacquelyn Robinson
February 15, 2018
My friend I miss you every day... not a day goes by that I don't think of you. My head hurts right now trying to understand why you and not me. I am so sorry. Please forgive me.
Brian Graves
February 8, 2018
I only met this young lady for a short time on a really bad night in October 2007. She left a lasting impact on my life.
Dawn Chambers
February 13, 2017
Lillian I never met you until 10 Oct 2007. You are on my mind everyday. I saw you but you didn't see me. I don't know you but I miss you everyday. I was there.
Charlie Gili
July 14, 2016
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and to also let the Clamens Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in Afghanistan. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one, Staff Sgt. Lillian Clamens. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Aurea Ciuro
October 13, 2015
miss your talking to us, sharing.
Sherman Wells
October 11, 2015
Always thinking of you & mission you cousin. We Love You!!! Cousin Sherman Wells & Family
October 10, 2015
RIP
March 13, 2015
always with us.
May 28, 2014
Let Us Never Forget Lillian, Thank you June Izzi- Bailey
Kia Gorden
May 27, 2014
Memorial Day is a time when the entire nation takes time to honor women and men like you, who paid the ultimate sacrifice. Throughout the year, I share memories of you and your outgoing personality and bubbliness with anyone who will listen. You were a great NCO and friend, so no doubt you were a wonderful mother and wife. "Greater love has no man than this, to lay down his life for a friend"
Thank you SSG Clamens!
SGT Sharon Foster
May 26, 2014
Lillian, I want to take this time out to honor you on this Memorial Day!! I can still picture that beautiful smile of yours! You will forever be missed and never forgotten!!!
aurea ciuro
October 13, 2013
Love you and miss you. Always praying for your family. Aurea n Barbara n Gigi
Estela Velazquez
October 10, 2013
Always thinking about you...You will forever be missed. May God bless you and your family.
Lenora Brown
May 27, 2013
I was so honored to have been able to be apart of your life and sons rest in the arms of the Lord.
Cynthia Rerkp
May 27, 2013
Today, on Memorial Day 2013, we at MamaWorks honor Lillian and other Military Moms who gave the ultimate sacrifice for our country.
Click here to read more:
http://www.mamaworks.com/mothers-who-have-died-serving-our-country/
May 13, 2013
Hey Lil, Mark is leaving Tuesday going in the Army. All I can think about is how small he and Ayinde was and how they would just look at each other smiling with drool running down their chin. Thank you so much for contacting me before your deployment. I was looking forward to seeing you again. It is still hard to believe your not here, telling a story and your HEY GIRRRL. It hurts to know I will never see your smile again. Love Sharon
Shelly Collins
May 10, 2013
Happy Birthday dear Lilli, I still think of you often and thank the Lord you and Raymond were there for me and Bryce when we needed you. You are and will be forever missed but never forgotten.
Shawnda Bass
May 9, 2013
Happy Birthday dear friend. I miss and love you dearly.
Jackie Robinson
May 9, 2013
I miss you friend, Happy Birthday!
Estela - LT "O"
May 9, 2013
Hola mamita! Happy Birthday and Happy Mother's Day! I will say reading Salazar's message below, has put a smile on my face. You two were like two crazy sisters, and you definitely kept the rest of us entertained. I know that you have inspired many of us in different ways. Thank you for being there for us and for watching over us all. Love you always!
May 9, 2013
Happy Birhtday girl! Miss you!Thanks for your friendship.
love, Aurea,Barbara &Gigi
Tonya Jones
May 9, 2013
Happy birthday little sis. I love you.
Jennifer Salazar
May 8, 2013
Lilly "Lucy",
The days have come and gone but there is not a moment in time that you are not on my mind. Tomorrow would be your birthday and I will try and visit you, if not I will be there first thing Saturday. The last time I wrote on here, I was starting college and now 5 years later, I graduated with a Bachelors in Criminal Justice and started applying for law schools, today I received my acceptance letter and I wish you could have been here to share this exciting moment with you. We would always talk and you would encourage I follow my dreams. Now, a young woman, I have done exactly that, I am following my dreams! I miss you so much and I know you are always looking out for me. I love you big sister and I owe this all to you. Thank you for believing in me and pushing me to succeed. See you tomorrow SSG Clamens.
P.S: Remember when I said I will probably never get married again, Ha! I found the one!!! :) June 15th is the date! I know you will be there watching it all and giving me your 1 million dollar smile!
Tasha Shank
October 11, 2012
Lilly Poo, I look at your picture everyday on my desk and I still can't believe that you are gone. I miss you my dear friend. Ray and the kids are doing great. I am most proud of their strength. I know they miss you dearly. This time of year is stilll very hard for me. I remember the call as if it were yesterday. You are truly missed Lilly Poo and will always be loved.
Estela Velazquez
October 10, 2012
This day is always a tough one, but I am comforted in knowing that you are up there watching over us. My prayers go out to you and your family. Love you...
October 10, 2012
Hey Lilly; today mark another year of you not been with us. We miss you.Barbara got the "service" call and joined the Navy. She, like us, enjoying serving our country. Please, keep watching over your family. I pray for them everywhere. Love, Aurea, Barbara and Gigi
October 7, 2012
10/10/12
On the 5th anniversary of Lilly's passing, our family remembers the beautiful woman Lilly was. We wish her family the best, as we know Lilly is sitting at the right hand of God.
Mr. Duckett
October 6, 2012
Lilly, there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you, your jokes, and smile. Still til this day I hold the last emails you sent out to us prior to us linking back up in Tallil. Your memories will forever be in my heart and I'll continue to pray for strength for your family. Continue to smile down on us from Heaven.
Aurea Ciuro
October 4, 2012
Lilly, your smile lit everybodys faces. another year coming.
Nicole Weir
October 3, 2012
SSG Clements, I remember being stationed with you in Vilseck, GM, at which point Ayndee was a about three or four yrs old, and I remember Raymond before you got married. You were very funny to be around and you always had something interesting to tell me. One thing for sure is I know you love Raymond, because you use to tell me about it and you love your son! I am pleased to see the pictures of your addition children, they are beautiful. I pray the God will overshadow them in His arms and that He will bless your off springs and Raymond for ever more!
Tonya Jones
September 21, 2012
Baby sis...I miss you... Why ain't this getting any easier???
Aurea Ciuro
September 20, 2012
Another year coming and still can't believe it.I know you are watching your family from upstairs. We miss you.
Trisha Buckinham
September 14, 2012
I miss u. Just found out today. Ill keep ur family in my prayers. Trish from ft. leonard wood,.Mo.
Sherman Wells
August 23, 2012
To my favorite cuz i miss u everyday and second of my life this bigg tattoo i got of your name is a steady reminder but i will see u again And little cuzns even tho i havnt seen yaw since the funeral i love yaw dearly cll mr 402 779 5551
August 22, 2012
I admire women in the military. Honoring Lily's memory on this day and every day. Thoughts and prayers to Lily's children.
Ayinde Williams
June 6, 2012
I mizz my mom... but ima see her again
Tonya
May 28, 2012
Not a day has passed yet that I don't think about my bestie. Tears still come as fresh as before... Cuz it just plain sux that your not here.
Shawnda Bass
May 28, 2012
Hey Lillian Boo! I miss you today and everyday. I love you girl.
Kia Gorden
May 27, 2012
Hey Girl,
You stay on my mind and in my heart! I wish you were still on earth to be with your family and spread joy like only YOU can. I can't let Memorial Day pass without paying homage to my friend's memory.
May God bless and keep your family...
March 17, 2012
Lillian,
I still think of you.
Sharon Bowman
December 7, 2011
Lillian,
I know you must have been a great mom,wife and family member from the comments I see written here. Please send lots of joy to your Family from heaven;at this time of year and always. God needed you to watch out over them.They were so blessed to have you. Hugs
tonya jones
October 19, 2011
you are big time on my mind Lilly... i <3 u
LT "O"- Estela
October 19, 2011
I always think about how you should have been flying out of Iraq with the rest of us. Even now it is hard to believe that everything turned out the way it did. I think about you all the time and I keep your family in my prayers.
tonya jones
October 19, 2011
Sis, it just doesn't get any easier. I miss you as much today as always I love you
Jacquelyn Robinson
October 12, 2011
Its been 5 years and I still am not able to deal with the lost of my battle. Every October 10th is very hard for me and I miss her and always will. I keep saying to myself maybe I should've stopped her from leaving that night, maybe if she would've waited maybe 15 minutes longer she would be here today. We lost a wife, mother, daughter, sister, niece, aunt, friend and my battle. I'm sorry Lillian. I'm truly am. I keep saying why her, we needed her here. Her smile alone could brighten the whole world. I guess heaven is smiling now. Keep smiling Lillian.....
October 12, 2011
Lillian, I will never forget when we were riding bikes I said "lets race to the house" and you left me in your dust...However, the next day I went to school and had the chicken pox so technically you didn't win(LOL)but when I see your smiling face again in Heaven it is on...LOVE YOU!!
Diane Morgan
October 11, 2011
Hi Raymond,
I hope you and the family are doing terrific dispite that Lillie is in heaven. Hopefully you will come to Omaha and my door is always open. My heart is always sadden when I think of Lilly.
Tell the family I send my Love.
Love Diane
Peggy Childers
October 10, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Lillian Clamens:
Please accept my remembrance of Lillian on the anniversary of her passing and know that she will not be forgotten.
Mr. Duckett
October 7, 2011
Lili, I know you're reading this from above and possibly looking at this screen as I type this message. I'm letting you know that I still think about you; you'll never be forgotten. I still have the last e-mails you sent out to us (the company) just before you left for Baghdad. I vow to cherish them forever. I pray that you kids and husband be blessed for eternity, and that you’ll continue to shine in their hearts.
Mr. Duckett
October 5, 2011
Raymond, I think of Lillian often, pray for you to find joy again in your life.
Hugs June
Let Us Never Forget Scholarships
September 30, 2011
Hi, I was one of the doctors at the bedside in Iraq when SSG Clamens was pronounced dead. I'd like to send my condolences and let you know that she was treated with the utmost respect and that she went in peace to be with the Lord. God bless your family. MHC
July 30, 2011
Raymond, It was an honor to give scholarship in Lillans name I hope all went well. hugs June
Tara Pushkin
July 28, 2011
Lillian, I met you for two weeks in my dental tech school, and you treated me like we were friends forever. I was sick for weeks and you took care of me Foruth of July weekend. You had a radiant smile and were just an awesome person. We had great times at school running in the rain to get to your car. I pray for you often and think of you every year. I love you and miss you dearly.
Marilyn Campiz
July 10, 2011
Lillian, I never forgot you. I never forgot your family. I never forgot your smile. I never forgot how you served others.
Shannon Williams-Austill
May 30, 2011
The flag is flying in the sky
A daily reminder of who and why
We sit here remembering them today
These heroes that now lie in their grave.
While here on earth, the bravest ones
A soldier, a mother, a daughter, a son
The father's who went far off to war
To ensure our safety and so much more
To keep our children happy and free,
Someone must do this job, you see
So, today remember the soldiers who served,
Because this is one thing they truly deserve.
The loved one's that they have left behind,
The Gold Star mothers, like your and mine
We honor them proudly, every day
Our American Soldier...Proud and Brave
By Shannon Williams-Austill
I want to thank this soldier for their sacrifice.
And, I wish to extend my deepest regards to the loved ones they have left behind. Their service to our nation, has not gone unnoticed. They are our heroes, who paid the ultimate price for us, and that is something that every American needs to be reminded of and remember everyday.
The freedom we all have, we have because of brave young men and women who made a choice to defend and serve.
Today, let me remember your loved one with you.
June Izzi-Bailey
March 25, 2011
Lillian, Ray has agreed to have you honored at the Let us Never Forget scholarship Fundraiser April 9th 2011. We will never forget your smiling face.
Cincinnati,OH Has lost many, Your friends can visit us on our website letusneverforget.org. Raymond thank you she is now part of our growing family. hugs June
Adrienne Brunswick
March 24, 2011
I didn't know you but I met you and Jackie when I had to come to Talil for a little while. I was part of the 834th also but I was stationed at Kalsu. I always thought you was a pretty little with a big smile on your face. You was always happy. I also stayed in the same bay with you and Jackie for about 2 months. I always think about you and cry. All the time. i wish you could have make it home to your family. I know it was God's will and you are in a better place. May you rest and peace and I will pray for your family.
SPC Brunswick
Diane Morgan
January 4, 2011
Hi Lillie
Mama has joined you in heaven
Love Diane
SFC Billy Todd
December 30, 2010
SGT Clamens, I remember the first time I met you, your smile and personality awesome, you spoke about you family often, Your faith was your base for everything you embraced. Just wanted to say Hello and God Bless.
December 8, 2010
I did not know Lillian, her smile caught my eye when I was looking for Soldiers to honor with Scholarships,I spoke to Raymond and I am very please to say we will be honoring her on April 9th, 2011. check out our website : letusneverforget.org She is one of our angels watching over us. pray for the families and Troops still serving. GOD BLESS june
Kim Spurlock
November 15, 2010
Hey Lilly! Three years? Seems like just yesterday. The Lord took Mrs. Morgan (Aunt Viola to you) away Oct. 29th. Give her a hug for us all. I was over her house after her passing and someone had asked about 'the one who had that goofy laugh'. I knew immediately that he was talking about you! Unfortunately, he didn't know that you had passed. Losing loved ones like yourself and Mrs. Morgan reminds us all that we need to cherish the time that we have with those we care about. Take Care! Love you! Kim
Aurea Ciuro
November 14, 2010
Hey Lillian. You and your family are on my prayers. Always thinking about our friendship. Keep on smiling girl!Love you always;
Aurea, Barbara & Gigi
SGT Grace Taylor
November 11, 2010
To my dear friend and co-worker, my partner in crime! I miss you ~<3~
SSG Robert Kattich
October 15, 2010
SSG Clamens its been 3 years and theres not a day that goes by that i don't think about you and your family. I still have a hard time on that day you paid the Ultimate Sacrifice. HEROES are NEVER FORGOTTEN. RIP
October 12, 2010
Girl, its been 3 years and not a day goes by that I dont think about you. I still find it hard to deal with. I got out of the military because of you. I wished a million times I could take back that day, but I know I cant. May God Bless you and may your smile continue to brighten the world. I miss and love you, battle.
October 12, 2010
Can't believe it has been three years. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about you. Tell SGT Sikorski hi, becasue he is now up there with you. I konw both of you are smiling down at us. RIP
Claudette Perkins
October 11, 2010
Your smile dances on my heart...I love and miss you Lils!
Shawnda Bass
October 11, 2010
Hey Lil, you were on my heart and mind today so I wanted to stop by to say hello. I miss your laugh and smile. I love you. I still miss you.
Carrie Blackburn
October 10, 2010
Staff Sgt. Clamens,
I don't know you and have never met you, but I consider all men and women in uniform to be family. Until I was a teenager, I didn't know hardly anyone who wasn't military or dependent. I mourn your loss and am grateful for your sacrifice. I pray God's peace and grace for your family and friends. You are not forgotten.
marisol Lozada
October 10, 2010
May God Bless you and give strength to your family on this day. It's my honor to call you my friend. I remember you like it was yesterday. RIP
Estela Velazquez
October 10, 2010
Lillian, thinking of you always. I love and miss you.
Marisol Lozada
October 10, 2010
May God Bless you, and give your love one strength today. I surely miss you and it my honor to call you my friend.
SFC(Ret) Lozada
October 10, 2010
God Bless You Kid, We Miss You.
Durell Reed
October 10, 2010
Hey Lillian I just want to say Im so happy to have spent as much time with you as I did but I miss you so much I will never forget you, You touched my life and my heart thank you so much. RIP
Yuliana SOTO
October 10, 2010
3rd YR Anniversary... Miss you friend.... I will never forget this day... Still cannot believe you didn't leave with us.. love u girl... You'll never be forgotten..My battle, my friend, my sister... RIP.
Peggy Childers
October 10, 2010
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Lillian Clamens:
Remembering Lillian on the anniversary of her passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Aurea Ciuro
July 20, 2010
Sorry Lillian, it took me this time to get back inhere.Years pass and still you alive in our memories. You so friendly, and not hesitated to welcoming in your complex with a big o smile and a "now, we are neighbors" and from there on, our friendship was born.You never met my baby girl, but im pretty sure u r looking down. I pray for your family in whole.Sadness will always be ther because you were there.No body heals from a loss.we still here but there with you, just wondering.I don'td know when, but I want to come and visit with you.I get with Raymond for directions. Love you and miss you. I had on my mind calling your mom but dont how to start.
Mark Moberly
May 19, 2010
>>to the family of Lilly, ....I was deployed with the 834 as well, just north of Baghdad, & do believe I met her briefly before deploying... can't say I know her well at all but would like to say that in war there are things we will never understand, & why one person is taken & another spared is known only in the eyes & heart of the Lord, where she is now, I pray....may you find grace & peace from our Lord Jesus from His Word & may you find the Good Shepherd's comfort....I was close to a couple of rockets/mortars in my three deployments(so far) & know that God has protected me, & I thank Him for those like Lillian who took the sacrifice for country seriously. I would like to have been there to give my tears at her memorial service in October 2007 & to give my support by being there for your family. ( SgtMarkMoberly formerly 3 / 834th CampTaji,Iraq )
Patrice Orum (Williams)
May 12, 2010
SSG Clamens, When I think of you all I can think of is you saying "834" Oh how I miss you, I sang in your honor the day after you left us. I held Reeds hand as he took it hardest. I remember thinking sing your best, for your singing before one of God's Angels. I love you and miss you dearly Lillian. Thx for being there for me on all those hard days. I trust that you are entertaining Gods Kingdom, save a spot for me. Until we meet Again!
SGT Orum (Williams)
Melisa Marmo
March 26, 2010
To the family of Lilly...Although she only graced my life for a short period of time my heart aches at hearing of her passing. Our friedship was attained during our junior high and high school days at Lewis and Clark and Central. The one thing that I remember about Lilly was her amazing way of making me laugh. She had a smile that could turn anyones day around. She was truly a wonderful person. I am proud to say she was my friend. This world suffered a temendous loss when Lilly was taken from us. My husband and brother both served in Iraq and the sacrifice that our soldiers make to protect us can not be compared to anything. I just want everyone to know what an amazing person and friend Lilly was, even all those years ago..... Melisa Marmo
Courtney Romulus
November 1, 2009
I knew Lillian pretty well, she was kind to all. I was stationed with her in Miami at SOUTHCOM. When ever I need paperwork done at the admin office I would always swing by Lillians office just to chat and have a luagh. She was and will always be an awsome person. She helped my out on so many issues. When I was going to ETS she convinced me to stay in or at least go reserve; Needless to say I decied to stay in after getting out for a couple of months and I plan on doing 20 at minimum.
I still can't beleive it to this day; You will be missed...
Claudette Perkins
October 29, 2009
forever missing you lils...
Robert Kattich
October 28, 2009
I know she didn't know me from Adam but i was the first medic there on that day. That day she became a part of my life and she will be a part of it until He calls for me. She and her family is and will be in me thoughts and prayers. I took me a long time to get on here and give her and her family my condolences. I have the utmost respect for someone that has paid the ultmate sacrifice to protect our country and our freedom. Rest in peace SSG Clamens.
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