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Shane and Katie and Hunter and Wyatt Ruthven

Shane and Katie and Hunter and Wyatt Ruthven obituary, Arlington, WA

Shane Ruthven Obituary

On March 22, 2014, The Ruthven family, Shane, Katie, Hunter, and Wyatt, lost their lives in the Oso Landslide. Shane was born September 11, 1970 in Spokane, WA to Michael Ruthven and Judee Vandenburg. He graduated from Mead High School in 1988 and served in the US Navy until 1992. After the Navy, Shane worked in the glass industry in Minnesota and then moved back home to Spokane and started Cougar Glass, and then Glass Doctor. After meeting the love of his life, Katie Pszonka, in 2006 they started Mountain Lion Glass and built it into a very successful business. Katie was born on April 4, 1979 to Thomas and Karen Pszonka in Chicago, Illinois. Soon after, the whole family moved to Washington state in 1981. She graduated from Jackson High School in 1997 then attended University of Washington and graduated in 2001. She worked at The Law office of Russ Juckett as a paralegal until she met Shane and started Mountain Lion glass. Katie and Shane were married on March 31, 2007 in Greyland, Washington. They purchased their home in Oso, Washington, on Steelhead Drive and welcomed their first son, Hunter Michael Ruthven. Hunter was born on July 29, 2007. Hunter was born in Everett, Washington, and then he attended Kent Praire Elementary school in Arlington, WA and played football where Shane coach every year. Hunter loved playing football, riding quads and playing with all his friends including his best buddy and cousin, Peighton. On December 9, 2009 Wyatt Michael was born in Everett, WA, and then he attended Northwest Children Preschool in Arlington, WA. Wyatt enjoyed anything outside, whether it was riding quads or simply playing with his friends. He was known, not only for being a very happy little boy, but also for having the biggest blue eyes and dimples. Shane and Katie loved family and friends and sharing their home in Oso, that they were so proud of. During the summer everyone enjoyed many BBQ's and swimming in the river and enjoying family time. Shane will always be remembered for his love of motorcycles, guns, outdoors and his voice. He was honored to have officiated the wedding for both Rocky and Jessica, Lutz and Matt, and Jami Pszonka's weddings. Katie loved nothing more then being a mom, she volunteered weekly in Hunter's class. The most important thing in her life were her boys and Shane. They loved many family vacations to Disneyland and had recently purchased property in Ocean Shores, Washington with the dream of having the "Ruthven family vacation home." Shane's mother Judee, and step-father, Lewis Vandenburg, also perished in the Oso landslide. Shane is survived by sisters, Amy Ruthven-Thompson, Sarah and Lyndsey Ruthven, and Mistie Branham; brothers, Darron Bowerman (Kate), and Patrick Ruthven (Rachael); nephew, Sammy Thompson; and nieces, Hannah and Colleen Bowerman. Katie is surrvied by her parents, Thomas and Karen Pszonka; sister, Jessica Lutz (Rocky); brothers, Matt Pszonka (Jami), and Ryan Pszonka (April); three nieces, Kansas, Peighton and Basia); and nephew, Liam. A celebration of their life will be held on May 1, 2014 at Immaculate Conception Church in Arlington at 1:00 p.m. with a reception immediately following at the Medallion Hotel. The family has asked that only family and friends attend. Another celebration of their life will be held on May 18, 2014 at The Lincoln Center (1316 N. Lincoln street) from 3-6:00 p.m. in Spokane, WA. All family and friends are welcome to attend.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Apr. 29 to May 2, 2014.

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Jasmine Hemmingson

May 13, 2014

My deepest condolences....I will miss Shane greatly and his loving family. God Bless.

pam w

May 6, 2014

Gone to soon. Never forgotten. May you rest in piece.

Tasha Boston

May 5, 2014

When i came across the people in the oso mudslilde i came across the entire Ruthven family i had to take a double take, my eyes flooded with tears. I knew the Ruthven family thru the glass business, i spoke to Shane and Katie almost daily. I met there son's several times and spoke to them while they were on there Disney Land adventure. They were loving caring people and amazing parents. I can only hope and pray they are happy together up in the Sky. My heart goes out to there family.

Kandy Hayes

May 5, 2014

To the family, we are so deeply saddened and touched by your loss. No words could ever express our compassion and sympathies for you at this time. Your loss has touched the world and brought a community to its knees, yet we also see them standing strong to rally and hold one another. We think of you daily and pray for your peace nightly. Our family would like to do something special for you, if you could please contact us through Kurt's Cause on Facebook, or me directly through FB, I would greatly appreciate it. Until then, please know that we pray that you find the strength and courage that you so need each and every day. ~Kandy Hayes, and family.

Cherish Lutz

May 1, 2014

I did not get a chance to spend much time with them but you all have a wonderful family and you are all very loving. My condolences to you all for your loss. the memorial was beautiful and the reception was amazing.

Much love from cherish Lutz and family

McCarthy

May 1, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. May the Most High God comfort you during these difficult days. (Psalm 83:18)

Marcie Riley

May 1, 2014

Shane was such a great man and wish I had had a chance to meet Katie and the boys. I wish I didn't live halfway across the country so I could attend their memorials. Prayers to all the family.

Edward Ferguson

April 30, 2014

Last summer I answered an ad on Craigslist for a 2010 Harley Davidson Roadglide. The owner of the bike was a guy named Shane Ruthven. During the process of test riding it, buying it, getting the title etc over the next several visits I got to meet his beautiful wife Katie, and their two handsome son's Hunter and Wyatt. I remember Hunter following me around asking me why I wanted to buy his Fathers bike. Little did I know how I would remember that conversation with that young man.
Shane and I continued to talk after the sale, and we would text from time to time since we both rode, and he had purchased a new bike.
Sunday morning March 30th I reading the Everett Herald about the mud slide in Oso. As I read the list of victim's who died in the tragedy I came upon Shane Ruthven's name and got redirected to an article which went on to tell how Katie, Hunter and Wyatt had all passed away in the slide, I felt like I got kicked in the gut.
I can tell you that it was and honor meeting the Ruthven family. From my point of view, and from what I read,they were two people very much in love, who were raising two fine young men.
My heart goes out to the Ruthven Family and to the Pszonka family and to all the victims and families of the tragedy in Oso.

April 30, 2014

Our hearts and prayers are with the family.
From a Marysville family

Linda Phipps

April 30, 2014

My deepest sympathies... Katie was a sweet young lady and I am sure she grew up to be a wonderful wife and mother. May the family rest n peace together. And may the surviving family find a way to have peace in their hearts.

April 30, 2014

though i did not know them, please know that my prayers go out to the family and friends so sorry for your loss.

Nick

April 30, 2014

Great Family! My heart is at peace knowing they will always be together with God! RIP!

Connie Love

April 29, 2014

Shane was my nephew, therefore Katie my niece. Shane was always fun, generous and caring and had a personality that never quit. Katie completed Shane. She was a truly warm and caring person. Those boys were, little boys, full of fun and laughter. The entire family will be so missed by so many people.

Glen Lutz

April 29, 2014

Our prayers go out to the family, friends, and community at large who have been impacted by this tragedy. God's love and grace are most evident and very present in the people who are grieving and helping one another to heal. Prayerfully, Yvonne and Glen Lutz (on behalf of the Salt Lake 7.)

April 29, 2014

<3 Love from Agua Dulce California - My heart aches for your loss. Erin Taylor

Angela Cardenas

April 29, 2014

Sending my thoughts and prayers out to this family and sending my condolences to anyone that knew this amazing family!

Billy Roberson.

April 29, 2014

So sorry for your loss Tom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kashmere Long

April 29, 2014

I do not know the Ruthven family personally, but I would like to send my prayers and heart to the family members of the Ruthven's. We are all here for you in this time.

Kristy and Family

April 29, 2014

Katie and Family, since I heard the news you all have been in my thoughts and Prayers. Searched updates continuously until all of you We're found. Memories of our sons in pre-k together flooded. I am sad you guys are No longer walking with us here, but happy and hopeful you are all together at peace. Prayers are still being said for those closest to you.

Kellie

April 29, 2014

So sorry for your loss

Mike & Anne Boling

April 29, 2014

We met Shane through his glass business and he had replaced windshields for several of our customers along with several of our cars at our repair shop. He was a very honest and caring person who talked so much about his family. We are so sorry for your loss...no words will help your pain, but know that there are so many people here that will hold you close in their hearts.

Charity Prueher

April 29, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss, I met your family through the Oso Fire Dept. years ago on the Santa Run, I also know them through the glass business. I work across the street at Arlington Transportation and will miss hearing the boys outside laughing and playing. Again I am so sorry for your families loss.

April 29, 2014

The Washington State Veterans Cemetery extends our deepest sympathies to the family of Shane Ruthven for your loss. We honor him for the service and sacrifice he has made for our nation, he is a true hero.

Susie Wirges

April 29, 2014

Keeping the family in our thoughts and prayers!

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