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Mary Loeb Obituary
March 16, 1956 - May 12, 2011
Major Mary Hillis Loeb, 55, of Sarasota, formerly of Indianapolis, Ind. passed away on May 12, 2011. She was born on March 16, 1956 to James F. and Jane R Hillis.
She proudly served in the United States Armed Forces retiring in 2003 from the United States Air Force after 20 years of service. She is survived by her husband, Andrew Loeb, her parents, three sisters: Sarah Hillis Clark, Jennifer B. Hillis, Emily A. Hillis Hansen and one brother, Robert F. Hillis.
A casual gathering of all of Mary's family and friends who wish to attend will be held in the woods at 5180 W. Co. Rd. 850 N, Freetown, Ind., on Tuesday, May 17, at 11 a.m. For directions, please call 812-497-3010.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in memory of Mary Loeb may be made to the Indiana University Foundation for the thoracic oncology program fund at PO Box 660245, Indianapolis, Indiana, 46266.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary Loeb
Jane Sanks
May 8, 2023
I remember Mary as a quiet and kind person. She was always smiling and loved the outdoors.
Claudia Pace
May 17, 2020
I still see Mary in my mind, in her running shorts around base, in Okinawa. She was always friendly and calm, and I still cant believe she is gone. She left an impression on us and I hope her family finds some solace in that, she isnt forgotten.
Joe and Claudia Pace
May 21, 2011
We are shocked to hear such sad news about Mary. I had many times tried to find her and Andy. We met them in Okinawa, Japan- although Mary was not dating Andy yet. Mary was a hard- working, compassionate and highly competent, albeit unassuming care giver that was always professional and a team player. She was a consummate Air Force officer and huge asset to the Mental Health Clinic and 52 Med Group. We have many fond memories of clinic get togethers with her and Andy. We remember her quiet, kind disposition, but she also had a great sense of humor. I remember her telling me early on that there would always be more work to do and I should go home on time to be with my family- she was good about setting limits and priorities, and creating balance in her life and the climate of the clinic. Andy, we are thinking of you and our hearts go to you and the family.
Bill Haynes (USAF ret MSgt)
May 21, 2011
I was just recently made aware of Mary's passing. My wife and I are deeply saddened. I knew Mary back in Okinawa where we served together in the Air Force. She was one of the finest Officers and one of the best social workers I had the privilege to work with. Our condolences to Andy and the family.
Patricia Porchey
May 19, 2011
Mary was in the Sarasota County Master Gardener class of 2008. When we interviewed Mary, we knew she would be an asset to our program because of her desire to help others and protect the environmnet. We were sorry when she had to leave the program to treat her illness. She has been missed.
Jennifer Means
May 17, 2011
Jason and I had the pleasure of getting to know Andy and Mary through the track club here in Sarasota - two wonderful people. We will miss Mary's kind and sweet way. Her life, work, activism and love made the world a better place. We send our love and prayers to you Andy and your family, Jason & Jennifer Means
Val Ealey
May 15, 2011
Guy and I were deeply saddened when hearing of Mary's passing. We were fortunate enough to get to know Andy and Mary through running and social events in Sarasota. We found both of them to be among the kindest, most gentle people we have known. Our hearts are heavy today for Andy and Mary's family. We offer our deepest sympathy. Val and Guy Ealey
Nancy and Tom Flanagan
May 15, 2011
We are so saddened by the loss of Mary. She was a shining example of how to live a life - a sincere, caring,fun, and loving person in every way. We will always be grateful for knowing Mary and will especially remember spending New Year's Eve together in 2008, dancing together at the MTC Banquets, and just running in races together. Our hearts go out to Andy and all of Mary's family at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Nancy and Tom Flanagan
Jane and Dick Sanks
May 14, 2011
It was with great sorrow that Jane and I read of Mary's passing. We simply cannot find words to adequately express our condolences to her family, especially to our friend, Andy.
We were fortunate to get to know Mary while she and Andy were in Sarasota and will remember her as a wonderful, caring person. We will keep her memory close and keep Andy and her family in our thoughts and prayers at this tragic time and forever.
Jane and Dick Sanks
Linda Yohler Poole
May 14, 2011
I was very sad to see the announcement that Mary had passed. We went to school together for many years. I believe she may have been in my first grade class (not positive on that) I have not seen or spoken to her since high school, but she has crossed my mind over the years as to what direction her life took her. I remember that Mary was always friendly and kind with a great sense of humor. My condolences to her family. Linda Yohler Poole.
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